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If we build our house on sand, it might last for a while. But eventually things will start to crumble and collapse. We may even have forgotten we decided long ago to build on sand. That doesn’t change the reality of the situation though. Over time, anything not built on a solid foundation of truth is bound to eventually collapse. It must. So it can be rebuilt the right way. The era that’s now arriving is going to further shake whatever is not sound, whatever has been built on sand. We must collectively come to realize that the only way to get to the other side of our challenges is by waking up and stepping through the doorway of self-responsibility. And that’s exactly what the Pathwork Guide is showing us how to do in this collection of 33 spiritual essays.

  1. EPISODE 1

    1 Jewels in the heart

    About: Being present with what’s here now This opening chapter introduces a simple but powerful idea: what if we could see each other clearly, without all the emotional baggage we usually carry? Through a story shared after Eva Pierrakos’s death, we get a glimpse of “Paradise” as a place where people openly acknowledge both their growth and their unfinished work—symbolized as polished and unpolished jewels in their hearts. No one hides their flaws, and no one projects unresolved issues onto others. Instead, there’s honesty, acceptance, and a kind of mutual respect that allows real connection. Listen to Get a Better Boat Return to Get a Better Boat contents Read this chapter

    3 min

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    2 A simple test for life

    About: Seeking connection versus separation This chapter offers a clean, almost no-nonsense lens for navigating life: are you choosing connection or separation? At our core, it says, we’re made up of qualities like truth, love, and wisdom—and when we’re aligned with that inner “light,” connection naturally follows. But on the surface, we carry distortions—old wounds, faulty beliefs, defensive habits—that pull us toward judgment and distance. The tricky part is how subtle this can be, especially when we’re convinced we’re right. The author brings it back to something practical: in any moment, we can pause and ask what we’re really serving. Are we building a case, or trying to understand? Are we closing off, or staying open? It’s not about being perfect—it’s about noticing, and choosing again. The idea lingers in a useful way: even small shifts toward connection can ripple outward, and inward too. Listen to Get a Better Boat Return to Get a Better Boat contents Read this chapter

    3 min

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    3 The Real Self vs the True Self

    About: The reality of untruth This chapter digs into the layered nature of who we are, separating what’s real from what’s actually true. It frames the inner journey as a movement from ego into the Higher Self—the part of us aligned with connection, clarity, and truth. But the twist is that our Lower Self, with all its distortions and reactive patterns, is also “real” because it carries energy. It’s just misdirected. What keeps it in place are the false beliefs we formed as children—conclusions that once helped us feel safe but now quietly shape our reactions, relationships, and struggles. To cope, we build a “mask”—a set of defenses that promise protection and love but end up doing the opposite. Real growth starts when we stop hiding behind that mask and begin to see what’s actually going on underneath. That means facing uncomfortable patterns, questioning old beliefs, and feeling what we’ve avoided. It’s messy at first, even disorienting—but necessary. Over time, as we clear out these distortions, something steadier emerges. The Higher Self isn’t something we create—it’s something we uncover. And the more we live from it, the more life starts to feel aligned instead of reactive. Listen to Get a Better Boat Return to Get a Better Boat contents Read this chapter

    8 min

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    4 Finding the light switch: My husband, the ego and imposters

    About: Using guidance to help each other This chapter brings the inner work down to earth through a personal story about marriage, growth, and the sometimes uncomfortable truth about how much of our lives are still run by the ego. It explores the ego not as the enemy, but as a tool—one that’s meant to observe, choose, and eventually surrender to something deeper. The tension comes when the ego refuses to let go, creating friction not just within ourselves, but in our closest relationships. Through the author’s experience with her husband, we see how even someone deeply committed to personal growth can still get stuck in ego patterns—overthinking, controlling, blocking creative flow. The concept of “imposters” adds another layer, pointing to the subtle ways we can be pulled off track when we’re disconnected from our inner guidance. Still, the tone isn’t alarmist—it’s reflective. The real work is slow, uneven, and often humbling. Listen to Get a Better Boat Return to Get a Better Boat contents Read this chapter

    27 min

  5. EPISODE 5

    5 From believing to knowing: The trip of a lifetime

    About: Personal experience becomes our proof This chapter explores the shift from simply believing something to actually knowing it through lived experience. Using philosophy as a bridge—especially ideas from Mark Manson and thinkers like Hume—it questions what we really know about reality and how we come to know it. The core idea is that belief, on its own, is shaky ground. Real understanding comes when we experience truth directly, the way we now understand the sun doesn’t literally “rise,” even though it looks that way. From there, the focus turns inward. Instead of looking to external proof, the author suggests we can uncover truth by examining our own lives—especially the patterns that keep repeating. The catch is that much of what drives those patterns lives in the unconscious, in beliefs we don’t even realize we hold. And those hidden beliefs often contradict what we say we want. The chapter lands on a grounded but challenging idea: everything in our lives follows cause and effect, and the starting point is always within. The real “trip” isn’t philosophical debate—it’s the slow, sometimes uncomfortable process of discovering how our inner world shapes everything we experience. Listen to Get a Better Boat Return to Get a Better Boat contents Read this chapter

    9 min

  6. EPISODE 6

    6 Taking the more mystical way home

    About: The faster way to heaven within This chapter takes a wider, more reflective look at spiritual paths, weaving together personal experience with different traditions to explore what it really means to “find the way home.” Starting with a light, personal story, it moves into the author’s exposure to Kabbalah and other mystical teachings, highlighting a common thread: the inward journey. Whether it’s balancing opposing forces, like kindness and discipline, or uncovering the barriers we’ve built against love, these paths all point back to self-awareness and inner alignment. What makes this chapter stand out is its attempt to reconcile spirituality with Christianity—without fully subscribing to organized religion. The author draws a distinction between “Christic” truth and institutional Christianity, suggesting that something essential may have been lost or distorted over time. Rather than rejecting religion outright, the chapter invites a more nuanced view: there is truth in many traditions, but it often requires digging deeper and questioning what’s been handed down. At its core, this is about integration—bringing together wisdom from different paths while staying rooted in personal experience. The journey home, it suggests, isn’t about adopting beliefs, but about steadily clearing what blocks our own inner light. Listen to Get a Better Boat Return to Get a Better Boat contents Read this chapter

    12 min

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    7 Two Martin Luthers, two kinds of faith

    About: What salvation really means This chapter weaves together personal history, religion, and spiritual insight to explore what faith really means—and where it falls short on its own. Using the connection between Martin Luther and Martin Luther King Jr. as a starting point, it digs into the idea of “faith alone” and gently challenges it. The author suggests that belief, when it lives only in the mind, doesn’t hold up very well in real life. It’s easy, even comforting—but ultimately incomplete. The deeper invitation here is to move beyond belief into lived experience. That means doing the often uncomfortable work of self-examination and healing, rather than relying on faith as a kind of shortcut. The chapter makes a strong case that real faith isn’t something we start with—it’s something we arrive at after we’ve faced what blocks our inner light. There’s also an honest look at why many people are stepping away from organized religion. Not because everything is wrong, but because something essential is missing. The takeaway feels grounded: faith and inner work aren’t opposites—they’re meant to go together. And without both, something important gets lost. Listen to Get a Better Boat Return to Get a Better Boat contents Read this chapter

    11 min

  8. EPISODE 8

    8 It’s time to grow up: Maturing through stages

    About: Moving into a new epoch This chapter zooms out to a big-picture view of where humanity is right now, framing the current chaos not as a breakdown, but as a kind of growing pain. The idea is simple but challenging: we’re collectively moving out of adolescence and into a more mature stage—and like any growth phase, it comes with tension, confusion, and conflict. What looks like things falling apart may actually be things coming to the surface so they can finally be worked through. The parallel between individual growth and collective evolution runs throughout. Just like in personal healing, where buried issues have to rise up before they can be resolved, humanity is facing its own inner splits—between more developed and less developed ways of being. The discomfort is part of the process, not a sign of failure. The chapter ultimately points inward. Real change doesn’t come from fixing the outside alone—it comes from understanding and transforming what’s within. As more people do that work, the larger system begins to shift. It’s a hopeful take, but not an easy one: growing up, whether as a person or a planet, requires effort, honesty, and a willingness to face what’s been avoided. Listen to Get a Better Boat Return to Get a Better Boat contents Read this chapter

    18 min
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If we build our house on sand, it might last for a while. But eventually things will start to crumble and collapse. We may even have forgotten we decided long ago to build on sand. That doesn’t change the reality of the situation though. Over time, anything not built on a solid foundation of truth is bound to eventually collapse. It must. So it can be rebuilt the right way. The era that’s now arriving is going to further shake whatever is not sound, whatever has been built on sand. We must collectively come to realize that the only way to get to the other side of our challenges is by waking up and stepping through the doorway of self-responsibility. And that’s exactly what the Pathwork Guide is showing us how to do in this collection of 33 spiritual essays.

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    Phoenesse
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    36
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    1
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