GET UNHOOKED PODCAST

Jason Coombs

GET UNHOOKED PODCAST: Real Help For Families Facing Addiction hosted by Jason Coombs.  WELCOME TO THE JOURNEY Hey guys, welcome to the Get Unhooked Podcast. I am excited to be your guide providing you real help for families facing addiction. I share inspiration, tools, and insights on addiction, mental health, parenting, leadership, influence, company culture, goal setting, goal smashing, daily routines, prosperity, finance, success, entrepreneurship, relationships, and fitness. This show is all about how to help you become the best version of yourself while striving to help an addicted loved one recover. Join me on this journey of growth and change, and let's work together to create a life that you are proud of. Let's roll! WHAT TO EXPECT Each episode delivers actionable strategies and transformative insights across multiple dimensions of life: Addiction & Recovery: Breaking free from what holds you backMental Health: Building resilience and emotional wellbeingRelationships & Parenting: Creating connections that matterProfessional Growth: Leadership, influence, and culture-buildingLifestyle Design: Daily routines, fitness, and financial freedom ABOUT YOUR HOST Jason Coombs is a keynote speaker and corporate consultant on Mental Wealth and Emotional Prosperity. With a Masters of Professional Communications degree, he is the author of the Amazon bestseller, Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover. Jason is the President and Founder of Brick House Recovery, a renowned treatment chain for substance abuse and co-occurring disorders. His company received the national Excellence in Treatment award and Idaho’s Best in Mental Wellness award three years in a row. Jason is the Southwest Regional Director for the Idaho Association for Addiction Professionals board. Beyond work, Jason enjoys skiing, competing in Ironman events, and traveling with his family. JOIN THE COMMUNITY Website: TBAInstagram: @jascoombsEmail: info@brickhouserecovery.comNew episodes are released weekly. Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts to never miss an episode on your journey to becoming unhooked and unleashed.

  1. 1D AGO

    “Why You Say You Want Peace… But Refuse to Do the One Thing That Brings It“

    Send a text Why You Say You Want Peace… But Refuse to Do the One Thing That Brings It Most families say they want peace. But when it comes time to grieve the loss of the relationship they hoped for… they tighten their grip instead. In this deeply honest episode, Jason reveals: Why control disguises itself as loveHow fear keeps families emotionally hookedThe grief step most people skipWhy surrender is not giving upAnd how to finally reclaim your life — even if your loved one hasn’t changedThis episode is both confronting and freeing. If you’ve been strong for far too long… this one will hit home. ⏱ Episode Highlights [01:01] Why families show up strong, not weak — and how control hides behind love [03:12] Step 1: The Hula Hoop Principle — what’s yours and what’s not [05:23] Step 2: Facing your worst fear without catastrophizing [07:12] Step 3: Letting go of attachment to specific outcomes [09:04] Step 4: The grief stage most families avoid (and why it keeps you stuck) [11:30] Why families say they want peace but refuse to grieve [14:59] The five stages of grief explained through Jason’s personal loss [20:57] Step 5: Trusting something bigger than your fear [21:37] Step 6: Holding onto hope while releasing control [22:37] Step 7: The daily practice of surrender What You’ll Learn ✔ The difference between surrender and enabling ✔ Why fear creates the very outcomes you’re trying to prevent ✔ How grief breaks the control cycle ✔ How to be okay — even if they don’t change ✔ A 14-day surrender blueprint to begin reclaiming your peace A Personal Note from Jason You don’t have to wait for your loved one to recover before you recover your life. That’s not selfish. That’s sane. Surrender is not giving up on them. It’s finally picking yourself back up. Resources & Support 📖 Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover — Available on Amazon & Audible 🌐 Learn more about family recovery support at: https://www.brickhouserecovery.com Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

    26 min
  2. FEB 10

    “The Boundary Trap: Why Good Intentions Make Things Worse with Addicted Loved Ones“

    Send a text You set the boundary. They break it. Again. And somehow, you end up feeling like the bad guy. If you’ve ever tried to hold the line with an addicted loved one—only to second-guess yourself, give in, or get gaslit—this episode is for you. In Episode 43 of the Get Unhooked Podcast, Jason unpacks the BOUNDARY Framework—a practical, compassionate tool for setting and holding boundaries that actually work. Through a powerful real-life story about a woman named Grace, you’ll see how relapse and resistance aren’t always failures—they might just be the painful catalysts for lasting change. Whether you’re deep in the cycle of enabling, drowning in guilt, or exhausted from carrying the weight of someone else’s choices, this episode offers clarity, direction, and hope. Learn how to protect your peace, reclaim your power, and stop rescuing someone who isn’t ready to change. You’ll discover: The hidden reason your boundaries keep getting ignoredHow to respond calmly—without becoming a doormatWhy “natural consequences” matter more than ultimatumsThe most misunderstood stage of change (and why it matters)What it really means to “Get off the beach”And most importantly: how to put yourself first… without giving up on them. 🎯 This is one of the most requested topics from families—and it could be the mindset shift you’ve been praying for. 📌 Show Notes: In this episode: [00:00] Intro: Setting boundaries in quicksand[03:17] Grace’s story: When relapse becomes resolution[10:08] The 5 stages of grief in addiction recovery[14:40] Why boundaries fail (and how to fix them)[19:02] The BOUNDARY Framework (step-by-step)[34:11] “I’m not leaving the relationship—I’m leaving this conversation.”[37:26] What putting yourself first really meansLinks & Resources: 👉 Free resources for families: brickhouserecovery.com/unhooked 👉 Read the book Unhooked: https://a.co/d/08ZF46B4 👉 Need support? Learn more about our Family Recovery Program  https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked-order-form Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

    30 min
  3. FEB 2

    🎙️ “When Numb Isn’t Working Anymore – The Battle to Live Fully Alive” with Doug Nielson

    Send us a text 🎙️ “When Numb Isn’t Working Anymore – The Battle to Live Fully Alive” with Doug Nielson In this soul-stirring Part 3 of the Warrior Heart series, Jason Coombs sits down with licensed psychotherapist and Warrior Heart co-founder Doug Nielsen to uncover what really keeps men stuck in cycles of addiction, burnout, and emotional disconnection—and what it takes to break free. Drawing from decades of clinical experience, personal recovery, and transformative men’s retreats, Doug shares a raw, powerful framework for reclaiming agency, healing the heart, and living fully alive. This isn’t about behavior change—it’s about identity, faith, and the courageous journey back to who you were created to be. Whether you’re in recovery, love someone who is, or simply feel like you’ve lost touch with your purpose—this conversation will wake something up inside you. 🔥 Episode Highlights: [02:59] Warrior Heart changed Jason’s life[07:35] “I want to live fully alive… and help others do the same.”[13:18] Disconnection from God as the root of addiction[15:26] Why the heart is the real battleground[22:18] Counterfeit adventure and the pain of false validation[26:29] The nobility of divine masculinity[31:40] Why clarity often comes in silence and solitude[34:03] Practical outcomes from Warrior Heart retreats. 💡 Key Themes: Take Life by the Helm: Doug introduces a powerful framework of anchors, compasses, and the North Star to help men rediscover direction, purpose, and peace.The 3 Core Desires: A battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to pursue. When these are unmet, men settle for counterfeits—substances, status, or thrill-seeking.Agency & Identity: Recovery is a return to the present moment, where God speaks and where real change begins.The Power of Retreat: Jason shares how a single Warrior Heart weekend created clarity in his relationship with his daughter—and how silence and nature cut through the noise of everyday life.🙏 Final Takeaway: Recovery isn’t just about getting clean. It’s about remembering who you are, whose you are, and what you were made for. Doug’s message is clear: You are not broken. You are noble. And it’s time to come home. 📚 Resources Mentioned: For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman:  https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100 Book: Take Life by the Helm by Doug Nielsen https://a.co/d/fbs3GxtWild at Heart by John EldredgeUnhooked by Jason Coombs https://a.co/d/aOymJ3wBricJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

    38 min
  4. JAN 26

    “ The Pose Every Man Hides Behind and Why Dropping It Changes Everything” with Duane Crabtree

    Send us a text Dropping the Pose Is Where Healing Starts. I used to think most men were struggling with behavior. But a lot of the time, they’re struggling with hiding. In Part 2 of the Warrior Heart series, I sit down with Duane Crabtree, Executive Director of Warrior Heart, to talk about the mask men wear and why most of us don’t even see it. What looks like confidence is often fear. What looks like strength is often self-protection. We talk about porn, people-pleasing, compulsive behaviors, and the quiet search for validation that drives so many men. We also get practical about what it means to fight for your beauty. Not with grand gestures. With presence, safety, and emotional intimacy. This episode is for men who are tired of performing. And for women who want to understand what’s really happening behind the silence. In this episode, you’ll hear: What “the poser” is and why it hides in plain sightThe two questions every man is asking and why taking them to people keeps him stuckHow fatherlessness shapes every man, even with a good dadWhat women actually need and how it differs from what men assumeSimple ways to battle for her heart without slipping back into the poseA sacred moment of brotherhood and grief that changed how I showed up for my familyThis is Part 2 of 3. If Part 1 opened the door to identity, this one shows what happens when a man finally stops faking it. For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman:  https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100 Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

    58 min
  5. JAN 19

    “What Most Men Never Say Out Loud About Their Identity“ with Chris Bennett

    Send us a text Recovery doesn’t end when you get sober. For many men, the real work starts after the crisis passes. In Episode 40 of Get Unhooked, Jason Coombs shares why long-term sobriety still isn’t the same as emotional and spiritual freedom. After years in recovery, he found a new layer of healing through Warrior Heart Bootcamp, a three-day, phone-free men’s retreat designed to help men reconnect with God, brotherhood, and their true identity. This conversation is a window into the male heart. And it’s not just for men. Women will better understand the silent weight many men carry, the fears they rarely voice, and why safety and vulnerability matter so much in lasting recovery. You’ll also meet Chris Bennett, known as the “Hulk of Hope,” whose story of shame, fatherlessness, and transformation became a turning point not only for him, but for his marriage and family. This is Part 1 of a 3-part series on identity, healing, and what happens when men stop performing and start getting honest. In this episode, we cover: Why sobriety can plateau without deeper inner workThe vow of silence and why solitude changes menThe three core desires of a man’s heart: battle, adventure, beautyFather wounds, shame agreements, and the search for validationWhat creates real safety for vulnerability in marriage To close this episode with Chris and Autumn Bennett, I want to give you a clear path forward. If something in their story stirred hope, conviction, or even discomfort, pay attention to that. Those are often the signals that real change is available, if you are willing to take the next right step. Listen or share the episode here:  https://share.transistor.fm/s/35eda14e If you want to connect with Chris Bennett and explore his coaching services:  https://chrisbennettcoaching.com/ To learn more about the men’s Warrior Heart Bootcamp:  https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman:  https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100 And if you want to explore additional resources and the Unashamed Unafraid community:  https://unashamedunafraid.com/ Thank you for listening to Get Unhooked. If this conversation helped you, share it with someone you care about, and remember: you do not need a perfect plan. You just need to take the next right step. Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

    50 min
  6. JAN 12

    Day 73 of Sobriety: The Epiphany That Launched My New Life!

    Send us a text On day 73 of sobriety, Jason Coombs was standing outside a hardware store in Salt Lake City wearing an apron and grilling bratwursts for minimum wage. He was trying not to be seen. The shame was loud. Then one conversation flipped the script and launched a new life built on purpose, service, and usefulness. In this episode, Jason shares the exact moment he stopped treating sobriety like the finish line and started living recovery as a daily decision. We talk about how relapse patterns usually begin with emotions long before substances, how one simple question can interrupt the spiral, and why purpose shows up in the process, not after everything is fixed. This is for anyone rebuilding after relapse, walking through recovery, or loving someone who is. Episode Highlights (timestamps) [00:00:31] Introduction: Beyond Sobriety to Transcendence[00:01:25] The Hot Dog Stand Reality Check[00:02:43] The Ego Death Moment[00:04:30] Recognizing the Relapse Pattern[00:05:22] The Serenity Prayer in Action[00:07:01] The Conversation That Changed Everything[00:08:11] Discovering Purpose Through Usefulness[00:10:23] The Tree-Cutting Metaphor[00:12:12] What Can You Change Right Now?[00:13:40] Stepping Stones of Purpose[00:15:21] When Work Becomes Play[00:17:07] Purpose Happens in the Process[00:19:20] Transcendence Is a Decision, Not a Destination[00:23:24] Sharing Your Story With WisdomJoin Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

    27 min
  7. JAN 5

    Why They Won’t Listen — And What Actually Works (Our #2 Most-Played Episode of 2025)

    Send us a text 📢 We’re re-releasing our second most downloaded episode of the year — and for good reason. Why don’t our loved ones listen — even when we know they’re hurting? In this powerful solo episode, Jason Coombs, host of The Get Unhooked Podcast, reveals the surprising truth: 👉 It’s not about the right words — it’s about the right connection. With raw stories, faith-driven insights, and actionable tools, Jason breaks down how families can stop chasing control and start building real influence through trust and rapport. You’ll learn how to create safety, reduce shame, and become the kind of person your loved one can actually hear. What you’ll walk away with: The difference between trust and rapport — and why it mattersHow to use the PACE method (Partnership, Acceptance, Compassion, Empowerment)Jason’s story of helping a pregnant, homeless loved one detox on his couchThe right way to respond to relapseHow faith, not fear, becomes the foundation for influenceWhether you’re supporting someone in addiction or navigating emotional sobriety yourself, this episode is a guide to transforming conversations, restoring connection, and becoming a healing presence in the chaos. 🎧 Links & Resources: 🔗 Listen to Jason’s book Unhooked on Audible or find it on Amazon 🏡 Learn more at brickhouserecovery.com 🙏 Connect deeper with the podcast community at www.liveunhooked.com Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

    31 min
  8. 12/29/2025

    🚨 Back by overwhelming demand — our #1 episode of the year returns. 🚨

    Send us a text When Bree Crabtree’s husband, Jeff, got sober, she thought their marriage might finally be okay. But behind closed doors, she was planning to leave him. What happened next turned both their lives — and recovery journeys — upside down. In this unforgettable conversation, Jeff and Bree open up about the messy, nonlinear path of healing, the identity crisis families face after addiction, and the spiritual and emotional work that saved their marriage after sobriety. Whether you’re in recovery, love someone who is, or are navigating your own personal transformation — this episode will challenge, comfort, and inspire you. Why listeners couldn’t stop sharing this one: Bree’s raw confession: “I couldn’t trust his sobriety for years…”The moment Jeff responded to her divorce request — with total surrenderThe daily habits that rebuilt their trust and changed everythingHow they turned pain into purpose with their business, Lighthouse TattooDon’t miss what thousands have called the most honest, hope-filled conversation on recovery this year. Join Jason Coombs LIVE each week for tips and tricks and LIVE Q&A’s. Go to https://www.liveunhooked.com/live-unhooked. For information about treatment services visit https://www.brickhouserecovery.com/ For more information about Warrior Heart Bootcamp for men visit www.awarriorheart.com https://awarriorheart.com/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Warrior Heart = 2026Brick100 To learn more about the women’s retreat, Heart of a Woman: https://theheartofawoman.net/ $100 DISCOUNT CODE for Heart of a Woman = 2026Brick100

    56 min
4.8
out of 5
23 Ratings

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GET UNHOOKED PODCAST: Real Help For Families Facing Addiction hosted by Jason Coombs.  WELCOME TO THE JOURNEY Hey guys, welcome to the Get Unhooked Podcast. I am excited to be your guide providing you real help for families facing addiction. I share inspiration, tools, and insights on addiction, mental health, parenting, leadership, influence, company culture, goal setting, goal smashing, daily routines, prosperity, finance, success, entrepreneurship, relationships, and fitness. This show is all about how to help you become the best version of yourself while striving to help an addicted loved one recover. Join me on this journey of growth and change, and let's work together to create a life that you are proud of. Let's roll! WHAT TO EXPECT Each episode delivers actionable strategies and transformative insights across multiple dimensions of life: Addiction & Recovery: Breaking free from what holds you backMental Health: Building resilience and emotional wellbeingRelationships & Parenting: Creating connections that matterProfessional Growth: Leadership, influence, and culture-buildingLifestyle Design: Daily routines, fitness, and financial freedom ABOUT YOUR HOST Jason Coombs is a keynote speaker and corporate consultant on Mental Wealth and Emotional Prosperity. With a Masters of Professional Communications degree, he is the author of the Amazon bestseller, Unhooked: How to Help an Addicted Loved One Recover. Jason is the President and Founder of Brick House Recovery, a renowned treatment chain for substance abuse and co-occurring disorders. His company received the national Excellence in Treatment award and Idaho’s Best in Mental Wellness award three years in a row. Jason is the Southwest Regional Director for the Idaho Association for Addiction Professionals board. Beyond work, Jason enjoys skiing, competing in Ironman events, and traveling with his family. JOIN THE COMMUNITY Website: TBAInstagram: @jascoombsEmail: info@brickhouserecovery.comNew episodes are released weekly. Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts to never miss an episode on your journey to becoming unhooked and unleashed.