guyslikeus

Paul Fattinger & Marc Winter

Two guys old enough to know better—but curious enough to keep asking. A former CEO and an undercover poet—from Vienna and New York, two longtime friends share (lightly) decanted reflections on life, work, and everything in between. Guys Like Us — home of champagne problems and existential questions. IG: https://www.instagram.com/guyslikeus.official/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulfattinger/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marc-winter-6138679/

  1. 4D AGO

    guyslikeus EP28: Marc is starting his own business - about taking a leap

    In this episode, Marc and Paul discuss Marc's recent career transition, the psychology of risk-taking, and the importance of support networks in navigating significant life changes. They explore the challenges and rewards of starting a new venture in the age of AI, reflecting on personal experiences and insights gained along the way. The conversation touches on themes of confidence, imposter syndrome, and the necessity of creating something valuable in today's rapidly changing landscape. 02:13 Marc's Career Transition and New Ventures06:03 The Psychology of Risk and Decision Making12:02 Building a Leadership Firm in the Age of AI17:57 The Importance of Support Networks23:53 Navigating the Leap of Faith29:45 Reflections on Imposter Syndrome and Confidence33:40 Real talk about risk37:49 Terminator and Idiot of the Week

    42 min

  2. JAN 27

    guyslikeus EP27: AI in Guys Like Us' lives

    In this conversation, Marc and Paul explore the intersection of AI, midlife reflections, and the evolving nature of work. They discuss how AI impacts daily life, creativity, and professional efficiency, while also addressing the challenges of adoption in organizations. The conversation delves into the philosophical implications of AI, the importance of dignity in work, and the future workforce dynamics. Ultimately, they emphasize the need for human connection and understanding in an increasingly automated world. 02:12 Personal Experiences with AI04:08 AI in Professional Life07:13 Creative Uses of AI10:03 AI as a Tool for Productivity13:17 The Future of Work with AI15:49 Industry Disruption by AI23:21 Legal Constraints and Automation Challenges27:03 Understanding Workflows for Effective Automation31:45 The Dichotomy of Adoption: Fast vs. Slow37:10 The Philosophical Implications of Digital Twins41:58 Dignity in the Age of Automation45:50 The Human Connection in an Automated World46:28 Terminator and Idiot of the Week

    50 min

  3. JAN 20

    guyslikeus EP26: about money and what is enough

    In this episode of "Guys Like Us," hosts Marc and Paul dive into the complex topic of money, exploring its implications on happiness, lifestyle, and personal values. They reflect on their recent experiences, including skiing trips and movie nights, before transitioning into a deeper discussion about the societal pressures surrounding wealth accumulation. The conversation highlights the contrasting mindsets between Americans and Europeans regarding financial success, with Americans often chasing higher figures without considering the personal costs involved. Marc and Paul also touch on the concept of 'lifestyle creep' and how the goalposts for success seem to keep moving, leading to a perpetual state of dissatisfaction for many. They emphasize the importance of defining what 'enough' means for oneself and how financial wealth should ideally support other aspects of life, such as health and relationships. 04:41 Cultural Perspectives on Wealth08:21 The Cost of Pursuing Wealth12:33 Happiness and Money: The Research17:22 Finding Balance: Ambition vs. Contentment20:13 The Pursuit of Wealth and Lifestyle Choices21:28 Defining Your Impact and Purpose23:46 Lifestyle Creep and Its Consequences25:26 The Role of Money in Achieving Balance27:48 Exploring the Five Types of Wealth30:29 What Is Enough? Reflecting on Personal Values34:51 Terminator and Idiot of the Week

    40 min

  4. JAN 13

    guyslikeus EP25: with Oti the Skillbeast - staying fit for guys like us, and many other things

    In this episode, the hosts discuss various aspects of fitness, personal growth, and the challenges faced by individuals in their middle age. Oti shares his journey from sports to personal training, emphasizing the importance of mental health and physical fitness. The conversation touches on New Year's resolutions, the impact of aging on health, and the significance of nutrition and lifestyle choices. The hosts also explore common mistakes made by men over 40 in their fitness journeys and the importance of finding a balance between physical and mental well-being. In this conversation, Oti Skillbeast shares his personal journey of overcoming depression and health issues through dietary changes, particularly by cutting sugar. He discusses the pervasive nature of sugar in our diets, its addictive qualities, and the significant health risks associated with it. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of whole foods, exercise, and lifestyle changes in achieving better health. The speakers also touch on the misconceptions surrounding calories and the necessity of having support in making dietary changes. 06:59 Oti's Journey: From Sports to Personal Training11:49 Overcoming Burnout and Finding Purpose16:50 Building a Personal Brand in Fitness19:47 The Evolution of Training and Body Awareness29:52 The Fascination with the Human Body and Parenthood30:47 Common Mistakes in Fitness for Men Over 4034:22 The Importance of Professional Guidance36:38 Understanding Muscle and Bone Density Loss38:51 The Impact of Running on Fitness41:44 The Role of Sugar in Health and Weight Management44:43 Overcoming Depression Through Diet Changes46:01 The Addictive Nature of Sugar54:38 The Importance of Realistic Goals in Fitness59:44 Understanding Protein Intake and Alcohol Consumption01:02:39 Exercise Regimens for Optimal Health01:09:38 Terminator and Idiot of the Week

    1h 15m

  5. JAN 6

    guyslikeus EP24: the Art and Science of New Years Resolutions

    In this episode, Paul and Marc discuss the significance of New Year's resolutions, the importance of reflection, and the power of setting themes for the year ahead. They explore the common pitfalls of resolutions, the value of creating habits, and the balance between setting goals and trusting the universe. The conversation also touches on various rituals and traditions associated with the New Year, emphasizing the need for personal growth and accountability. 00:00 Welcome to 2026: New Beginnings03:02 Reflections on Holidays and Family Traditions06:01 The Truth About New Year's Resolutions08:54 The Power of Reflection and Mindfulness12:05 Setting Goals vs. Creating Habits14:54 Themes for the New Year: A Personal Approach20:17 The Year of Reflection and Preparation26:01 Understanding Resolutions and Their Impact30:00 The Balance of Trusting the Universe and Taking Action33:38 Personal Experiences with Resolutions and Goals36:00 Terminator and Idiot of the Week

    40 min

  6. 12/23/2025

    guyslikeus EP23: Merry X-mas, 5 gifts for each of us

    In this festive episode of 'Guys Like Us', hosts Paul and Marc celebrate Christmas by sharing personal reflections, discussing holiday traditions, and engaging in a light-hearted gift exchange. The conversation flows from their Christmas experiences to the thoughtful gifts they would give each other, emphasizing the importance of friendship and shared experiences during the holiday season.

    15 min

  7. 12/16/2025

    guyslikeus EP22: about being a father

    In this episode, Paul and Marc delve into the complexities of fatherhood, particularly in the context of midlife. They explore themes of vulnerability, the impact of father absence, and the evolution of fatherhood roles over time. The conversation highlights the importance of presence versus quality in parenting, the influence of COVID on perspectives about time and family, and the lessons learned from their own fathers. They also discuss the significance of physicality in father-son relationships and the emotional availability required in modern parenting. 03:01 Navigating Fatherhood Challenges06:01 Exploring Vulnerability in Modern Masculinity09:10 The Impact of Father Absence11:55 Generational Differences in Parenting14:49 Evolving Roles of Fathers Through Eras17:53 Personal Reflections on Parenting Styles24:40 The Foundations of Fatherhood30:29 The Impact of COVID on Parenting Perspectives34:19 The Importance of Presence in Parenting39:20 Physicality and Emotional Availability in Fatherhood43:01 The Influence of Fathers on Daughters43:37: Terminator and Idiot of the Week

    47 min

  8. 12/09/2025

    guyslikeus EP21: about modern masculinity - inspired (not solely) by "notes on being a man"

    In this episode of Guys Like Us, hosts Marc and Paul delve into the complexities of modern masculinity, inspired by Scott Galloway's book 'Notes on Being a Man.' They discuss the changing roles of father figures, the impact of societal shifts on men's mental health, and the importance of vulnerability alongside strength. The conversation emphasizes the need for a shared vision of masculinity and the significance of addressing men's issues without overshadowing women's experiences. Through personal anecdotes and statistics, the hosts explore the challenges faced by today's men and the evolving definitions of manhood. 00:00 Intro and Banter 10:22 Exploring Modern Masculinity 24:39 The Evolution of Father Figures 28:46 The Dating Crisis: Gender Dynamics 30:38 Social Isolation Among Young Men 31:49 The Reaction to Discussing Men's Issues 34:36 Vulnerability vs. Strength in Modern Manhood 37:00 Redefining Masculinity in Today's Society 40:41 The Role of Fathers and Male Role Models 42:23 The Need for Collective Purpose 47:24 Elevating Men's Issues  48:40 Terminator and Idiot of the Week

    54 min
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Two guys old enough to know better—but curious enough to keep asking. A former CEO and an undercover poet—from Vienna and New York, two longtime friends share (lightly) decanted reflections on life, work, and everything in between. Guys Like Us — home of champagne problems and existential questions. IG: https://www.instagram.com/guyslikeus.official/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulfattinger/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marc-winter-6138679/

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  • Creator
    Paul Fattinger & Marc Winter
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    29
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Paul Fattinger & Marc Winter
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