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Welcome to Having It A.L.L., the podcast that flips the script on what it means to “have it all” in life. I’m Matthew Bivens, your host and friend, and I’m inviting you to join me in conversations designed to help you radically shift your confidence, self worth, and clarity. In order to create new results in your life - whether that’s in your relationships, your health, your money, your family or your life’s purpose - you must make new decisions and build new habits. This podcast will not only deliver the lessons and action items that will help you move the needle in your life, but also share the vulnerable and honest truth about the challenges of working to improve and ultimately master yourself. Each breakdown can lead to breakthrough, and we cover it all on this podcast. Personal development is not an easy road, but you can create meaningful change that lasts. Let’s do it together one choice at a time. Tune in each week and see that it’s not only possible to have it all, but that you were meant to all along! 

Having It A.L.L‪.‬ Matthew Bivens

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    • 4.7 • 430 Ratings

Welcome to Having It A.L.L., the podcast that flips the script on what it means to “have it all” in life. I’m Matthew Bivens, your host and friend, and I’m inviting you to join me in conversations designed to help you radically shift your confidence, self worth, and clarity. In order to create new results in your life - whether that’s in your relationships, your health, your money, your family or your life’s purpose - you must make new decisions and build new habits. This podcast will not only deliver the lessons and action items that will help you move the needle in your life, but also share the vulnerable and honest truth about the challenges of working to improve and ultimately master yourself. Each breakdown can lead to breakthrough, and we cover it all on this podcast. Personal development is not an easy road, but you can create meaningful change that lasts. Let’s do it together one choice at a time. Tune in each week and see that it’s not only possible to have it all, but that you were meant to all along! 

    4 Myths and 3 Truths About This Thing Called “Balance”

    4 Myths and 3 Truths About This Thing Called “Balance”

    Do you believe that balance is possible for you?
    So many people seek out balance, yet they fall short again and again.
    It’s been my experience as a BALANCE Lifestyle Coach, that the biggest reason why people fail at balance isn’t because of their lack of effort or plan, it’s because of their perspective on balance in the first place. 
    In today’s episode I’m debunking common myths around balance, and I’m giving you 3 new perspectives on balance that are going to make it more simple and achievable for you. 

    STRUGGLING WITH CONSISTENCY? 
    Download the free "trust account" app from the YourDay Balance Game, and start building trust with YOURSELF today! 
    Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.balancegame.ydbg
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    FEELING THE IMPACT OF CODEPENDENCY?
    Watch the free #1 obstacle video and learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent
    https://theydbg.com/obstacle-video/

    WANT TO FEEL MORE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE?
    Get the "Having It A.L.L. Blueprint", my self-paced online program for designing and living your greatest life!
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    • 34 min
    Is Your Life Feeling Out Of Control? Here Are 2 Simple Ways To Get Your Sense Of Stability Back

    Is Your Life Feeling Out Of Control? Here Are 2 Simple Ways To Get Your Sense Of Stability Back

    What do you do when your life feels out of control?
    Whether it’s a single area of your life, or everywhere all at once, when things feel out of control it can be debilitating. 
    I’ve been there and I know the feeling of helplessness and frustration that comes as a result. 
    However, you don’t have to stay there! There are simple things that you can do that are entirely effective at putting you back in the driver’s seat of your life. 
    In today’s episode I’m sharing with you 2 simple ways to regain control over your life, feel like you have more stability, and to get your sense of autonomy back. 

    STRUGGLING WITH CONSISTENCY? 
    Download the free "trust account" app from the YourDay Balance Game, and start building trust with YOURSELF today! 
    Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.balancegame.ydbg
    iPhone: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/ydbg-watch-play-discover/id1489276659

    FEELING THE IMPACT OF CODEPENDENCY?
    Watch the free #1 obstacle video and learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent
    https://theydbg.com/obstacle-video/

    WANT TO FEEL MORE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE?
    Get the "Having It A.L.L. Blueprint", my self-paced online program for designing and living your greatest life!
    https://hia.ck.page/products/blueprint

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    • 28 min
    All Great Leaders Make Time To Do This ONE THING In The Morning (Are You?)

    All Great Leaders Make Time To Do This ONE THING In The Morning (Are You?)

    What morning habits do all great leaders and people who are doing BIG things in life have in common?
    (And no, it’s not meditation or cold showers!)
    They all start their day off by building proactive momentum. 
    Not sure what that means? No worries!
    In today’s episode I’m explaining the concept of proactive momentum and I’m helping you break the habits that are driving your stress, frustration and burnout. 

    STRUGGLING WITH CONSISTENCY? 
    Download the free "trust account" app from the YourDay Balance Game, and start building trust with YOURSELF today! 
    Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.balancegame.ydbg
    iPhone: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/ydbg-watch-play-discover/id1489276659

    FEELING THE IMPACT OF CODEPENDENCY?
    Watch the free #1 obstacle video and learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent
    https://theydbg.com/obstacle-video/

    WANT TO FEEL MORE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE?
    Get the "Having It A.L.L. Blueprint", my self-paced online program for designing and living your greatest life!
    https://hia.ck.page/products/blueprint

    CHECK OUT SOME OFFERS FROM OUR AWESOME PARTNERS
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    • 25 min
    Here’s Why Affirmations Won’t Work For You

    Here’s Why Affirmations Won’t Work For You

    Do you know why affirmations, self help and success books and “positive talk” just don't work for many people?
    It has nothing to do with those things being ineffective, and everything to do with the emotional state a person is in when they attempt to connect with those things. 
    In today’s episode I’m breaking down exactly how this all works and helping you to unlock the true reason why you keep creating the same outcomes despite desiring new results. 

    RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE

    Power vs Force by David R. Hawkins

    Awareness Suite: Day 1


    STRUGGLING WITH CONSISTENCY? 
    Download the free "trust account" app from the YourDay Balance Game, and start building trust with YOURSELF today! 
    Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.balancegame.ydbg
    iPhone: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/ydbg-watch-play-discover/id1489276659

    FEELING THE IMPACT OF CODEPENDENCY?
    Watch the free #1 obstacle video and learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent
    https://theydbg.com/obstacle-video/

    WANT TO FEEL MORE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE?
    Get the "Having It A.L.L. Blueprint", my self-paced online program for designing and living your greatest life!
    https://hia.ck.page/products/blueprint

    CHECK OUT SOME OFFERS FROM OUR AWESOME PARTNERS
    Needed: https://bit.ly/3IKmWzL - use code HIA20 to get 20% off your order or HIA100 for $100 off a Complete Plan

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    CHECK OUT THE ENTIRE HAVING IT A.L.L. PODCAST CATALOG
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    • 25 min
    How To Balance Out Your Health And Fitness In A Holistic and Sustainable Way (HIA Classic)

    How To Balance Out Your Health And Fitness In A Holistic and Sustainable Way (HIA Classic)

    What does living a balanced life mean to you? 
    Similarly, how do you define health and fitness? And how do your perceptions of these concepts impact your overall wellbeing?
    In this episode I'm talking about how you can view the idea of "balance" in a way that doesn't leave you feeling defeated and frustrated. I'm here to present to you an idea of how you can balance out your health and fitness in a way that's sustainable and holistic.

    DOWNLOAD THE FREE "TRUST ACCOUNT" APP FROM THE YOURDAY BALANCE GAME
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    WATCH THE #1 OBSTACLE VIDEO
    Learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent
    https://theydbg.com/obstacle-video/

    GET THE "HAVING IT A.L.L. BLUEPRINT" FOR DESIGNING AND LIVING YOUR GREATEST LIFE
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    • 1 hr 12 min
    Overcoming Male Shame: Stories And Wisdom On How Men Can Finally Eliminate Their Shame (HIA Classic)

    Overcoming Male Shame: Stories And Wisdom On How Men Can Finally Eliminate Their Shame (HIA Classic)

    What shame are you hiding?
    Fellas, this episode is for you.
    As a man, I've carried with me different types of shame through my life that have had a big impact on how I see the world and operate in it. I learned early on that burying my shame and pretending it wasn't there was the safest way for me to operate.
    The truth is, it's not.
    And for me, it took years of living in denial and robbing myself of true joy and fulfillment, that finally helped me see that.
    In today's episode we're tackling a topic that lives within many men -- shame. I'm pulling from various sources here to help you understand shame, watch how it plays out in the lives of men like you, and see how other men are choosing to face it.
    My intention with this episode is that it inspires you to look into those dark corners of yourself where you have been hiding your shame, and finally choose to bring it out into the light.
    Do you want some support or coaching on overcoming your shame? Email me and take the next step towards eliminating shame from your life - matthew@matthewbivens.com.

    RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE

    Institute Of OM - https://instituteofom.com/


    Article "Shame: The Core Issue For Many Men - https://menscenter.org/shame/


    Will Smith Youtube series "Best Shape Of My Life", Episode 2: My Secret Shame -

    https://youtu.be/ZvYPIJT6JpM

    Will Smith Youtube series "Best Shape Of My Life", Episode 4: I'm Sorry Mama -


    https://youtu.be/B2TlsHdpY_4


    The Dad Edge Podcast interview with Lewis Howes - https://thedadedge.com/lewis-howes/



    STRUGGLING WITH CONSISTENCY? 
    Download the free "trust account" app from the YourDay Balance Game, and start building trust with YOURSELF today! 
    Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.balancegame.ydbg
    iPhone: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/ydbg-watch-play-discover/id1489276659

    FEELING THE IMPACT OF CODEPENDENCY?
    Watch the free #1 obstacle video and learn what derails all successful people and keeps them from moving from codependent to independent
    https://theydbg.com/obstacle-video/

    WANT TO FEEL MORE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE?
    Get the "Having It A.L.L. Blueprint", my self-paced online program for designing and living your greatest life!
    https://hia.ck.page/products/blueprint

    CHECK OUT SOME OFFERS FROM OUR AWESOME PARTNERS
    Needed: https://bit.ly/3IKmWzL - use code HIA20 to get 20% off your order or HIA100 for $100 off a Complete Plan

    LEAVE THE PODCAST A REVIEW ON APPLE PODCASTS
    https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/having-it-all-conversations-about-living-an-abundant/id1093257684

    CHECK OUT THE ENTIRE HAVING IT A.L.L. PODCAST CATALOG
    https://www.matthewbivens.com/

    GET IN TOUCH WITH MATTHEW
    matthew@matthewbivens.com

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    • 1 hr 10 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
430 Ratings

430 Ratings

Korean Tupac ,

This podcast is a life coach in a box!

I love the conversations Matthew is having on curating the life you truly want. You can tell he’s a legit life coach that walks the walk! I love how practical and actionable all his advice is too! Time to have it A.L.L.!!!

Buffenuff18 ,

Truly transformative

I feel very compelled to write a review as this podcast is what saved me from spiraling after going through a physically abusive relationship several years ago. I continued to listen after all these years just living my best life: happily married to the man of my dreams and enjoying life with our first child. I was at my lowest of low when I stumbled about Matt Bivens and it was the guiding light I needed to find my way out of the dark. Each new episode continues to teach me how to appreciate life and invest in the relationships I have formed, making an abundance of love radiate in each direction I turn.

Whitney.Morgan ,

A great and easy to listen to podcast

I have been listening to this podcast for a few months now and I really enjoy it. It is such a positive and uplifting podcast and there are so many great episodes to help you in whatever challenges you are facing.. 10/10 recommend this podcast to help you level up your life. Great conversations, great advice and so much wisdom…

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