Guyset

Josh Felgoise

Guyset is your go-to source for genuine conversations about modern manhood, relationships, and personal growth. This podcast breaks down the stuff nobody teaches you, from dating and relationships to building your career and figuring out who you are. Each week, Josh Felgoise creates a space where guys can explore topics like emotional intelligence, dating, career advancement, mental health, and finding purpose, all without the toxic masculinity. From relationship advice to self-improvement strategies, from funny stories to deep discussions, Guyset delivers the real talk men need in today's world. Whether you're looking to level up your dating game, advance your career, or simply connect with other like-minded guys, this podcast offers practical wisdom and authentic perspectives that actually make a difference. Subscribe for weekly episodes that tackle everything from everyday challenges to life's biggest questions, all delivered with humor, honesty, and zero judgment.

  1. 4일 전

    Breakups, Bad Sex, and What To Do Next, Dear Guyset

    How do you respond to a breakup text? Should you send one after a few dates? What if sex felt awkward the first time? And how do you actually come across as confident on a date? In this episode of Guyset, I answer real questions guys are asking about breakups, awkward sex, confidence, rejection, and navigating situations no one really prepares you for. If you've ever overthought a text, felt unsure after a hookup, or questioned how you come across on a date, this episode will give you real, honest perspective on what to do next. This episode covers: How to respond to a breakup text (and what not to say) Whether you should send a breakup text after 2–3 dates How many drinks is too many at a work happy hour What to do if sex felt awkward or "bad" How to come across as more confident on a date How to deal with rejection (especially when you really wanted something) Timestamps: 02:33 How do I respond to a breakup text? 06:55 Should I send a breakup text after 2–3 dates? 09:16 How many drinks should you have at a work happy hour? 15:36 I felt bad after having sex, where do I go from here? 20:53 How do I come across as more confident on a date? 25:20 I didn't get the job I wanted, how do I deal with rejection? For More: Watch the full episode on YouTube: @guyset Instagram: @guysetpodcast Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ See you guys next Tuesday!

    35분

  2. 4월 14일

    The Daily Practice: How to Stay Consistent When Motivation Fades

    How do you stay consistent when motivation disappears? What does it actually take to build something, stay disciplined, and get better over time? In this episode of Guyset, I break down the concept of the daily practice and why consistency, discipline, and belief are the real difference between people who succeed and people who don't. I talk about a Juilliard flute player who practices 5+ times a day, Elizabeth Gilbert's perspective on handling both failure and massive success, and what 150 episodes of Guyset has taught me about showing up every single day. If you've been feeling stuck, unmotivated, or unsure if what you're doing is working, this episode will help you build momentum and stay consistent even when motivation fades. This episode covers: How to build a daily practice and actually stick to it Why success and failure can feel more similar than you'd expect What 150 episodes taught me about long-term consistency How to stay disciplined when motivation is completely gone The mindset shift that separates people who build something from people who don't Motivation is fleeting. Belief isn't. And consistency is the flex. Timestamps: 00:45 150 episodes in and what this episode is about 02:30 The daily practice concept explained 03:30 The Juilliard flute player story 07:15 What it actually takes to be great 08:45 Elizabeth Gilbert and handling success vs failure 13:45 Coming back to what you love 16:00 What building Guyset taught me 18:30 The reality of inconsistency, doubt, and rejection 20:30 Why motivation isn't enough 22:00 Consistency, belief, and long-term growth 23:45 Final takeaway: consistency is the flex Watch the full episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@guyset Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guysetpodcast/ See you next Tuesday!

    27분

  3. 4월 7일

    How To Stand Out In Dating

    How do you actually stand out in dating today? What makes someone memorable on a first date, and what small things actually make a difference? In this episode of Guyset, I break down how to stand out in early dating, from texting and confirming plans to what to say on a date, how to ask better questions, and the small details that make you more attractive without trying too hard. I talk about: • How to confirm a date (and why it matters more than you think) • What to text before and after a date • The best questions to ask on a first date • How to show confidence without being cocky • First date etiquette, paying, and planning • How to stand out through communication, energy, and effort If you've ever wondered: How do I stand out on a date? What makes someone attractive early on? What should I text before or after a date? How do I stop overthinking dating? This episode breaks it down in a way that's simple, practical, and actually useful. Timestamps: 02:30 Modern Dating Has Changed 04:40 Confirming the Date (The #1 Way to Stand Out) 06:50 What to Text Before a Date 11:30 Asking Questions (What Most Guys Get Wrong) 18:20 Easy Conversation Topics 20:50 Confidence vs. Cockiness 25:30 First Date Etiquette (Manners and Who Should Pay) 29:45 What to Text After a Date 32:00 Planning the Second Date 34:15 Extra Ways to Stand Out 41:10 Final Thoughts + Outro Subscribe, give this episode 5 stars, and leave a review! For More: Watch the full episode on YouTube: @guyset Instagram: @guysetpodcast Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ See you guys next Tuesday!

    45분

  4. 3월 31일

    Am I Settling?

    Am I settling… or am I just comfortable? There's a point in your 20s where everything looks fine on the surface. You have a job, a routine, maybe you're dating someone, maybe you like where you live. But underneath that, there's this quiet question that keeps coming up… is this really it? In this episode of Guyset, I break down what it actually means to be "settled" and why it's so hard to tell the difference between being happy and just being comfortable. We talk about the three biggest areas where people settle without realizing it, career, where you live, and dating, and how fear and routine keep you stuck even when you know you want more. I also share a personal story about almost turning down a huge opportunity because I was too comfortable, and the exact questions you can ask yourself to figure out if you're settling and what to do about it. If something feels off in your life right now, there's probably a reason. This episode helps you figure out what that is and what to do about it. Timestamps: 00:00 The moment you start questioning your life 04:53 Comfort vs risk and why we stay stuck 09:27 Almost turning down a life-changing opportunity 16:06 Why it's so hard to take a risk on yourself 20:34 Settling in where you live 27:20 Settling in dating and relationships 29:40 How to know if you're settling 36:50 Why advice doesn't turn into action 41:29 No one is going to give you permission For More: Watch the full episode on YouTube: @guyset Instagram: @guysetpodcast Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ See you guys next Tuesday!

    46분

  5. 3월 24일

    She Didn't Text Back, Dear Guyset

    How often should you shave? Should you be using dating apps or trying to meet someone out? And what does it actually mean when she doesn't text you back after a great night? In this Dear Guyset episode, I'm answering some of the most common dating and relationship questions guys don't know where to ask out loud. We're talking about grooming and confidence, dating apps vs real life, texting anxiety, hookup culture, relationship pressure, and how to balance your friends with the person you're seeing. If you've ever wondered: • How often should you shave? • Are dating apps better than meeting someone out? • She didn't text back… is it over? • Why do I feel pressure to be in a relationship? • How do I balance friends and a girlfriend? • Is it okay to go home with someone after the bar? • How have dating apps actually changed dating? This episode breaks it down in a way that takes the pressure off and gives you real perspective. I'm not an expert. I'm just a 25 year old guy figuring this out alongside you. But I believe guys should be talking about this stuff instead of overthinking it alone. If you're navigating dating, texting, confidence, or just trying to figure out where you're at, this one's for you. Timestamps: 00:00 Intro 00:17 What Dear Guyset is + why these questions matter 02:38 How often should you shave? 09:27 Dating apps vs meeting someone out 11:44 She didn't text back… is it over? 15:18 Why do I feel pressure to be in a relationship? 22:16 Balancing friends and a relationship 26:33 Staying in touch with friends as a guy 28:57 Is it okay to go home with someone after the bar? 31:17 How dating apps have changed dating 33:39 What makes a good Hinge profile? (next episode teaser) 35:00 Outro New episodes every Tuesday. Ask me anything at guyset.com. Watch the full episode on YouTube: @guyset Instagram: @guysetpodcast Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ See you guys next Tuesday!

    37분

  6. 3월 17일

    Hurry! Your Seasonal Depression is Lifting

    In the past few months, have you felt a little off? Like you've been tired, unmotivated, or just not feeling like yourself for no clear reason? In this episode of Guyset, I talk about something a lot of people experience but don't always have a name for: seasonal depression. When winter drags on, the days get shorter, the sun disappears earlier, and it can quietly affect your mood, motivation, and energy. But then something happens. The sun comes back. The weather warms up. And suddenly it feels like a weight lifts off your shoulders. In this episode, I talk about that exact moment and how you can use the return of sunlight and spring energy as a reset. Instead of beating yourself up for the winter slump, this is the perfect time to restart goals, rebuild habits, and regain momentum. I also share the mindset shifts that helped me move through the winter months and how to take advantage of the motivation that comes when the season changes. If you've been feeling stuck lately, this episode is a reminder that sometimes nothing is "wrong" with you. Sometimes it's just winter. And the good news is: it's lifting. What You'll Leanr In This Episode • Why winter can quietly affect your mood and motivation • What seasonal depression actually is and why it happens • Why sunlight and longer days can instantly change your mindset • How to use the shift from winter to spring as a personal reset • How to rebuild routines, habits, and goals after a winter slump • Why you shouldn't beat yourself up for losing momentum Timestamps: 00:00 Welcome to Guyset 00:17 Why winter can make you feel "off" 02:31 What seasonal depression actually is 04:50 When winter sadness becomes something deeper 07:04 The moment the sun comes back and everything changes 09:26 Why defining what you're feeling helps 11:50 Why sunlight and longer days affect motivation 14:09 The "spring reset" mindset 16:32 Revisiting goals you set earlier in the year 18:45 Why routines matter more than motivation 20:52 Resetting fitness and health goals before summer 22:56 Stop beating yourself up for winter productivity 25:20 Giving yourself credit for making it through winter 27:41 Why motivation is unreliable and habits matter more 29:52 Outro Listen to Guyset: a podcast answering the real questions guys ask about dating, confidence, career, mindset, and life in your 20s. New episodes every Tuesday. If you enjoy the show, please follow the podcast and leave a 5-star review. It helps more people discover the show.

    31분

  7. 3월 10일

    How to Stand Out at Work

    How do you actually stand out at work? Whether you are starting your first job, beginning a new role, or a few years into your career, there are simple habits that make a huge difference in how people see you at work. In this episode of Guyset, I talk about the things that actually matter if you want to succeed in your job. Not the corporate clichés. The real habits that make people stand out to their boss, earn trust from coworkers, and build a reputation as someone people want on their team. I share the career advice I wish someone sat me down and told me before my first job. The small things that change how people see you at work. The mindset that helps you grow faster in your career. And the simple actions that make you more valuable in almost any workplace. We talk about how to show up present in the office, how to ask better questions, why speaking early in meetings matters, how to build real relationships with coworkers, and why asking for feedback can completely change how you grow in a job. If you want to get better at your job, build confidence at work, and learn how to stand out without trying to be the loudest person in the room, this episode will give you a framework you can start using immediately. Topics in this episode include: • How to stand out at work • Career advice for your first job • How to ask better questions at work • Why speaking early in meetings matters • How to build relationships with coworkers • Why feedback is one of the fastest ways to improve at your job • The habits that help you succeed in any workplace If you have ever wondered how to succeed at work, how to make a good impression at a new job, or how to grow in your career early on, this episode is for you. Timestamps 00:00 Introduction 00:45 The question: what actually matters when you start a job? 02:30 Why nobody teaches you how to succeed at work 09:20 Start your day present (no AirPods rule) 14:10 Ask "How can I help?" 17:55 Why asking questions early matters 22:10 Speak early in meetings 25:40 The coffee chat mentality at work 32:30 Why leaving after your boss matters 34:40 Ask for feedback regularly 37:00 Why you should not take feedback personally 40:20 The attitude that helps you succeed at work 41:45 Final thoughts and closing Watch the full episode on YouTube here: @guyset Follow on Instagram: @guysetpodcast Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ See you next Tuesday!

    45분

  8. 3월 3일

    How to Stay in Touch With Friends As You Get Older

    As you get older, staying in touch with friends gets harder. Life gets busier. People move cities. Careers take off. Relationships start. And suddenly, the friends you used to see every day become the friends you "need to catch up with." In this episode of Guyset, I talk about why adult friendships naturally shift over time and why it takes real effort to maintain connection as life changes. Whether you're navigating long-distance friendships, struggling to keep up with friends after college, or just realizing you haven't seen someone important to you in months, this episode is for you. I break down three simple ways to stay in touch with friends as you get older: • How to actually make plans that stick • The 7-minute phone call rule • Why sending the text when you think of someone matters Friendships evolve. That doesn't mean they disappear. It just means they require intention. If you've ever wondered how to maintain friendships as an adult, how to stay close to long-distance friends, or how to keep meaningful relationships strong as life gets busier, this episode gives you practical advice you can use immediately. Timestamps: 00:00 Why staying in touch gets harder as you get older 04:45 The moment you realize you haven't seen a close friend in months 09:35 Why adult life pulls friendships apart 18:30 Tip #1: Put a date on the calendar 23:16 Tip #2: The 7-Minute Phone Call Rule 27:43 Tip #3: Send the text when you think of them 30:01 Final thoughts For More: Watch the full episode on YouTube: @guyset Instagram: @guysetpodcast Daily blog posts: https://guyset.com/ Ask Me Anything: https://guyset.com/ask-me-anything See you guys next Tuesday!

    32분
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Guyset is your go-to source for genuine conversations about modern manhood, relationships, and personal growth. This podcast breaks down the stuff nobody teaches you, from dating and relationships to building your career and figuring out who you are. Each week, Josh Felgoise creates a space where guys can explore topics like emotional intelligence, dating, career advancement, mental health, and finding purpose, all without the toxic masculinity. From relationship advice to self-improvement strategies, from funny stories to deep discussions, Guyset delivers the real talk men need in today's world. Whether you're looking to level up your dating game, advance your career, or simply connect with other like-minded guys, this podcast offers practical wisdom and authentic perspectives that actually make a difference. Subscribe for weekly episodes that tackle everything from everyday challenges to life's biggest questions, all delivered with humor, honesty, and zero judgment.

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  • 제작진
    Josh Felgoise
  • 방송 연도
    2023년 - 2026년
  • 에피소드
    151
  • 등급
    무삭제판
  • 저작권
    © 2025
  • 웹사이트 보기
    Guyset

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