She's Iconic with Renee Marie

Renee Marie
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She’s Iconic is the podcast for high-achieving visionaries, coaches, and creatives ready to lead from identity, embodiment, and energetic truth—so your business feels as good as it looks. Hosted by mentor and speaker Renee Marie, these raw riffs and iconic conversations guide you through your 10x evolution into your most expressed, magnetic, iconic leader self. Because in this world, the strategy is you.

  1. 6d ago

    EP 43: Self-Aware Isn’t the Same as Rewired

    In this episode of She’s Iconic, Renee is speaking directly to the high-achieving woman who has done the work. The woman who has been to therapy, invested in masterminds, journaled, meditated, learned her attachment style, named her triggers, and can explain exactly where the pattern comes from… and yet still finds herself circling the same old defaults in her body. Because self-aware is not the same as rewired. In this powerful episode, Renee unpacks the blind spots she couldn’t see in herself until nervous system work revealed what was actually running underneath the surface — money wounds disguised as strategy, urgency disguised as ambition, overgiving disguised as generosity, control disguised as regulation, and managing perception disguised as leadership. This is the hill she will die on: nervous system rewiring is the missing link for aligned, embodied leadership. Because you don’t repeat patterns because you’re unconscious. You repeat patterns because they still feel safe in your body. And if you are the woman who has carried everything, held everything, led through everything, and learned how to survive at a high level, this episode will help you see the difference between being strong, being self-aware, and actually being regulated. This conversation is for the woman who is ready to lead, sell, decide, receive, be seen, raise her standards, and move into her next level without feeling like she has to abandon herself to do it. If this episode hits and you want help identifying the exact pattern running underneath your next level, book a $111 Clarity Call: [BOOK YOUR CLARITY CALL] And if you’re ready to begin disrupting the patterns in real time, grab The Pattern Breaker Series™ for $27 — 5 guided somatic practices to help you release what no longer fits, reconnect with your truth, and strengthen the self-trust required for the woman you’re becoming. [GET THE PATTERN BREAKER SERIES™] Let's connect on Instagram @xoreneemarie Remember who tf you are icon 🔥

    16 min

  2. Jun 9

    EP 42: The 5 Patterns Quietly Keeping High-Achieving Women Stuck

    Every high-achieving woman has versions of herself she must shed in order to rise. The people-pleaser. The perfectionist. The overprover. The overthinker. The woman who outsourced her power. The woman who needed everyone else's approval before trusting herself. In this episode, I'm breaking down the five biggest patterns I see keeping ambitious women circling the same level in their business, leadership, visibility, and life. Because your next level is rarely blocked by a lack of strategy. More often, it's being capped by the conditioning, beliefs, nervous system patterns, and identity attachments that no longer align with who you're becoming. We'll explore:• The 5 most common patterns keeping women stuck• How these patterns show up in business and leadership• Why more information isn't the answer• How to identify what's actually creating the plateau• What it takes to step into your next level with more ease, alignment, and self-trust You don't become the iconic woman by adding more. You become her by shedding the versions of yourself that were built for survival instead of truth. If this episode resonated with you and you're ready to uncover what's actually keeping you stuck, I invite you to book a Clarity Call or a deep dive Visibility & Authority Audit. Let's identify the pattern, clear the noise, and create a path forward that actually feels aligned. Connect with me on Instagram @xoreneemarie 💋 I would love to hear from you what resonated and what you would like to hear more of. XO high-achieving women, women in business, female leadership, personal growth, visibility, nervous system, self-trust, people pleasing, perfectionism, overthinking, business growth, leadership development, entrepreneur mindset, identity work, women entrepreneurs, confidence, visibility coach, embodied leadership, personal development, self leadership

    26 min

  3. May 30

    EP 41: Why You Don't Actually Want What You Say You Want with Christine Banno

    What if the thing standing between you and your next level isn't a lack of strategy, discipline, confidence, or talent? What if it's the hidden pattern underneath the thing you think is the problem? In today's powerful conversation, I sit down with high-performance psychic, nervous system specialist, and bestselling author Christine Banno to unpack the hidden survival patterns that keep brilliant women circling the same level despite having the skills, desire, and ambition to create more. We dive into her new book, The Ferrari Frequency: What's Really Between You and Your Next Million, and explore why so many high-achieving women unknowingly have one foot on the gas and one foot on the brake. Inside this episode we discuss: ✨ Why success can feel unsafe to your nervous system ✨ The real reason high achievers procrastinate, overthink, and self-sabotage ✨ Why regulating your nervous system isn't the same as rewiring it ✨ How trauma and past experiences shape your current decisions ✨ The difference between building capacity and constantly managing overwhelm ✨ Why visibility, leadership, and success can trigger hidden resistance ✨ The powerful question that changed everything: "Why might you not want the thing you say you want?" ✨ How to identify the hidden pattern keeping you stuck ✨ Why you're not broken—and never were This conversation is honest, unfiltered, hilarious, and deeply transformative. If you've ever felt like you know you're capable of more but can't figure out what's holding you back, this episode is for you. CONNECT WITH CHRISTINE & RENEE MARIE Instagram: @christinebanno Million Dollar Nervous System Installation Get The Ferrari Frequency Book here Want support uncovering YOUR hidden pattern? Book a Clarity Call or Business & Money Leak Audit and let's identify what's really keeping you from your next level. Book your session with Renee Marie HERE or send me a DM @xoreneemarie Remember who the f**k you are, icon 🔥

    52 min

  4. May 20

    EP 40: You Are Not Meant for Everyone — And That’s the Point

    In this episode of She’s Iconic, Renee Marie dives into the hidden reason so many high-achieving women feel disconnected, exhausted, and uninspired in their businesses… they are building from self-protection instead of truth. This conversation explores how your nervous system naturally craves belonging, approval, and safety — which can lead to watering yourself down, hiding parts of your mission, softening your voice, and trying to be “for everyone” in order to be chosen. But the truth? The moment you stop abandoning yourself is the moment your business becomes magnetic. Renee shares a powerful story about navigating emotional suppression in a past narcissistic relationship — and how those experiences shaped the way she showed up online and in leadership. Inside this episode, we explore: Why high-achieving women dilute themselves onlineThe nervous system’s need for universal acceptanceHow self-protection disconnects you from your true magnetismWhy specificity creates powerful client attractionThe emotional exhaustion caused by shape-shifting in businessWhat happens when you finally root into your truth and convictions How to stop performing and start leading from full alignmentThis is your reminder that you are not here to be digestible to everyone. You are here to deeply resonate with the people meant for your work. If this episode speaks to you, DM Renee the word “AUDIT” on Instagram @xoreneemarie or book your Audit here: Business Uplevel & Money Leak Audit And for the month of May, if Renee determines during your audit that the Diamond Standard Room is an aligned next step for you, your first month inside the room will be included complimentary. Remember who the f**k you are, icon.

    12 min

  5. May 13

    EP 39: If Peace Were a Strategy with Berkley Sweet Apple

    What happens when the life that looks successful no longer feels aligned? In this episode of She's Iconic, I sit down with trademark attorney and entrepreneur Berkley Sweet Apple to talk about the messy middle of reinvention… the season where your nervous system is screaming, your identity is shifting, and your soul is asking you to trust yourself before you have proof. Berkley shares her journey from high-stress litigation attorney to building a legally empowered online business that actually supports her life, motherhood, peace, and nervous system — not just her bank account. We talk about: ✨ leaving behind identities that no longer fit ✨ learning the difference between fear and misalignment ✨ entrepreneurship and nervous system regulation ✨ visibility, self-trust, and becoming comfortable being uncomfortable ✨ raising your energetic standards and capacity ✨ trademarks, legal protection, and why protecting your business matters ✨ building a business that gives you freedom instead of burnout This conversation is for the woman who feels the pull toward something more aligned… but keeps questioning herself because the next version of her life hasn’t fully materialized yet. You are not crazy for wanting more peace. You are not behind for evolving. And you are not delusional for hearing the whisper that says: there is more for you than this. Connect with Berkley: Connect with Renee:Instagram: @xoreneemarie 🎧 If this episode resonated, share it on Instagram and tag us so we can connect with you! Or send us a DM to let us know what landed for you 💋

    32 min

  6. May 5

    EP 38: The Wealthiest Version of You Isn’t Hustling — She’s Aligned

    If you’ve been doing everything right—investing, growing, showing up—and yet something still feels heavy… This episode is going to shift everything for you. Because the truth is: 👉 You’re not lacking strategy. 👉 You’re not behind. 👉 You’re not doing it wrong. You’re just out of alignment with your unique blueprint. In this episode, I’m breaking down: How I used my Soul Contract + Human Design to finally understand myself on a deeper levelWhy hustle has never worked for me long-term (and probably not for you either)The hidden ways you may be leaking money through misalignmentWhat it actually means to become an embodied, iconic leaderAnd how to expand your income, visibility, and impact without forcing itI also share my personal Soul Contract codes—including: ✨ 12 → 3 (expression + voice) ✨ 7–7 (intuition + recalibration) ✨ 6–6 (leadership + holding space) ✨ 22 → 4 (sustainable wealth + legacy) And how these reflected everything I already knew… but hadn’t fully trusted. Because that’s the work: 👉 Not becoming someone new 👉 But remembering who you’ve always been Misalignment is expensive. It costs you: moneyenergyopportunitiesand trust in yourselfIf this episode activated something in you… I’ve created a space for this level of work: ✨ The Diamond Standard Room This is where I curate The Iconic Woman Collective—for women ready to refine their identity, expand their nervous system capacity, and build aligned wealth. 🔗 Apply here ✨ Want to go deeper, faster? You can also apply for a 1:1 Recalibration Week → A high-touch container where we identify your leaks, recalibrate your nervous system, and align your strategy with your unique design. 🔗 Apply here ✨ Curious about your own blueprint? Find your Soul Contract Here (Use it as a mirror—not a rulebook) The wealthiest version of you isn’t hustling. She’s not chasing. She’s not forcing. She’s aligned. It’s time to stop forcing your next level—and start becoming the woman who can actually hold it.

    18 min

  7. Apr 29

    EP 37: Frustration Is Your Next Breakthrough and the Messy Middle is Your Portal

    There’s a phase in every level-up where things don’t feel fully clear yet… and most women mistake that as something going wrong. In this episode, I’m breaking down the truth about the messy middle—the part of growth where your identity is shifting, your voice is evolving, and your message hasn’t fully clicked into place yet… but something bigger is trying to come through you. We talk about why frustration is actually a powerful signal of expansion, how waiting for clarity slows your momentum, and what it really looks like to lead while you’re still becoming. This episode Jessica Uyeno, mentor to the most interesting women in the world, and host Renee Marie will shift how you see the in-between—and help you move through it faster, with more trust, power, and self-leadership. Why frustration is a sign of expansion—not misalignmentThe truth about the “messy middle” and identity evolutionHow waiting for clarity keeps you stuck longer than necessaryWhat it looks like to show up and lead before it all makes senseThe shift that allows your voice and message to land with powerIf you’re in a season where you feel like you’re evolving… but can’t fully articulate it yet… this episode will meet you exactly where you are—and move you forward. If you’re ready to be supported inside this level of growth in real time, the Diamond Standard Room is where we do this work at the highest level. Apply HERE or DM me ROOM to step inside. And as always…remember who the f**k you are, icon.

    46 min

  8. Apr 22

    EP 36: Stop Overexplaining: The Hidden Leak in High-Level Leadership

    There is a version of you who no longer feels the need to explain herself to feel safe. And when you tap into her… everything changes. In this episode of She’s Iconic, I’m taking you inside a real-time identity shift that happened this week — where I caught myself collapsing years of growth simply by noticing something subtle: Where I was still overexplaining. Not from insecurity…Not from lack…But from a nervous system that had learned to associate clarity with safety. And once I saw it? I couldn’t unsee it. You’ll hear how this showed up:• In my content• In a conversation with my husband• And in a room I realized I had outgrown Because overexplaining isn’t just a communication habit…It’s an authority leak. And if you’re a high-level woman leading in your life or business, there’s a good chance it’s happening in places you haven’t even noticed yet. We’re going deeper than surface-level “confidence” conversations and into what’s actually underneath:— The nervous system patterns driving your voice— The subtle ways you dilute your power— And how to recalibrate into clean, sovereign leadership This isn’t about saying less. It’s about saying exactly enough… and letting it land. Inside this episode:• Why overexplaining is a safety mechanism (not a flaw)• The difference between clarity and over-explaining• How I shifted this in my marriage in real time• The moment I realized I had outgrown a room• What it actually means to collapse your timeline as a leader If you’ve ever felt like:“I know I’m powerful… so why do I still feel like I need to explain myself?” This episode is going to hit. And if you’re ready for this level of refinement in your own leadership —I’ve opened up 2 private mentorship spaces for high-caliber women who are ready to lead with precision, not performance. Apply in the show notes. And next episode… we’re going even deeper:The Blind Spots of a Self-Aware Woman. Because awareness alone doesn’t mean you can see everything. Follow the show so you don’t miss what’s coming next.✨ WORK WITH ME: I’ve opened a limited number of 1:1 coaching spots for women ready to go deeper. → One-off recalibration sessions Apply here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FA... → 3–6 month private mentorship Apply here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FA... Speaking inquiries here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfgN6DNIRLzw5pE5UwRkEJsaOm3nCUweozzdSrDXFh9XXpRHw/viewform?usp=header 🎧 LETS CONNECT: Substack: https://theiconicwoman.substack.com/ Instagram:  / xoreneemarie   If this landed for you, share it with someone who needs to hear it 💋 And as always— remember who the f*ck you are, icon 🔥

    11 min
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She’s Iconic is the podcast for high-achieving visionaries, coaches, and creatives ready to lead from identity, embodiment, and energetic truth—so your business feels as good as it looks. Hosted by mentor and speaker Renee Marie, these raw riffs and iconic conversations guide you through your 10x evolution into your most expressed, magnetic, iconic leader self. Because in this world, the strategy is you.

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