Grossly Competent

Steve Counsell and Patrick Aleshire
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Join Steve Counsell and Patrick Aleshire, your faithful - yet hideous - hosts as they share their love of Learning, Adulting, and all that is absurd in their world. If you like learning about careers, adult education, or listening to embarrassing stories from ugly people, look no further! Come for the chat, stay for the laughs, and run from their faces: they're Grossly Competent.

  1. 3d ago

    Great Customer Service Means Gettin' Comfy with PMMFI!

    Send us Fan Mail Want that warm and fuzzy feeling you get from doing something awesome? Swing on by - we appreciate you! In this episode of Grossly Competent, Steve and Patrick do a deep dive into the world of PMMFI (pronounced Pum-Fee), a concept introduced and made infamous by Mark Kay Ash of Mary Kay Cosmetics. Specifically, the boys discuss real interactions they've expereinced with PMMFI, organizations that do it well, and how providing great customer service is so much more than just saying the 'customer is always right', it's about empathy, small gestures, and perhaps envisioning a wooden sign around everyone's neck that proposes a simple concept: Please Make Me Feel Important. Oh... you want links? Well here! Have some links! PMMFI - Please Make Me Feel ImportantRight Thing, Right Now by Ryan HolidayThis Used to Be My Playground - MadonnaCome for the chat, stay for the laughs, and run from our faces: we're Grossly Competent! Hey friends, we love doing this, and if you like what you’re hearing and want to support the show, here are the best ways possible:  Give a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or anywhere you get your podcasts,Visit us on Buzzsprout at grosslycompetent.buzzsprout.com. Give us a shout on Instagram @grosslycompetentWe appreciate you for listening! Grow Potential With Humata ConsultingEmpowering Company Success through Customized Learning and Development SolutionsHang out with Zero Proof PassMindful Drinking Starts Here - Hang out without the Hangover.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

    1h 4m

  2. Jul 1

    You Down with SME's!? (Yeah, You Know Me!)

    Send us Fan Mail Whoa there, partner! Why don't you swing that horse on over here and have a look-see, y'hear? In this episode of Grossly Competent, hosts Steve and Patrick record live and on the road for your listening pleasure! Well, that's HALF true. Patrick takes to the road while Steve stays home to explore the nuances of working with subject matter experts in the work place. Can an SME ever be trusted to not make an 800-slide PowerPoint? Is Learning and Development any better? (Yes. -Steve) Find out the best practices for working with the SMEs in your industry in this episode! Before all that jazz, Patrick demonstrates his commitment to bringing this show to life every week by bringing his gear on vacation with him to record. Will we finally hear from Silverfox Joe? Tune in and find out! Here's a link for your troubles, yo! In case you don't get the title reference - OPP by Naughty by NatureVisit Door CountyCome for the chat, stay for the laughs, and run from our faces: we're Grossly Competent! Hey friends, we love doing this, and if you like what you’re hearing and want to support the show, here are the best ways possible:  Give a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or anywhere you get your podcasts,Visit us on Buzzsprout at grosslycompetent.buzzsprout.com. Give us a shout on Instagram @grosslycompetentWe appreciate you for listening! Grow Potential With Humata ConsultingEmpowering Company Success through Customized Learning and Development SolutionsHang out with Zero Proof PassMindful Drinking Starts Here - Hang out without the Hangover.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

    1 hr

  3. Jun 24

    Stop Trying to Make Culture Happen!

    Send us Fan Mail Don't be let our culture falter! In this episode of Grossly Competent, Steve and Patrick talk about the role Learning and Development plays in creating and building an organization's culture. Is it all just a bunch of nonsense or is there a real formula to the madness!? The boys chat about what it means to build culture and the destructive power of the wrong people in the wrong positions. Before all of that though, Steve and Patrick take a trip down memory lane as one often does when realizing they are Over the Hill. (God, remember how big of a deal that was!?) Oh, and Steve continues to deride Pitchslapping LinkedInfluencers to the shock of literally no one. Here are some links because, well, why not!? If LinkedIn Was a Person Onions! Not the EXACT painting, but close Come for the chat, stay for the laughs, and run from our faces: We're Grossly Competent! Hey friends, we love doing this, and if you like what you’re hearing and want to support the show, here are the best ways possible:  Give a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or anywhere you get your podcasts,Visit us on Buzzsprout at grosslycompetent.buzzsprout.com. Give us a shout on Instagram @grosslycompetentWe appreciate you for listening! Grow Potential With Humata ConsultingEmpowering Company Success through Customized Learning and Development SolutionsHang out with Zero Proof PassMindful Drinking Starts Here - Hang out without the Hangover.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

    1h 6m

  4. Jun 17

    Ugly Mistakes from Ugly People

    Send us Fan Mail Don't make an ugly mistake and skip past this link! In this episode of Grossly Competent, Steve and Patrick chat about the times they've made professional mistakes and what they learned from them. Believe us when we say that when time travel becomes a thing, we'll definitely want to show our younger selves this episode to prevent those blunders... and destroy the space-time continuum. Worth it. (Besides, have you SEEN this timeline!?) But before all that jazz, Steve brings up a friendly reminder to engage people that make an impact on you while Patrick asks someone, anyone, to please Sit By Me. Here are some links to stuff, yo; Sit By Me app https://sitbyme.com/Between Two Ferns https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4iG2d0U7k7kAnd also: Send us your questions! We want to feature your inquiries on a future episode! And here's how: Instagram: @grosslycompetentEmail: grosslycompetent@gmail.comCome for the chat, stay for the laughs, we're Grossly Competent! Support the show

    1h 2m

  5. Jun 10

    Compliance Training Sucks?

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Grossly Competent, hosts Steve and Patrick dial into a lively discussion about... Compliance Training! Crickets But seriously, the boys get into the push and pull dynamics of making training that is either engaging, entertaining, and can something be both successfully. Are documentaries considered training anyway? And if that's not enough to get you pumped, Patrick talks about HR meetings that should have been an email. On the other hand, Steve discloses his DisruptHR presentation is officially live for all the world to see*. *Disclaimer: Grossly Competent is not responsible for damage done to eyes, face, and your overall well after viewing Steve maskless. Viewer discretion is advised.* Support the show

    55 min

  6. Jun 3

    Networking: Your New Superpower!

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Grossly Competent, hosts Steve and Patrick dive into a subject so scary, so utterly revolting, that chills will run down your spine! We're talking everyone's favorite corporate buzzword: Networking. The boys get down to the nitty gritty and chat about the true power of absolute, genuine networking and that it's so much more than collecting business cards like Patrick Bateman at a Pokemon convention. Whether you're an extrovert or introvert, Steve and Patrick share tips on becoming more effective with meeting people in your field and the doors it can open. Whether it's to see if Steve screws up the intro, to discover who Patrick bribed to be our sponsor of the week, or hear the uncanny connections our Spinarooski provides, there's a little something for everyone. And of course, some links for you to enjoy: 'My God, it even has a watermark.'Forbes: The Power of NetworkingThe Spinarooski is alive...Come for the chat, stay for the laughs, we're Grossly Competent. Grow Potential With Humata ConsultingEmpowering Company Success through Customized Learning and Development SolutionsHang out with Zero Proof PassMindful Drinking Starts Here - Hang out without the Hangover.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

    1h 5m

  7. May 27

    They Came for the Chat: Melissa McGovern Interview!

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Grossly Competent, Patrick introduces Steve to a super special guest, the Sober New Yorker herself, Melissa McGovern! *Fan fare erupts everywhere That's right, folks! Strap in as Melissa enlightens the boys on her journey to becoming a success coach, sobriety advocate, and podcast host, and embarasser of teenage children. Discover how sobriety transformed her personal and professional life, and get practical tips on alcohol-free living, coaching, and building a brand around authenticity. And dance; we can't forget about dance. Follow Melissa in all her endeavors! The Sober New Yorker on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thesobernewyorker/The Sober New Yorker website https://thesobernewyorker.com/The Sober New Yorker Podcast https://thesobernewyorker.com/podcastCome for the chat, stay for the laughs, run from our faces: we're Grossly Competent. Grow Potential With Humata ConsultingEmpowering Company Success through Customized Learning and Development SolutionsHang out with Zero Proof PassMindful Drinking Starts Here - Hang out without the Hangover.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

    1h 10m

  8. May 20

    The Confidence Paradox

    Send us Fan Mail We're confident that you won't regret clicking this link! In this episode of Grossly Competent, hosts Steve and Patrick dissect the phenomenon referred to as The Confidence Paradox, which highlights that experience creates confidence but the very act of doing needs confidence. And of course, the boys figure out a way to relate this into the professional landscape and L&D and stuff, so there's that. Talk about a mind-Duck. (That's just for you, Apple Podcasts. - Steve) But before they try to sound smart, Patrick unveils an interesting InMail he received from a Dramatic connection and Steve provides insight into his foolproof method for negating the LinkedIn Pitchslap... by fighting fire with fire. Like what you hear and want to learn more? Here are some links: The Confidence ParadoxFor non-Apple Podcasts listeners, acknowledge the 'E'!Come for the chat, stay for the laughs, and run from our faces: we're Grossly Competent! Grow Potential With Humata ConsultingEmpowering Company Success through Customized Learning and Development SolutionsHang out with Zero Proof PassMindful Drinking Starts Here - Hang out without the Hangover.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

    50 min
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Join Steve Counsell and Patrick Aleshire, your faithful - yet hideous - hosts as they share their love of Learning, Adulting, and all that is absurd in their world. If you like learning about careers, adult education, or listening to embarrassing stories from ugly people, look no further! Come for the chat, stay for the laughs, and run from their faces: they're Grossly Competent.

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  • Creator
    Steve Counsell and Patrick Aleshire
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    42
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Grossly Competent
  • Show Website
    Grossly Competent

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