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Greg and Jacquie Francis | Coaching, Resilience
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If you’re a Christian parent who wants to raise kids with unshakable character, strong values, and deep faith but feel unsure of how to build that culture at home consistently, you’re in the right place. On High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis take you behind the scenes of their own family of eight to share real strategies, biblical wisdom, and practical tools for parenting with confidence and purpose. Each episode helps you strengthen your marriage, lead your children with clarity, and build a home where faith, discipline, and unity thrive, no chaos, no confusion, no burnout.

  1. 6H AGO

    Stop Trying to Fix Your Spouse | V106

    Why do so many marriages feel anxious, tense, or disconnected — even when there’s no major conflict? In Episode 106 of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis explain how misaligned expectations and misunderstood differences quietly create anxiety in marriage — and how embracing God’s design brings peace and connection. They cover: How expectations + unmet reality create anxietyWhy personality differences aren’t flawsHow trying to “fix” your spouse damages connectionWhy celebrating quirks builds trustHow adjusting expectations brings peaceWhy God designed your spouse exactly as they areThis episode is a powerful reminder that connection grows when understanding replaces comparison. (00:00) Why Expectations Create Anxiety in Marriage (02:22) Learning and Celebrating Personality Differences (04:12) How Unrealistic Expectations Damage Connection (06:31) Stop Trying to Fix Your Spouse (08:17) Appreciating Strengths Instead of Weaknesses (10:06) Trusting Your Spouse’s Strengths (13:38) Adjusting Expectations to Match Reality (16:15) Embracing God’s Design for Your Marriage (17:55) Final Encouragement & Closing

    19 min

  2. 2D AGO

    Communication Isn’t Just What You Say — It’s How You Say It | V105

    What if one simple question could change how you communicate in your marriage? In Episode 105 of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis break down how asking “Does this bring connection or disconnection?” can instantly reshape conversations, arguments, and daily interactions. They share: Why anxiety and “walking on eggshells” damage marriagesHow tone matters as much as contentWhy couples interpret conflict differently — and why that’s okayHow asking better questions leads to better answersWhat actually creates disconnection (raised voices, feeling unseen, not being heard)How grace, humor, and understanding build long-term connectionThis episode gives couples practical language and awareness to reduce stress, increase peace, and strengthen their marriage — which directly impacts parenting, finances, and family culture. (00:00) Connection vs Disconnection Explained (01:43) Why Anxiety Shows Up in Marriage (04:12) Asking Better Questions for Better Connection (05:44) How Tone Creates Disconnection (07:10) Feeling Heard vs Feeling Dismissed (10:21) Misunderstanding Differences in Communication (12:18) What Actually Creates Disconnection (14:43) Choosing Grace Over Annoyance (16:36) Humor, Acceptance & Long-Term Connection (17:07) Final Encouragement & Closing

    17 min

  3. FEB 5

    Why Good Intentions Aren’t Enough for Strong Families | V104

    Why do so many marriages and families drift apart—even when there’s still love? In Episode 104 of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis unpack the real reasons connection fades over time. From simple ignorance, to misplaced priorities, to misunderstanding emotional capacity, they explain why families don’t disconnect overnight—but slowly, unintentionally, and quietly. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why connection is never neutral — it’s either growing or shrinkingHow “being busy” masks deeper relationship issuesWhy financial provision alone doesn’t create emotional closenessHow misunderstanding capacity damages marriage and parentingWhy connection must be fought for in today’s distracted worldThis conversation is honest, faith-centered, and deeply practical for parents who want stronger marriages and deeper connection with their kids. 👉 Subscribe for weekly parenting leadership conversations 👉 Share this episode with a spouse or parent who needs encouragement today (00:00) Preparing for Parenting Before Kids (01:28) Why Connection Matters in Marriage and Parenting (02:48) Seasons of Connection and Disconnection (03:58) How Busyness Replaces Priorities (05:11) Why Most People Don’t Learn How to Connect (06:12) Ignorance: Not Knowing What You Don’t Know (07:28) When Date Nights Don’t Create Connection (08:45) Parenting Connection Changes with Each Season (10:42) Emotional Fatigue and Capacity as Parents (11:53) Connection Is Never Neutral (12:59) Misunderstanding Priority and Capacity (14:46) Fighting for Connection in a Distracted World (15:14) Why Parents Must Learn to Fight for Family

    17 min

  4. FEB 3

    The Secret to Raising Confident, Self-Driven Kids | V103

    What if the secret to raising confident, connected kids wasn’t more information—but clear vision, visible goals, and shared responsibility? In this episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis walk you through how they intentionally create a culture of connection inside their home—one where kids take ownership, goals are visible, and accountability is part of everyday life. You’ll learn: Why family connection must be built on purposeHow visible goals increase motivation and follow-throughWhy kids should help carry the responsibility for relationshipsHow simple systems create long-term momentumHow to build memories and closeness throughout the year—not just on vacationsThis episode is packed with real-life examples from their own family and practical tools you can start using immediately. 🎯 Parenting doesn’t get easier by accident—it gets better by design. 👉 Subscribe for more faith-centered, practical parenting strategies 👉 Share this episode with a parent who wants a stronger family culture (00:00) Why Family Culture Matters (01:28) Setting Goals That the Whole Family Can See (03:46) Turning Goals Into Action Steps (05:52) Why Accountability Builds Momentum (07:05) Teaching Kids Ownership of Connection (09:18) Simple Goals That Create Lasting Change (10:55) Connection Is the Real End Goal (12:35) Applying Leadership Principles at Home (14:10) Building Confidence Through Follow-Through (15:20) Final Encouragement for Parents

    16 min

  5. JAN 29

    How to Protect Your Marriage in Busy Parenting Seasons | V102

    How do you stay connected as a couple — and as a family — when life is full? In Episode 102 of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis share how they intentionally protect marriage, family alignment, and connection, even in busy seasons filled with sports, work, parenting, and leadership demands. They walk through real-life rhythms that help their family stay grounded: Why marriage connection must be planned, not assumedHow setting minimums protects relationshipsWhy busy seasons don’t cancel covenant commitmentsHow family goals and transparency create peaceWhy kids thrive when they understand the family visionWhat honorable disagreement and quick repair look likeThis episode will help you: Strengthen your marriage without overwhelmCreate clarity and alignment in your homeBuild rhythms that prevent burnoutModel healthy connection for your kidsLead your family with intention and faith🌲 Learn more at https://www.teamredwoods.com/podcast (00:00) Why Marriage Must Be Intentional in Busy Seasons (01:43) Defining Family Goals During Heavy Sports Schedules (04:12) Setting Minimums That Protect Marriage Connection (05:44) Why Flexibility Prevents Burnout and Resentment (07:10) What Actually Counts as Quality Couple Time (08:32) Using Family Trips to Build Long-Term Connection (10:44) Creating Clear Expectations With Family Goals (12:28) Teaching Kids to Pair Goals With Effort (14:33) Helping Kids Build Confidence Through Action (16:16) Final Encouragement on Family Alignment

    17 min

  6. JAN 27

    How to Turn Dreams Into Action Steps as a Family | V101

    In Episode 101 of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis go deeper into how their family sets goals in a practical, sustainable, faith-centered way — and why most people quit on goals before they ever build momentum. This episode is packed with real-world systems, coaching insights, and family examples showing parents how to: Start goal-setting earlyInvolve kids in the processTurn vague goals into actionable stepsBuild flexibility into routinesCelebrate progress instead of quitting when things get messyCreate an environment where goal-setting becomes a family cultureThis is a blueprint episode for families who want clarity, momentum, and long-term growth — without burnout. (00:00) Why You Have to Slow Down to Speed Up (01:43) Starting Family Goal Planning Early (04:12) Turning Big Goals Into Clear Actions (05:22) Avoiding Guilt and Burnout in Goal Setting (07:14) Focusing on What You Can Control (10:44) Rewarding Progress and Building Momentum (12:20) Using Goal Setting to Prepare Kids for Life (15:16) Simple Goals That Build Confidence in Kids (16:40) Final Encouragement to Start This Week

    17 min

  7. JAN 22

    Celebration Creates Momentum in Families | V100

    Episode 100 is a milestone conversation for High Performance Parenting. Greg and Jacquie Francis sit down to model something most families rarely do well: stop, reflect, celebrate wins, and then intentionally plan what’s next. Through humor, family stories, faith conversations, and real examples from their own home, they walk parents through: Why celebrating wins matters for kidsHow reflection builds gratitude and confidenceWhy families forget how much they’ve actually accomplishedHow to talk through goals without pressure or overwhelmWhy faith, leadership, and intentional environments shape long-term growthThis episode isn’t about hustle or perfection — it’s about perspective, gratitude, and moving forward with clarity and faith. (00:00)– Welcome & Family Culture (01:43) – Birthday Traditions That Build Identity (04:12) – Celebrating Family Wins (05:22) – Teaching Life Skills Through Responsibility (07:14) – Confidence Through Music & Learning (10:44) – Setting Family & Marriage Goals (12:20) – Sports, Encouragement & Growth (15:16) – Parents Growing Intentionally (16:40) – Closing Encouragement

    17 min

  8. JAN 20

    When Love Means Letting Go | V99

    What do you do when a situation in your home isn’t healthy — even though your intentions were good? In this episode of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis share the full story behind one of the hardest decisions their family has ever made: rehoming their dog, Indigo. After years of training, prayer, conversations, and emotional wrestling, they realized the environment in their home was no longer peaceful or safe — for their kids or their dogs. This episode walks parents through: Why love sometimes requires hard leadershipHow to evaluate environment, safety, and peace in your homeWhy difficult decisions don’t mean failureHow prayer and patience lead to clarityHow God redeemed this painful decision into a beautiful outcomeWhy your family’s health must come before outside opinionsThis conversation will encourage any parent facing a hard, emotional, or controversial decision — reminding you that God honors wisdom, courage, and obedience. 🌲 Learn more at https://www.teamredwoods.com/podcast 00:00 – Welcome & setting the context01:30 – Why this decision was so hard03:30 – Years of training, effort & prayer05:45 – When the home environment isn’t healthy08:00 – Safety, peace & leadership10:15 – Talking through the decision as a family12:30 – Finding the right home14:45 – God’s redemption in the process17:00 – How Abby processed the decision19:15 – Choosing the bigger picture21:30 – Final encouragement for parents

    16 min
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If you’re a Christian parent who wants to raise kids with unshakable character, strong values, and deep faith but feel unsure of how to build that culture at home consistently, you’re in the right place. On High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis take you behind the scenes of their own family of eight to share real strategies, biblical wisdom, and practical tools for parenting with confidence and purpose. Each episode helps you strengthen your marriage, lead your children with clarity, and build a home where faith, discipline, and unity thrive, no chaos, no confusion, no burnout.

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