Good Vibes & Deep Dives

Gloria

Honest conversations about the things that bring us joy, the thoughts that keep us up at night, and how to manage it all with a smile. Each week, we move through intentional segments designed to help you become a better version of yourself. This includes a Self-Help & Productivity topic, our Deep Dive of the Week and "The Watchlist" community assignments. Hosted by Gloria, Good Vibes & Deep Dives is built on the belief that we are all a masterpiece and a work in progress at the same time. New episodes drop as early as 7 PM EST every Sunday, but you can count on a new conversation to start your week, every single week. Website: https://goodvibesdeepdives.com

Episodes

  1. Episode 5: Auditing the Village – Green Flags, Red Flags, and Black Sitcom Romance

    5D AGO

    Episode 5: Auditing the Village – Green Flags, Red Flags, and Black Sitcom Romance

    We are officially in the heart of February, and after an unexpected week off, we are back and diving deep into the dynamics that shape our lives. Gloria kicks things off with a direct check-in on the "life happened" moment before pivoting to a necessary audit of our communities. We explore the essential traits of healthy friendships—identifying the Green Flags, like the Emotional Architect and the Boundary Boss, versus the Red Flags that indicate it’s time to protect your peace. Then, we take the audit to the screen to examine the legendary Black TV couples that raised us. We categorize these iconic relationships into The Blueprints, The Mirrors, and the Red Flags, discussing which dynamics we should aspire to and which ones we need to stop normalizing as romance. We wrap up with a recap of the psychological gameplay in Fear Factor: House of Fear and a lesson from Gloria's own to-do list on the difference between "busy work" and "boss work." Key Takeaways The Friendship Audit: Just because it's the "Month of Love" doesn't mean your lover is the only priority, your friends are important too. Make sure you pay attention to:The Good Ones: The Emotional Architect (creates safety), The Boundary Boss (respects the "no"), and The Dream Guardian (reminds you of your potential)The Oh-No-You-Gotta-Go Types: The Silent Competitor (racing you secretly), The Spotlight Stealer (main character energy only), and The Saboteur (actively works against you)Sitcom Love vs. Reality: A relationship audit of Black TV couples.The Blueprints: We strive for the partnership of Uncle Phil & Aunt Viv and the spirit of Rochelle & Julius (even if we don't actually want two jobs)The Mirrors: Issa & Lawrence trigger us and Maxine & Kyle show us that conflict can be foreplayThe Red Flags: Why Professor Oglevee’s persistence was actually harassment, not romanceFear Factor Recap (Episode 2): The "Wrecking Ball" stunt proved that Zach is the villain of the house, but his sudden victory in the "Unhappy Hour" elimination suggests he was faking his fear the entire timeBusy Work vs. Boss Work: In our homework recap, Gloria shares how she audited her domain names, swapping costly, irrelevant renewals for strategic purchases that actually fit her future This Week’s Advice, Assignment and Watchlist Advice: Don’t let your romantic relationship be the only priority this month. Maintain your village and make time for your friends just as much as you do for your significant other.Assignment: Pick one friend you haven’t seen in a while. Reach out to them today and set a date, whether it's a coffee run, a walk, or a local event. Don't wait for "the perfect time and do it now.The Watchlist:Fear Factor - House of Fear | Episode 3: Stuck Connect With Us Website: GoodVibesDeepDives.com

    37 min
  2. Episode 4: Hard Resets, Home Boundaries and Fear Factor

    JAN 27

    Episode 4: Hard Resets, Home Boundaries and Fear Factor

    We are closing out January by getting intentional about what we carry into the new month. Gloria shares a personal story about the "power of the pivot" and why dissolving a business idea was the best move for her sanity. We also dive into "Sanctuary Habits"—from the German tradition of Lüften to the essential rules for a peaceful home. Finally, we recap the high-stakes premiere of Fear Factor: House of Fear and reveal why we are simplifying the community Watchlist moving forward. Key Takeaways Trimming the Excess: Quitting isn’t a failure; it’s a strategic choice to prioritize your limited time and energy for the things that actually matter.The Grace of the Pivot: Allowing yourself to change your mind—whether it's about a business, a project, or the type of TV you watch, it is essential for mental peace.The "House Burping" Debate: Cultural traditions like Lüften remind us that there is "nothing new under the sun.” Intentional habits for fresh air and clean floors have always been universal ways to show respect for your space.Social Messiness: A look at the dynamic in the Fear Factor house proves that sometimes the biggest challenge isn't the stunt, it’s the people. This Week’s Advice, Assignment & Watchlist Advice: Give yourself permission to let go of the commitments that just don’t make sense anymore, especially when you’re the one who made the rules in the first place.Assignment (The "New Eyes" Audit): Pick one thing on your plate—a work project or a messy corner of your house, and ask:If I were starting fresh today, would I choose to do this?If the answer is no, let it go.If the answer is yes, do one small thing to get it moving again.The Watchlist:Fear Factor: House of Fear | Episode 2: Wrecking Ball Connect With Us Website: GoodVibesDeepDives.com

    31 min
  3. Episode 3: A Better Version of You – Confidence & Golden Globes Red Carpet

    JAN 19

    Episode 3: A Better Version of You – Confidence & Golden Globes Red Carpet

    We’re finding our footing as the show transitions into a more intentional, segmented format. Gloria reflects on the shift from the concise debut to the more free-flow second episode and follows up on last week's "simple joy" homework with a personal revelation about natural beauty maintenance. We dive deep into how real confidence is a muscle that requires regular maintenance and how it dictates the standards we set for our image. Plus, we take a look at the Golden Globes red carpet and introduce "The Watchlist"—a new community assignment designed to be fun, manageable, and easy to fit into your schedule. Key Takeaways Confidence is a Muscle: Confidence isn't a talent you are born with; it requires regular routine maintenance and pouring into yourself to create a loving relationship with who you are.The Foundation of Kindness: True confidence starts with being kind to yourself. You cannot build a healthy relationship with yourself on a foundation of negativity or constant self-criticism.The Look Good, Feel Good Resonance: Caring for your appearance is an act of self-care and an indication of your intentionality. When you respect yourself, you naturally want to appear polished because it resonates from within.The Power of Articulation: Reflecting on Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s "I Have a Dream" speech highlights the vital importance of being able to clearly communicate and articulate ideas to bring like-minded people together. This Week’s Advice, Assignment and Watchlist Advice: Confidence is a byproduct of self-compassion. When you are kind to yourself, you give yourself the permission to show up fully in your life and your imageAssignment:Part 1 - The Grace Check: Catch yourself in a moment of self-criticism and consciously pivot to a thought of kindness. Acknowledge disappointment or frustration with love rather than negativity.Part 2 – Self-Care Routine Enhancement: Add a small step to your self-care routine to improve the process or make it more enjoyable, whether that is flossing, wearing a favorite outfit, or listening to a playlist while you get ready.The Watchlist:Fear Factor: House of Fear (Disney+/Hulu/YouTubeTV) | Episode 1: Sealed FatesPeople Magazine Investigates (Investigation Discovery/HBO Max) | Episode 1: Vanished in the Heartlands Resources Mentioned Golden Globes 2026 Red Carpet Looks Vogue ListMartin Luther King, Jr. - I Have a Dream Speech (1963)Connect With Us Episode 2: Who doesn’t love a good snack?Episode 1: Quit, Sit, Commit – A New Mindset for 2026Website: GoodVibesDeepDives.com

    45 min
  4. Episode 1: Quit, Sit, Commit – A New Mindset for 2026

    JAN 4

    Episode 1: Quit, Sit, Commit – A New Mindset for 2026

    Happy 2026! We are officially kicking off Good Vibes & Deep Dives with a mindset refresh. If you are already looking at your New Year’s resolutions and feeling stressed, this episode is for you. Instead of a traditional 2025 recap, Gloria shares the three essential rules she’s carrying into the new year. Inspired by Oliver Burkeman’s best-selling book Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals, we’re ditching the toxic productivity advice and embracing a new framework: Quit, Sit, and Commit. Tune in to learn why "strategic underachievement" might be the healthiest choice you make this week, and how realizing you are "cosmically insignificant" can actually set you free. Key Takeaways The Efficiency Trap: Why getting better at processing your work just leads to more work (and how to stop the cycle)Rule #1: QUIT (Strategic Underachievement) – The art of deciding in advance what you are going to fail at, so you can succeed where it countsRule #2: SIT (Staying on the Bus) – How to strengthen your "patience muscle" and surrender to the speed of reality without giving upRule #3: COMMIT (Cosmic Insignificance Therapy) – Why the universe doesn't care about your five-year plan and why that is the most liberating news you’ll hear all dayThis Week’s Advice: Practice “quitting” by picking one area of your life to be 'bad at' and tell yourself, “I choose what matters and I quit the rest” whenever you feel guilty about not getting everything done Resources Mentioned Book: Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver BurkemanBook: Steal Like an Artist: 10 Things Nobody Told You About Being Creative by Austin Kleon Connect With Us Website: GoodVibesDeepDives.com

    20 min

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Honest conversations about the things that bring us joy, the thoughts that keep us up at night, and how to manage it all with a smile. Each week, we move through intentional segments designed to help you become a better version of yourself. This includes a Self-Help & Productivity topic, our Deep Dive of the Week and "The Watchlist" community assignments. Hosted by Gloria, Good Vibes & Deep Dives is built on the belief that we are all a masterpiece and a work in progress at the same time. New episodes drop as early as 7 PM EST every Sunday, but you can count on a new conversation to start your week, every single week. Website: https://goodvibesdeepdives.com