Happily Murrayed

Cutdown & The Murrays

Happily Murrayed is us - Conor and Joanna - chatting about our lives, our relationship, and everything that comes with it. From big life moments to the everyday chaos in between, we share the stuff that’s going on with us, the things we disagree on, and the moments that probably should’ve stayed private. We’re figuring things out as we go - balancing life with baby Alfie, building a home, busy work lives, and trying to keep some sense of normality along the way. It doesn’t always go to plan. This is a podcast about relationships - the good bits, the messy bits, and the moments that nearly break you. We don’t always remember things the same way, we don’t always agree, and we definitely don’t have all the answers… but we’ll give it a go. Each week, we also hear from you - your questions, your stories, your dilemmas - and react in the only way we know how: honestly, and usually with a bit of slagging. If you’re here for the chaos, relationship honesty, or just to feel a bit better about how you’re doing it, you’re in the right place. Get involved:  📩 happilymurrayedpod@gmail.com  📱 Instagram / TikTok / YouTube / Facebook: Happily Murrayed Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 10h ago

    Should Couples Have Their Own Money?

    A missing diamond, secret runaway funds and one question that seriously divided the Murray household: should couples have their own money? This week, Jo reveals the panic of realising the diamond had disappeared from her ring mid-flight to Mallorca — and the small matter of whether Conor had actually insured it. 👀 Then it's over to the Murray Mailbag, where things get surprisingly heated. Should married couples combine everything? Should you always have money that's completely your own? If one partner earns more, should they have more spending money? And is keeping an emergency "runaway fund" just sensible? Plus, your answers to the most ridiculous thing your partner has ever spent money on — featuring unused golf memberships, Star Wars helmets, pedigree sheep, €100 worth of coffee beans for someone without a coffee machine… and a €7,000 watch. Elsewhere, Conor prepares for Ibiza with the best of intentions, Jo survives the Dublin Horse Show, and we discover an entirely new world of tiny horses. New episodes of Happily Murrayed every week. 🤍 Send your questions to HappilyMurrayedPod@gmail.com 🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple Podcasts 📲 Follow Happily Murrayed for new episodes every week. Chapters 00:00 Coming Up 01:50 Conor Prepares For Ibiza 03:16 "Best Intentions Murray" 04:39 Jo & Conor At The Dublin Horse Show 08:48 Jo's Bali Horse-Riding Controversy 09:45 The Sexist Car Park Pillar Strikes Again 10:40 Jo Takes Someone's Wing Mirror Off 12:39 Jo's Previous Car Crash Story 14:53 Jo Loses Her Diamond On The Flight 18:34 Murray Mailbag: Should Couples Have Their Own Money? 21:06 If One Partner Earns More, Should They Get More? 22:19 Jo Doesn't Believe In Pensions 😂 24:41 Should Every Woman Have A Runaway Fund? 26:10 Joint Accounts vs Separate Money 28:45 What's The Most Ridiculous Thing Your Partner Has Bought? 30:58 Your Partners' Wildest Purchases 33:49 So... Should Couples Have Separate Money? 34:27 Recommendations & Outro Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  2. Aug 10

    Family Holidays, Conor's Role Plays and Backing Up Your Partner...

    Family Holidays, Compliment-Fishing and Backing Up Your Partner... | Happily Murrayed Conor and Jo are back from their family holiday, with all sorts of stories that show just how much parenthood can change things. Plus, Joanna learns mid-show about an unpaid gig Conor has booked her in for, while this week's Murray Mailbag raises all sorts of questions around backing up your partner in public... Send your questions to HappilyMurrayedPod@gmail.com New episodes every Thursday. 🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple Podcasts  📲 Follow Happily Murrayed for new episodes every week. Chapters 00:00 Intro 01:43 Family Holiday Memories 06:10 Conor's Surprise for Joanna 09:02 Mallorca Review 12:43 ROKA Restaurant 14:47 Family Holiday Anxiety 17:08 The Murray Mailbag 23:25 Recommendations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  3. Aug 3

    "WE'RE BOTH ASS MEN"...😂 | AMA Special

    You asked. We answered. And things got personal very quickly.👀 In this special AMA episode, Conor and Jo take on your questions about marriage, parenting, rugby, weddings, their house build and everything in between. They reveal what they fancy most about each other, the habits that drive them mad, how they chose Alfie’s name, what life as a rugby couple was really like, Conor’s worst injury and whether kids belong at weddings. There are also wedding regrets, house-build arguments, sleep struggles, baby names, jealousy, relationship advice and some answers they probably should have kept to themselves. Send your questions to HappilyMurrayedPod@gmail.com New episodes every Thursday. 🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple Podcasts 📲 Follow Happily Murrayed for new episodes every week. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  4. Jul 27

    You May As Well Call Me Mommy, Holiday Packing & Are Work Wives OK? | Happily Murrayed

    You may as well call me Mommy... 😅 This week, Jo reveals just how much planning goes into a family holiday after Conor admits he barely knows where they're even staying in Majorca. Is this what marriage looks like... or is Jo basically his mother at this point? Elsewhere, the pair tackle one of your biggest relationship dilemmas yet: is it ever OK to have a work wife or work husband? The Murray Mailbag is split. Plus, holiday excitement, toddler travel, coconut margaritas, packing stress, recommendations and plenty of laughs along the way. 👇 Let us know in the comments... Are work wives and work husbands harmless... or crossing a line? 🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple Podcasts 📲 Follow Happily Murrayed for new episodes every week. 00:00 Intro 01:29 Life Update: Jo's Girls Trip & Conor's Solo Parenting 02:25 Jo's Mykonos Stories 05:18 Conor's All-Ireland Final Weekend 08:55 Mallorca Family Holiday Plans 11:16 Holiday Packing: Jo vs Conor 14:50 Shrek, Margaritas & Airport Encounters 17:02 Murray Mailbag: Are Work Wives & Work Husbands OK? 23:43 Listener DMs 25:25 Recommendation Of The Week 27:18 See You Next Week Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  5. Jul 20

    Should You Tell Your Partner Everything Your Friends Tell You?

    Should you tell your partner everything your friends tell you... or are some secrets meant to stay between friends? This week's Murray Mailbag completely split opinion. Jo and Conor debate whether couples should tell each other everything, where the line is between gossip and confidence, and read some of the wildest stories you've ever sent us. Elsewhere, we enjoy two rare date nights, accidentally turn up to the wrong night of Dermot Kennedy, discover one of Ireland's best restaurants, and Jo somehow ends up with paprika in her eyes. Plus, another house update, relationship quizzes, and your recommendations. Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook @HappilyMurrayed Get in touch: happilymurrayedpod@gmail.com 0:00 – Coming up 0:38 – Car trouble & an "electrical fault" 3:55 – Two date nights in one week 4:06 – Our stay at Omos / incredible food 8:20 – Dermot Kennedy... on the wrong night 10:17 – Toddler tantrums & parenting updates 12:17 – Conor's perfect sports day 15:04 – Couple quiz: annoying habits 17:08 – Murray Mailbag: Should you tell your partner everything your friends tell you? 23:58 – More unbelievable cheating stories 28:18 – Listener recommendations 29:35 – Jo's favourite snack 30:31 – The paprika disaster 😂 32:10 – Outro Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  6. Jul 13

    Would You Let Your Partner Go On Holiday Without You?

    Would you be happy for your partner to go on holiday without you? This week's Murray Mailbag sparked one of our biggest debates yet. From lads' trips and girls' holidays to trust, jealousy and independence, Jo and Conor react to your brilliant responses and chat about why time apart might actually be good for a relationship. Elsewhere, Jo explains why she's convinced their bedroom is haunted after another sleep paralysis episode, including the time she accidentally terrified Miss Russia at Miss Universe. Conor shares an unforgettable story about partying with the All Blacks after one of Ireland's biggest matches, and there's another update on the house build. Plus, recommendations and plenty of laughs along the way. New episodes every Tuesday. 🤍 Chapters00:00 – Coming up 00:35 – Catch-up: Hurling final & a huge weekend of sport 04:21 – Jo thinks their bedroom is haunted 👻 05:21 – Sleep paralysis & terrifying Miss Russia 09:29 – House build update 11:19 – Saunas, cold plunges & "men don't struggle enough anymore" 12:50 – Ireland's win over Australia & rugby tour stories 15:33 – The All Blacks food fight 🍳 17:00 – Murray Mailbag: Would you let your partner go on holiday without you? 21:25 – The "Let Them" theory 29:35 – Weekly recommendations 34:01 – Outro Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  7. Jul 6

    Can You Ever Be Friends With An Ex?

    This week on Happily Murrayed, Jo and Conor get into one of the messiest relationship debates yet — can you actually be friends with an ex? It starts simple… and quickly spirals into cheating, loyalty, who should tell who, and whether men really are more likely to cheat. Before that, we chat Alfie’s first ever cinema trip (which nearly broke Jo), the latest house build updates, Conor’s growing obsession with golf, and the argument over barn doors and golf simulators. Plus, why we won’t post Alfie’s face online - and our latest true crime recommendations. Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook @HappilyMurrayed Get in touch: happilymurrayedpod@gmail.com Chapters0:00 – Coming up 0:28 – Foot ratings, feet pics & weird DMs 2:27 – Rollers, face masks & golf weekends 4:12 – Alfie’s first cinema trip 6:10 – Why we don’t show Alfie online 9:27 – House build update 12:18 – The bath in the middle of the room? 13:01 – The Nigerian goalkeeper obsession 14:39 – Barn door regrets 15:30 – Golf simulator negotiations 19:05 – Murray Mailbag: Can you be friends with an ex? 24:24 – The wildest cheating story we’ve heard 25:15 – Would you tell someone they’re being cheated on? 29:40 – Jo’s advice for toxic relationships 31:14 – Recommendations: true crime podcasts 33:17 – Outro Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  8. Jun 29

    Cringiest Date Stories, Manifesting & Jo’s Brown Thomas Bust-Up

    This week on Happily Murrayed, Jo kicks things off with a road rage story that somehow ended with her being called an “entitled bitch” in Brown Thomas 😅 We recap a huge weekend at Ascot, Olivia Dean in Marlay Park, and the chaos of leaving Alfie with a babysitter for the first time. In this week’s Murray Mailbag, we react to your wildest and cringiest dating stories — from lads bringing cousins on dates to mattress-on-the-floor icks. Plus, Jo shares the manifestation story behind winning Miss Ireland, and Conor opens up about how visualisation shaped his rugby career. New episodes every Tuesday 🤍 Follow us on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube and Facebook @HappilyMurrayed Get in touch: happilymurrayedpod@gmail.com Chapters 0:00 – Coming up 0:37 – Jo’s road rage confession 3:08 – Ascot recap 5:37 – Olivia Dean in Marley Park 7:12 – Jo’s concert “altercation” 8:57 – First babysitter chaos 11:01 – Murray Mailbag: cringiest dating stories 13:33 – Should you split the bill on a first date? 15:38 – Spotify comments & feedback 16:10 – Jo’s manifestation story 18:40 – Conor on visualisation in rugby 20:17 – House build update 21:54 – Wedding anniversary gifts 24:58 – Was Conor an altar boy? 26:21 – Recommendations 28:22 – Outro Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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About

Happily Murrayed is us - Conor and Joanna - chatting about our lives, our relationship, and everything that comes with it. From big life moments to the everyday chaos in between, we share the stuff that’s going on with us, the things we disagree on, and the moments that probably should’ve stayed private. We’re figuring things out as we go - balancing life with baby Alfie, building a home, busy work lives, and trying to keep some sense of normality along the way. It doesn’t always go to plan. This is a podcast about relationships - the good bits, the messy bits, and the moments that nearly break you. We don’t always remember things the same way, we don’t always agree, and we definitely don’t have all the answers… but we’ll give it a go. Each week, we also hear from you - your questions, your stories, your dilemmas - and react in the only way we know how: honestly, and usually with a bit of slagging. If you’re here for the chaos, relationship honesty, or just to feel a bit better about how you’re doing it, you’re in the right place. Get involved:  📩 happilymurrayedpod@gmail.com  📱 Instagram / TikTok / YouTube / Facebook: Happily Murrayed Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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  • Creator
    Cutdown & The Murrays
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    16
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Cutdown & The Murrays
  • Show Website
    Happily Murrayed