Gleaning and Gathering

Eric Himelick

I love meaningful conversations, and this is probably what it would sound like if we had a chance to have that chat in my home office. It is my effort to process what I'm thinking out loud (and sometimes with friends.) I am a Christian, husband, father, pastor, church planter, community developer, author, and social entrepreneur. I am a mortal on a journey through this beautiful, delightful world God has given us, and I live in wide-eyed, child-like wonder. The name? I'm always gleaning life lessons on the farm and beyond, and The Gathering is the congregation with whom I share life.

  1. Mentors Needed: Bring Someone With You

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    Mentors Needed: Bring Someone With You

    Mentoring today is more crucial than ever, especially in a time when father figures and positive male role models are diminishing. In this episode, Eric Himelick explores how mentorship can fill vital gaps in young men’s lives, revealing the emotional and social impact of guiding the next generation.Key Topics: The increasing absence of positive male role models and its social consequencesHow mentorship provides a roadmap, not just adviceThe importance of visible life models to teach conflict resolution, integrity, and humilityThe mental health and engagement benefits for mentored youth, including higher graduation and employment ratesPersonal stories illustrating the transformative power of even small investments of timeThe cultural erosion of apprenticeship and guild-style mentorshipPractical ways for men of all ages to mentor within their communityThe biblical foundation for mentoring, emphasizing passing down faith and values (2 Timothy 2:2)Big Brothers Big SistersTimestamps:00:00 - Introduction: The significance of mentorship in today's society00:28 - The crisis of father absence and its effects on young men0:58 - The lack of clear rites of passage and identity for modern men1:27 - How mentorship offers guidance and models manhood1:57 - The importance of real-world example in navigating conflict and maintaining integrity2:20 - Vulnerability and the silence of struggling young men2:38 - Mentorship as a map for life, not just advice2:58 - Benefits proven by organizations like Big Brothers Big Sisters3:28 - Personal reflections: You don’t need to be perfect to mentor3:56 - Rebuilding mentorship through community and shared experience4:24 - The personal and societal Return on Investment from mentoring4:30 - Overcoming doubts about what one can give as a mentor4:59 - The historical context of apprenticeship and passing down values5:28 - Practical ways to mentor at any stage of life5:59 - The vulnerability involved in reaching out and offering help6:16 - Identifying those in your sphere who need mentoring6:46 - A story of personal engagement at Victory Village Shop7:16 - The ripple effect of small acts of kindness in mentoring7:44 - The starfish story: Every small effort counts8:53 - Encouragement to begin sharing your lessons and experiences9:04 - Reflecting on personal worth and the importance of passing on what you've learned9:32 - Biblical encouragement: 2 Timothy 2:2 and generational faith sharing10:36 - Call to action: Find someone to mentor, and walk alongside them in faith and life.

    9 min
  2. 9 Things That Leaders Learn Too Late (EPISODE 119)

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    9 Things That Leaders Learn Too Late (EPISODE 119)

    There are some things that you don't understand about leadership until you've dealt with challenges and faced problems. I found this list on LinkedIn, and it spoke to me. The picture for this podcast is me at 18... There are a few things that I wish I would have known then. 9 Things Leaders Learn Too Late By  Fraol Mussa Here are the lessons most people only understand once they’ve carried real responsibility: 1. Clarity matters more than speed You stop rushing to look capable. You slow down to make the right call. 2. Calm is something you practice It’s not natural. It’s learned in the moments that test your patience the most. 3. People remember how you made them feel Your presence shapes the room more than your advice ever will. 4. You won’t always be understood And that can sting. But understanding comes later, long after the results speak. 5. Respect grows from consistency Not charisma. Not charm. Just showing up the same way on the days that feel heavy. 6. Pressure reveals your habits Good or bad. You can’t hide the work you did on yourself. 7. Your character shows in private moments Especially in how you treat people who have nothing to offer you. 8. Silence teaches more than reactions Not every misunderstanding needs your energy. Sometimes restraint is the real answer. 9. Strength grows when you stop proving yourself You shift from trying to look like a leader to becoming the kind of person people trust without convincing.

    51 min

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About

I love meaningful conversations, and this is probably what it would sound like if we had a chance to have that chat in my home office. It is my effort to process what I'm thinking out loud (and sometimes with friends.) I am a Christian, husband, father, pastor, church planter, community developer, author, and social entrepreneur. I am a mortal on a journey through this beautiful, delightful world God has given us, and I live in wide-eyed, child-like wonder. The name? I'm always gleaning life lessons on the farm and beyond, and The Gathering is the congregation with whom I share life.

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