Happy Childless Mindset

Laura Bignasco

Happy Childless Mindset is the go-to podcast for women navigating life as Childless Not By Choice (CNBC). Here, you'll uncover powerful coaching tools and actionable strategies to help you find joy, fulfillment, and peace in a life that turned out differently than planned. Through heartfelt conversations and inspiring interviews with other CNBC women, we’ll explore their journeys, insights, and the mindset shifts that have helped them create meaningful, purpose-driven lives without children.

  1. 08/01/2025

    The Healing Power of Rituals: Navigating Triggers, Boundaries, and Joy in CNBC Life

    ✅ My Facebook group ---- 👉 👉 https://www.facebook.com/share/g/15DxfETpdt/  ✅ Website -- 👉 👉 👉 https://happychildlessmindset.com/  ✅ Support me and this podcast --- 👉 👉 https://ko-fi.com/happychildlessmindset  ✅ Linktree --- 👉 👉 https://happychildlessmindset.com/links  In this episode, Anne and I talk about how we celebrate our CNBC (Childless Not By Choice) lives while navigating a world full of potential emotional triggers. We explore the power of rituals—both those that help us process grief and those that support our daily self-care. We discuss how to set and uphold boundaries with love, how to understand ourselves more deeply, and how our voices as CNBC women are growing stronger and clearer. This is a conversation about healing, reclaiming joy, and making space for all of who we are.  About Anne: Anne Altamore lives in Melbourne, Australia with her husband and two beautiful furbabies. Anne's efforts to become a human mom ended about 2 decades ago after long and unsuccessful IVF.  Coming to terms with a Happy Childless Mindset has been a long journey of grief work and in-depth getting to know herself which included a deep dive into values, identity, and reimagining the future to rewrite the narrative of her life. Today, Anne can confidently say she is contented and thriving not merely existing.  Anne is a counsellor specialising in working with people dealing with infertility, baby loss, and childlessness. www.lifeafterivf.com.au

    50 min
  2. 07/25/2025

    Not by Choice: Sharing CNBC Stories on YouTube with Carrie Brauninger

    ✅ My Facebook group ---- 👉 👉 https://www.facebook.com/share/g/15DxfETpdt/ ✅ Website -- 👉 👉 👉 https://happychildlessmindset.com/✅ Support me and this podcast --- 👉 👉 https://ko-fi.com/happychildlessmindset ✅ Linktree --- 👉 👉 https://happychildlessmindset.com/linksIn this episode of the Happy Childless Mindset podcast, I sit down with Carrie Brauninger - @sondersisterhood - to talk about what it’s like to be childless and single over 40 — and how creating content on YouTube has brought both of us fulfillment, connection, and purpose.We explore the importance of representation for childless-not-by-choice women, how most online spaces still revolve around parenthood, and what it means to find visibility, community, and creative joy on our own terms.We also talk about the frustration of often being confused with the childfree-by-choice community — and how algorithms regularly show us videos about “whether or not to have kids,” when that choice was never actually ours to make.Plus: Sonder Sisterhood, healing through creativity, finding peace after disappointment, and learning to live fully in a life we didn’t expect.💜 If you’re a CNBC woman looking for real talk, solidarity, and inspiration, this one’s for you.#HappyChildlessMindset #ChildlessNotByChoice #SingleOver40 #CNBCWomen #SonderSisterhood #YouTubeRepresentation #LifeAfter40 #InvoluntarilyChildlessChidless not by choice#childless #podcast #cnbc Chidless not by choice#childless #podcast #CNBC

    54 min
  3. 07/11/2025

    Childless Trailblazer Jody Day

    My linktree 👉👉https://happychildlessmindset.com/links  In this episode, I sit down with Jody Day—perhaps the most recognizable face in the childless community—for a heartfelt and wide-ranging conversation. We explore the origins of her work and the unmet needs that first inspired her to speak out, as well as the deep love so many of us carry, even when the children we longed for are not part of our lives. Jody also shares details about her powerful new project, AlterKin (Alternative Kinship Network), which focuses on aging without children and reimagining care and connection in later life. I have to say—Jody is incredibly kind, humble, and warm. When she first appeared on screen, I had a full groupie moment. She let me have it, and at the same time gently helped calm my nerves. We all know the public figure, but she’s also just a truly genuine, easy-to-talk-to person.  Together, we reflect on the importance of community, the healing power of kindness—especially in today’s political climate—and how finding belonging can be nothing short of lifesaving. About Jody Day:  Jody Day is an English/Irish psychotherapist and the founder of Gateway Women. She’s the author of Living the Life Unexpected: How to Find Hope, Meaning and a Fulfilling Future Without Children (PanMac 2016/2020). A two-time TEDx speaker and thought-leader on childless issues, Jody's been a World Childless Week Ambassador since its inception in 2017, was a founding board member at the UK Charity Ageing Without Children, and is a former Fellow in Social Innovation at Cambridge Judge Business School. Now in her early sixties, she is increasingly focused on ‘Elderhood without Motherhood’ and her Substack ‘Gateway Elderwomen’ is a Substack Bestseller. After a lifetime in London, she lives in rural Ireland and is working on two new books. She is managed by a large ginger cat, and a small white terrier. www.gateway-women.com  Website: www.gateway-women.com  Direct email: jody@gateway-women.com  Jody's 'Gateway Elderwomen' essays: https://jodyday.substack.com/  Llinked-in: @jodyday instagram @gatewaywomen & @apprenticecrone  Bluesky: @gatewaywomen.bsky.social  Jody's monthly newsletter: bit.ly/jody-list  Private online community: www.gateway-women.com/community  Free download of intro & chapter 1 of Jody's book: bit.ly/free-ltlu

    53 min
  4. 07/04/2025

    World Childless Week founder - Stephanie Joy Phillips

    To join Happy Childless Mindset FREE Facebook group ---- 👉 https://www.facebook.com/share/g/15DxfETpdt/ In this episode Stephanie and I have an authentic, honest and relaxed conversation about grief and all the emotions that being childless can hold, about how there are so many ways of ending childless, about how World Childless Week was born, about the chidless and the childfree community, the stories, the sadness and the joy. Steph is warm, relatable, humble despite being one of the pillars the whole childless not by choice community relays on. Proving that we are all important, valuable and part of the kinder community. About Stephanie Joy Phillips: Stephanie spent a large part of her twenties in an abusive relationship so took the contraceptive pill to prevent a child being born into that situation. In her early thirties she met her husband to be but they didn't try to conceive until nearing forty. At the age of 39 she was told by an unsympathetic doctor "if he manages to get you pregnant it is highly unlikely you'll carry full term". She knew in that moment, she would never be a mum. In 2017 after realising there was no national recognition of the childless community Stephanie had an idea for a global awareness week. She mentioned her idea to several childless friends who encouraged her to pursue her idea. Inspired by their enthusiasm, she spoke to the childless not by choice community who rallied round and stepped forward to offer their support and participation. Six weeks later World Childless Week went live for the first time. In December 2020 Stephanie was shortlisted for a Most Inspirational Woman award, and in September 2023 she was announced as the winner of the BBC Hereford and Worcester Make A Difference Together Award .Stephanie lives in Worcestershire with her husband and two rescue cats, Storm and Tea-Cup. She enjoys gardening, arts and crafts, a good book, dining out and relaxing in front of the television with a puzzle book and one of her two cats snuggled up beside her. World Chidless Week links: Website: https://worldchildlessweek.net Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WorldChildlessWeek Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/worldchildlessweek

    53 min

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Happy Childless Mindset is the go-to podcast for women navigating life as Childless Not By Choice (CNBC). Here, you'll uncover powerful coaching tools and actionable strategies to help you find joy, fulfillment, and peace in a life that turned out differently than planned. Through heartfelt conversations and inspiring interviews with other CNBC women, we’ll explore their journeys, insights, and the mindset shifts that have helped them create meaningful, purpose-driven lives without children.