The Nate Whitson Podcast

Nate Whitson
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Helping Christian change when change is hard and you don't know how! Small changes - Big results - Better disciples

  1. The lie that keeps men stuck

    5D AGO

    The lie that keeps men stuck

    In this video, I expose a lie that almost every man has believed. It's so subtle, and it's quietly destroying your biggest dreams. I break down the crucial difference between short-term pleasure and lasting happiness, and how this one, simple lie can be so destructive to everything you're fighting for. You’ll learn how to identify "fast food" habits that are draining your spiritual strength, the neurological reason why you drift into comfort instead of discipline, and how to use Romans 12:2 and 2 Corinthians 10:5 to retrain your brain and take your thoughts captive. Watch this next: How Christian Men Get Trapped  Get more tools at Get In The Fight: https://getinthefight.club I help Christian men stop trying harder to change and start training harder instead so they can become better husbands, fathers, and followers of Jesus.

    28 min
  2. Why you're failing as a husband (and how to fix it)

    APR 13

    Why you're failing as a husband (and how to fix it)

    It's no surprise that many marriages are not healthy and not where they (or God) want them to be. In fact, your marriage may not be where you want it to day - but it can be and God wants it to be! The path forward is to keep is simple. Show up everyday with small but intentional steps. In today's episode, Nate talks about these very concepts and ideas and gives you practical advice that can help you fix you marriage - and do it faster than you may think. If you're interested in more content or help for your marriage or life as a Christian man, be sure to check out the free tools and resources as well as coaching and courses at: https://www.getinthefight.club Also, be sure to subscribe and listen to Nate's weekly podcast called, The Nate Whitson Podcast, here: https://www.youtube.com/@Nate_Whitson

    26 min
  3. How to be a better man: one thing is missing

    APR 6

    How to be a better man: one thing is missing

    Christianity teaches followers of Christ how to grow spiritually, but many disciples struggle with bad habits, bad behavior, and patterns that hold them back. Learn how to change your life and become better men in this episode. If you’re a follower of Christ and want to grow spiritually, it’s critical to identify the bad habits and behaviors that quietly sabotage your faith, relationships, and purpose. In this episode, we break down 5 habits that destroy disciples of Jesus, explain how they impact your walk with God, and share practical steps to replace them with godly discipline that helps you change your life and become a stronger, more faithful man. Whether you’re struggling with bad behavior, sinful patterns, or lack of consistency in your spiritual life, this episode gives you tools and insight to develop Christian habits, live intentionally, and become one of the better men God created you to be. In this episode we discuss: • The 5 bad habits that quietly undermine disciples of Jesus
 • How these patterns affect your spiritual growth and walk with God
 • Practical steps to replace bad habits with Christian discipline
 • How to live intentionally as a follower of Christ
 • Biblical guidance from the Bible for lasting transformation
 • How to become better men in faith, family, and life Scripture References Relevant passages from the Bible to guide disciples in overcoming habits and growing in Christ.   Links & Resources Find more episodes and grow as a disciple of Jesus at:
www.youtube.com/@Nate_Whitson Learn more here: www.getinthefight.club

    24 min
  4. 10 Hidden Reasons Men Grow Weak & Passive

    MAR 30

    10 Hidden Reasons Men Grow Weak & Passive

    10 Hidden Reasons Good Men Grow Passive and Weak Ever feel like you’re just coasting through life—watching from the sidelines instead of stepping into the role God called you to play? In this episode, we expose 10 hidden reasons many Christian men slowly drift into passivity and what it takes to wake up before that drift costs you more than you realize. Summary Passivity rarely happens overnight. For many men, it’s a slow drift fueled by discouragement, fear, and subtle lies that pull them away from their purpose. In this episode, we unpack 10 common reasons Christian men become passive and why identifying the real cause is the first step to breaking free. Anchored in Romans 13:11, this conversation is a wake-up call to recognize what’s really going on beneath the surface and confront it with truth. Key Takeaways Passivity often begins with lies we believe about failure, pain, or our ability to lead. When men drift spiritually, it usually shows up in relationships and responsibility at home. Fear, overwhelm, and lack of accountability are common drivers of passivity. Identifying the root issue is the first step toward real change. Taking one intentional step forward can break the cycle of drifting. Main Topics Covered 10 Reasons Men Drift into Passivity Fear of failure Past trauma or disappointment Lack of support Feeling overwhelmed Comfort in routine Mental health struggles Unclear goals Lack of accountability Cultural pressure to hide struggles Spiritual disconnect from God   Scripture Mentioned Romans 13:11 – “The hour has already come for you to wake up from your slumber…” Psalm 139:23–24 – “Search me, O God, and know my heart…”   Links & Resources For more practical discipleship training, resources, and tools designed to help Christian men build discipline, break destructive habits, and grow as husbands, fathers, and followers of Jesus, visit: https://www.getinthefight.club

    35 min
  5. The Tozer Trap: How Good Christian Men Fail At Home

    MAR 23

    The Tozer Trap: How Good Christian Men Fail At Home

    Are you winning in public, but silently and unknowingly failing at home? You can love Jesus.
You can provide financially.
You can be respected publicly. And still fail where it matters most — at home. In today’s episode, Nate exposes “The Tozer Trap” and challenges Christian men to rethink what biblical provision really means.   Brief Summary Most Christian men would say, “I’m providing for my family.” But are you providing the way God defines it? Using the sobering story of A.W. Tozer — a deeply respected preacher whose family later revealed emotional neglect at home — this episode is a wake-up call. Not for guilt. Not for shame. But for alignment. If a man like Tozer could miss it… so can we. This episode challenges Christian men to examine their definition of provision, confront hard truths, and take practical steps toward becoming more present husbands, fathers, and followers of Christ.   Key Takeaways Financial provision alone is not biblical provision. 1 Timothy 5:8 defines care as responsibility, presence, and leadership — not just paychecks. A man can pay every bill and still be absent where it matters most. Work does not replace presence. Conviction from God is not condemnation — it’s an invitation to change. It’s not too late if you’re still breathing. What Is “The Tozer Trap”? A.W. Tozer was a respected preacher, prolific author, and global spiritual influence. But after his death, stories surfaced revealing that his wife and children felt emotionally and relationally neglected. Tozer loved Jesus deeply. But those closest to him felt unseen. That reality should make every Christian man pause. The warning is clear:
You can win in ministry, career, or public reputation — and still lose at home.   Biblical Foundation 1 Timothy 5:8
“But those who won’t care for their relatives, especially those in their own household, have denied the true faith. Such people are worse than an unbeliever.” Christian men are called to love their wives and kids and to live with them in an understanding way of what they really need. Just providing financially doesn’t cut it!   Help/Resources If you’d like practical tools and resources to help you live intentionally at home and be a better husband, father, follower of Jesus and man, then visit our site: https://www.getinthefight.club Courses, Coaching, and Community exclusively for Christian men!

    29 min
  6. Taming the Elephant: How to Break Bad Habits & Win in Life

    MAR 16

    Taming the Elephant: How to Break Bad Habits & Win in Life

    Why do you keep doing what you don’t want to do? Why is it so hard to wake up early, pray consistently, quit porn, lead your family well, or stay disciplined? In this episode of The Nate Whitson Podcast, we unpack a powerful concept from psychologist Jonathan Haidt known as the “Elephant and Rider” analogy—and apply it directly to Christian men who want to grow in faith and self-discipline. You don’t have one brain.
You have two. The Elephant: your emotional, automatic, craving-driven brain The Rider: your rational, thinking, planning brain When they fight, you lose.
When they align, you grow. And Scripture backs this up: Romans 12:2 – “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” If you’re a Christian man struggling with: Pornography Passivity Lack of discipline Inconsistent prayer Leading your wife and kids well Starting and stopping good habits... This episode will give you a practical, biblical framework for lasting change. In This Episode You’ll Learn: 1. How to Direct Your Rider (Clear Goals Beat Vague Intentions) Willpower is limited. Clarity wins. Instead of saying:
“I need to be a better husband.” Say:
“I will write my wife a kind note twice this week at 7:00 a.m. after Bible reading.” Specific goals strengthen your rational brain. 2. How to Motivate Your Elephant (Small Wins Create Momentum) Your emotional brain moves on reward. If you want to break bad habits and build godly ones: Celebrate small wins Attach positive emotion to obedience Thank God immediately after small victories Momentum fuels discipline. 3. How to Shape the Path (Environment Beats Willpower) Change becomes easier when you design your environment. Put your Bible on your nightstand Block distracting apps Set reminders to pray Change your digital and physical spaces You don’t just need stronger faith.
You need better systems. Why This Matters for Christian Men Many Christian men “like” Jesus—but struggle to live intentionally. The issue isn’t desire.
It’s alignment. When your emotional elephant and rational rider work together under God’s truth, transformation happens. This episode gives you a practical discipleship framework to: Break bad habits Build discipline Renew your mind Live intentionally Become a better husband, father, and follower of Christ   Resources & Next Steps If you want practical discipleship training that helps Christian men live intentional lives, visit: 👉 https://www.getinthefight.club Subscribe to the podcast and share this episode with another man who’s serious about growth. Be a man of honor, discipline, strength, and joy. Get in the fight!

    35 min
  7. How Christian Men Get Trapped By Deception: Live not by lies!

    MAR 9

    How Christian Men Get Trapped By Deception: Live not by lies!

    Most Christian men don’t walk away from God — they drift because they believe lies that sound reasonable, spiritual, and even true. In this episode, we expose how deception actually works, why the enemy shows up as “light,” and the common lies that keep men stuck in shame, isolation, and repeated failure. We’ll look at Scripture, real-world examples, and a clear biblical path for resisting lies and walking in truth. What lies have you been believing that simply aren't true?   If you want to grow as a man of God, freedom starts with learning to live not by lies. Listen to the full episode at: https://www.youtube.com/@Nate_Whitson Get more discipleship resources and tools for Christian men: https://www.getinthefight.club

    28 min
  8. 5 Things Christian Men Wish Christian Women Knew About SEX (Part 2)

    MAR 2

    5 Things Christian Men Wish Christian Women Knew About SEX (Part 2)

    In Part 2 of this two-part conversation, we talk openly and honestly about sex in Christian marriage—specifically what many Christian men wish their wives understood but often don’t know how to say. This episode is directed toward women, but it’s rooted in a heart for stronger marriages, better communication, and deeper understanding between husbands and wives. We’ll explore why sex matters so deeply to men, how it connects to feeling valued and wanted, and why healthy conversations around intimacy are essential for a thriving Christian marriage. This is not about pressure, shame, or performance—but about connection, validation, and learning to love one another well. 👉 Be sure to listen to Part 1 (Episode #152) for the foundation of this conversation. Full episode on my channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Nate_Whitson

    41 min
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Helping Christian change when change is hard and you don't know how! Small changes - Big results - Better disciples

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  • Creator
    Nate Whitson
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    160
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    © 2026 Get In The Fight
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