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Feeling incomplete after a failed relationship(s)? Think you need a man to be fulfilled in life? Wondering why you stayed in that toxic relationship? Tired of the constant confusion about who you are? Weighed down by negative thoughts? Wish you knew what you were created to do? And do you wonder where the heck God is in the midst of all this?


In this podcast you will find out how I came to be complete in God. I will share how I finally moved forward in my life by healing from past heartbreaks and ditching the negative mindset, identity confusion and that nagging feeling of purposelessness. I also pull from my background in psychology to help you examine your own patterns of behavior and think about why you do what you do. My mission is to help you walk into the fullness of who you are by providing biblical principles along with practical tips to heal your heart, grow spiritually, find your true identity, break toxic behavior patterns while establishing healthy ones, and discover your purpose.

If you’re ready to leave behind toxic cycles that lead to a broken heart and emptiness and grab a hold of wholeness and purpose. You’re in the right place.


Hey sis! I’m Kandice–a faith-led wife and mother walking in purpose, who also has a background in psychology; but this wasn’t always the case. I remember being single, thriving in my career as a school psychologist, and faking a smile everyday. People thought I had it all together on the outside, but inside I was heartbroken and unfulfilled with my life. Plus, I wasn’t sure about who I was. You see, I wanted to be married more than anything, and knowing my identity wasn’t important to me; so I dated a lot, looking for men to validate me and tell me who I was. I went from relationship to relationship; but instead of finding my soulmate with whom I would spend the rest of my life, I found disappointment and more heartbreak. Each time I walked away from a failed relationship, I left a little piece of my heart behind. Not to mention, I never took time to really heal and examine my own behaviors. Then, in 2015, the last failed relationship shattered my heart in a way that I couldn’t put it back together on my own, and I knew no man would be able to put it back together either. Something in my life had to change. I finally realized that if my heart was ever going to be truly healed, and if I was ever going to be truly fulfilled in my life, I was going to have to partner with God in the healing process. God showed me how to use biblical principles to move on from heartbreak, become a faith-led woman, discover my true identity, and find purpose. I made small changes in my behavior that I could maintain and stay consistent with while still having fun and enjoying my life in the process. Those small changes led to grand results; I am ready to share all my experiences, wisdom, and “small changes” with you!


If you are ready to finally shut that revolving door of heartbreak after heartbreak, stop the constant confusion about who you are and why you’re here, and you’re looking for results like strong faith, positive thinking, peace in your mind, healthy behavior patterns, and contentment in your life–this podcast is for you!

Sis, kick off those shoes that’s been hurting your feet all day, and pour yourself a cup of your favorite hot beverage! You deserve this moment for yourself sis! Let’s dig in!

GOODBYE HEARTBREAK, HELLO HEALING, Healing Broken Hearts, Empowering Women, Scriptural Healing, Find Your Love, Single Women‪,‬ Kandice A. Bateast, Heartbreak Coach, Author, Prayer Warrior

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Feeling incomplete after a failed relationship(s)? Think you need a man to be fulfilled in life? Wondering why you stayed in that toxic relationship? Tired of the constant confusion about who you are? Weighed down by negative thoughts? Wish you knew what you were created to do? And do you wonder where the heck God is in the midst of all this?


In this podcast you will find out how I came to be complete in God. I will share how I finally moved forward in my life by healing from past heartbreaks and ditching the negative mindset, identity confusion and that nagging feeling of purposelessness. I also pull from my background in psychology to help you examine your own patterns of behavior and think about why you do what you do. My mission is to help you walk into the fullness of who you are by providing biblical principles along with practical tips to heal your heart, grow spiritually, find your true identity, break toxic behavior patterns while establishing healthy ones, and discover your purpose.

If you’re ready to leave behind toxic cycles that lead to a broken heart and emptiness and grab a hold of wholeness and purpose. You’re in the right place.


Hey sis! I’m Kandice–a faith-led wife and mother walking in purpose, who also has a background in psychology; but this wasn’t always the case. I remember being single, thriving in my career as a school psychologist, and faking a smile everyday. People thought I had it all together on the outside, but inside I was heartbroken and unfulfilled with my life. Plus, I wasn’t sure about who I was. You see, I wanted to be married more than anything, and knowing my identity wasn’t important to me; so I dated a lot, looking for men to validate me and tell me who I was. I went from relationship to relationship; but instead of finding my soulmate with whom I would spend the rest of my life, I found disappointment and more heartbreak. Each time I walked away from a failed relationship, I left a little piece of my heart behind. Not to mention, I never took time to really heal and examine my own behaviors. Then, in 2015, the last failed relationship shattered my heart in a way that I couldn’t put it back together on my own, and I knew no man would be able to put it back together either. Something in my life had to change. I finally realized that if my heart was ever going to be truly healed, and if I was ever going to be truly fulfilled in my life, I was going to have to partner with God in the healing process. God showed me how to use biblical principles to move on from heartbreak, become a faith-led woman, discover my true identity, and find purpose. I made small changes in my behavior that I could maintain and stay consistent with while still having fun and enjoying my life in the process. Those small changes led to grand results; I am ready to share all my experiences, wisdom, and “small changes” with you!


If you are ready to finally shut that revolving door of heartbreak after heartbreak, stop the constant confusion about who you are and why you’re here, and you’re looking for results like strong faith, positive thinking, peace in your mind, healthy behavior patterns, and contentment in your life–this podcast is for you!

Sis, kick off those shoes that’s been hurting your feet all day, and pour yourself a cup of your favorite hot beverage! You deserve this moment for yourself sis! Let’s dig in!

    179. 6 Ways The Devil Keeps You Stuck In Bondage After a Breakup

    179. 6 Ways The Devil Keeps You Stuck In Bondage After a Breakup

    Hey Sis! The devil is using your breakup, your heartache, and your pain against you. He’s not the creator of anything, but he’s using what has already happened in your life to keep you stuck. He does not want you to be the woman God created you to be, filled with purpose and power. Today, we’re exposing the enemy, so he can’t manipulate you anymore. Grab your journal and take some notes.

    **Summer schedule change for the podcast: During the months of June, July, and August, I will consistently only publish one episode a month. Listen to this episode to find out about our Quick Tip Tuesday episodes. Have a question, leave me an audio message through Speak Pipe. I will play it and answer your question on the podcast.

    Resources and Services
    Grieving The Living Ecourse
    60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
    Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional (Coupon code PODCAST10 for 10% discount–anytime)
    My YouVersion Bible Plans
    Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
    Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
    Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
    Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
    Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!

    ***Check out these episodes that are related to this one

    Ep. 018 10 Scriptures To Combat The Lies of The Enemy…Part 1
    Ep. 048 Minisode: God Is With You In The Fire
    Ep. 118 6 Characteristics Of God As A Good Father In The Midst Of Heartbreak

    Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an Apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!

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    178. 3 Keys To Contentment As a Single Christian Woman

    178. 3 Keys To Contentment As a Single Christian Woman

    Hey Sis! We’re celebrating our 2 year podcast anniversary this week, so we have a special episode today. I wanted to talk to single women in general. There was one thing that made my single season really difficult, and that was discontentment. I want you to enjoy being single and thrive in this season. So grab a notebook and pen and press play!

    **We’re celebrating our 2 year Podversary with a giveaway on Friday, May 24th. Want a chance to win some great prizes? Follow these simple steps. 

    Leave a review on Apple Podcast
    Take a screenshot of the review
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    Quick, leave your review and enter for a chance to win! Listen for deets on prizes. 




    Resources and Services

    Grieving The Living Ecourse

    60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session 

    Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional  (Coupon code PODCAST10 for 10% discount–anytime)

    My YouVersion Bible Plans

    Free ebook:  100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup

    Free prayer:  A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart

    Facebook group:  The Healing Heartbreak Community

    Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose

    Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!




    Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an Apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!

    • 18 min
    177. My Decision To Stop Running From Relationship To Relationship And Heal

    177. My Decision To Stop Running From Relationship To Relationship And Heal

    Hey Sis! We’re celebrating our 2 year podcast anniversary this week, so I wanted to share what actually made me commit to the healing process. It’s much easier to run in and out of relationships than to actually sit with yourself, process your emotions, and patiently wait for God to bring healing to your broken heart. But truth be told, that’s what needs to be done. Join me for this special episode where I talk about my decision to stop running and heal.

    **We’re celebrating our 2 year Podversary with a giveaway on Friday, May 24th. Want a chance to win some great prizes? Follow these simple steps.
    Leave a review on Apple Podcast
    Take a screenshot of the review
    Share it with me (DM me, email me, post it in the Facebook Group, or share it and tag me in your IG stories)
    Quick, leave your review and enter for a chance to win! Listen for deets on prizes.

    Resources and Services
    Grieving The Living Ecourse
    60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
    Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional (Coupon code PODCAST10 for 10% discount–anytime)
    My YouVersion Bible Plans
    Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
    Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
    Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
    Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
    Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!

    ***Check out these episodes that are related to this one

    Ep. 001 Introduction to Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose//My Story
    Ep. 093 Chasing Happiness But Can’t Hold On To It? 7 Ways To Find Lasting Joy Instead
    Ep. 109 1 Year of Helping Women Heal Broken Hearts: Blessings, Spiritual Warfare, and Lessons Learned

    Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an Apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!

    • 18 min
    176 5 Tips To Deal With Negative Emotions From a Breakup or Divorce When You Have Kids

    176 5 Tips To Deal With Negative Emotions From a Breakup or Divorce When You Have Kids

    Hey Sis! Moms deal with heartbreak too. It’s incredibly difficult to process pain and heal when you have little ones, but it’s not impossible. Today I’m sharing tips that I learned when I went through the separation with my husband while my kids were 1 and 3-years-old. If you are intentional with your time, a little time can help you reap a big reward of a healed heart. Grab your journal and pen. It’s time to heal!

    Resources and Services
    Grieving The Living Ecourse
    60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
    Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional (Coupon code PODCAST10 for 10% discount–anytime)
    My YouVersion Bible Plans
    Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
    Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
    Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
    Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
    Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!

    ***Check out these episodes that are related to this one

    Ep. 106 Dealing WIth Divorce, Motherhood, and A Broken Heart With Lashonda Dean, Part 1
    Ep. 107 Dealing With Divorce, Motherhood, and A Broken Heart With Lashonda Dean, Part 2
    Ep. 109 1 Year Of Helping Other Women Heal Broken Hearts: Blessings, Spiritual Warfare, and Lessons Learned

    Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an Apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!

    • 20 min
    175. Can God Trust You With One Of His Sons?

    175. Can God Trust You With One Of His Sons?

    Hey Sis! You might be thinking you’re lonely in this season, and you can’t wait to get into another relationship and find the man that God has for you. But I have a question for you–are you ready for that? I’m sure you want the next man you get into a relationship with to be “the one,” which means you want him to be one of God’s sons. However, to truly care for a man of God, you have to care for yourself in this season. Get your journal, a pen, and hit play!

    Resources and Services
    Grieving The Living Ecourse
    60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
    Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional (Coupon code PODCAST10 for 10% discount–anytime)
    My YouVersion Bible Plans
    Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
    Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
    Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
    Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
    Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!

    ***Check out these episodes that are related to this one

    Ep. 41 Have a Broken Heart? Follow This 6 Step Process To Getting Where You Want To Be After a Breakup
    Ep. 64 6 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Got Married
    Ep. 99 5 Reasons Heartbreak Was The Best Thing For Me Before Marriage

    Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an Apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!

    • 14 min
    174. Think You Need A Man To Make You Feel Better? The One Thing You're Really Craving

    174. Think You Need A Man To Make You Feel Better? The One Thing You're Really Craving

    Hey Sis! Are you feeling lonely? Are you trying to find a way to stop the pain after your breakup? Then, it’s a real possibility that you think hopping into another relationship is the right move for you. But I’m here to tell you that getting another man, or going back to the old one, is not really what you need right now. Join me in this episode to find out what you’re really craving and how to satisfy it.


    Resources and Services
    Grieving The Living Ecourse
    60-minute Heartbreak Coaching Session
    Goodbye Heartbreak Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional (Coupon code PODCAST10 for 10% discount–anytime)
    Free ebook: 100 Biblical Affirmations To Declare After A Breakup
    Free prayer: A Prayer To Move On After A Broken Heart
    Facebook group: The Healing Heartbreak Community
    Instagram: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose
    Let me know what topics you want me to discuss or questions you want me to answer on the podcast. Send me a message here!

    ***Check out these episodes that are related to this one

    Ep. 023 Where Is My Boaz//Tips From Ruth On How To Find Your Husband//Fun With Biblical Truths
    Ep. 084 Minisode: Let God Fill Your Voids
    Ep. 164 Think You’re Lonely Because You’re Not In a Relationship? 5 Underlying Causes Of Loneliness

    Sis, are you enjoying the content from the show and want to support? Here’s 2 easy things you can do: 1. Make sure you are subscribed to the podcast wherever you listen and 2. Leave a 5-star written review on Apple Podcast (grab your friend’s phone for a second if you’re not an Apple user lol). Know that I really appreciate you!

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Customer Reviews

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155 Ratings

155 Ratings

Dphinery ,

Amazing Podcast

Great podcast for all singles especially Christian women. Definitely appropriate for all ages with great content and principles to live by in this dating world. Upholding the integrity of a believer it’s important to have standards and heal after a bad relationship.

Texasgirl80_ ,

This podcast gives me hope

I have been praying that the Lord would bless me to cross paths with some amazing people that could possibly help me through this healing journey. I have been suffering through heartbreak for almost a year now and I finally feel like there is hope to heal. I know that I was led to your podcast by the Holy Spirit. God bless you 🙏🏽

P.A.33 ,

Lonely in Louisiana, yet healing…

OMG- you are awesome. God led me to you & aligned my path towards you. Thank you so much for clarity, faith, wisdom and the power to be able to gather hurting hearts and give us mustard seed of healing. My situation left me empty. But I’m praying and listening to you daily. I am the strong friend, but I’m broken yet & it’s hurts to not be able to be strong. So I’m saying a simple THANK YOU !

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