Grey Maybe Jillian Schmitz
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A limited series podcast and social experiment based on challenging topics. Artist and recovery advocate Jillian Schmitz reads her own personal stories and, hopefully, shares stories of others in an effort to help lessen stigma and shame. If you'd like to share your story of recovery anonymously or otherwise, please email greymaybestories@gmail.com Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/greymaybe/support
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Season Three Finale
In episode twelve of the third season of Grey Maybe, Jillian wraps up the season with a few final thoughts about grief.
Do’s and Don’ts for supporting a person who is grieving: https://mygriefandloss.org/dos-and-donts-guidelines-for-supporting-a-griever
“Disenfranchised grief”: https://www.choosingtherapy.com/disenfranchised-grief/
Find Sliding Scale therapy in California:
https://health.sfsu.edu/sites/default/files/documents/SoCal%20Scale%202.pdf
Psychology Today Database:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists
If you are feeling suicidal or in crisis text or call 988.
National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH):
https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/suicide-prevention
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA):
https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline
Grey Maybe IG: @greymaybepodcast
Jillian Schmitz IG: @jillianschmitz
Jillian Schmitz TikTok: @jillianschmitzofficial
Episode Transcribed by Headliner.app Here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/15nTRwRdW9LFb2yed1nTpCF9pd-p5mpfS/view?usp=sharing
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Benny Capaul, Fourth Generation Funeral Director and Co-Host of the "Let's Talk About Death" Podcast
Trigger Warning: Death, grief, suicide, child loss, burial, cremation, cadavers.
Episode eleven of the third season of Grey Maybe welcomes fourth generation funeral director and co-host of the "Let's Talk About Death" podcast, Benny Capaul. Benny talks about the emphasis of empathy in the funeral home business. He discusses the difference between grief and mourning and the importance of the ceremonial aspects of saying goodbye.
Do’s and Don’ts for supporting a person who is grieving:
https://mygriefandloss.org/dos-and-donts-guidelines-for-supporting-a-griever
“Disenfranchised grief”
https://www.choosingtherapy.com/disenfranchised-grief/
Find Sliding Scale therapy in California:
https://health.sfsu.edu/sites/default/files/documents/SoCal%20Scale%202.pdf
Psychology Today Database:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists
If you are feeling suicidal or in crisis text or call 988.
National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH):
https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/suicide-prevention
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA):
https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline
Six Feet Under Suicide prevention non-profit: https://www.sixftover.org/
Gabby’s Grief Center: https://www.gabbysgriefcenter.org/
Grey Maybe IG: @greymaybepodcast
Jillian Schmitz IG: @jillianschmitz
Jillian Schmitz TikTok: @jillianschmitzofficial
Benny Capaul IG: @Benny2shoes
Let's Talk About Death Podcast IG: @letstalkaboutdeathpodcast
Let's Talk About Death Podcast Tiktok: @letstalkaboutdeathpod
Capaul’s Corner on Youtube:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6nCqSiBtSvi-YGVmRPJ6pA
The Boy Detective On Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/artist/1Wg6C1V1OT7fg3amvlOJyP?si=SXC-ZIeeRFaRBB4y9pEFnA
Mentioned in this episode:
"Six Feet Under": https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0248654/?ref_=ext_shr_lnk
"My Girl": https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0102492/?ref_=ext_shr_lnk
Elizabeth Kubler-Ross Stages of Dying: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK507885/
Caleb Wilde IG: @confessions_of_a_funeral_dir
Episode Transcribed by Headliner.app Here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/12egAM5EvxvFiWnRNPk0Mk11-lNRSTMJ1/view?usp=sharing
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A Conversation with Raymond (Ray) Del Barrio
Trigger Warning: Death, grief, end of life care.
In episode ten of the third season of Grey Maybe, director, choreographer, and performer Raymond (Ray) Del Barrio shares his experience caregiving for several people close to him, including his late father, composer George Del Barrio. He speaks on his outlook on life and what doesn't work when navigating grief.
Do’s and Don’ts for supporting a person who is grieving:
https://mygriefandloss.org/dos-and-donts-guidelines-for-supporting-a-griever
‘Disenfranchised grief’: https://www.choosingtherapy.com/disenfranchised-grief/
Find Sliding Scale therapy in California:
https://health.sfsu.edu/sites/default/files/documents/SoCal%20Scale%202.pdf
Psychology Today Database:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists
If you are feeling suicidal or in crisis text or call 988.
National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH): https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/suicide-prevention
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA): https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline
California Caregiver Resource Center: https://www.caregivercalifornia.org/2021/02/11/support-groups/
Family Caregiver Alliance: https://www.caregiver.org/connecting-caregivers/support-groups/
23 Best Caregiver support groups online and in-person: https://www.aplaceformom.com/caregiver-resources/articles/caregiver-support-groups
Raymond Del Barrio IG: @ramondb
Raymond (Ray) Del Barrio Website: http://ramondelbarrio.com/
Grey Maybe IG: @greymaybepodcast
Jillian Schmitz IG: @jillianschmitz
Jillian Schmitz TikTok: @jillianschmitzofficial
Mentioned in this episode:
Oscar winning short ‘West Bank Story’ Choreographed by Raymond Del Barrio: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0438575/
Frankie Valli IG: @frankievallifourseasons
Chita Rivera IG: @therealchitarivera
‘Sisterella’: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sisterella
Solid Gold: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solid_Gold_(TV_series)
Whitney Houston IG: @whitneyhouston
Michael Jackson IG: @michaeljackson
Bob Fosse: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bob_Fosse
Keith McDaniel: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Keith_McDaniel
George Del Barrio: https://www.discogs.com/artist/396088-George-Del-Barrio
Raymond Del Barrio’s
& Family: http://georgedelbarrio.com/family-music-history/
Marin Mazzie: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marin_Mazzie
Episode Transcribed by Headliner.app Here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1rrWkAF7eKOUgq-CQZYLywO3dsyCP8zNu/view?usp=sharing
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A Conversation with Cara Lidberg
Trigger Warning: Death, grief, cancer, sudden death.
Episode nine of the third season of Grey Maybe is with ex-professional dancer, Tiktok influencer and mom Cara Lidberg. Cara speaks on grief transparency, how she navigated the death of her parents, and how she helps her children understand death and grief.
Do’s and Don’ts for supporting a person who is grieving:
https://mygriefandloss.org/dos-and-donts-guidelines-for-supporting-a-griever
Snapshots Of Life After Loss IG: @snapshotsoflifeafterloss
Book Cara Mentioned: ‘Signs’ by Laura Lynne Jackson: https://a.co/d/a0NffBn
Additional Book Recommendation ‘The In-Between: Unforgettable Encounters During Life’s Final Moments’ by Hadley Vlahos R.N.: https://a.co/d/3MME3jZ
‘Disenfranchised grief’: https://www.choosingtherapy.com/disenfranchised-grief/
Find Sliding Scale therapy in California: https://health.sfsu.edu/sites/default/files/documents/SoCal%20Scale%202.pdf
Psychology Today Database: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists
If you are feeling suicidal or in crisis text or call 988.
National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH): https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/suicide-prevention
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA): https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline
Cara Lidberg IG: @caralidberg
TikTok:
@retiredprofessionals
Grey Maybe IG: @greymaybepodcast
Jillian Schmitz IG: @jillianschmitz
Jillian Schmitz TikTok: @jillianschmitzofficial
Episode Transcribed by Headliner.app Here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1jQ-e_jaOOGGt5CJx7tdHX8tHNLyiveAx/view?usp=sharing
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A Conversation with Mia Andreoli
Trigger Warning: Death, grief, pregnancy, miscarriage, pregnancy loss, stillbirth.
In episode eight of the third season of Grey Maybe, photographer Mia Andreoli shares about the loss of her daughter Rosalie Grace, how she endured, what she learned, and her mission to help others who experienced the loss of a child.
Do’s and Don’ts for supporting a person who is grieving:
https://mygriefandloss.org/dos-and-donts-guidelines-for-supporting-a-griever
MIS- Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support:
https://www.misshare.org/
Pregnancy After Loss (PALS): https://pregnancyafterlosssupport.org/
Miss Foundation: https://www.missfoundation.org/
PALS Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/706588959379371/
Postpartum Support International: https://www.postpartum.net/
Book Mia Mentioned ‘Beauty In The Breaking: Reflections on Stillbirth’ by Amanda Mageras: https://www.amazon.com/Beauty-Breaking-Reflections-Stillbirth-memoir-ebook/dp/B00XCWN7RQ
‘Disenfranchised grief: https://www.choosingtherapy.com/disenfranchised-grief/
Find Sliding Scale therapy in California: https://health.sfsu.edu/sites/default/files/documents/SoCal%20Scale%202.pdf
Psychology Today Database: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists
If you are feeling suicidal or in crisis text or call 988.
National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH): https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/suicide-prevention
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA): https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline
Mia Andreoli IG: @mia_staygold
Mia Andreoli website: www.staygoldimages.com
Grey Maybe IG: @greymaybepodcast
Jillian Schmitz IG: @jillianschmitz
Jillian Schmitz TikTok: @jillianschmitzofficial
Mentioned in this episode:
Eva La Dare IG: @evaladare
Nikki Dalonzo IG: @cre8cure8
Episode Transcribed by Headliner.app Here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1km6Y-BcLK26Ni5ly9bjfMRXP9o6nqiJT/view?usp=sharing
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Melissa Adylia Calasanz, C-IAYT returns to Grey Maybe
Trigger Warning: Death, grief, cancer, homicide.
Episode seven of the third season of Grey Maybe welcomes back professional dancer and certified yoga therapist (C-IAYT) Melissa Adylia Calasanz. Melissa recounts her brother's sickness and death, the shocking homicide of her neighbor, and the journey of healing her grief and PTSD.
Do’s and Don’ts for supporting a person who is grieving: https://mygriefandloss.org/dos-and-donts-guidelines-for-supporting-a-griever
The book Melissa mentioned ‘Stiff’ by Mary Roach: https://www.amazon.com/Stiff-Curious-Lives-Human-Cadavers/dp/0393881725/ref=asc_df_0393881725/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=532655309268&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=5848488964822778378&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9030930&hvtargid=pla-1388880650548&psc=1
‘Disenfranchised grief’: https://www.choosingtherapy.com/disenfranchised-grief/
Find Sliding Scale therapy in California: https://health.sfsu.edu/sites/default/files/documents/SoCal%20Scale%202.pdf
Psychology Today Database: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists
If you are feeling suicidal or in crisis text or call 988.
National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH): https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/suicide-prevention
Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA): https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline
Melissa Adylia Calasanz C-IAYT IG: @melissaadylia
Melissa Adylia Calasanz Pause Breath Smile IG: @melissaadyliapausebreathesmile
Let’s Talk About Death Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2PllctgS4NvUDr1f5Rdkg0?si=0e5ee960ee084c2b
GreyMaybe IG: @greymaybepodcast
Jillian Schmitz IG: @jillianschmitz
Jillian Schmitz TikTok: @jillianschmitzofficial
Mentioned in this episode:
Dana Wilson IG: @danadaners
Dana Wilson’s Podcast ‘Words That Move Me’: https://open.spotify.com/show/0LLWJ3dfbdtkcOolCK57oW?si=ed738079307c44a3
Mike Evans IG: @nativeplantmike
Tree Of Life Nursery IG: @treeoflifenursery
Matt Dickens
Charlie Barns
Claude Thompson
Hama’s Dance Center IG: @hamasdance
Nicholas Palmquist IG: @nicholaspalmquist
Lisa Biagini IG: @lisabiagini212
Michelle Elking IG: @michelleelkin
Steps On Broadway IG: @stepsonbroadway
The Performing Arts Center IG: @performingartscenter
Episode Transcribed with Headliner.app Here: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1EEs-K73OfhHJq3-_qvHTFn4T5cVPpdNk/view?usp=sharing
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Customer Reviews
Thank you!
For being brave, protecting women and defending our rights. You are strong.
Powerful
Gripping, honest and generous. From one sister to another, thank you
A much needed conversation
GREY MAYBE is a timely and well done podcast that addresses an issue that impacts everyone. As a woman who has had the abortion experience, I find the stories both powerful and comforting. This is a topic we don’t share enough.
And perhaps if the people who want to deny us the right to control our own bodies and take away our reproductive freedom hear these stories, they will think more thoroughly about what they are really doing.
Thank you, Jillian for creating this forum.
Keep it up!!!