141 episodes

Tahoe speaks to ppl in the sex community about things men like and dont like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants and needs.

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    • Education
    • 4.8 • 823 Ratings

Tahoe speaks to ppl in the sex community about things men like and dont like about sex in an effort to learn, educate and broaden mens horizons around exploring themselves and their partners desires, wants and needs.

    If I Like it I'ma NEED It Feat @YaboyZach17

    If I Like it I'ma NEED It Feat @YaboyZach17

    This week we welcomed one of our homies from the hood Zach and he spoke about wanting to attend our upcoming play party, loving to cook for women and eating the box for his own pleasure. Then he hit us with some wild kinks we never expected to hear, liking older women, being scared to try something new out of fear of liking it, the definition of a f-ckBoy, and why Tahoe hates when women are right. The guys are in their BAG. Enjoy!!

    Socials:

    Zach:
    @YaBoyZach17. on Instagram

    Loon:
    @KingLoonNYC on Twitter
    @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

    Tahoe:
    @Tahoe_TV on twitter and Instagram

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    Patreon at Patreon.com/hardorsoftpod

    YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCecvwF2Wd88xtRy5caLtEtQ?view_as=subscriber

    Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com to attend our December 9th Play Party
    or DM us on Instagram & Twitter at @HardOrSoftPod

    • 2 hr 18 min
    You Got a Fatty??

    You Got a Fatty??

    This week was so much fun! Loon came in a thxgiving sweater and Tahoe grills him about whether he has a girlfriend or not. Then Loon discusses a moment where he listened to Tahoe annnd it probably wasn't the best idea. Letting a woman see you on gummy and then we go over things men should know about their penises and things women should know about men. Enjoy!

    Socials:

    Loon:
    @KingLoonNYC on Twitter
    @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

    Tahoe:
    @Tahoe_TV on twitter and Instagram

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    Patreon at Patreon.com/hardorsoftpod
    YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCecvwF2Wd88xtRy5caLtEtQ?view_as=subscriber

    Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram & Twitter at @HardOrSoftPod

    • 2 hr 6 min
    Slap The P*ssy to The Right

    Slap The P*ssy to The Right

    Welcome Back! This week the guys talk drinking breast milk from the queen of royal fetish, recapping Kinks and Drinks, Loons 1st experience domme topping, and why don't men know how much women like sex? Such a dope episode! Enjoy!

    Socials:

    Loon:
    @KingLoonNYC on Twitter
    @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

    Tahoe:
    @Tahoe_TV on twitter and Instagram

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    Patreon at Patreon.com/hardorsoftpod
    YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCecvwF2Wd88xtRy5caLtEtQ?view_as=subscriber

    Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram & Twitter at @HardOrSoftPod

    • 1 hr 48 min
    Love, Porn And Therapy Feat @JetSetJasmine

    Love, Porn And Therapy Feat @JetSetJasmine

    This week we welcome the Queen of the Royal Fetish Family, Jet Setting Jasmine, to talk being a porn actress and creator as well as a clinical therapist, Tahoe standing her up on an offer and his lackluster communication skills, does porn and masturbation adversely effect ppls intimacy with others, living poly and how to be with ppl that really only want your partner, and so much more!! This episode was sooooo GOOD! Hope you enjoy it!!!

    Socials:
    Find Jasmin on twitter at @JetSetJasmine
    Instagram: @JetSetJasmine
    Listen to her podcast Royal Fetish Radio on all streaming platforms

    Loon:
    @KingLoonNYC on Twitter
    @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

    Tahoe:
    @Tahoe_TV on twitter and Instagram

    Get the Convo and Chill Card Game on Amazon at
    https://www.amazon.com/Convo-Chill-After-Dark-Conversations/dp/B09RG1ZJM1/

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    Patreon at Patreon.com/hardorsoftpod
    YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCecvwF2Wd88xtRy5caLtEtQ?view_as=subscriber

    Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram & Twitter at @HardOrSoftPod

    • 2 hr 20 min
    Knife Talk Feat @Phoenix_Noir

    Knife Talk Feat @Phoenix_Noir

    This week we welcome Phoenix Noir as she explains what it is to be a "Sadistic Mommy Domme", how she got into kink and how she uses knives and pain to produce pleasure from her subjects, understanding the womans body, the battle between men and women regarding pleasing each other, and how to properly choke someone in the bedroom. There is soooo much more happening in this episode, we hope you enjoy!!

    Socials:

    Phoenix -
    Twitter - @Rouge90Noir
    FetLife - Phoenix_Noir_
    Also listen to her podcast "Black Girl Missing" on all podcast streaming platforms

    Loon:
    @KingLoonNYC on Twitter
    @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

    Tahoe:
    @Tahoe_TV on twitter and Instagram

    Get the Convo and Chill Card Game on Amazon at
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    Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoir
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    Patreon at Patreon.com/hardorsoftpod
    YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCecvwF2Wd88xtRy5caLtEtQ?view_as=subscriber

    Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram & Twitter at @HardOrSoftPod

    • 2 hr 15 min
    Dickolas Cage (Part Two) Feat @QueenGlitter4

    Dickolas Cage (Part Two) Feat @QueenGlitter4

    The Hard, The Soft and Convo and Chill.. Enjoy!

    Email us at Hardorsoftpod@gmail.com to come to the
    Halloween Kinks And Drinks on October 29th here in Brooklyn

    Socials:
    Glitter:
    @QueenGlitter4 on twitter
    @ThatGlitterBaby on Instagram

    Loon:
    @KingLoonNYC on Twitter
    @KingLoonthe1st on Instagram

    Tahoe:
    @Tahoe_TV on twitter and Instagram

    Get the Convo and Chill Card Game on Amazon at
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    YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCecvwF2Wd88xtRy5caLtEtQ?view_as=subscriber

    Email us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram & Twitter at @HardOrSoftPod

    • 1 hr

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
823 Ratings

823 Ratings

Missp622 ,

Listening since the beginning

I love this podcast. I learn something new about men’s perspective every episode. Tahoe’s growth from the beginning until now is amazing. Orlando’s exit was a bit abrupt but his stories sometimes felt really graphic and almost took over the pod at times. The choice of guests always leave us the audience with a new perspective and teaches something that are quietly done but never spoken about. Keep up the great content!

lissyninety6s ,

Bye Orlando

Now that Orlando’s gone I can listen to the show again. He was getting too cocky for me always talking about himself. Yay Tahoe !

Chy55799 ,

On time episode

No disrespect to your white guests but having the feminism/masculinity dynamics conversation with white women can be a little cringy because the dynamics between black men and black women are a different experience. Ngl, them dominating Loon was cringe too after hearing that y’all don’t like watching black women with white men. I’m so glad that you guys had this conversation with a black woman.

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