Hold My Sweet Tea

Pearl & Holly

Where True Crime collides with chilling ghost stories and Southern folklore.  Join us, sip sweet tea, and uncover shocking tales of murder, mystery, and the supernatural, all with a healthy dose of Southern charm and a touch of sass!

  1. Ep. 115-When A Healer Becomes A Predator: Nathan Chasing Horse

    1D AGO

    Ep. 115-When A Healer Becomes A Predator: Nathan Chasing Horse

    Send us Fan Mail Las Vegas hits different when the headline isn’t a party, it’s a predator hiding behind “healing.” We’re Pearl and Holly, and we’re breaking down the Nathan Chasing Horse case: a man prosecutors say used a Lakota medicine man persona, public appearances, and a tight inner circle to exploit Indigenous women and girls for years. We talk through what the Nevada jury conviction actually included, why some counts carry the possibility of life sentences, and how the case stretches beyond one state with other allegations and warrants in places like Montana and Canada. We also dig into the part that makes this story especially disturbing: the way cult-like coercive control can be disguised as spirituality. When someone promises protection, connection, and medical “miracles,” it can pull in people who are grieving, sick, isolated, or searching for identity and community. From Melissa’s search for her Lakota roots to Ren’s abuse being framed as a “life for a life” exchange, we focus on the mechanics of grooming, fear-mongering, and spiritual abuse. We also zoom out to the larger crisis: violence against American Indian and Alaska Native women is pervasive, often overlooked, and made worse when accountability breaks down inside systems meant to keep people safe. If you care about true crime with context, survivor-centered reporting, and the real-world warning signs of cult leaders and spiritual fraud, this conversation is for you. Subscribe, share this with a friend, and leave a review, then tell us: what red flags do you think communities miss most often?

    38 min
  2. Ep. 114-Chris Benoit: When the Machine Broke the Man

    APR 20

    Ep. 114-Chris Benoit: When the Machine Broke the Man

    Send us Fan Mail A final early morning text about the dogs and an open back door becomes the last breadcrumb before pro wrestling’s most haunting headline. We walk through the Chris Benoit case with care for the victims and clarity about what the public record shows, from the three day timeline inside the home to the unanswered question everyone still wrestles with: how does a celebrated performer reach a point where violence becomes the outcome?  We zoom out to the larger context that shaped the moment. Professional wrestling may be scripted, but the injuries are not, and we talk about the reality of repeated concussions, chronic pain, painkiller culture, and the long shadow of chronic traumatic encephalopathy. CTE, head trauma, and mental health in contact sports are no longer fringe conversations, and Benoit’s postmortem findings pushed wrestling toward tougher wellness policies, drug testing scrutiny, and overdue discussions about brain health. We also unpack why reducing it to one factor like steroids misses how multiple stressors can collide.  Just as important, we center Nancy Benoit as a respected wrestling personality and professional in her own right, not a side character to someone else’s legacy. Her career, the strain in the marriage, and the prior reports of abuse open a necessary conversation about warning signs, the realities of coercion and control, and why “just leave” is rarely that simple. If you care about true crime, WWE history, CTE awareness, or domestic violence prevention, this conversation is heavy but vital. Subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review, then tell us what part of this story you think people still misunderstand.

    44 min
  3. Ep. 113-Surgical Castration For Child Sex Offenders In Louisiana

    APR 13

    Ep. 113-Surgical Castration For Child Sex Offenders In Louisiana

    Send us Fan Mail Louisiana is taking a hard-line approach to crimes against children, and the details are more complicated than the headlines. We read through the core language of the state’s surgical castration law for certain sex offenses involving victims under 13, then talk honestly about what it means in practice: medical eligibility, court orders, and what happens when an offender refuses to comply. Along the way, we wrestle with the question people keep asking out loud, what actually stops repeat harm when registration and shame clearly are not enough. We also break down the difference between chemical castration and surgical castration, including what’s reversible, what’s permanent, and why “ongoing treatment” sounds simple until you remember who you’re dealing with. To ground the conversation, we walk through several Louisiana cases, including plea deals and long prison sentences, and we talk about why prosecutors sometimes negotiate agreements to protect victims from the added trauma of testifying at trial. This topic is heavy for a reason. We speak as survivors and as people who have seen how child sexual abuse can shape a life, and we share warning signs adults should take seriously, plus resources for reporting suspected abuse. If you care about child safety, true crime, criminal justice, and victim advocacy, listen, share this with someone who needs it, and then subscribe and leave a review so more people can find the show.

    35 min
  4. Ep. 112-Easter-Ween? How A Devilish Witch Panic Turned Into Easter Trick Or Treating

    APR 6

    Ep. 112-Easter-Ween? How A Devilish Witch Panic Turned Into Easter Trick Or Treating

    Send us Fan Mail Witches at Easter sounds like a joke until you hear the Swedish folklore behind it. We’re taking you to Sweden’s Holy Week, where people once believed witches flew through the night to Blåkulla, a mythical hill tied to the devil, feasts, and an upside-down world where normal rules collapse. What starts as eerie legend quickly turns into something more human: a snapshot of how communities tried to explain illness, loss, and bad luck when fear was easier than uncertainty. We also dig into the historical weight behind the stories, including the 1600s Swedish witch trials and why the panic felt so real that families locked doors, hid brooms, and lit fires for protection. Then we trace the other side of Easter’s roots, from Ostara and the spring equinox to the way eggs and hares moved from pagan symbols of fertility and protection into the modern Easter basket. The best part is the transformation. Today in Sweden and Finland, kids dress up as Easter witches (påskkärringar) with scarves, rosy cheeks, and tiny broomsticks, then go door to door trading drawings for candy and coins. It’s basically Easter trick-or-treating, and it’s one of the clearest examples of how dark folklore can evolve into a playful tradition while keeping small echoes like bonfires and feather decorations. If you love folklore, unusual holiday history, and the weird origins behind everyday traditions, hit play, then subscribe, share this with a friend who needs “Easter ween” in their life, and leave us a review. What’s the strangest holiday tradition you’ve ever heard of?

    25 min
  5. STAD Ep.5-That One Time I Accidentally Joined a Cult (0/10, Do Not Recommend)!

    APR 2

    STAD Ep.5-That One Time I Accidentally Joined a Cult (0/10, Do Not Recommend)!

    Send us Fan Mail A cozy women’s circle in the Oregon woods sounds like the cure for loneliness until the “healing” starts to feel like control. Sarah writes in with a story that begins with tea, candles, journaling, and a leader who takes her hand and says, “I see you.” It feels warm, safe, and validating in exactly the way you crave when you’ve spent your life taking care of everyone else. Then the details get sharper. There are no clocks in the buildings. Cell service drops the moment you turn onto the property. Phones go into a lockbox. The group introduces long silence sessions where you sit perfectly still and start over if you break focus. “Alignment” becomes the explanation for every bad feeling, and distancing yourself from friends gets framed as protecting your energy. Even money gets renamed as an “energy exchange,” and attention becomes the reward for giving more. We talk through why high-control groups can hook smart, level-headed people, especially when they offer belonging and certainty first. When a member vanishes and a hidden journal raises one terrifying question, “What Is In The Tea,” Sarah realizes she isn’t becoming more herself, she’s becoming easier to control. If you’re into cult psychology, coercive control, spiritual abuse red flags, or the dark side of wellness communities, this one stays with you. Subscribe, share with a friend who loves creepy true stories, and leave a review with the biggest red flag you heard in Sarah’s story.

    27 min
  6. Ep. 111-The Unsolved Murder of James "Jimmy" Wood

    MAR 30

    Ep. 111-The Unsolved Murder of James "Jimmy" Wood

    Send us Fan Mail A stretch of River Road in Ponchatoula doesn’t look like the setting for a homicide investigation, but that’s where the disappearance of James “Jimmy” Wood leads. One moment he’s on camera near Highway 22 and Lee’s Landing. Then he’s gone, with his keys and belongings still at home and no clear trail to follow. We talk through what’s been released publicly and why we’re careful about what we don’t share while this remains an active investigation. You’ll hear the timeline that matters, what search efforts can and can’t do in dense South Louisiana woods, and why drones and thermal imaging aren’t magic when the trees are thick and the heat won’t let up. Months later, remains are found near his address, identified through forensic DNA work, and investigators say there’s evidence of gunshots. From there, the questions get sharper: what does “closure” really mean when there’s no arrest, and why do families feel like the hardest part begins after identification? If you’ve ever hesitated to speak up because your detail felt small, we’re asking you to reconsider. Listen, share this with someone in Tangipahoa Parish, and if you know anything, use the tip lines. Subscribe, leave a review, and send this to one person who cares about justice.

    32 min
  7. EP. 110-Carlos Marcello: The Quiet New Orleans Mob Boss Who Built A Gulf South Empire

    MAR 23

    EP. 110-Carlos Marcello: The Quiet New Orleans Mob Boss Who Built A Gulf South Empire

    Send us Fan Mail 📣 Connect With Us Got a story? 👀 Send it to:  holdmysweetteapodcast@gmail.com Sweet Tea After Dark — we might feature it in a future episode. Follow along for more Southern true crime, folklore, and late-night storytelling. New Orleans has no shortage of loud legends, but Carlos Marcello is the kind of true crime story that gets under your skin because it’s built on silence. He avoids interviews, dodges photos, and still ends up running a far-reaching New Orleans Mafia operation for decades while most of the country barely knows his name. We walk through how a low-profile boss can become the most powerful person in the room by mastering loyalty, fear, and patience. We start with Marcello’s early life and the tight Sicilian community that shaped him, including the darker history that pushed neighborhoods to become protective and inward-looking. Then we follow his climb through arrests, prison “education,” and the moment he steps into leadership as the New Orleans crime network expands into gambling, slot machines, labor rackets, bribery, and more. Churchill Farms in Metairie looks like a simple Italian restaurant, but it’s also where influence moves quietly between criminals, business leaders, and public officials. Things turn explosive when JFK takes office and Robert F. Kennedy targets organized crime. When prosecutors can’t pin charges on Marcello, immigration law becomes the weapon, leading to a jaw-dropping moment where federal agents seize him and dump him in Guatemala. From there, we unpack why Marcello’s name keeps resurfacing in JFK assassination theories, including the CIA’s documented contacts with mafia figures during anti-Castro plots, Lee Harvey Oswald’s New Orleans connections, and the long trail of overlapping criminal networks. If you love mafia history, New Orleans history, and JFK assassination questions that refuse to die, this one will give you plenty to think about. Subscribe, share the episode with a fellow true crime listener, and leave a review. After you listen, do you think Marcello’s influence reached the White House? Mark Shaw – Commonwealth Club Talk on Marcello & JFK⁠� Author: Mark Shaw Published: December 8, 2025 ➤ Discusses FBI transcripts of Marcello allegedly admitting involvement in JFK’s assassination Douglas Now – “The Man Who Very Likely Orchestrated…”⁠� Author: Robert Preston Published: May 22, 2018 ➤ Explores Marcello’s power, influence, and alleged role in JFK’s assassination U.S. National Archives – FBI File on Carlos Marcello (JFK Records)⁠� Author: U.S. National Archives Published: November 16, 2017 (declassified file) ➤ Primary government document referencing Marcello in FBI investigations FBI Records: Carlos Marcello (The Vault)⁠� Author: Federal Bureau of Investigation Published: Declassified records (various dates) ➤ Direct FBI case files on Marcello, including surveillance and investigations ➤ This is primary source material — extremely strong for credibility

    32 min
  8. STAD Ep. 4-Can I Get My Deposit Back?

    MAR 19

    STAD Ep. 4-Can I Get My Deposit Back?

    Send us Fan Mail Something about a quiet house outside a small town in southern Louisiana feels like it should be peaceful, but the woods have their own soundtrack and it does not stop at the tree line. We’re reading an anonymous listener submission from “Stella,” who moves into a cheap rental surrounded by pines, cypress, and Spanish moss, only to discover that the landlord’s vague warning about “hearing things” is not about squirrels in the attic. Night after night, the same hour brings slow scratching in the hall, quick footsteps across the floor, and that unmistakable smell of wet dirt and leaves after rain.  Then the story flips. Stella wakes up on the couch and hears breathing beside her, only to spot a fox-like figure in the moonlight with dark fur, smoky edges, and eyes that glow just enough to make you doubt your own vision. It doesn’t stalk or snarl. It watches. It glides. And it passes through a wall like the house is made of fog. If you’re into haunted house stories, ghost animal encounters, or Southern Gothic paranormal podcast vibes, this one lands because it stays quiet and specific right up until it isn’t.  A conversation with a neighbor ties the haunting to a piece of old cruelty involving traps and a fox that suffered, turning the noises into something more than random scares. We talk through what it means to live alongside a presence that never fully leaves, plus we spiral into our usual late-night snack memories after the chills settle. Subscribe, share the episode with a friend who loves creepy stories, leave a review, and tell us what you think the fox is trying to say.

    19 min
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Where True Crime collides with chilling ghost stories and Southern folklore.  Join us, sip sweet tea, and uncover shocking tales of murder, mystery, and the supernatural, all with a healthy dose of Southern charm and a touch of sass!

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  • Creator
    Pearl & Holly
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    120
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Hold My Sweet Tea
  • Show Website
    Hold My Sweet Tea

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