Gathered Here

Dana Kadwell

The stories from the places where people gather.

  1. Quick Chat: Learning to Trust Myself Again

    18h ago

    Quick Chat: Learning to Trust Myself Again

    A few weeks ago, Kelsey said something that made me slightly spiral.  When I asked her why she ignored her gut instinct in certain situations, her answer was simple: Empathy. That answer opened up a much bigger conversation about the moments in our lives when we know something doesn't feel right—but we explain it away, make excuses, or convince ourselves that someone else's needs matter more than our own instincts. In this Quick Chat, I'm reflecting on the cost of not trusting myself, the difference between empathy and self-abandonment, and what happens when you spend so much time questioning your instincts that you stop believing them altogether. After navigating one of the hardest seasons of my life, I found myself struggling to trust what I felt, what I knew, and even what was right in front of me. But healing has looked a lot like learning to listen to that inner voice again—and realizing it was trying to protect me all along. If you've ever ignored a red flag, talked yourself out of what you knew to be true, or found yourself questioning your own reality, this conversation is for you. Because sometimes the hardest relationship to rebuild is the one you have with yourself. Thank you to our amazing sponsors! Aisle PlannerWedding Pro Brite Biz Lead Lock Releventful Event Guard VenueX AIInterested in learning more about The Venue Masterclass? Join us February 21-24 in Tampa, Florida. Learn more here Follow my new ventures:https://mcalisterleftwich.com/https://thegrahammill.com/

    15 min
  2. Quick Chat: What if I Fail? Then I'll Start Something New

    Jun 10

    Quick Chat: What if I Fail? Then I'll Start Something New

    Last week, Kelsey shared a simple thought that stopped me in my tracks: What if I fail? And then, just as quickly: Then I'll start something new. In this Quick Chat, I'm reflecting on why those words hit so close to home. From selling The Bradford and navigating one of the hardest seasons of my life to taking the leap into owning two new venues, I've spent a lot of time wrestling with fear, uncertainty, and the pressure to get it right. But somewhere along the way, I realized something important: my success was never tied to a building, a business, or a specific path. It was tied to what I had learned, what I had built, and who I had become. We talk a lot about success in entrepreneurship, but we don't talk nearly enough about the fear of failure—or the freedom that comes when failure stops having the final say. If you've ever found yourself lying awake wondering if you're making the right decision, questioning your next step, or feeling stuck between playing it safe and taking the leap, this conversation is for you. Because sometimes the question isn't What if I fail? Sometimes the better question is: What if I'll be okay either way? Thank you to our amazing sponsors! Aisle PlannerWedding Pro Brite Biz Lead Lock Releventful Event Guard VenueX AIInterested in learning more about The Venue Masterclass? Join us February 21-24 in Tampa, Florida. Learn more here Follow my new ventures:https://mcalisterleftwich.com/https://thegrahammill.com/

    18 min
  3. The Venue Masterclass: The Truth About Wedding and Event Insurance

    May 27

    The Venue Masterclass: The Truth About Wedding and Event Insurance

    Wedding insurance is one of those things nobody wants to think about… until they need it. In this episode of Gathered Here, Dana sits down with Mitchell Busse, the driving force behind Event Guard  - the first AI-powered event insurance platform in the United States -  to talk about the realities of risk, liability, cancellations, and the misconceptions that venue owners and couples still have about wedding insurance. From frozen florals and missing vendors to hurricane season and “friendors,” this conversation dives into the real-life scenarios that can completely derail an event, and how the right insurance coverage can protect not only the couple, but the venue, vendors, and the overall guest experience. Dana and Mitchell also unpack: The difference between liability and cancellation insuranceWhy more venues are requiring cancellation coverageThe biggest insurance misconceptions in the wedding industryWhat venue owners think they’re protected against (but aren’t)Why small weddings still carry big risksHow insurance actually helps preserve client relationships during stressful momentsWhether you’re a venue owner, planner, vendor, or engaged couple, this episode is a practical and eye-opening conversation about the part of weddings nobody thinks about — but everyone should. Thank you to our amazing sponsors! Aisle PlannerWedding Pro Brite Biz Lead Lock Releventful Event Guard VenueX AIInterested in learning more about The Venue Masterclass? Join us February 21-24 in Tampa, Florida. Learn more here: https://www.thevenuemasterclass.com Follow my new ventures:https://mcalisterleftwich.com/https://thegrahammill.com/

    42 min
  4. AITVA: Is Wedding Tipping Out of Control?

    May 20

    AITVA: Is Wedding Tipping Out of Control?

    Wedding tipping culture has officially entered the chat… and people have thoughts. In this very first edition of AITVA (Am I The Vendor A*****e?), Dana is joined by wedding planner and designer Irene of Irene & Co Events to unpack one very heated Reddit thread: a bride questioning whether she really needed to tip her wedding vendors 20%… including a $6,000 gratuity for catering staff. From tip jars at wedding bars to service fees, self-employed vendors, bad DJs, and the pressure couples feel to tip everyone — nothing is off limits in this conversation. Together, Dana and Irene dive into: Whether self-employed vendors should expect tipsThe difference between gratuity and service feesWhy transparency matters more than everHow venues and vendors should educate clientsWhy handwritten notes and reviews often mean more than cashAnd whether tipping culture has officially gone too farFunny, honest, slightly unhinged, and packed with real industry insight — this episode is for vendors, couples, planners, and anyone who has ever felt personally attacked by the iPad tip screen. So… is the client the a*****e here? Thank you to our amazing sponsors! Aisle PlannerWedding Pro Brite Biz Lead Lock Releventful Event Guard VenueX AIInterested in learning more about The Venue Masterclass? Join us February 21-24 in Tampa, Florida. Learn more here: https://www.thevenuemasterclass.com Follow my new ventures:https://mcalisterleftwich.com/https://thegrahammill.com/

    34 min

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