What if you could pick up the phone, call a hotline, and ask anything you wanted about confidence? No scripts, no judgment, just a safe space to get answers to the questions that keep you up at night or stop you from showing up fully in your life. Thatโs the idea behind todayโs special episode of GRASP Confidence. In this solo show, Iโm opening up the โConfidence Hotlineโ and answering real, relatable, and sometimes downright funny questions from people across the U.S. and around the world. These questions touch on everything from raising your prices as a coach to finding your voice in a crowded room, from dreaming of TEDx stages to figuring out how to look confident in photos. Because hereโs the truth: confidence isnโt just for the boardroom, the stage, or the big moments. Confidence shows up in the everyday. Itโs in how you walk into a networking event, how you tell your story, how you share your ideas, and yes; even in how you pose for a picture without looking like a confused tourist. Why This Episode Matters So many of us think confidence is something you magically โgetโ once you hit a certain milestone. But confidence isnโt a destination, itโs a practice. Itโs something you build little by little, moment by moment, decision by decision. This episode gives you a behind-the-scenes look at what people are really asking about confidence. Not the glossy, Instagram-perfect version of it, but the real struggles: โHow do I raise my prices without panicking that everyone will say no?โ โWhy does introducing myself feel scarier than giving a two-hour presentation?โ โHow do I share my story when I keep hearing the voice in my head that says no one cares?โ And hereโs the thing; if one person is asking these questions, thousands more are silently thinking the same thing. By answering them out loud, we shine a light on the common fears and insecurities that hold us back, and we flip the script to show whatโs possible when you lean into confidence instead of waiting for it. What Youโll Learn in This Episode Hereโs a sneak peek into some of the questions I tackle and the insights youโll take away: โ
Networking without hiding by the guacamole bowl. One listener asked how to walk into an event without wanting to disappear. My answer? Shift from โHow do I impress people?โ to โHow can I be curious about people?โ That small shift turns anxiety into connection. โ
Raising your prices with confidence. A coach from Phoenix shared their fear of charging more for services. We dig into why pricing isnโt about time, but about transformation, and how stepping into higher value attracts the right clients. โ
Sharing your story. A reader of my book confessed they thought, โWhy canโt I do that? Why canโt I share my story?โ I talk about how storytelling isnโt about you; itโs about the person who needs your message. Every time you tell your story, you make it easier for someone else to rise. โ
The TEDx dream. One aspiring speaker asked how to build the confidence to apply for a TEDx talk. My advice? Focus on the one message youโd want the world to remember a decade from now. Clarity builds courage, and courage gets you on the red dot. โ
Visibility online. We tackle the fear of showing up on LinkedIn and Instagram when overthinking takes over. Confidence online doesnโt come from the perfect postโit comes from consistency, connection, and service. โ
Owning your accent. A professional from Berlin asked how to stop apologizing for their accent. My answer: Your accent is your credibility. It means you speak more than one language. Thatโs not a weakness, thatโs a strength. โ
Confidence in photos. A listener from Rome wanted to know how to stop looking like a โconfused tourist with a forced smile.โ The hack? Think of something that makes you genuinely laugh right before the photo. Real smiles always win. โ
Party prep gone wrong. Someone admitted they rehearse lines before parties, only to forget everything at the door. The truth? You donโt need rehearsed lines, you just need curiosity. Confidence is about connection, not recitation. โ
The myth of faking it. One listener asked if confidence can be faked. I explain why it's not about faking it, it's about embodiment. See the difference? Why Youโll Love This Episode This isnโt a lecture. Itโs not a motivational monologue. Itโs a conversation, like sitting down with a friend who gets it. A friend whoโs been where you are and can give you both the reassurance and the practical tools to take the next step. Youโll laugh (because yes, confidence questions can be funny). Youโll nod along (because youโve probably asked some of these questions yourself). And youโll leave with simple, doable strategies you can apply immediately; whether youโre raising your prices, writing your story, applying for a TEDx, or just trying to get through your next social event without overthinking every word. Most importantly, youโll realize that confidence isnโt reserved for โother people.โ Itโs for you. Itโs for the person listening right now who has a message, a dream, or an idea that the world needs but whoโs been holding back because of doubt. Final Thoughts The Confidence Hotline is proof that youโre not alone in your struggles with confidence. The questions in this episode are real, and the answers are for anyone whoโs ever doubted themselves, compared themselves, or talked themselves out of going after something big. Confidence isnโt about waiting until youโre fearless. Itโs about showing up while youโre still figuring it out. Itโs about taking one step, then another, and building proof for yourself that you can. So, whether youโre curious about how to raise your voice in a meeting, how to stop apologizing for your accent, or how to finally share your story with the world, this episode will give you the tools and encouragement to step into your power. โจ Tune in now, and letโs answer your questions about confidence, together. Subscribe on your favorite platform and show your support on Apple by leaving a review. ๐ด Ready to take this work deeper? Taraโs upcoming Christian womenโs retreat in Cabo (January 16-19, 2026) is a luxury, spirit-led experience designed to help you realign, recharge, and step boldly into your divine calling. Spots are filling quickly, learn more here! โจ What does GRASP stand for? Gratitude. Responsibility. Action. Sight. Purpose. These five pillars form the foundation of authentic, confident leadership and every episode of the GRASP Confidence Podcast is designed to help you embody them more fully in your life, business, and calling. ๐๏ธ Have you subscribed yet? Join thousands of high-performing leaders who tune in weekly for powerful conversations with world-class guests sharing real stories, mindset shifts, and actionable insights. โญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธโญ๏ธ If you loved todayโs episode, donโt forget to leave a reviewโit helps us reach more leaders like you. ๐ง Available on: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon/Audible | iHeartRadio Share the inspiration Send this episode to a friend or post it on your favorite social platform, we rise by lifting others. Follow our host, Tara LaFon Gooch: Book: How To GRASP Confidence & Own Your Power is available on Amazon. Grab your copy today for a confident tomorrow! Speaker Community: Join Tara's global speaker community and step on stage with confidence: Talk Your Way to the Top LinkedIn: Follow Tara LaFon Gooch on LinkedIn Website: Visit Tara's website to learn more about her work: TaraLafonGooch.com Branding Services: Want to grow your brand and expand it massively? Visit Tara's company website to learn about our services: BestBranding.Solutions Hire Tara to speak at your next event!
