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Paul Fattinger & Marc Winter
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Two guys old enough to know better—but curious enough to keep asking. A former CEO and an undercover poet—from Vienna and New York, two longtime friends share (lightly) decanted reflections on life, work, and everything in between. Guys Like Us — home of champagne problems and existential questions. IG: https://www.instagram.com/guyslikeus.official/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulfattinger/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marc-winter-6138679/

  1. 4D AGO

    The Only Leadership Skill AI Won't Replace: Imagination | Ep 35

    We love to believe AI will just make us faster and better at what we already do, but what if the whole game changes? What if the only thing that actually matters in three years is imagination — and we've spent decades training people to strip that quality out? This week, we sit down with a deck of provocative cards Marc designed for his new firm, Libra Collective, that forces leaders to make hard choices about the future. We debate whether we'll pay for outcomes instead of hours, if processes will vanish entirely, and why the best engineers are realizing their dream job is about to become babysitting AI agents all day. Paul makes a brilliant contrarian case: processes will become more critical, not less, because compute is expensive and agents need structure to stay efficient. We also touch on dark data as the last real competitive moat, culture as the only currency left to recruit talent, and why OpenAI won't be profitable until 2030. Plus: Paul's chaotic stint as a birthday party referee, Marc's three-night detox confession, and the legendary saga of Afro Man vs. Officer Poundcake.  Chapters: 03:05 The Libra Collective and AI Leadership 06:11 Exploring AI's Impact on Work and Society 08:52 The Future of Work: Making Choices in AI Era 09:35 Outcome-Based Compensation in the AI Landscape 12:28 The Role of Imagination in Leadership 15:35 Differentiating Leadership in the Age of AI 18:23 The Evolution of Leadership in Corporate Settings 20:31 The Role of Imagination in Business 23:19 Processes and AI: A New Paradigm 25:57 Fluid Leadership and Project-Based Teams 27:57 Culture as the New Currency 28:16 Understanding Dark Data and Its Value 32:26 Terminator and Idiot of the Week  | Ep 35

    38 min

  2. MAR 17

    How to Not Lose Your Friends in Midlife | Ep 34

    Let's be real: keeping friendships alive when you have kids, demanding jobs, and live in different time zones is tough. It’s incredibly easy to let a great friendship slip through your fingers just because you don't see each other every week. In this quick-hit episode, Paul and Marc sit down across continents to share what actually works for keeping your crew together in your 40s. From intentionally designing an annual ritual like a ski trip or boys weekend, to the ultimate cheat code of making sure your wives genuinely like each other, we cover the real mechanics of midlife friendship. We also share a few low-pressure ways to stay connected when you just don’t have time for a massive catch-up call. Chapters: 0:00 Introduction 02:59 Maintaining Connections Across Continents 05:47 Creating Rituals for Friendship 08:49 Integrating Families for Stronger Bonds 11:59 The Power of Shared Experiences 15:06 Quick Tips for Staying in Touch 18:00 Idiot of the Week and Closing Thoughts  | Ep 34

    21 min

  3. MAR 10

    The Micro-Retirement/ Sabbatical Blueprint | Ep 33

    It’s easy to tell yourself you’ll finally take a break when the timing is perfect, the bank account is full, and your career is completely secure. But let's be real—that day never comes. In this episode, we sit down to talk about sabbaticals, micro retirements, and the fear of letting go of our workaholic tendencies. Paul shares the messy reality of his 12-month sabbatical, including how long it actually took his brain to stop treating rest like a to-do list. Meanwhile, Marc talks through the tension of wanting a creative escape but being terrified of losing professional momentum right when things are getting interesting. If you’ve ever caught yourself checking Slack just to feel useful, or if you're waiting for life to magically calm down before you finally take a breath, this one is for you. | Ep 33 Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Micro Retirements 09:29 The Concept of Sabbaticals 12:36 Personal Experiences with Sabbaticals 18:11 The Importance of Intentional Breaks 23:56 The Future of Productivity and Breaks 27:25 Triggers and Intentions for a Sabbatical 32:01 Balancing Family and Career Aspirations 34:55 The Financial Realities of Taking Time Off 38:31 The Importance of Taking a Sabbatical 44:41 Terminator and Idiot of the Week

    50 min

  4. MAR 3

    Never Let the Old Man In | Ep 32

    Have you noticed how some guys in their 40s are still fiercely vibrant, while others seem perfectly content to just shut down the fun engine and stay on the couch? This week, we're looking at what it really means to "keep the old man out." Inspired by some legendary advice from Clint Eastwood, we're defining the difference between just getting older and actually giving up on life. We outline five core attributes—curiosity, play, community, creation, and flexibility—that help you keep your edge. We also catch up on a chaotic week between Paris and Berlin, debate the difference between resting and retiring, and hand out our usual Terminator and Idiot of the Week awards. Grab a coffee (or some good digestion tea) and join us. | Ep 32 00:00 Introduction to Midlife Questions08:15 Defining Aging and Its Challenges15:00 The Shift in Lifestyle Choices20:02 The Vibrancy of Life Beyond Youth25:28 The Importance of Play and Fun31:18 Balancing Change and Stability35:17 Terminator and Idiot of the Week

    41 min

  5. FEB 24

    Why Money Is the #1 Relationship Killer | Ep 31

    Statistically, 40% of divorces are linked to financial stress. So why is talking about our bank accounts still such a massive taboo? Paul and Marc get honest about the "baggage" we bring into relationships—from the way our parents handled money to the secret shame of "financial infidelity." Whether it’s the tension of who pays for dinner, the power struggle of the "provider" role, or the debate over joint vs. separate bank accounts, money is rarely just about the math. It’s about security, ego, and the life you’re trying to build together. The guys also share their "Terminator" and "Idiot" of the week, featuring a toothless hockey hero, a blizzard-dodging flight to Paris, and a very expensive booking mistake. It’s a raw look at the currency of modern relationships. | Ep 42 00:00 Introduction to Money in Relationships06:29 The Impact of Financial Stress on Relationships10:29 Personal Experiences with Money in Relationships15:22 Financial Independence and Relationship Dynamics19:20 Financial Infidelity and Its Consequences25:17 Friendship and Financial Trust28:20 Evolving Perspectives on Financial Roles31:27 The Impact of Upbringing on Financial Views35:36 Money Conversations in Relationships39:25 Defining Lifestyle and Financial Goals43:35 Terminator and Idiot of the Week

    48 min

  6. FEB 17

    Is Knowledge Work Actually Dead? | Ep 30

    Is your job about to evaporate? Marc just returned from Silicon Valley with a stark report: the vibe has shifted from predicting the future to a state of low-key panic. We explore the "something big is happening" moment that mirrors the weeks before the 2020 lockdowns, where the traditional model of knowledge work is facing an existential crisis. Paul shares how he effectively replaced a junior analyst and an M&A partner using Claude agents for 45 minutes—completing a financial model and a 20-page market report that used to take weeks. We also dive into the surreal world of the $65k Alpha School in NYC, where kids master academics via AI in two hours so they can focus on "life skills" like looking people in the eye. If you’re in your 40s watching your industry shift and wondering where your "human premium" still exists, this conversation on subtraction versus addition is for you. 05:17 Insights from Silicon Valley and AI's Impact11:14 The Duality of AI: Subtraction vs. Addition15:56 The Future of Knowledge Work19:50 Harnessing AI for Personal Projects22:59 Crisis of Meaning in the Age of AI28:09 Navigating Uncertainty and Change33:45 The Role of Creativity in the AI Era39:26 Preparing the Next Generation for AI42:39 Terminator and Idiot of the Week

    48 min

  7. FEB 10

    Sick Days, Snow Days, and Survival | Ep 29

    In this episode, Marc and Paul discuss the challenges and experiences of parenting during midlife, focusing on the themes of sick days and snow days. They share personal anecdotes about dealing with extreme weather, illness in the family, and the emotional connections that arise during these times. The conversation explores the balance between maintaining routines and allowing for flexibility, as well as the creative strategies parents can employ to engage their children during difficult times. Ultimately, the episode highlights the importance of being present for children when they need support and the unique bonding moments that can arise from shared experiences of vulnerability. 07:04 Experiencing Illness in the Family13:57 The Challenges of Parenting During Illness16:58 Expectations vs. Reality of Snow Days18:41 Navigating Parenting During Illness21:43 Bonding Moments and Vulnerability24:53 Quality Time and Connection27:53 Creative Parenting Strategies30:23 Reflections on Parenting Challenges32:00 Terminator and Idiot of the Week

    40 min

  8. FEB 3

    The leap: Marc is quitting his job | Ep 28

    In this episode, Marc and Paul discuss Marc's recent career transition, the psychology of risk-taking, and the importance of support networks in navigating significant life changes. They explore the challenges and rewards of starting a new venture in the age of AI, reflecting on personal experiences and insights gained along the way. The conversation touches on themes of confidence, imposter syndrome, and the necessity of creating something valuable in today's rapidly changing landscape. 02:13 Marc's Career Transition and New Ventures06:03 The Psychology of Risk and Decision Making12:02 Building a Leadership Firm in the Age of AI17:57 The Importance of Support Networks23:53 Navigating the Leap of Faith29:45 Reflections on Imposter Syndrome and Confidence33:40 Real talk about risk37:49 Terminator and Idiot of the Week

    42 min
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Two guys old enough to know better—but curious enough to keep asking. A former CEO and an undercover poet—from Vienna and New York, two longtime friends share (lightly) decanted reflections on life, work, and everything in between. Guys Like Us — home of champagne problems and existential questions. IG: https://www.instagram.com/guyslikeus.official/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulfattinger/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marc-winter-6138679/

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  • Creator
    Paul Fattinger & Marc Winter
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    36
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Paul Fattinger & Marc Winter
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