From Fear To Fire

Heather Hansen Oneill

Keynote Speaker, Author, Podcastor

  1. 1D AGO

    Softening into Love with Heather

    This week’s theme: Softening into Love In this Valentine’s Day episode, Heather Hansen O’Neill reframes love as an intentional, courageous practice rather than a passive feeling. She explains how our brains naturally gravitate toward fear, making compassion and connection conscious choices. Through personal stories about miscommunication, assumptions, and stress reactions, she shows how easily fear-driven narratives take over and how powerful it can be to pause, breathe, and choose a different response. Softening, she reminds us, is not weakness. It is the work of choosing love anyway. Heather shares a heartfelt love letter to humanity that honors imperfect people who keep trying, reflecting, and choosing connection over being right. She also tells a retreat story where vulnerability helped two conflicted team members truly see each other, shifting the entire dynamic. The episode closes with a simple practice: pause, notice what is driving your reaction, and choose love. While our differences are real, our shared humanity is stronger, and love is the upgrade our world needs. From Fear to Fire: Secrets to Overcome Fear, Embrace your Gifts and Achieve Success This is the place where real people share real challenges. Where you can find a common bond and uncommon wisdom through their stories. Use tips from the breakthroughs of others to jump start your success. Speaker, author, adventurer, and host Heather Hansen O’Neill takes you on the journey from fear to fire. Today, we talk about choosing love over fear through conscious, courageous softening that deepens connection, rewrites assumptions, and honors our shared humanity. Heather Hansen O’Neill Heather is the host of the From Fear to Fire podcast as well as a best-selling author, igniter of inner flame, and an international keynote speaker and change strategist. Her specialty is in helping individuals and organizations consciously transform their behaviors for peak performance. CALLING ALL LADIES- LOVE on yourself with a women’s retreat this April! Learn more HERE Connect with Heather: Website: Heather Hansen O’Neill Social media accounts: LinkedIn: heatherhansenoneill Facebook: heather.h.oneill.9 Instagram: heather.hansen.oneill YouTube: @fromfeartofire Reach out to Heather at: Heather@HeatherHansenONeill.com. Want to dive deeper? Check out Finding Humanity book, explore The Humanity of Sales show on YouTube, and watch the powerful DisruptHR talk. Quote of the Day: “Love is a choice you make every day.” ~Gary Chama   Finding Humanity: The Evolution of Sales is out now. Check it out here! The post Softening into Love with Heather appeared first on Heather Hansen Oneill.

    12 min
  2. FEB 4

    Women’s Health with Jennifer Newell

    This week’s theme: Women’s Health This episode of From Fear to Fire highlights women’s health through the inspiring journey of Jennifer Newell, founder of Betty’s Co., a modern women’s healthcare company transforming how young women experience care. Jennifer shares her personal story of being diagnosed with primary ovarian insufficiency as a teenager and how navigating a confusing system revealed a major gap in how girls transition into women’s healthcare. She explains why women’s health must go beyond pregnancy-focused care and instead address menstrual health, mental wellbeing, and overall body awareness from an early age. Listeners will discover how Betty’s Co. creates safe, stigma-free spaces where women feel heard, respected, and empowered. The conversation explores the connection between women’s health, mental health, and lifestyle factors such as sleep, stress, nutrition, and hormonal cycles, while emphasizing early education and accessible care, especially on college campuses. At its core, this episode is a call to reimagine women’s health as holistic, compassionate, and proactive care for every stage of life. From Fear to Fire: Secrets to Overcome Fear, Embrace Your Gifts and Achieve Success This is the place where real people share real challenges. Where you can find a common bond and uncommon wisdom through their stories. Use tips from the breakthroughs of others to jump-start your success. Speaker, author, adventurer, and host Heather Hansen O’Neill takes you on the journey from fear to fire. Today, we talk about women’s health and how reimagining early, holistic, and stigma-free care can empower young women to understand their bodies, prioritize mental wellbeing, and build healthier relationships with healthcare. Jennifer Newell You might say Betty’s Co. found Jennifer. At the age of 17, she was diagnosed with premature ovarian failure, sending her as an infertile person to solo-navigate a space in healthcare that revealed a massive care gap. From starting their periods up to pregnancy planning, younger women simply were not getting care. Nearly 20 years after her diagnosis, women’s healthcare looked very much the same. So, Jennifer set out to create the change needed. Betty’s Co. embodies both Jennifer’s personal journey as a patient and her extensive professional background. Throughout her decade-long tenure with healthcare consulting and technology firm, the Advisory Board, and its sister company in higher education, EAB, Jennifer excelled in building and leading high-performing teams in business development, content creation, and product marketing. Connect with Jennifer: Website: Betty’s Co LinkedIn: Betty’s Co Instagram: @bettysco Quote of the Day: “The first wealth is health.” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson   Finding Humanity: The Evolution of Sales is out now. Check it out here! The post Women’s Health with Jennifer Newell appeared first on Heather Hansen Oneill.

    23 min
  3. JAN 29

    Living with Jeff Luther

    This week’s theme: Living This episode of From Fear to Fire features Jeff Luther’s powerful story of surviving sudden cardiac arrest and rebuilding his life after being forced to let go of the identity he once knew. Once a competitive endurance athlete, Jeff faced fear, anger, and loss before discovering how gratitude and protecting his mental real estate helped him reclaim control. His journey shows how small, intentional steps can move anyone out of fear and back into purpose. At its core, the conversation is about choosing living instead of merely existing. Jeff shares how releasing ego, embracing vulnerability, and prioritizing connection, especially with his family, reshaped his definition of success. The episode reminds listeners that true fulfillment comes from presence, meaningful connection, and the courage to take one step forward, right where you are. From Fear to Fire: Secrets to Overcome Fear, Embrace Your Gifts and Achieve Success This is the place where real people share real challenges. Where you can find a common bond and uncommon wisdom through their stories. Use tips from the breakthroughs of others to jump-start your success. Speaker, author, adventurer, and host Heather Hansen O’Neill takes you on the journey from fear to fire. Today, we talk about how to transform fear and setbacks into resilience, rediscover purpose, and create meaningful connections by choosing to fully live rather than merely survive. Jeff Luther Jeff Luther is a speaker, coach, and father of three who quite literally came back from the dead. After suffering a sudden cardiac arrest in front of his son, Jeff had to rebuild every part of his life — his body, his relationships, and his purpose. He now helps entrepreneurs, leaders, and everyday people move from fear to fire by teaching how to reclaim control and create a life worth living again. Connect with Jeff: Website: All Can No Can’t LinkedIn: Jeff Luther Instagram: @allcan_nocant Jeff loves to offer a 75-minute clarity conversation or go to jeffluther.com and scroll to the bottom of the page if you’re reading this. Quote of the Day: “Choosing to live is an act of defiance, a form of heroism” ~Heather Morris   Finding Humanity: The Evolution of Sales is out now. Check it out here! The post Living with Jeff Luther appeared first on Heather Hansen Oneill.

    27 min
  4. JAN 14

    Charisma with Eleni Kelakos

    This week’s theme: Charisma In this From Fear to Fire interview, Heather Hansen O’Neill speaks with Eleni Kelakos about charisma as an innate quality rooted in authenticity and presence, not performance. Eleni describes charismatic presence as a dynamic life force that draws people in when we are fully present, grounded, and real. Through her experiences as an actress and speaker, she explains how fear and self-doubt can dim this natural spark, and how reconnecting to the moment allows charisma to re-emerge naturally. The conversation also reframes fear as a powerful teacher rather than a limitation. Eleni shares practical tools for accessing charisma, including grounding the body, regulating breath, setting intention, and shifting limiting beliefs. She emphasizes that people feel our energy before they hear our words, and that true influence comes from emotional alignment and connection. Ultimately, the interview highlights that charisma is strengthened through practice, self-awareness, and the courage to show up fully, even in life’s most challenging moments. From Fear to Fire: Secrets to Overcome Fear, Embrace Your Gifts and Achieve Success This is the place where real people share real challenges. Where you can find a common bond and uncommon wisdom through their stories. Use tips from the breakthroughs of others to jump-start your success. Speaker, author, adventurer, and host Heather Hansen O’Neill takes you on the journey from fear to fire.  Today, we explore how charisma is an innate, learnable presence that grows when we meet fear with authenticity, self-awareness, and intentional connection. Eleni Kelakos Eleni Kelakos CSP®, The Speaker Whisperer®, uses performance techniques to help executives worldwide be more relatable and magnetic as speakers and leaders. When she’s not coaching individuals or facilitating training at companies like GM or Allstate, Eleni practices what she preaches, empowering audiences with her signature keynote presentations. A graduate in both Theater Arts and Semiotics from Brown University, Eleni is a past president of the National Speakers Association of Michigan. She has recorded four critically acclaimed CDs of original songs, and released three award-winning, bestselling books: Touch The Sky, Claim The Stage, and Charismatic Presence. Connect with Eleni: Website: The Eleni Group LinkedIn: Eleni Kelakos, CSP Facebook: Eleni Kelakos Instagram: @eleni.kelakos Visit the home page of my website and sign up for my 5 Ways To Minimize Stage Fright, Amp Up Your Presence, And Wow Any Audience free ebook. Quote of the Day: “Charisma is a sparkle in people that money can’t buy. It’s an invisible energy with visible effects.” ~Marianne Williamson   Finding Humanity: The Evolution of Sales is out now. Check it out here! The post Charisma with Eleni Kelakos appeared first on Heather Hansen Oneill.

    32 min
  5. JAN 7

    Stop Robbing Yourself of Lasting Wealth with Bill Cates

    This week’s theme: Stop Robbing Yourself of Lasting Wealth In this episode of From Fear to Fire, financial educator and bestselling author Bill Cates joins Heather Hansen O’Neill to explore how many of us stop robbing ourselves of lasting wealth by uncovering and transforming the hidden beliefs that subtly sabotage our financial success. Drawing on insights from his book The Hidden Heist, Bill explains that the real barriers to financial freedom aren’t income or opportunity; they’re the unconscious money stories, scarcity thinking, and misinformation that shape our decisions and limit our potential. Bill and Heather dive into how awareness, education, and disciplined habits can help listeners challenge outdated beliefs, embrace long-term thinking, and make smarter financial choices. By recognizing and rewriting the internal narratives that quietly rob you of confidence and opportunity, you can build greater financial freedom and peace of mind. From Fear to Fire: Secrets to Overcome Fear, Embrace Your Gifts and Achieve Success This is the place where real people share real challenges. Where you can find a common bond and uncommon wisdom through their stories. Use tips from the breakthroughs of others to jump-start your success. Speaker, author, adventurer, and host Heather Hansen O’Neill takes you on the journey from fear to fire.  Today, we explore how changing limiting money beliefs and learning how money truly works can reduce fear, build discipline, and create lasting financial freedom. Bill Cates Bill believes that everyone deserves to make educated financial decisions that are in their best interest. He has turned this belief into his mission—to bring financial education to as many people as he can reach. For over 30 years, Bill has helped financial professionals and businesses move from incremental growth to exponential growth by: communicating more compelling value, balancing digital and human marketing strategies, multiplying their best clients through referrals, and targeting profitable niche markets. Bill is the author of seven books, the founder of The Cates Academy for Relationship Marketing, and the host of the acclaimed Top Advisor Podcast, ranked in the top 5 percent of podcasts worldwide. Bill was inducted into the Professional Speakers Hall of Fame in 2010. Connect with Bill: Website: Bill Cates | Referral Coach LinkedIn: Bill Cates, Unlocking Exponential Growth Bill’s newest book is The Hidden Heist: Stop Robbing Yourself of Lasting Wealth – An Irresistible Tale of Financial Redemption. Quote of the Day: “Do not save what is left after spending, but spend what is left after saving.” ~Warren Buffett   Finding Humanity: The Evolution of Sales is out now. Check it out here! The post Stop Robbing Yourself of Lasting Wealth with Bill Cates appeared first on Heather Hansen Oneill.

    32 min
  6. 12/31/2025

    Leverage with Fabienne Fredrickson

    This week’s theme: Leverage In this episode of From Fear to Fire, Fabienne Fredrickson explores how women can leverage both inner wisdom and external support to grow successful businesses without burning out. She explains that many high-achieving women rely too heavily on masculine “push” energy such as constant striving and overworking, while neglecting feminine energy rooted in intuition and collaboration. Fabienne emphasizes that sustainable success comes from learning to leverage a balanced blend of both, allowing women to build businesses that align with their purpose and values. Fabienne also highlights the unconscious patterns that lead women to overgive, undercharge, and exhaust themselves. Her message is clear and practical: leverage delegation, leverage boundaries, and leverage action to move through fear. By shifting from a martyr mindset to a visionary identity, women can reclaim their time, lead with confidence, and create success that supports both their professional goals and personal well-being. From Fear to Fire: Secrets to Overcome Fear, Embrace Your Gifts and Achieve Success This is the place where real people share real challenges. Where you can find a common bond and uncommon wisdom through their stories. Use tips from the breakthroughs of others to jump-start your success. Speaker, author, adventurer, and host Heather Hansen O’Neill takes you on the journey from fear to fire.  Today, we talk about how women can leverage balance, self-worth, and support systems to overcome fear, prevent burnout, and build sustainable success in business and life. Fabienne Fredrickson Our guest today is a woman whose work has changed the lives and businesses of thousands of women around the world. Fabienne Fredrickson is a transformational business coach, author, and mentor who has spent more than twenty-five years helping women step into their highest potential in business. As the founder of Boldheart.com, Fabienne has built a global community of women entrepreneurs who are creating 6- and 7-figure businesses while reclaiming their freedom, their time, and their sense of purpose. Her approach blends practical strategy with deep inner work, uniting business growth with mindset, nervous system regulation, and feminine leadership. Please join me in welcoming a true catalyst for women’s awakening and empowerment, Fabienne Fredrickson. Connect with Fabienne: Website: Bold Heart LinkedIn: Fabienne Fredrickson Facebook: Fabienne Fredrickson Instagram: fabiennefred Be sure to check out her book, The Leveraged Business, and her podcast, The Fabienne Show. Quote of the Day: “We must begin to reclaim the lives we thirst for- and stop reinforcing the tyranny we were dictated. The structure we uphold is the one that will prevail.” ~Trista Hendren   Finding Humanity: The Evolution of Sales is out now. Check it out here! The post Leverage with Fabienne Fredrickson appeared first on Heather Hansen Oneill.

    28 min
  7. 12/18/2025

    Accessibility & Inclusion with Jenna Udenberg

    This week’s theme: Accessibility & Inclusion In this episode of From Fear to Fire, host Heather Hansen O’Neill speaks with disability advocate, educator, and author Jenna Udenberg about lived experience, leadership, and the true meaning of Accessibility and Inclusion. Jenna shares her journey as a lifelong wheelchair user and founder of the nonprofit Above and Beyond With U, emphasizing that accessibility is not about checking boxes or meeting minimum ADA requirements. Instead, it requires involving disabled people from the very beginning so spaces, systems, and decisions reflect real human needs rather than assumptions. Jenna also reframes disability as a neutral part of the human experience, explaining that barriers are most often created by environments and attitudes, not bodies. She encourages organizations and leaders to move beyond good intentions and take intentional action rooted in Accessibility and Inclusion across workplaces, education, and community spaces. Her message is clear: when people feel welcomed, safe, and valued, everyone benefits, and that awareness is what helps individuals and organizations truly move from fear to fire. From Fear to Fire: Secrets to Overcome Fear, Embrace Your Gifts and Achieve Success This is the place where real people share real challenges. Where you can find a common bond and uncommon wisdom through their stories. Use tips from the breakthroughs of others to jump-start your success. Speaker, author, adventurer, and host Heather Hansen O’Neill takes you on the journey from fear to fire.  Today, we explore how true accessibility and inclusion are achieved by centering disabled voices, challenging assumptions, and intentionally designing spaces, systems, and cultures where everyone can belong and thrive. Jenna Udenberg Jenna Udenberg is a lifelong resident from the Northshore of Minnesota and is a former music educator of 19 years. She has used a manual wheelchair since the age of 8 due to Juvenile Idiopathic Arthritis. Jenna is a 2017 Blandin Foundation Community Leader, a 2020 Bush Fellow, and a 2025 Shannon Leadership Institute Fellow. Writing for the Lake County Press in her column, Local View from 4 foot 2, inspires vulnerability and the sharing of lived experiences from the seated perspective. Within My Spokes: A Tapestry of Pain, Growth & Freedom is Jenna’s published memoir which you can find on the A&BWU website, on Amazon or wherever you find your books. In her free time, you can find Jenna outdoors on paved trails or fishing with friends, playing board and card games, as well as coaching the Robo Dweebs, a LEGO robotics team. Jenna is the founder of the non-profit, Above & Beyond With U, which works to increase accessibility and inclusion in Minnesota and beyond. Connect with Jenna: Website: Above and Beyond With U LinkedIn: Above & Beyond With U Facebook: Above & Beyond With U  Instagram: aboveandbeyondwithu Quote of the Day: “Life is not just the passing of time. Life is the collection of experiences and their intensity.” ~Jim Rohn   Finding Humanity: The Evolution of Sales is out now. Check it out here! The post Accessibility & Inclusion with Jenna Udenberg appeared first on Heather Hansen Oneill.

    34 min
  8. 12/10/2025

    The Power of Personality with Eric Gee

    This week’s theme: The Power of Personality The episode features Eric Gee, creator of the Utopia 16 assessment and author of The Power of Personality. He explains how his work helps people understand their core values and motivations through four major personality packs—Gatherers, Hunters, Smiths, and Shamans. By recognizing these natural differences, Eric shows how individuals can reduce insecurity, improve relationships, and work more effectively with others. Heather and Eric also explore how The Power of Personality applies in real life—from team dynamics to personal growth—using relatable stories and humor. The conversation encourages listeners to embrace who they are, accept both strengths and flaws, and “find their anchor” so they can move from fear to confidence in every area of life. From Fear to Fire: Secrets to Overcome Fear, Embrace Your Gifts and Achieve Success This is the place where real people share real challenges. Where you can find a common bond and uncommon wisdom through their stories. Use tips from the breakthroughs of others to jump-start your success. Speaker, author, adventurer, and host Heather Hansen O’Neill takes you on the journey from fear to fire.  Today, we explore how The Power of Personality helps people understand their unique traits and values to improve self-awareness, relationships, and personal growth. Eric Gee Eric Gee has administered personality-based life coaching for more than twenty years. He built a successful education company that used his personality typing method to better the lives of more than twenty thousand students, parents, and teachers. As creator of the Youtopia Project website and the Youtopia 16 assessment, he has disseminated his method to over half a million users since the website’s creation in 2016. His book, The Power of Personality, is the culmination of decades of research and application. Connect with Eric: Website: Youtopia University LinkedIn: Eric Gee Facebook: Eric Gee Instagram: The Power of Personality Amazon: Power of Personality Free online personality assessment HERE. Quote of the Day: “If we learn to understand each other, we will have a better understanding of ourselves.” ~Sarah Gadon   Finding Humanity: The Evolution of Sales is out now. Check it out here! The post The Power of Personality with Eric Gee appeared first on Heather Hansen Oneill.

    26 min
5
out of 5
27 Ratings

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