Helping Kids Thrive

Huddle Up

The podcast where each week we bring you expert insight into mental wellness, child development, behavior, attention, and so much more to help your child grow, develop, and thrive.

  1. 11/30/2023

    087: Not All Children Learn Language The Same Way

    Not all children learn language in the same way. Neurotypical children usually learn through analytic language processing (also known as bottom-up processing), while children with autism who are verbal, are more likely to use gestalt language processing (often referred to as top-down processing). With gestalt language processing, children learn language in chunks or phrases, with single words only appearing at later stages as they learn to break down and recombine these gestalts (or language chunks) to create new, spontaneous utterances. Joining us today to break down the ins and outs of gestalt language processing and how adults can learn to adapt to a child's unique style of learning, is Jesse Ferrell, a Certified Speech Language Pathologist (CCC-SLP) who has worked with all kinds of students, including those with autism. In our conversation Jesse expands on gestalts, where children pick them up, and how you can learn to recognize them. She also unpacks the concept of echolalia and how it relates to gestalt language processing, before examining how our understanding of echolalia has shifted in recent years and how we can better support children when we embrace their language processing style. Communication between children and their parents isn't always easy, but sometimes the most important thing is simply showing your child that you want to connect with them. To hear all of Jesse's knowledgeable insights on communication, language, and connection, be sure to tune in today!   Key Points From This Episode: An overview of gestalt language processing, also known as top-down processing. The prevalence of gestalt language processing in children with autism. Analytic language processing and the development you can expect in neurotypical children. How gestalt language processors differ from typical analytic language processors. An explanation of gestalts, also known as language chunks. Examples of how children use gestalts and learning how to recognize it. How to better understand what your child is trying to communicate when they use gestalts. The concept of echolalia and how it relates to gestalt language processing. An overview of the two main types of echolalia: immediate and delayed echolalia. The shift in how echolalia is being viewed, from non-functional to functional. Recognizing the style that a child is using to learn language. Adapting to a child's style of language learning. Signs that can help a parent recognize whether their child is a gestalt processor. How stress can make your child revert to earlier gestalts. What parents can do to support their child's language development.

    28 min
  2. 10/26/2023

    086: How Do I Deal With My Child Being Excluded?

    Being rejected is never easy, and it can be especially soul-crushing for children. How do you, as a parent, ensure that you are there for kids in their time of need, without adding fuel to the fire? To help us get to the bottom of this question, we are joined by an esteemed school psychologist, Dr. Bianca Vasquez. After sharing her deep love for being involved in the education sphere, our guest explains why being excluded hits kids the hardest, how parents can be more empathetic, how to manage your own feelings and emotions, and why your child's age and temperament are important factors to consider. Then, we get a quick lesson on intelligent failure before exploring other ways that you can constructively help and support your kids. We also closely examine how to build resiliency and foster your child's self-worth, how to avoid common parental mistakes when coaching your child through rejection, and why exclusion and failure can actually be the learning tools that your child needs for their own personal growth, plus so much more! Key Points From This Episode: • What parents can do when their child has been excluded from something • Introducing Philadelphian school psychologist, Dr. Bianca Vasquez. • Why being left out is so difficult for kids, and how parents can be more empathetic. • How our own feelings as parents influence our reactions. • Why your child's temperament matters in how you respond to them (and how age fits in). • The impact that the type of event may have on your child's exclusion. • A quick lesson on "intelligent failure." • Other ways to support and help our kids when they are feeling down about being left out. • How to build resiliency and foster self-worth in your children. • Common mistakes that parents make in their reactions and how to avoid them. • How failure can help your kids learn new things about themselves.

    28 min
  3. 09/21/2023

    085: Easing After School Transitions

    For many kids, getting home after school can be a stressful period. There is so much to process from the school day and if the after-school transition isn't properly managed, a child may feel too overwhelmed for anything other than a meltdown. So today, we're taking a look at some helpful tips for easing after-school transitions.  We are joined by Occupational Therapist, Evangeline Abraham, who explains how she got involved in this work and why today's topic sits particularly close to her heart. Then, Van goes deeper into why after-school transitions are a prominent problem, the factors that make a child susceptible to after-school burnouts, the undeniable value of setting a routine, and why she is a big advocate of trial and error. We also discuss why age and grade are important details to consider, as well as the role that transportation plays in balancing or unsettling your child after school.  Key Points From This Episode: Today we will be sharing some tips and tricks for a successful transition home after school.  Introducing Occupational Therapist, Van Abraham, and how she got involved in this work.  Why the transition home from school is difficult for many kids.  Factors that may influence a child's susceptibility to be unsettled at home after school.  What parents can do to ease that school-home transition for their kids.  How to approach homework and playtime.   Why Van is a huge supporter of trial and error. What to look out for if your kids are older (in high school). The role that transportation plays in after-school transitions.   Huddle Up

    22 min
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