Gavel Gab

Carlie Spencer
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Gavel Gab: Where Law Meets Life, Love, and a Little Legal Drama. Hosted by attorney, entrepreneur, and your go-to Prenup Girl, Carlie Spencer, Gavel Gab is the weekly podcast that makes family law feel less scary and way more relatable. Whether you’re engaged, divorced, business-minded, or just nosy about courtroom chaos—this podcast is your front-row seat to the wild, wonderful world of relationships, legal lessons, and building a life you love. Each week, we spill the legal tea on prenups, marriage and divorce, real-life courtroom stories (you won’t believe some of these...), money, business and protecting your future, entrepreneurial wisdom, women in law, legal Q&As, juicy guest interviews, and fun personal insights. From “Should’ve Had a Prenup” horror stories and “Divorce Diaries” to lessons from the trenches of building a business from scratch, Carlie breaks down the big stuff—contracts, custody, conflict—with humor, heart and a glass of wine, or processo in hand. Because law doesn’t have to be boring, and protecting yourself is the ultimate power move. New episodes every Wednesday!

  1. 11/20/2025

    Wills, Wealth and What Comes Next with Attorney Hampton Crumpler

    In this episode, Carlie chats with Hampton Crumpler, an estate attorney from NC Planning, about the critical aspects of estate planning for individuals and families. They discuss the importance of powers of attorney, common misconceptions about asset transfer, and when to start planning. Hampton emphasizes proactive steps for young couples and addresses the financial implications of having a plan in place, regardless of debt. They also touch on beneficiary designations and matrimonial laws. This conversation offers essential insights for anyone looking to safeguard their future and ensure their wishes are respected. HIGHLIGHTS: 16:56 Estate Planning Myths Uncovered 27:57 Personal Passions Beyond Law connect with Hampton: https://ncplanning.com/team/hampton-crumpler sponsors: One Eleven Group Quest giveaway: Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide To enter: follow @gavelgabpodcast on Instagramsubscribe to the Youtube Channel @CarlieSpencerGavelGabcomment on the episode on Apple or Spotify connect with Carlie & Gavel Gab: Gavel Gab Website | Strive Law Firm | Prenup Girl on TT | Gavel Gab on TT Instagram | YouTube

    30 min

  2. 11/12/2025

    Family Law Fiction vs Facts: Busting NC Myths

    Carlie, along with her colleague and co-host Olivia, address common misconceptions and stereotypes in North Carolina family law. They emphasize the importance of consulting a licensed attorney instead of relying solely on online resources. Celebrating Olivia's recent bar admission, they discuss the continuous learning curve in law through personal anecdotes. Carlie and Olivia clarify several myths, including the lack of a formal legal separation process in North Carolina, the complexities surrounding alimony, and the distinctions between legal and physical custody. Using relatable examples, they highlight how misunderstandings can impact legal outcomes and remind their listeners of the importance of prioritizing children's best interests. HIGHLIGHTS: 1:20 Shive Law Firm Updates 8:24 Misconceptions About Legal Separation 15:32 Alimony: Myths and Realities 18:21 Understanding Custody in North Carolina 26:02 Closing Thoughts and Next Steps THIS IS NOT LEGAL ADVICE. STRIVE LAW FIRM DOES NOT REPRESENT YOU. THIS IS FOR ENTERTAINMENT AND EDUCATIONAL PURPOSES ONLY. sponsors: One Eleven Group Quest giveaway: Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide To enter: follow @gavelgabpodcast on Instagramsubscribe to the Youtube Channel @CarlieSpencerGavelGabcomment on the episode on Apple or Spotify connect with Carlie & Gavel Gab: Gavel Gab Website | Strive Law Firm | Prenup Girl on TT | Gavel Gab on TT Instagram | YouTube

    28 min

  3. 11/05/2025

    Starting a Law Firm in My 20s - Part 4: Carlie's Tech Stack

    In this episode of Gavel Gab, Carlie shares her journey as a family lawyer and entrepreneur, highlighting the tech tools that have influenced her law practice during the crucial first two years. She discusses the importance of selecting the right financial tools, including choosing First Citizens Bank for her business account, and how she strategically funded her firm. Carlie details her tech stack with software like QuickBooks for financial management and the transition to Clio for enhanced billing and client tracking. She also explores her switch to secure case management options, the role of automation with Zapier, and the importance of adapting technology for client communication and marketing. Through personal anecdotes and lessons learned, Carlie aims to provide valuable insights for fellow lawyers and entrepreneurs looking to establish an efficient, tech-savvy business. HIGHLIGHTS: 8:50 Money Management Tools 13:52 Website Development Insights 15:34 CRM and Client Management 19:36 Automation Tools and Challenges 23:38 Case Management Transition 25:56 Clio and Legal Software Choices 29:58 Social Media and Marketing Tools sponsors: One Eleven Group Quest giveaway: Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide To enter: follow @gavelgabpodcast on Instagramsubscribe to the Youtube Channel @CarlieSpencerGavelGabcomment on the episode on Apple or Spotify connect with Carlie & Gavel Gab: Gavel Gab Website | Strive Law Firm | Prenup Girl on TT | Gavel Gab on TT Instagram | YouTube

    31 min

  4. 10/22/2025

    The Prenup Girl Gets a Prenup: Carlie's Engagement & Dating Conversations

    In this episode of the Gabble Gab podcast, Carlie is interviewed by attorney and co-author Olivia Reiff about prenuptial agreements and their vital role in fostering communication about marital expectations. Carlie shares her journey as the "prenup girl," discussing how her experiences in family law and personal life have shaped her perspective on relationships. The two debunk common misconceptions about prenups, emphasizing their customization to reflect both partners' wishes and the importance of discussing these topics early in a relationship. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, Olivia and Carlie explore how financial conversations can strengthen bonds rather than weaken them, and they look ahead to future episodes dedicated to navigating prenups and financial discussions in relationships. Their goal is to empower listeners to embrace the complexities of marriage planning and engage in open dialogues about finance and expectations. HIGHLIGHTS: 15:38 The Prenup Conversation 15:46 Engagement Storytime 28:35 Upcoming Prenup Series mentioned in the episode: The Defining Decade book sponsors: One Eleven Group Quest giveaway: Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide To enter: follow @gavelgabpodcast on Instagramsubscribe to the Youtube Channel @CarlieSpencerGavelGabcomment on the episode on Apple or Spotify connect with Carlie & Gavel Gab: Gavel Gab Website | Strive Law Firm | Prenup Girl on TT | Gavel Gab on TT Instagram | YouTube

    30 min

  5. 10/15/2025

    Navigating the Legal Job Market with the Fairy Law Mother

    In this episode, Carlie speaks with Kayla Britt, an assistant attorney general in North Carolina and the founder of Fairy Law Mother. They discuss her dual role in the Department of Transportation and her mission to empower law students through mentorship and resources. Kayla shares her personal journey overcoming challenges in law school and how it inspired her brand. Carlie and Britt cover the realities of her job, including mediation and court appearances, and address the current legal job market, highlighting the importance of networking and building genuine connections. Kayla emphasizes that resilience and relationships are vital in the legal field, offering valuable insights for young lawyers on finding success while navigating their careers. HIGHLIGHTS: 1:25 Meet Kayla Britt 3:20 The Fairy Law Mother Journey 5:18 Growing the Fairy Law Mother Brand 8:00 Stories of Perseverance 11:09 The Impact of Academic Dismissal 13:11 Helping Law Students and Young Lawyers 15:16 Challenges in Job Seeking 16:31 The Job Market Landscape 20:13 Networking Essentials for Law Students 21:56 Navigating Networking Events 30:21 Building Genuine Relationships 31:00 Resources and Offerings 34:22 Life Lessons from a New Lawyer connect with Kayla: website: https://www.fairy-law-mother.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/fairylawmother sponsors: One Eleven Group Quest giveaway: Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide To enter: follow @gavelgabpodcast on Instagramsubscribe to the Youtube Channel @CarlieSpencerGavelGabcomment on the episode on Apple or Spotify connect with Carlie & Gavel Gab: Gavel Gab Website | Strive Law Firm | Prenup Girl on TT | Gavel Gab on TT Instagram | YouTube

    44 min

  6. 10/08/2025

    Starting a Law Firm in My 20s - Part 3: Rounding Out the First Year of Business

    In this episode of Gavel Gab, Carlie shares her experiences from the pivotal months of launching her law firm as a family lawyer and entrepreneur. She discusses the emotional challenges of navigating family law, the initiative to brand prenups positively through the "Prenup Girl," and the lessons learned from hosting a wedding expo alongside her book launch. Carlie reflects on financial struggles that led to offering free consultations, enhancing client engagement while demystifying the legal process. Additionally, she addresses the complexities of partnerships and the importance of aligning values in professional relationships. Finally, Carlie offers insights for new lawyers and entrepreneurs, concluding with a teaser about the technology that has supported her growth in year two of practice. HIGHLIGHTS: 1:23 Starting a Law Firm Journey 4:38 Embracing Prenups in Family Law 9:20 Launching the Prenup Girl 15:39 The Wedding Expo Experience 17:26 Evaluating Business Strategies 19:15 December Dilemmas 21:24 New Year, New Strategies 25:40 Reflecting on the Past Year 30:45 Lessons in Vendor Relationships 45:24 Looking Ahead to Year Two sponsors: One Eleven Group Quest giveaway: Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide To enter: follow @gavelgabpodcast on Instagramsubscribe to the Youtube Channel @CarlieSpencerGavelGabcomment on the episode on Apple or Spotify connect with Carlie & Gavel Gab: Gavel Gab Website | Strive Law Firm | Prenup Girl on TT | Gavel Gab on TT Instagram | YouTube

    46 min

  7. 10/01/2025

    Glasses in Classes By Day, Stones & Stellos By Night: The Intersection of Pageantry and Law with Hailey Hudson

    In this episode, Carlie chats with Hailey Hudson, a dual-degree student at UNC School of Law and the Hussman School of Media and Journalism. They discuss Hailey's journey from experiencing cyberbullying to advocating for social media safety and navigating the demands of law school alongside her media interests. Hailey shares insights from her internship experiences and they tackle the topic of prenuptial agreements, highlighting their role in fostering clear communication. Their conversation reveals how pageantry has shaped their skills and perspectives, challenging stereotypes while promoting lifelong learning and personal growth. HIGHLIGHTS: 3:32 Hailey's Journey to Law School 5:36 Internships and Real-World Experience 7:04 Navigating Dual Degree Programs 9:09 The Balancing Act of Law and Life 13:16 The Importance of Prenups 20:09 Revisiting Our Connection 21:53 The Impact of Pageantry 32:15 Skills Learned from Pageantry 39:52 Quickfire Questions and Wrap-Up sponsors: One Eleven Group Quest giveaway: Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide To enter: follow @gavelgabpodcast on Instagramsubscribe to the Youtube Channel @CarlieSpencerGavelGabcomment on the episode on Apple or Spotify connect with Carlie & Gavel Gab: Gavel Gab Website | Strive Law Firm | Prenup Girl on TT | Gavel Gab on TT Instagram | YouTube

    46 min

  8. 09/24/2025

    From Pain to Power: Navigating Domestic Violence and Prenups

    This episode is a re-broadcast of Carlie's guest appearance on Live Free Legal, hosted by Tiffany Lesnik, a family law attorney, about the importance of prenuptial agreements in facilitating open financial discussions between couples. They redefine prenups as proactive tools for communication and protection, especially for those in complex or abusive relationships. Drawing from insights in Carlie's book, *The Guide to a Successful Marriage*, they discuss key features of prenups, warning signs during negotiations, and the option of postnuptial agreements. By simplifying legal terms, Carlie and Tiffany aim to empower listeners to view prenups as essential preparation for a successful partnership and to navigate their marital choices confidently. HIGHLIGHTS: 4:27 The Importance of Prenups 11:21 Red Flags in Prenup Discussions 14:55 Understanding Postnuptial Agreements 16:09 Differentiating Legal Agreements 24:33 Navigating Domestic Abuse and Legal Documents 27:58 Prenups as Marriage Insurance 29:28 Conclusion and Final Thoughts mentioned in this episode: Carlie's Book - The Prenup Girl's Guide to a Successful Marriage sponsors: One Eleven Group Quest giveaway: Pink Diamond Hat and The Prenup Girl’s Guide To enter: follow @gavelgabpodcast on Instagramsubscribe to the Youtube Channel @CarlieSpencerGavelGabcomment on the episode on Apple or Spotify connect with Carlie & Gavel Gab: Gavel Gab Website | Strive Law Firm | Prenup Girl on TT | Gavel Gab on TT Instagram | YouTube

    31 min
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Gavel Gab: Where Law Meets Life, Love, and a Little Legal Drama. Hosted by attorney, entrepreneur, and your go-to Prenup Girl, Carlie Spencer, Gavel Gab is the weekly podcast that makes family law feel less scary and way more relatable. Whether you’re engaged, divorced, business-minded, or just nosy about courtroom chaos—this podcast is your front-row seat to the wild, wonderful world of relationships, legal lessons, and building a life you love. Each week, we spill the legal tea on prenups, marriage and divorce, real-life courtroom stories (you won’t believe some of these...), money, business and protecting your future, entrepreneurial wisdom, women in law, legal Q&As, juicy guest interviews, and fun personal insights. From “Should’ve Had a Prenup” horror stories and “Divorce Diaries” to lessons from the trenches of building a business from scratch, Carlie breaks down the big stuff—contracts, custody, conflict—with humor, heart and a glass of wine, or processo in hand. Because law doesn’t have to be boring, and protecting yourself is the ultimate power move. New episodes every Wednesday!

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  • Creator
    Carlie Spencer
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    25
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2025 Carlie Spencer
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