Happy Polydays

Poly Philia
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The Happy Polydays project is a series of intimate conversations about polyamory, identity, sexuality and relationships. Leanne Yau (she/they), the host of this series, is a polyamorous content creator, writer, educator and advocate. She founded Poly Philia (@polyphiliablog), the largest social media platform dedicated to non-monogamy education and awareness in Europe, where she creates and curates humorous and educational memes, tips, videos, and other bite-size content.

  1. Polyamory and Blackness with @marjanilane

    2021. 12. 23.

    Polyamory and Blackness with @marjanilane

    Marjani Lane (@marjanilane) is one of the most well-known Black polyamorous educators and is a hugely important voice in the community when it comes to pro-Black polyamorous activism. To round off this season, we discuss Marjani’s life as a queer, disabled polyamorist, as well as several controversial, hard-hitting issues in the Black polyamorous and polygamous communities: - why Marjani believes that people can be polyamorous cheaters, and that solo polyamory is a life philosophy rather than a specific lifestyle - how Marjani’s physical disabilities and diagnoses of ASPD and OCPD affect how they practice polyamory - The distinction between fluid bonding and fluid exchange, and how some Black polyamorists do not feel that mainstream polyamory terms were made for them or with them in mind - How the Black community’s idea of polygyny and the goal of “building an empire” to “save” the Black community ultimately tie back to white supremacy, misogynoir and a struggle with identity and acceptance - Queerphobia and ableism in the polyamorous community, and how the idea of “usefulness” serves a pro-capitalist, pro-natalist agenda that comes at the expense of the marginalised and much more. EPISODE TRANSCRIPT FOLLOW US: Leanne (@polyphiliablog): Instagram | Facebook | Tiktok | Twitter | Youtube | Patreon | Website | Shop Marjani (@marjanilane): Instagram | Clubhouse | Tiktok | Facebook | Website

    59분
  2. From A Closed Cult To Open Love with @chillpolyamory

    2021. 12. 22.

    From A Closed Cult To Open Love with @chillpolyamory

    CW: emotional abuse, eating disorders In this harrowing, vulnerable episode, Morgan of @chillpolyamory shares her experiences in a cult from the age of 15-21, how she left and unpacked all the internalised shame and guilt around her sexuality, and went on to embrace an open, polyamorous life. We discuss:  - the parallels between high-control groups and certain oppressive religions, and the harm that causes to one's psyche  - how content creation has enabled Morgan to deal with her trigger around public humiliation head-on  - how kink has been a healing way for Morgan to safely and temporarily give up control (and why a 24/7 dynamic is not for her!)  - a surprisingly positive parallel between cults and the polyamorous community? and much more. EPISODE TRANSCRIPT FOLLOW US: Leanne (@polyphiliablog): Instagram | Facebook | Tiktok | Twitter | Youtube | Patreon | Website | Shop Morgan (@chillpolyamory): Instagram | Patreon | Website

    57분
  3. Polyamory and Abuse with @polypages

    2021. 12. 21.

    Polyamory and Abuse with @polypages

    Abuse happens in all kinds of relationships, and non-monogamous people are no different. Claire from @polypages and I discuss: - The Duluth Model of the power and control wheel as applied to abusive polyamorous dynamics - Whether the book More Than Two by Eve Rickert and Franklin Veaux should still be recommended as a polyamory introductory text - Why toxic positivity culture is harmful and does a disservice to the polyamorous community - Why non-monogamous people are more susceptible to abusive dynamics due to the lack of societal support available and toxic behaviours being brushed under the carpet as "jealousy issues to work through" - How Claire arrived at solo polyamory as the best fit for her life and much more. EPISODE TRANSCRIPT FOLLOW US: Leanne (@polyphiliablog): Instagram | Facebook | Tiktok | Twitter | Youtube | Patreon | Website | Shop Claire (@polypages): Instagram | Tiktok | Twitter | Website | Polyamory Day Event

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  4. Polyamorous and Asian with @polyamorouswhileasian

    2021. 12. 20.

    Polyamorous and Asian with @polyamorouswhileasian

    Michelle Hy's polyamory advocacy work (@polyamorouswhileasian) on the political intersection between relationships and race, sex positivity, and body neutrality is well known to many. In this episode we discuss: - Michelle's very sudden introduction to polyamory at 18 years old - Misconceptions in mainstream polyamorous narratives - Handling boundaries and expectations with Asian parents - Why my mother is less accepting of my bisexuality than my cousin's lesbianism - Handling fetishisation of Asianness in dating, and where we draw the line between attraction and exoticisation and much more. EPISODE TRANSCRIPT FOLLOW US: Leanne (@polyphiliablog): Instagram | Facebook | Tiktok | Twitter | Youtube | Patreon | Website | Shop Michelle (@polyamorouswhileasian): Instagram | Website

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  5. Polyamory and Religion with @puritytopolyamory

    2021. 12. 19.

    Polyamory and Religion with @puritytopolyamory

    What do purity culture and mononormativity have in common? I speak with @puritytopolyamory as she shares her fascinating story of moving from the oppressive Evangelical Christian religion to solo polyamory. We discuss: - How purity culture is rape culture, and why it is particularly damaging to people socialised as women - Why the many changes that occur in the opening up process lead to so many previously monogamous relationships failing at no fault of their own - How Christianity and polyamory can be reconciled, but not purity culture and polyamory - Why both of us no longer identify as demisexual and much more. FOLLOW US: Leanne (@polyphiliablog): Instagram | Facebook | Tiktok | Twitter | Youtube | Patreon | Website | Shop PTP (@puritytopolyamory): Instagram | Twitter | Podcast

    58분
  6. Polyamory Under Late-Stage Capitalism with @femmmeow and @antimononormative

    2021. 12. 18.

    Polyamory Under Late-Stage Capitalism with @femmmeow and @antimononormative

    How is polyamory influencing current and future generations under late-stage capitalism? Join myself and Nayeli (@antimononormative), who are both Gen Z, and younger millennial Sky (@femmmeow) as we talk about how modern monogamy is influenced by the commodification of intimacy under capitalism, colonialism and heteropatriarchical forces. We discuss: - Sky's upbringing in the Scientology cult and how her embracing her queerness led her to question monogamy and relationships - Nayeli's radical abolitionist stances on basically everything, and her coining and explaining the terms "late-stage mononormativity" and "mononormativity reformist" - How the rise of non-monogamy was directly caused by the COVID-19 pandemic, and was not a coincidence! - How we are all absolute stans of Esther Perel and her work and much more. EPISODE TRANSCRIPT FOLLOW US: Leanne (@polyphiliablog): Instagram | Facebook | Tiktok | Twitter | Youtube | Patreon | Website | Shop Nayeli (@antimononormative): Instagram | Tiktok | Twitter Skylar (@femmmeow): Instagram | Twitter | Tiktok | Website

    59분
  7. Flirting While Neurodivergent with @polymananswers

    2021. 12. 17.

    Flirting While Neurodivergent with @polymananswers

    How do polyamorous, neurodivergent people flirt? Albert from @polymananswers and I discuss the difference between (and success rates of) consent-based, directly communicated flirting methods and those utilised by "pickup artists" in mainstream media (which are often built on a foundation of deception and manipulation). We also discuss: - Albert's experiences growing up in a polygamous Hmong household with 2 mothers and a father - How neurotypical people can support their neurodivergent partners from a trauma-informed perspective - I read out some chats with my matches on my favourite dating app, Feeld! - How to manage dopamine-chasing impulses with ADHD and managing the high of New Relationship Energy and much more. EPISODE TRANSCRIPT FOLLOW US: Leanne (@polyphiliablog): Instagram | Facebook | Tiktok | Twitter | Youtube | Patreon | Website | Shop Albert (@polymananswers): Instagram

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  8. Queering Compersion with @lifewflo and @polyamoryinpractice

    2021. 12. 16.

    Queering Compersion with @lifewflo and @polyamoryinpractice

    Compersion, the feeling of joy/happiness at seeing your partner with other people, is often touted as the Holy Grail of polyamory: a milestone you reach once you have achieved complete security within yourself, fully embracing the abundance mindset, and having a complete lack of jealousy. In reality, it's a lot more complicated than that. In this episode, Flo (@lifewflo), Alexa (@polyamoryinpractice) and I discuss: - deconstructing the binary of compersion/jealousy - queering the timeline from high jealousy to high compersion on one's polyamorous journey - our different experiences of compersion and how it is a mixed bag of feelings rather than a sensation of pure joy - how to navigate different experiences of compersion and jealousy with partners and metamours and much more. EPISODE TRANSCRIPT FOLLOW US: Leanne (@polyphiliablog): Instagram | Facebook | Tiktok | Twitter | Youtube | Patreon | Website | Shop Alexa (@polyamoryinpractice): Instagram Flo (@lifewflo): Instagram | Facebook | Tiktok

    58분
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The Happy Polydays project is a series of intimate conversations about polyamory, identity, sexuality and relationships. Leanne Yau (she/they), the host of this series, is a polyamorous content creator, writer, educator and advocate. She founded Poly Philia (@polyphiliablog), the largest social media platform dedicated to non-monogamy education and awareness in Europe, where she creates and curates humorous and educational memes, tips, videos, and other bite-size content.

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    Poly Philia
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    2021년
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