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    Quran and Good Friends - our protection from Dajjal

    This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit www.grounded.day Quran at Home. Each week we take some ayat from the Qur’an. On Tuesday we read them and learn their tajweed. On Thursday we look into their meaning and draw out lessons we can live by. Where we are in the story Last week we finished the story of the Aṣḥāb al-Kahf — the people of the cave. Who were they? A group of young men who fled a comfortable life in the city to save their īmān. There was a king, a tyrant, forcing the people to abandon the worship of Allah. So these youth escaped, and Allah made the cave safe and comfortable for them for 309 years. Grounded is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. When they woke — three centuries later — the first thing on their minds was hunger. Let us send one of us into town for food. But the man who went was dressed in a fashion three hundred years out of date, so a shopkeeper called the palace guards, who arrested him and brought him before the king. And this was a new king altogether — a pious ruler who worshipped Allah and had heard the story of these courageous young men. Curious, he asked to be taken to them. The man led the king and his entourage to the foot of the hill and went up ahead to reassure his friends. And there the story of the cave closes. The first great lesson of the surah runs through all of it: īmān comes first. That Allah alone is worshipped is our non-negotiable line — a matter of faith we never bargain over. And this is one of the very tests of the Dajjāl, who will come near the end of time claiming to be god, forcing people to worship him. Obey him, and you are promised wealth, comfort, a full stomach. Refuse, and you may have to flee to a cave, away from the luxuries of the world. The Aṣḥāb al-Kahf show us the answer: choose Allah, and Allah will facilitate your affairs. They left the city, and Allah made the cave comfortable — bending the sunlight from their faces, turning them as they slept, placing the dog at the entrance to keep others away. Comfort, safety, and security are with Allah. The surah still holds four more stories, and this was the first lesson: the test of faith towards the end of time. When you sacrifice everything for Allah, Allah takes care of you. Ayah 27 — the Qur’an is our cave وَاتْلُ مَا أُوحِيَ إِلَيْكَ مِن كِتَابِ رَبِّكَ لَا مُبَدِّلَ لِكَلِمَاتِهِ وَلَن تَجِدَ مِن دُونِهِ مُلْتَحَدًا “And recite what has been revealed to you from the Book of your Lord. There is no changing His words, and you will never find any refuge besides Him.” Why does this āyah — now recite what has been revealed to you — come immediately after the story of the cave? The mufassirīn mention two things. First, it is the answer. Remember why the surah was revealed: to answer a challenge from the Quraysh, who had taken their questions from wise men among the People of the Book. They were told that only a true prophet would know this story, so they came and demanded: tell us about the people of the cave. Allah revealed the surah, and its opening is the answer to that first question. And because the story as transmitted through generations of the People of the Book may differ in places from the truth, Allah now says: stand firm. This is the truth. Allah knows what happened. Tell them, and do not worry whether they accept it. Your duty is only to convey — tablīgh, to recite. There is no changing the words of Allah, because this is the word of God Almighty — not fickle like human speech. This is the truth of what happened. Second — and this is for us. Some of the mufassirīn read it this way: today we do not need to find a cave and hide in it. Our cave is the Qur’an. Now that we know the challenges out there — the trials of faith, the fitnah of the end of time — where do we take refuge? Recite what has been revealed to you. The Qur’an is our cave. It is our protection. And the āyah tells us plainly: you will never find any refuge besides Him — no protection except the protection of Allah, and the best of that protection comes through our attachment to His Book. So the first shelter from every trial — from the Dajjāl himself — is to attach ourselves to the Qur’an. This is crucial: daily recitation, memorisation, understanding, a life guided by the Qur’an. This is number one. Ayah 28 — keep good company وَاصْبِرْ نَفْسَكَ مَعَ الَّذِينَ يَدْعُونَ رَبَّهُم بِالْغَدَاةِ وَالْعَشِيِّ يُرِيدُونَ وَجْهَهُ وَلَا تَعْدُ عَيْنَاكَ عَنْهُمْ تُرِيدُ زِينَةَ الْحَيَاةِ الدُّنْيَا وَلَا تُطِعْ مَنْ أَغْفَلْنَا قَلْبَهُ عَن ذِكْرِنَا وَاتَّبَعَ هَوَاهُ وَكَانَ أَمْرُهُ فُرُطًا “And keep yourself patiently with those who call upon their Lord morning and evening, seeking His face. Do not turn your eyes away from them, desiring the adornment of worldly life. And do not obey one whose heart We have made heedless of Our remembrance, who follows his desire and whose affair is ever in excess.” Here is the second protection: surround yourself with good people, good company.Be steadfast with those who worship Allah and call upon Him morning and evening, seeking nothing but His pleasure.

    Quran and Good Friends - our protection from Dajjal
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    Matn Abī Shujāʿ — Part 3

    Recap and continuation: the categories of water, skins of dead animals, bones and hair, gold and silver vessels, and the Siwāk. 1. About the Text and Its Author Matn Abī Shujāʿ is a short treatise (not a poem) detailing the rulings of fiqh according to the Shāfiʿī school. The English poem used in class is a translated rendering; the original is prose. * Author: Aḥmad ibn al-Ḥusayn al-Iṣfahānī, known as Qāḍī Abū Shujāʿ. * Origin: Isfahan, in Persia (modern Iran). * Death and burial: He passed away in Madinah and is buried in al-Baqīʿ, the graveyard beside Masjid al-Nabawī. The first book of the treatise is the Book of Purification (Kitāb al-Ṭahārah). It opens with the seven waters — waters that are fit to purify. 2. The Four Categories of Water Water is divided into four categories, each with its own ruling. Category 1 — Muṭlaq (Pure and Purifying) Muṭlaq water is both pure and purifying. A useful comparison: soap is clean and cleansing — “clean” means it is not dirty, “cleansing” means it can clean something else. In the same way: * Pure means the water itself is not filth (najis). * Purifying means it can be used to purify something else. Muṭlaq water is naturally occurring — it comes either from the sky or from the ground. From it come the seven waters: * Rain falling from the clouds * Sea water * River water * Well water * Spring water * Snow (from mountain summits) * Hail Note on tap and bottled water: These are not listed by name, but they are still pure and purifying because they originate from these seven sources — rain collected in a dam, sea water processed through desalination, river water, spring water, or a bore drawn from a well. The summary principle: water that comes from the sky above or from the ground below is naturally occurring, pure, and purifying. Category 2 — Mushammas (Sun-Heated Water) Mushammas is water left in a metal container and exposed to intense sun. The metal requirement is essential — water heated in plastic, clay, or other non-metal containers does not become mushammas. It also requires genuine heat: a mild warm day does not qualify, but extreme heat (for example, 40°C+) does. * Ruling: Still pure and still purifying, but its use is makrūh (disliked). * Once the water cools, the dislike (karāhah) ends and it returns to muṭlaq. Category 3 — Mustaʿmal (Used Water) There are two types of mustaʿmal: * Water that has already been used for wuḍūʾ or ghusl — it cannot be reused for purification. * Water mixed with something pure that changes its properties — for example, coffee. It can still be drunk, but it cannot be used for wuḍūʾ. Ruling: Pure, and may be drunk, but no longer purifying. Category 4 — Mutanajjis (Impure Water) Water that has become contaminated — for example, a bird droppings falling into a container of water. * Ruling: No longer pure and no longer purifying. It may not be drunk, cooked with, or used. The exception — Two Qullahs: If the water is a large volume — two qullahs, roughly 200 litres — then a small amount of impurity does not affect it. However, if the water’s colour, smell, or taste changes, it becomes mutanajjis regardless of volume. Illustration: Sea water is far more than two qullahs. But in places where large numbers of animals are killed and the sea water visibly turns red, the change in colour means that water has become mutanajjis — because a defining property has changed. 3. Skins of Dead Animals (Maitah) Maitah is an animal that dies without being properly slaughtered. * Base ruling: Maitah is najis — the entire animal, including the meat and the skin. * The exception (dibāgh / tanning): When the skin is tanned and turned into leather, it becomes pure. This is why leather goods (a belt, a bag, a boot) do not need to be checked for whether the animal was slaughtered — turning skin into leather is itself the tanning that purifies it. How tanning works: The fat and any parts that would decompose are removed using a sharp tool and treated with acid, chemicals, or certain plants. Once tanned, the skin is no longer najis. Exception to the exception: Two animals whose skins remain najis even after tanning — the dog and the pig. Definition of “dog” in fiqh: a canine that barks. This is a precise definition: * Wolves are canines but do not bark — so they are not classed as dogs here. * Foxes are canines but do not bark. * Hyenas do not bark. * Cats are not canines at all (they are feline). 4. Why This Order? Process and System Thinking The sequence of chapters is deliberate. Once you have found water, you need a way to carry and store it — and the most common container historically was the leather pouch. So the chapter on water is followed directly by the ruling on skins. The traditional scholars are training a way of thinking: disciplined, ordered, systematic. We do not think haphazardly; we arrange ideas into a process that is beneficial and useful. This applies well beyond fiqh — it is a life skill. Example — brainstorming. An undisciplined brainstorm drifts from the actual goal into unrelated tangents. Edward de Bono’s Six Thinking Hats method disciplines the process: you deliberately wear one “hat” at a time (for example, a green hat for all possibilities, then a red hat for risks), each for a set time. Structured thinking is more productive. Reading traditional texts (turāth, meaning “traditional”) trains this same disciplined, step-by-step approach. 5. Bones and Hair Since the discussion is already about dead animals, the text settles their bones and hair as well — because when you come across a dead animal, you find not only skin but bones and hair too. * The bones and hair of a maitah are najis. Tanning (dibāgh) cannot be applied to hair, so they remain impure. * If the animal was properly slaughtered, there is no problem. * Exception: the remains of a human being. Because God has honoured the children of Adam, that honour extends to human bone and skin — they are not najis. 6. Gold and Silver Vessels Continuing the theme of containers: some wealthy people would use vessels of gold and silver. * Ruling: It is not permitted to use vessels made of gold or silver. * Reason: Gold and silver are a medium of exchange — currency that holds value. Using them as everyday vessels is a sheer display of excess, which Islam discourages. * Vessels of any other material are permitted. Bone china: Some of the most expensive plates are made of “bone china” — bone of certain animals crushed and mixed into a fine porcelain. Recall the ruling on bones: if the animal was not slaughtered, it is maitah, and therefore najis. 7. The Siwāk The Siwāk is anything coarse enough to clean the teeth and mouth — it can be a toothbrush, a cloth, or even a finger. The Prophet ﷺ used a stick from the arāk tree. Its importance and reward: * The Prophet ﷺ said that were it not for the fear of making it difficult for his ummah, he would have made the siwāk obligatory — at every wuḍūʾ (in one narration) or at every prayer (in another). * Oral hygiene is emphasised in Islam. Eating foul-smelling food and then going to the masjid is makrūh; one should clean the mouth first. * Praying with a siwāk is reported to carry many times the reward of praying without one. When to use it — general: The siwāk is praiseworthy at every time and everywhere. The Prophet ﷺ would use it before entering his house, so that his family would be comfortable in his company. Exception — the fasting person: For someone fasting, using the siwāk after midday (around Ẓuhr) is no longer sunnah. Three times it is especially recommended: * When the mouth’s odour changes — for example, after being silent for a long time or not having eaten or drunk for a while. * Upon waking from sleep. * When rising to pray. That concludes this lesson. Until next week, in shāʾ Allāh. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.grounded.day/subscribe

    Matn Abī Shujāʿ — Part 3
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    Who is a Kafir?

    1. Quick Recap: Where We Are We are working through Surah Al-Baqarah, and by now the introduction should be second nature. * Meaning of the surah: The Female Cow * Number of ayat: 286 * Place of revelation: Madinah — this is an early Madani surah, one of the earliest revealed after the Hijrah Surahs are classified by when they were revealed, not simply where: * Makki — revealed before the Hijrah * Madani — revealed after the Hijrah. A surah can even be revealed physically in Makkah, but if it came after the Hijrah, it is still Madani. Virtue of the surah: On the Day of Judgement, Surah Al-Baqarah and its “twin,” Surah Aali ‘Imran, will come like clouds to protect those who used to recite them. 2. The Nine Divisions of the Surah Surah Al-Baqarah can be organised into nine broad sections: * Types of people * First command * First human * First nation * Prophet Ibrahim * New nation (and all its laws — prayer, fasting, hajj, family, and so on) * Politics * Finance * Conclusion 3. Recap of Category One: The People of Taqwā * Taqwā = mindfulness of Allah. This definition comes from the well-known exchange involving Ubayy ibn Ka’b and the imagery of walking carefully along a thorny path. * The traits of the people of taqwā are described in Ayat 2–5. * The final word of Ayah 5 is al-Muflihūn — “the successful ones.” Grounded is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. 4. Understanding “Success”: Fā’iz vs Muflih Arabic has more than one word for success, and the distinction matters. * Fā’iz — the one who wins a competition. There is a single winner; everyone else, however well they did, is not the fā’iz. * Muflih — comes from the root falāḥ, which we hear every day in the adhan and iqamah: “Ḥayya ‘ala al-falāḥ” (”Come to success”). The imagery of falāḥ is agricultural — it is the success of a farmer at the point of harvest. This carries two lessons: * It is not a competition with others. If one farmer harvests 100 kilos and another 200 kilos, both have still had a genuine, good harvest. Everyone can be a muflih by their own effort and criteria. It is a competition with yourself, not with your neighbour. * It requires delayed gratification. You plant today but do not harvest tomorrow. You nurture the plant and wait, putting in the work in the interim. 5. Delayed Gratification in This World and the Next Success in the akhirah comes much later — you plant now and harvest then. But the same discipline that earns success in the akhirah also brings success in this world. * The marshmallow test: children who could wait for a larger reward tended to be more successful later in life; many who could not delay gratification struggled. * Delayed gratification is what lets a student study now and play later, or read Qur’an now and read for leisure afterwards. Sometimes you have to grind and do the less-fun things in order to succeed. Taqwā trains this exact characteristic in us. 6. Category Two: Al-Kāfirūn (Ayat 6–7) Having covered the people of taqwā, we now turn to the second category of people: the kuffār (disbelievers), described in Ayat 6 and 7. Two Layers of Meaning Words carry at least two kinds of meaning: a literal meaning and a technical meaning. Literal meaning: The root kafara means to cover, to bury. Literally, a kāfir can describe a farmer — the one who takes a seed, digs a hole, places it in, and covers it over with soil. * When the farmer is planting (covering the seed), the action relates to kufr(covering). * When the farmer is harvesting, that is falāḥ. This gives us the picture behind the word: a kāfir is someone who receives something good (a seed) and chooses to bury it, cover it, and ignore it — “if I don’t see it, it’s not there.” Technical Meaning The technical meaning splits into two: * Qur’anic meaning — someone who receives something good (guidance, Islam) and deliberately buries and rejects it. * Fiqhī (legal) meaning — simply a non-Muslim. 7. The Qur’anic Kāfir: Al-Ghazālī’s Conditions When the Qur’an describes the kāfir being punished in the Fire eternally (khālidīna fīhā), it is not speaking about every single non-Muslim. It refers to a very specific person: one who was properly shown Islam and knowingly rejected it. Imam al-Ghazālī, in Al-Iqtiṣād fī al-I’tiqād, outlines the conditions for someone to be a kāfir in this Qur’anic, punishment sense: * He receives the da’wah in a reasonable manner — presented properly and appropriately, not through yelling, insults, or a careless “become Muslim or burn” thrown at someone. * His doubts and questions are answered. * He is given time to think and consider. * After all of this, he still rejects it. A key point on condition one: in a world where the media so often portrays Islam in a bad light, many people have never genuinely encountered it in a reasonable manner. Simply living near a masjid does not count. This is why our conduct matters so much as a minority. We are ambassadors of Islam.When a person behaves badly — parking carelessly at the masjid and blocking a neighbour, for example — people don’t blame the individual; they blame “the Muslims” and assume it reflects Islam itself. 8. Fiqhī Definition vs Qur’anic Definition These two definitions do different jobs: * The fiqhī definition is black and white. You are either a Muslim or a non-Muslim. A Muslim is someone who affirms the shahādah — belief in Allah and in the finality of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ. It determines legal rights and responsibilities in this world. * The Qur’anic definition concerns the akhirah and rests on reasonableness — which is subjective and known only to Allah. A note on the sinful Muslim: a Muslim who does not pray is still a Muslim — a sinful, bad Muslim, but a Muslim — so long as he does not deny that prayer is wājib. Denial of what is clearly obligatory is a different matter from laziness or weakness. Why the distinction matters in practice Because reasonableness is subjective, we deal with people according to the fiqhī definition, and we leave the akhirah to Allah according to the Qur’anic definition. * When a Muslim dies, there are four obligations upon the community: wash, shroud, pray over, and bury. * For a non-Muslim, this checklist does not apply. 9. What We Cannot Say We cannot point to any specific individual and declare he is going to the Fire — because we do not know whether al-Ghazālī’s conditions were met, whether his doubts were answered, or whether he accepted Islam at the very end. These are matters of the unseen, left to Allah. * We may speak in general terms: as a group, those who do not believe in Allah and His Messenger ﷺ will not enter Jannah. * We may not specify a named individual, because that person may not have met the conditions. On making du’ā: we may make du’ā for a non-Muslim while they are alive, but once they have passed away as a non-Muslim, we draw the line and do not make du’ā for them. This does not mean we insult or condemn — we remain neutral and respectful. Two real examples make the point. Telling a grieving friend that his deceased father is “going to Jahannam” is wrong both in manners and in belief. Likewise, when a convert grieving his non-Muslim mother was told at the masjid that “she died a kāfir, she is in the Fire,” that statement was wrong on both counts: disrespectful, and theologically presumptuous, because no one knows her final state. 10. The Only Exceptions We only declare a specific person to be in the Fire when the Qur’an itself tells us so. The clearest example is Abu Lahab, named in a whole surah as bound for the Fire. Others, such as Fir’aun, are also identified in the Qur’an. The reverse holds too: we do not guarantee Jannah for any specific person unless the Qur’an states it. In both directions, the final judgement belongs to Allah. Our real concern should be our own standing before Allah — not passing verdicts on where others will end up. In shā’ Allah, we continue with Ayat 6–7 next week. Thanks for reading Grounded! This post is public so feel free to share it. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.grounded.day/subscribe

    Who is a Kafir?
  4. 22 août

    Surah Al-Baqarah — Akhira Centric Mindset & Delayed Gratification

    Quick Recap * Meaning of the surah: “The Female Cow.” * Number of ayat: 286. * Nickname: The peak (summit) of the Quran. * Virtue: On the Day of Judgement, Al-Baqarah and Ali Imran will come and shade their companions. On dividing the surah: We are studying Al-Baqarah in nine parts. This division is a teaching aid created by scholars to help us navigate the surah — it is not divine. The order of the surahs themselves (Al-Baqarah, then Ali Imran) comes from Allah, but splitting a single surah into portions is a human tool. Others divide it into five, twenty, or a different number; none of them are “wrong.” Part 1 covers the groups of people. We are almost finished with the first group: the people of taqwa. Ayah 1 — Alif Lam Mim Three lessons drawn from the opening letters: * 1. To attract attention. * 2. A challenge to the Arabs. If you don’t believe the Quran is from Allah, here are the very letters it is built from — produce something like it. After 1400 years the challenge stands unmet. This is not accepted on faith alone; it is historically established, because the height of Arabic eloquence was during the Prophet’s ﷺ time, and no one then could match it. * 3. A lesson in humility. Humans do not know everything; our intellect has a limit. Ayah 2 — Guidance for the People of Taqwa The Quran is guidance for the people of taqwa. This links back to our central dua in Al-Fatihah — Ihdina as-sirat al-mustaqim (”Guide us to the straight path”). Working definition of taqwa: mindfulness of Allah Where this definition comes from: the well-known image of walking a path lined with thorns and lifting your garment to avoid being caught. That image was given by the companion Ubay ibn Ka’b, in answer to Umar ibn al-Khattab. Taqwa is internal — you cannot see it directly — but it shows through certain characteristics, listed in the ayat that follow. Ayah 3 — Three Characteristics of the People of Taqwa * 3.1 — Belief in the unseen (al-ghayb). * 3.2 — Establishing prayer (yuqimuna as-salah). * 3.3 — Charity: “and from what We have given them, they spend.” Why “from what We have given them” matters: everything we own comes from Allah. Allah is Al-Ghani, the Most Rich, who owns everything. If you spend the way He asks, He can give you more — His wealth is unlimited and does not run out. The Prophet ﷺ said the one who gives charity will never become poor. ⚠ Arabic to verify before publishing: the Arabic for ayah 3 (belief in the unseen, establishing prayer, and spending) arrived with encoding errors in the transcript and has been rendered in English only. Paste in clean Arabic if you want it displayed. Ayah 4 — Belief in Revelation Two further characteristics: * Belief in what was sent down to you — the Quran. * Belief in what was sent down before you — the previous scriptures. The previous scriptures Four scriptures total, including the Quran — so three before the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, in order: * Tawrah — revealed to Prophet Musa. * Zabur — revealed to Prophet Dawud. * Injil — revealed to Prophet Isa. Understanding the Bible Living in a globalised world, it helps to understand the landscape of the largest religion, Christianity — close to Islam in numbers. So: which of the three scriptures is the Bible? None of them, exactly. The Bible is not a single book — it is a collection of books. (The word itself relates to biblio, “book,” as in bibliophile and bibliography.) It contains a changed and combined version of these earlier revelations. The Bible has two major parts: * The Old Testament — also known as the Jewish Bible. A Jewish person referring to “the Bible” means only this. Its three major sections are abbreviated Tanakh: * T — Torah (believed to be what was revealed to Musa). * N — Nevi’im (the Prophets). * K — Ketuvim (the Writings). Zabur = Psalms sits here, as a book within this section. * The New Testament — mainly the Gospels plus letters. * Four Gospels: Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. These are gospels according to each name. * Letters: written by Paul to the early Christian communities (e.g. the Corinthians) — his written guidance in reply to their questions. Injil = “good news.” “Gospel” also means good news. The Injil we believe in is the Gospel of Isa — which we do not have today. What exists are gospels according to Mark, Matthew, Luke, and John. The first three are called the Synoptic Gospels and broadly agree; John often tells a different story. Historically these were written well after the named figures, in Greek, while Prophet Isa spoke Aramaic — and several authors never met him. Contrast: the preservation of the Quran The Quran reaches us in two independent ways that reinforce each other: * Unbroken chain of transmission. We recite exactly as the Prophet ﷺ recited — including points of articulation and the length of each sound (e.g. reading a madd at two, four, or six harakat). A reciter’s certificate can be traced back through an unbroken chain to the Prophet ﷺ. * Archaeological evidence. The oldest known Quran manuscript, the Birmingham Quran, held at the University of Birmingham, was carbon-dated (announced 2015) to around the time of the Prophet ﷺ. It reached Birmingham via Iraq during the British occupation and sat unidentified in the archives until a PhD student recognised it. Side note — early Arabic script. In the Prophet’s ﷺ time Arabic was written without dots or harakat, so words were distinguished by context. A famous (unverifiable) story tells of the governor Hajjaj ibn Yusuf receiving an undotted letter that could read either uqtul (”kill”) or aqbil (”receive”) — prompting the later introduction of dots. Even today dotting isn’t fully standardised: in the Moroccan script, for example, qaf takes a single dot and final noon is written without one. How we relate to the Bible We believe in the original Tawrah, Zabur, and Injil as revelation. Regarding the Bible in its modern form, we hold that it contains both truth and questionable material. The Prophet ﷺ guided us: you may narrate from the Israelite sources without sin — neither believing 100% nor rejecting 100%. Where it contradicts the Quran, the Quran is Muhaiminun alaih — it stands over and supersedes the rest, because its authenticity is guaranteed. This does not mean we disrespect the Bible; it still contains revelation from Allah. Ayah 5 — Certainty in the Akhirah & True Success The final characteristic: the people of taqwa are certain about the akhirah. Certainty is the operative word — not vague hope, but conviction. This certainty changes behaviour. If you are sure Allah sees you and that there are real consequences in the akhirah, you act well in public and private alike, whether or not anyone notices — because Allah knows and will compensate. The akhirah mindset = delayed gratification We already accept short-term discomfort for long-term reward: you study now (even though games are more fun) to earn good grades, a good job, and a good life later. That is a long-term view. Now scale it up — life on earth is roughly 80–100 years; the akhirah is forever. A smart person accepts a little discomfort now to secure eternal good. Just as someone serious about becoming a doctor takes biology and prepares deliberately, someone serious about Jannah does the actions that lead there. Saying you want Jannah while doing none of the work is only dreaming. The Marshmallow Test. In a well-known study, young children were left alone with one marshmallow and told that if they waited about 15 minutes without eating it, they’d get a second. Some ate immediately; some resisted and doubled their reward. Tracked into adulthood, many who couldn’t wait struggled in life, while many who waited did well. The lesson: delayed gratification is a strong predictor of success. A Muslim, trained through prayer and charity to work now for reward later, should find this second nature. The king in the masjid (an illustrative story, chain unverified). A hooded king prayed Fajr with only a handful of people, then rewarded every person present with a free Hajj. The next morning the masjid overflowed — but the king wasn’t there. The point: people chase instantreward. Prayer trains us for the opposite — to put in the work now and collect later. The word for “successful”: muflihun Allah calls these people al-muflihun, the successful — from the root falah. There are other words for success (fawz, fa’izin), but the same root also gives fallah, “farmer.” A farmer is the very picture of delayed gratification: plant, water, and protect the crop now; harvest much later. Placed right after prayer, charity, and belief in the akhirah, the choice of muflihun reminds us again: put in the work now, harvest it in the akhirah. Summary — Characteristics of the People of Taqwa * Belief in the unseen. * Establishing prayer. * Spending in charity from what Allah has given. * Belief in the Quran and in the previous scriptures. * Certainty in the akhirah. These are the people of guidance, and these are al-muflihun — the truly successful. Next week: a short continuation, then the second category of people. Come prepared to list the characteristics of the people of taqwa from memory. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.grounded.day/subscribe

    Surah Al-Baqarah — Akhira Centric Mindset & Delayed Gratification
  5. 20 août

    The Most Peaceful Sleep

    This is a free preview of a paid episode. To hear more, visit www.grounded.day Quran at Home. Each week we take some ayat from the Qur’an. On Tuesday we read them and learn their tajweed. On Thursday we look into their meaning and draw out lessons we can live by. Why Surah al-Kahf Rasūlullāh ﷺ encouraged us to recite Surah al-Kahf at least once a week. It protects us from the Dajjāl and from the fitnah — the trials and systems — of the Dajjāl. The Dajjāl may not be here yet, but read the surah closely and you will see the signs of what he represents already around us. If you cannot read the whole surah, read the first ten ayat and the last ten. If you cannot manage that, read the first ten. Better still, memorise the first ten — it is not long, barely a minute or a minute and a half to recite, yet it carries barakah, protection, and a meaning that is profound when you reflect on it. Grounded is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Where we are in the story Last week we stopped at ayah 15, with the young men of the cave — the Aṣḥāb al-Kahf. Allah tells us plainly that they were youth: a group of young men who, when the whole village gave up and submitted to the tyrant of the day and worshipped idols, refused. They would not obey the creation in disobedience to the Creator. They held their faith with Allah, and as they were about to flee, they made their duʿāʾ: رَبَّنَا آتِنَا مِن لَّدُنكَ رَحْمَةً وَهَيِّئْ لَنَا مِنْ أَمْرِنَا رَشَدًا “Our Lord, grant us mercy from Yourself, and prepare for us right guidance in our affair.” They asked for two things: raḥmah — mercy, care, protection — directly from Allah; and that Allah would straighten and manage their affairs as they left the city. Ayah 16 — Allah answers the duʿāʾ وَإِذِ اعْتَزَلْتُمُوهُمْ وَمَا يَعْبُدُونَ إِلَّا اللَّهَ فَأْوُوا إِلَى الْكَهْفِ يَنشُرْ لَكُمْ رَبُّكُم مِّن رَّحْمَتِهِ وَيُهَيِّئْ لَكُم مِّنْ أَمْرِكُم مِّرْفَقًا “And when you have withdrawn from them and from what they worship except Allah, retreat to the cave. Your Lord will spread out for you His mercy and make your affair easy for you.” A few ayat earlier they were speaking to Allah. Now Allah speaks directly to them. Notice the word iʿtazaltumūhum — from ʿuzlah, which is to withdraw, to go on a spiritual retreat. People go on ʿuzlah to focus on reciting or memorising Qur’an, or on their adhkār. Allah is telling them: you have withdrawn from these people and from everything they worship besides Me — now take shelter in the cave. When you imagine a cave, you imagine a tight, claustrophobic space — a group of young men crammed in with nowhere to go. But Allah says yanshur lakum — He will spread it out, make it wide and comfortable for you. The world sees a crowded, closed space. Allah makes it vast. And He says this comes min raḥmatih, from His mercy — the very thing they had just asked for. Then yuhayyiʾ lakum min amrikum mirfaqā — and He will make your affair easy for you. They had asked Allah to manage their affairs; Allah answers with mirfaqā. From the same root comes rafīq — a close friend whose company you truly enjoy. It is one of the last words the Prophet ﷺ spoke as he was passing: ilā r-rafīqi l-aʿlā — to the highest companion. Mirfaqā means Allah will make their affairs not merely bearable but comfortable, something they would come to love, so that they would not feel the discomfort of their situation at all. Grounded is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. The pattern: plan, act, then trust Look closely at how the duʿāʾ was answered. They made duʿāʾ — and then they moved. They got up and left. Only once they were moving did Allah manage their affairs. This is the pattern for us. You plan. You take action. You make duʿāʾ and place your trust in Allah. Then you watch how things change. The duʿāʾ is not a substitute for effort, and effort is not a substitute for tawakkul. They come together. Ayah 17 — the detail of the cave وَتَرَى الشَّمْسَ إِذَا طَلَعَت تَّزَاوَرُ عَن كَهْفِهِمْ ذَاتَ الْيَمِينِ وَإِذَا غَرَبَت تَّقْرِضُهُمْ ذَاتَ الشِّمَالِ وَهُمْ فِي فَجْوَةٍ مِّنْهُ ذَٰلِكَ مِنْ آيَاتِ اللَّهِ “You would see the sun, when it rose, inclining away from their cave on the right, and when it set, passing them by on the left, while they were in an open space within it. That is from the signs of Allah.” This is striking, because in the Qur’an many historical stories are left without detail. Who exactly were the Aṣḥāb al-Kahf? Which city? How old? What were their names? We are not told. All we know is that they were young men. The point is not their biography — the point is: protect your īmān at all costs. But where a detail serves our guidance, Allah spells it out. And here the detail of the cave is spelled out beautifully.

    The Most Peaceful Sleep

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