The Seed: Growing Your Business

Lisa Resnick Founder of Dandelion-Inc

Welcome to The Seed: Growing Your Business, brought to you by Dandelion Inc. I’m your host, Lisa Resnick, and this podcast is all about connecting, developing, and supporting women in business. Join me as we explore tips and insights on leadership, business development, and social media strategies that can help you thrive. We’ll also hear from amazing guests who share their stories and experiences, offering inspiration and practical advice for your entrepreneurial journey. So, tune in, download, like, and subscribe. And remember, if you love what you hear, share the love with others. Together, let’s cultivate growth and empower women in business.

  1. 2d ago

    Ep 144-Smart Wealth Strategies for Women: What You Need to Know About Capital Gains and Financial Planning

    Smart Wealth Strategies for Women: What You Need to Know About Capital Gains and Financial Planning Let’s talk about something we don’t always talk about enough: Money. Not just earning it. Not just saving it. But actually understanding it. Because at some point—whether it’s through business, career growth, or life shifts—you realize: You can’t build a life or legacy without knowing how to manage your wealth. Why This Conversation Matters (Especially for Women) In this episode of The Seed, I sat down with Hilary Hendershott—founder of Hendershott Wealth Management, TEDx speaker, and financial advisor specializing in helping women build wealth strategically. And one thing became very clear: Most of us weren’t taught how to do this. We were taught: Work hard Save a little Maybe contribute to a 401(k) But not: How to grow wealth How taxes actually impact us How to make strategic financial decisions The Reality: Your Biggest Expense Isn’t What You Think Here’s something that stops people in their tracks: Your lifetime tax bill will likely be the largest bill you ever pay. And yet… Most people don’t actively plan for it. That’s where understanding things like capital gains becomes incredibly important. What Are Capital Gains (And Why Should You Care?) Simply put: When you sell an investment and make money on it—that profit is a capital gain. And you get taxed on it. Sometimes heavily. In certain states, that combined tax rate can reach 30% or more of your gains. So the goal isn’t just to make money. It’s to keep more of it. Common “Strategies” That Aren’t Always Smart This is where the conversation got really interesting. Because there are strategies people use that sound smart… But aren’t always. 1. “Never sell” mindset Holding onto investments forever to avoid taxes. Sounds good—until: You’re overconcentrated You can’t access your money You delay actually enjoying your wealth 2. Overcomplicated tax avoidance plays Things like: Certain real estate exchanges Opportunity zone investments Highly niche tax shelters They can: Limit flexibility Reduce returns Lock you into long timelines 3. Borrowing against your assets Instead of selling, people borrow against stocks. But this can: Increase risk Add interest costs Delay the inevitable decision The Shift: Smarter, Not More Complicated What stood out most from this conversation: The goal isn’t to avoid taxes entirely. It’s to be strategic. That means focusing on: Strong long-term returns Smart tax planning Flexibility with your money Because wealth isn’t just about accumulation. It’s about usability. What Smart Financial Strategy Actually Looks Like Here are a few more grounded approaches discussed: Tax-loss harvesting Using losses to offset gains and reduce tax burden. Portfolio diversification Not putting everything into one stock, one asset, or one idea. Long-term planning with flexibility Making sure you can: Access your money Use your money Enjoy your money The Part We Don’t Talk About Enough This was one of my favorite parts of the conversation: It’s okay to want financial stability. It’s okay to: Build wealth Keep your money Charge what you’re worth And it’s okay to be intentional about it. Because for most of us? No one is coming to do it for us. Why the Right Advisor Matters Another big takeaway: Not all financial advice is created equal. You want someone who: Understands taxes (not just investments) Communicates clearly Aligns strategy with your life Helps you avoid costly mistakes Because one wrong move can cost more than years of advisory fees. Final Thought You don’t need to become a financial expert overnight. But you do need to start paying attention. Because wealth isn’t built by accident. It’s built through: Awareness Strategy Consistency And a willingness to learn what most people avoid. Listen to the Full Episode of The Seed Podcast This is a thoughtful, grounded conversation for anyone interested in understanding themselves on a deeper level. You can also explore: Leadership insights Business growth strategies Honest conversations about entrepreneurship inside The Patch Community at Dandelion-Inc. Progress isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up messy, brave, and real — one seed at a time. And if you’re feeling overwhelmed, behind, or like your time is constantly slipping through your fingers, it’s not because you’re doing it wrong. It’s because no one ever taught you how to manage time in a way that honors: Energy Priorities Real life That’s why I host my live-only Time & Productivity Session — focused on implementation, not theory. And if you’re craving connection, accountability, and honest conversations about building something that lasts, you’ll find that inside The Patch, the Dandelion-Inc membership. Because staying in the game? That’s the work — and it’s enough.

    48 min
  2. Jun 24

    Ep 143-How to Create Opportunities Instead of Waiting for Them

    How to Create Opportunities Instead of Waiting for Them There’s something I hear all the time. “Wow… they’re so lucky.” “I wish opportunities like that came my way.” And I get it. From the outside, opportunities look like gifts—wrapped up nicely, dropped into someone’s lap. But let’s pull back the wrapping paper for a second. Because most opportunities? They’re not random. They’re built. The Difference No One Talks About There’s a big difference between: Chasing opportunities and Creating opportunities And if you don’t understand this difference, you’ll always feel like you’re behind. What Chasing Opportunities Looks Like Waiting to be noticed Jumping on whatever looks exciting Networking only when you need something Constantly applying, pitching, reaching It feels active. But it’s reactive. And honestly? It can feel exhausting. What Creating Opportunities Looks Like Building relationships before you need them Showing up consistently Sharing your work—even when it’s not perfect Starting conversations before there’s a transaction It’s slower. Less flashy. But so much more sustainable. Why It Looks Like “Luck” from the Outside Here’s the part people don’t see: The late nights The unpaid early work The awkward first attempts The years of relationship building The self-doubt worked through quietly They see the stage. They didn’t see the staircase. The Myth of Overnight Success You’ve seen it: Someone is suddenly everywhere. Speaking. Collaborating. Growing. And it feels like it happened overnight. But if you zoom out? There were years behind it. Years of: Showing up Learning Building Failing Trying again Consistency—not luck—created visibility. My Own Reality (Let’s Be Honest) There have absolutely been moments where people assumed opportunities I’ve had were handed to me. They weren’t. What they didn’t see: Years of community building before Dandelion-Inc Volunteer roles that expanded my network Showing up consistently—even when engagement dropped Reaching out first Starting conversations before they became collaborations Nothing magical. Just intentional. And yes—sometimes messy. The Shift: Position Yourself Instead of Waiting Creating opportunities is about positioning, not perfection. That can look like: Sharing what you’re learning in real time Offering value without immediate payoff Letting people see your process—not just your wins Staying connected even when you’re not selling Because here’s the truth: Validation follows visibility. Not the other way around. Why Chasing Feels Easier (But Isn’t) Chasing gives you a quick hit: Applying Pitching Jumping on trends It feels like you’re doing something. But without foundation? It leads to: Rejection fatigue Burnout Comparison spirals Creating, on the other hand, builds momentum. And momentum compounds. The “Sweet Treat” Illusion This is my favorite way to think about it. Opportunities look like desserts. Polished. Finished. Impressive. But what you don’t see? They were baked slowly. With ingredients like: Consistency Relationships Skill development Patience Resilience No one sees the kitchen. They just see the cake. 5 Ways to Start Creating Opportunities Let’s make this practical. 1. Build before you need Relationships, skills, credibility—start early. 2. Share your work in progress People connect with growth, not perfection. 3. Stay curious about people Opportunities come through humans—not platforms. 4. Offer value intentionally Not endlessly. Not self-sacrificing. Just thoughtfully. 5. Keep showing up (especially when it’s quiet) That’s when most people stop. Don’t. A Quick Reality Check on Comparison Next time you think: “They have so many opportunities…” Pause and ask: “What groundwork am I not seeing?” That question shifts everything. From comparison → to awareness → to action. Final Thought Opportunities are not lightning strikes. They’re gardens. And gardens grow with: Time Care Consistency Attention So if it feels like everyone else is getting ahead… You’re not behind. You’re just in the part where it’s being built. Listen to the Full Episode of The Seed Podcast This is a thoughtful, grounded conversation for anyone interested in understanding themselves on a deeper level. You can also explore: Leadership insights Business growth strategies Honest conversations about entrepreneurship inside The Patch Community at Dandelion-Inc. Progress isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up messy, brave, and real — one seed at a time. And if you’re feeling overwhelmed, behind, or like your time is constantly slipping through your fingers, it’s not because you’re doing it wrong. It’s because no one ever taught you how to manage time in a way that honors: Energy Priorities Real life That’s why I host my live-only Time & Productivity Session — focused on implementation, not theory. And if you’re craving connection, accountability, and honest conversations about building something that lasts, you’ll find that inside The Patch, the Dandelion-Inc membership. Because staying in the game? That’s the work — and it’s enough.

    16 min
  3. Jun 17

    Ep 142-Stop Hiding Behind Information: Why Over-Researching Is Killing Your Momentum

    Stop Hiding Behind Information: Why Over-Researching Is Killing Your Momentum I’m going to say something that might surprise you—especially if you’re like me. Stop hiding behind information. And before you tighten up reading that… I’m not against learning. I’m not against curiosity. I’m not against doing your homework. I am against using information as a shield. Because there’s a difference between learning… …and avoiding. The Truth About “Productive” Procrastination If you’ve ever: Opened 12 tabs researching one idea Downloaded multiple PDFs “for later” Bought courses you haven’t finished Listened to podcasts instead of taking action You’re not lazy. You’re likely stuck in what I call “squirrel syndrome.” It looks like movement. But it’s actually motion without momentum. What Is Squirrel Syndrome? It’s when curiosity turns into avoidance. You start here: “I’m going to write a proposal.” And end up here: Watching a YouTube video Researching templates Reading about persuasion psychology An hour later? Nothing is actually done. Why We Do This (And Don’t Admit It) Let’s be honest. Most of the time, it’s not about needing more information. It’s about this: “I’m not ready to be seen yet.” “If I learn more, I won’t fail.” “If I wait, I can get it perfect.” Information feels safe. Action feels exposed. The Course Collector Trap This one hits a lot of people. You’re serious about your business, so you invest in: A marketing course A branding workshop A mindset program An SEO training Six months later? You’ve learned a lot. But implemented… very little. Because learning feels like progress. But implementation is what changes outcomes. The Perfect Plan Trap You want to launch something. So you: Research pricing Study competitors Build a full plan Refine your strategy And then… You hesitate. Because now you see everything that could go wrong. More information didn’t reduce fear. It amplified it. Here’s the Hard Truth At some point… Action is the only teacher left. You can’t research your way into confidence. You build it by doing. The 70% Rule You do not need 100% clarity to begin. If you have: 60–70% understanding… start. Adjust later. Because clarity doesn’t always come from thinking. It comes from doing. A Simple Reality Check Ask yourself this: If you stopped consuming new information for 30 days… Could you still move forward? Most people could. Because you already know enough to take the next step. You’re just avoiding the part where you’re visible. When Information Is Actually Healthy This isn’t anti-learning. It’s about intentional learning. Healthy input looks like: Learning with a specific goal Applying what you learn quickly Setting boundaries on consumption Using information to support execution Not replace it. The Shift That Changes Everything Instead of: Learn → Learn → Learn → Maybe act Shift to: Learn → Implement (immediately) Listen to a podcast → apply one idea within 24 hours Read a book → test one concept this week Take a course → change one system tomorrow That’s where momentum is built. The Real Risk (And Why We Avoid It) If you stop gathering and start acting, you risk: Being wrong Looking inexperienced Getting feedback Failing publicly And here’s the truth: That’s exactly where growth happens. Final Thought If you’re an “input person” like me… Your curiosity is a gift. Your depth is powerful. But when misused? It becomes a hiding place. You don’t need more information. You need momentum. Listen to the Full Episode of The Seed Podcast This is a thoughtful, grounded conversation for anyone interested in understanding themselves on a deeper level. You can also explore: Leadership insights Business growth strategies Honest conversations about entrepreneurship inside The Patch Community at Dandelion-Inc. Progress isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up messy, brave, and real — one seed at a time. And if you’re feeling overwhelmed, behind, or like your time is constantly slipping through your fingers, it’s not because you’re doing it wrong. It’s because no one ever taught you how to manage time in a way that honors: Energy Priorities Real life That’s why I host my live-only Time & Productivity Session — focused on implementation, not theory. And if you’re craving connection, accountability, and honest conversations about building something that lasts, you’ll find that inside The Patch, the Dandelion-Inc membership. Because staying in the game? That’s the work — and it’s enough.

    17 min
  4. Jun 10

    Ep 141-Mindful Living for Entrepreneurs

    Mindful Living for Entrepreneurs: How Your Relationship with Food Impacts Your Success There’s a version of success we were taught to chase. The one that looks like: Running on caffeine Skipping meals Pushing through exhaustion Wearing burnout like a badge of honor And for a while… it works. Until it doesn’t. Because at some point, your body taps you on the shoulder—and if you ignore it long enough, it stops asking. The Conversation We’re Not Having Enough In this episode of The Seed, I sat down with Cassandra Bodzak—bestselling author of Mindful Table—to talk about something that impacts every entrepreneur, leader, and high-achiever: Your relationship with food, your body, and your energy. And how that relationship directly impacts your ability to show up, lead, and sustain success. Your Body Is Not Separate from Your Business This was one of the biggest takeaways from our conversation: Your body is not something you manage around your business. It’s something your business depends on. If your long-term goal is to keep showing up, growing, leading, and building… Then your body has to be part of the strategy. Not an afterthought. Why High Performers Get This Wrong If you’re anything like me (and Cassandra), you’re wired to go. You love your work. You’re ambitious. You can push through almost anything. But that’s exactly where the disconnect starts. Because being able to push doesn’t mean you should. And it definitely doesn’t mean it’s sustainable. We’ve normalized: Living on coffee and quick fixes Ignoring hunger cues Overtraining or under-fueling Disconnecting from our body entirely And calling it “discipline.” The Shift: From Control to Connection What Cassandra teaches—and what really stood out—is this: Instead of controlling your body… Start listening to it. Food isn’t just: Fuel A reward A restriction It’s a relationship. A connection to: Your energy Your emotions Your capacity When you shift from control to connection, everything changes. The “Food Detective” Approach One of the most practical tools from this conversation is becoming what Cassandra calls a “food detective.” Not restrictive. Not obsessive. Just aware. For 2 weeks, track: What you eat How you feel after Your energy levels Your focus Your sleep No judgment. Just data. Because your body is already giving you answers. You’re just not always listening. What You Might Start Noticing That “quick lunch” is tanking your afternoon focus Certain foods leave you energized vs. sluggish Sleep impacts everything (more than you think) Movement doesn’t always mean intensity—it means alignment This isn’t about perfection. It’s about awareness. The Real Strategy: Sustainability One of the most powerful reframes in this conversation: Taking care of your body is a business strategy. Not in a trendy way. In a longevity way. Because: You think clearer You make better decisions You lead with more stability You avoid burnout cycles And most importantly… You can keep going. 3 Simple Shifts to Start Today From this conversation, here’s where I’d start: 1. Look at your sleep first Not your productivity hacks. Your sleep. 2. Pay attention without judgment Become aware before you try to “fix” anything. 3. Rebuild trust with your body Start small: What feels good? What doesn’t? What do I actually need right now? Final Thought Your body is not the obstacle. It’s the partner. And the more you start listening to it… The more aligned, sustainable, and powerful your work becomes. Resources: https://divinely-design-your-life-d3df.mykajabi.com/meditation-bundle Listen to the Full Episode of The Seed Podcast This is a thoughtful, grounded conversation for anyone interested in understanding themselves on a deeper level. You can also explore: Leadership insights Business growth strategies Honest conversations about entrepreneurship inside The Patch Community at Dandelion-Inc. Progress isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up messy, brave, and real — one seed at a time. And if you’re feeling overwhelmed, behind, or like your time is constantly slipping through your fingers, it’s not because you’re doing it wrong. It’s because no one ever taught you how to manage time in a way that honors: Energy Priorities Real life That’s why I host my live-only Time & Productivity Session — focused on implementation, not theory. And if you’re craving connection, accountability, and honest conversations about building something that lasts, you’ll find that inside The Patch, the Dandelion-Inc membership. Because staying in the game? That’s the work — and it’s enough.

    55 min
  5. Jun 3

    Ep 140-Business Identity Evolves: Signs, Leadership Shifts & What to Do Next

    When Your Business Identity Evolves: Signs, Leadership Shifts & What to Do Next There’s a conversation that doesn’t happen enough in business. Not about strategy. Not about scaling. Not about marketing. But about identity. Your business identity—and your personal identity—is allowed to evolve. Not just your logo. Not just your offers. Not just your messaging. Your voice. Your priorities. Your energy. Your leadership. Your vision. And if you’re doing meaningful work, this evolution isn’t a risk. It’s inevitable. When Something Feels “Off” in Your Business Here’s what I see all the time: You hit a point where everything technically still works. Revenue is coming in. Clients are happy. Your team is functioning. But something feels… off. That internal friction? It’s often not burnout. It’s misalignment. You’ve evolved—but your business hasn’t caught up yet. Signs Your Business Identity Is Evolving Let’s start internally—because that’s where it almost always begins. 1. You feel disconnected from work that used to excite you What once energized you now drains you. That’s not failure. That’s data. 2. Your conversations start to change You’re talking more about: Impact Sustainability Community Legacy And less about: Hustle Optics Validation That shift matters. 3. Your tolerance changes Things you once accepted now feel heavy: Chaotic workflows Poor boundaries Misaligned partnerships That’s your leadership asking for structure. 4. You want depth over volume Fewer clients. Stronger relationships. More aligned collaborations. That’s not a lack of ambition—it’s maturity. External Signs You Can’t Ignore Sometimes the outside world sees it before you fully do. Opportunities start looking different Your audience begins to shift Your team starts questioning direction You might hear things like: “This isn’t how we used to do things” “Why are we changing?” “I don’t see the vision yet” That’s not always resistance. Sometimes, it’s a request for clarity. The Hard Question: Is It Me or Is It Them? Before assuming your team “isn’t getting it,” ask yourself: Have I clearly communicated the vision—consistently? Am I modeling the evolution myself? Am I reacting emotionally or leading strategically? Because people don’t resist change. They resist confusion. But Sometimes… It Is Them And that doesn’t make anyone wrong. Some people are incredible for a season—just not every season. Pay attention to: Ongoing resistance without solutions Lack of curiosity Passive disengagement Misaligned values That’s not failure. That’s a shift in fit. How to Lead Through Business Evolution This is where leadership actually matters. 1. Over-communicate the vision Not just what’s changing—but why. And what’s staying the same. 2. Invite participation, not just compliance Ask: “What do you see for this next phase?” People support what they help build. 3. Create growth pathways Give your team: Training Ownership New responsibilities Evolution shouldn’t feel like displacement. 4. Protect psychological safety If people are afraid to mess up, innovation stops. Normalize the learning curve. 5. Set clear expectations Kind leadership is not vague leadership. Clarity reduces anxiety. The Part No One Talks About: Letting Go of Your Old Identity Sometimes the hardest part isn’t your team. It’s you. Letting go of a version of your business that: Worked Was praised Felt safe But no longer fits. Consistency builds trust. But authenticity sustains it. And when you evolve transparently? You don’t lose trust—you deepen it. Listen to the Full Episode of The Seed Podcast This is a thoughtful, grounded conversation for anyone interested in understanding themselves on a deeper level. You can also explore: Leadership insights Business growth strategies Honest conversations about entrepreneurship inside The Patch Community at Dandelion-Inc. Progress isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up messy, brave, and real — one seed at a time. And if you’re feeling overwhelmed, behind, or like your time is constantly slipping through your fingers, it’s not because you’re doing it wrong. It’s because no one ever taught you how to manage time in a way that honors: Energy Priorities Real life That’s why I host my live-only Time & Productivity Session — focused on implementation, not theory. And if you’re craving connection, accountability, and honest conversations about building something that lasts, you’ll find that inside The Patch, the Dandelion-Inc membership. Because staying in the game? That’s the work — and it’s enough.

    16 min
  6. May 27

    Ep 139-Why Work-Life Balance Is a Myth and What to Focus on Instead

    Why Work-Life Balance Is a Myth and What to Focus on Instead Balance is one of those words that sounds good in theory. Work-life balance. Emotional balance. Business balance. Family balance. It paints a picture of a life that is calm, evenly portioned, and somehow friction-free. But real life does not work like that. And that is not because stability is impossible. It is not because peace is impossible. And it is not because alignment does not matter. It is because life is not static. Life moves. If you are growing, leading, parenting, healing, building, creating, managing your health, navigating relationships, or running a business, motion is constant. Which means balance, at least the way it is often marketed to us, is more myth than reality. In this episode of The Seed, I talk about why balance is oversimplified, why control often gets misunderstood, and what it actually looks like to navigate real life without constantly feeling like you are failing. The Problem With the Way Balance Is Sold to Us The modern version of “balance” often looks like a highly curated image. A woman who is: successful in business present with her family physically healthy socially connected emotionally calm financially stable somehow doing all of it beautifully at the same time That image creates pressure. It makes people think: “If I were just better at managing things, I could make my life look like that too.” But what we usually do not see are the trade-offs behind that image. We do not see: the support systems the financial realities the help behind the scenes the emotional labor the shifting priorities the exhaustion that may exist outside the frame That is why balance is often more of a highlight-reel word than a lived-experience word. Life Runs in Seasons, Not Symmetry The truth is, life tends to move in seasons. Some seasons are: career-heavy family-heavy health-focused healing-focused creative financially stressful emotionally demanding deeply transitional Some seasons are survival seasons. And those count too. That matters because survival seasons are not evidence that you are failing. They are chapters. In those seasons, balance is usually not the goal. Stability is. And sometimes, stability simply means getting through the day with enough care, clarity, and steadiness to keep going. The Difference Between Balance and Integration One of the biggest shifts in this episode is moving away from the word balance and toward the word integration. Balance suggests that every area of life should receive equal energy all the time. Integration acknowledges reality. It acknowledges that life overlaps. Work may affect family. Health may affect business. Relationships may affect energy. Leadership may affect recovery. Instead of trying to keep every category in a perfectly separate container, integration accepts that life is often a mosaic. Messy sometimes. Layered often. Still meaningful. That is a much more human standard. When Control Becomes a Coping Mechanism This episode also gets personal in the best way because it talks about control. For many people, the desire for control is not just about personality. It is about adaptation. It can come from: responsibility uncertainty earlier life experiences learning how to create safety living through unpredictability That is why control is not automatically unhealthy. In many cases, it started as a survival skill. And survival skills can absolutely become leadership strengths. But there is a difference between healthy control and fear-based control. Healthy Control vs. Fear-Based Control Healthy control looks like: planning intentionally setting boundaries creating structure preparing realistically managing time with clarity staying organized without obsession Fear-based control looks like: needing certainty before taking action resisting flexibility avoiding help feeling threatened by unpredictability equating change with danger Most people move between both of these at different times. That is part of being human. The key is recognizing when control is supporting you and when it is quietly running you. What You Can Actually Control A lot of stress comes from trying to control things that are not truly yours to control. You can control: your effort your preparation your boundaries your communication your values your consistency You cannot control: other people’s reactions the exact timing of opportunities unexpected health issues market shifts external validation life’s surprises When people blur those categories, stress multiplies. That is why one of the most useful reminders in this conversation is simple: Control what you can. Release what you can’t. Simple to say. Harder to live. But necessary. Why Perfect Balance Often Creates More Shame One of the hardest things about chasing balance is that it can make capable people feel like they are constantly failing. Not because they are doing badly. But because the standard itself is unrealistic. If the goal is to do everything equally, calmly, consistently, and beautifully at all times, then almost no one will ever feel like they are succeeding. That is why moving toward integration can reduce pressure. It helps people ask: What matters most in this season? What do I actually have capacity for right now? What trade-offs am I willing to make? What can wait without consequence? Those questions are far more useful than “How do I do all of this perfectly?” Practical Ways to Live Without Chasing Balance This episode also offers practical shifts that help people live more sustainably. 1. Define Priorities by Season Do not decide what matters forever. Decide what matters right now. Let priorities evolve with your life. 2. Accept Trade-Offs Without Shame Every yes includes a no. That is not failure. That is clarity. 3. Build in Recovery Time Rest is not a reward you earn at the end. It is maintenance. Recovery has to be part of the process. 4. Be Honest About Capacity Ambition is beautiful. Overextension is not sustainable. Knowing the difference protects your energy and your integrity. 5. Communicate Expectations Clearly With your team. With your family. With yourself. Unspoken expectations create invisible pressure. And invisible pressure adds up fast. A Better Mindset: Adaptation Instead of Failure One of the most important lines in this episode is this: You are probably not failing. You are probably adapting. That shift matters. Because adaptation is not weakness. It is evidence of resilience. And for many people, especially leaders, caregivers, and women carrying a lot of invisible labor, adaptation has become second nature. Recognizing that can be deeply relieving. It helps reframe life from: “I’m not handling this well enough.” to “I’m adjusting to what this season requires.” That is a completely different kind of self-talk. And it is much healthier. Why This Matters for Leadership If you lead a team, a family, a business, or a community, your relationship with balance affects others too. When leaders model: honest capacity boundaries adaptability recovery flexibility self-awareness they give others permission to do the same. That matters because leadership is not just about performance. It is also about creating an atmosphere where sustainable growth is possible. And sustainable growth rarely happens inside unrealistic expectations. A Simple Grounding Exercise for Overwhelm When life feels out of balance, this episode offers three questions to ask: What must happen today? What would be helpful but not essential? What can wait without consequence? Those three questions can cut through overwhelm quickly. Because they help distinguish urgency from pressure. And pressure from noise. That kind of clarity is often more useful than trying to “feel balanced.” Final Reflection Balance is not a destination. It is not a permanent state. And for many people, it is not even the right goal. A better goal is awareness. Intention. Capacity. Integration. Self-trust. Compassion. Because you do not need a perfectly balanced life to build a meaningful one. You need the ability to adapt honestly, lead wisely, and release the impossible standard that tells you you should be able to do everything all at once without friction. You are not behind. You are not broken. You are probably adjusting to a life that is moving. And that is what being human looks like. Listen to the Full Episode of The Seed Podcast This is a thoughtful, grounded conversation for anyone interested in understanding themselves on a deeper level. You can also explore: Leadership insights Business growth strategies Honest conversations about entrepreneurship inside The Patch Community at Dandelion-Inc. Progress isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up messy, brave, and real — one seed at a time. And if you’re feeling overwhelmed, behind, or like your time is constantly slipping through your fingers, it’s not because you’re doing it wrong. It’s because no one ever taught you how to manage time in a way that honors: Energy Priorities Real life That’s why I host my live-only Time & Productivity Session — focused on implementation, not theory. And if you’re craving connection, accountability, and honest conversations about building something that lasts, you’ll find that inside The Patch, the Dandelion-Inc membership. Because staying in the game? That’s the work — and it’s enough.

    22 min
  7. May 20

    Ep. 138-How to Get on Podcasts and Use Guest Interviews to Grow Your Business

    How to Get on Podcasts and Use Guest Interviews to Grow Your Business Podcast guesting has become one of the most effective ways for entrepreneurs, authors, and experts to grow their visibility. But getting on the right podcasts is not just about sending a generic pitch and hoping for the best. It is about relationship-building. It is about storytelling. And it is about understanding what makes someone worth listening to in the first place. In this episode of The Seed, I sat down with Michelle Glogovac, founder of The MLG Collective, author of How to Get on Podcasts, and host of a podcast network that includes My Simplified Life, Read The Damn Book, Beyond The Campaign, and BURNT. Michelle’s work centers on helping entrepreneurs, advocates, authors, nonprofits, and experts tell their stories in ways that create visibility, impact, and connection. What made this conversation especially valuable is that Michelle does not treat podcast pitching like cold publicity. She treats it like thoughtful matchmaking. And that mindset changes everything. Why Podcast Guesting Matters for Business Growth Podcast interviews offer something many other forms of visibility do not. They create intimacy. They give people the chance to hear your voice, your story, your perspective, and the way you think in real time. Michelle’s agency describes podcasting as a way to speak to your ideal audience “in an intimate way,” which is exactly why it works so well for trust-building. That matters because people do not just buy offers. They buy trust. They buy clarity. They buy resonance. And podcast interviews can create all three. For entrepreneurs, podcast guesting can support: audience growth relationship-building brand visibility authority-building book promotion client trust But only if it is done well. The Best Podcast Pitches Are Personal, Not Generic One of the strongest takeaways from this conversation was Michelle’s emphasis on personalization. She does not believe in generic copy-and-paste pitches. And honestly, neither do I. The best podcast pitches start with: actually listening to the show understanding the host referencing a relevant past episode showing why the guest fits that specific audience Michelle’s podcast pitching service is built around personalized pitch emails, branded media kits, and tailored speaking topics rather than one-size-fits-all outreach. That approach matters because hosts can tell when someone actually knows their show. And they can definitely tell when someone does not. What Podcast Hosts Really Want in a Guest A lot of people assume hosts just want credentials. A bestselling book. A big platform. An impressive title. But what many hosts really want is something else: A guest with a real story. Someone with a perspective. Someone who can hold a conversation. Someone who will bring value to the audience and not just promote themselves. Michelle’s work consistently emphasizes story and voice over empty visibility tactics. Even in her brand messaging, she frames her role as helping people “craft powerful narratives that drive visibility, impact, and connection.” That distinction is huge. Because podcast guesting is not just media. It is connection. Why Storytelling Is the Real Visibility Strategy What I loved most about this conversation is that it kept coming back to storytelling. Michelle is not simply helping people land interviews. She is helping them articulate who they are, what they know, and why their story matters. That is what makes someone memorable. Her site also reinforces this in practical ways, including resources on promoting podcast interviews and using them to extend your visibility on your own channels. She encourages guests to treat interviews as relationship-building opportunities and as content worth repurposing on social media and websites. This is why podcast guesting works so well when done intentionally. You are not only borrowing someone else’s audience. You are building your own narrative in public. How to Pitch Yourself to Podcasts More Effectively If you want a stronger podcast guesting strategy, this episode makes a few things very clear. 1. Know the Show Do not pitch a podcast you have never listened to. At minimum, understand: the host’s style the audience the themes the tone of past episodes 2. Make the Email Easy to Read Michelle’s service includes a detailed strategy outline, a branded media kit, personalized pitch emails, and linked resources that make it easier for hosts to evaluate a guest quickly. That means your pitch should not feel like work for the host. 3. Focus on the Human, Not Just the Headline A title is not enough. “Entrepreneur” is not enough. “Author” is not enough. What makes your story worth sharing? 4. Give the Host a Reason to Care Why this show? Why this audience? Why now? That is what makes a pitch land. Podcast Guesting Is Also About Timing Another important piece of the conversation was timing. People often think podcast outreach works like quick-turn media. It usually does not. Many podcast hosts record weeks or months in advance. Michelle’s own services for books, for example, recommend beginning strategy and pitching three to four months prior to launch, which is a strong reminder that podcast guesting requires lead time. That matters especially for: book launches events campaigns political cycles timely thought leadership topics If visibility matters, planning matters too. Why Podcast Guesting Builds Relationships, Not Just Reach The part of this conversation that stood out most to me is how relationship-centered Michelle’s approach is. That makes sense given her background. Before building The MLG Collective, she spent years in corporate aviation sales, where long-term relationships mattered more than tiny pricing differences. That relationship mindset now carries directly into how she approaches podcast pitching and publicity. That is a lesson more entrepreneurs need to hear. Visibility without relationship is shallow. Relationship creates longevity. And the best podcast appearances often lead to more than downloads. They can lead to: introductions collaborations future invitations referrals credibility community That is why podcast interviews are not just marketing. They are influence-building. Michelle’s business is a strong example of building a service from both lived experience and strategic depth. The MLG Collective offers podcast pitching, podcast book tours, podcast campaign tours, media kits, and strategy sessions. Michelle’s site describes her as “THE Podcast Matchmaker®,” notes that she has booked more than 1,000 interviews, and emphasizes that her team handles the details that make a guest stand out to hosts. She has also expanded into a podcast network and continues to build around visibility, books, podcasting, and bold conversations that matter. That breadth is part of what makes this episode so useful. It is not theory. It is lived expertise. Final Reflection If you have ever wondered how some people seem to show up on the right podcasts at the right time, this conversation answers a lot of that. It is not luck. It is clarity. It is strategy. It is relationship-building. And it is knowing how to tell a story that actually matters to the person on the other end. Podcast guesting is not just about being seen. It is about being heard in the right rooms. And when done well, that can absolutely move your business forward. Listen to the Full Episode of The Seed Podcast This is a thoughtful, grounded conversation for anyone interested in understanding themselves on a deeper level. You can also explore: Leadership insights Business growth strategies Honest conversations about entrepreneurship inside The Patch Community at Dandelion-Inc. Progress isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up messy, brave, and real — one seed at a time. And if you’re feeling overwhelmed, behind, or like your time is constantly slipping through your fingers, it’s not because you’re doing it wrong. It’s because no one ever taught you how to manage time in a way that honors: Energy Priorities Real life That’s why I host my live-only Time & Productivity Session — focused on implementation, not theory. And if you’re craving connection, accountability, and honest conversations about building something that lasts, you’ll find that inside The Patch, the Dandelion-Inc membership. Because staying in the game? That’s the work — and it’s enough.

    40 min
  8. May 13

    Ep 137-How to Rebuild Problem-Solving Skills in Leadership, Business, and Life

    How to Rebuild Problem-Solving Skills in Leadership, Business, and Life Technology is not the villain. Let’s start there. We live in a world where information is accessible, tutorials are endless, AI can generate ideas instantly, and answers come faster than ever before. There is a lot to appreciate about that. Access to information has changed how we work, cook, learn, build, and solve problems. But there is also a tradeoff. The faster answers become, the less comfortable many people become with not knowing right away. And that matters. Because uncertainty is where real problem-solving begins. In this episode of The Seed, I wanted to talk about something I’ve been noticing in leadership, business, and even in myself at times: we are losing some of our instinct to sit with complexity long enough to understand it deeply. And that affects everything. Why Fast Answers Can Weaken Problem-Solving Skills We are surrounded by fast answers. Search engines. AI tools. How-to videos. Templates. Proven methods. Instant recommendations. These tools can be incredibly helpful. But speed has a side effect. It lowers our tolerance for uncertainty. And when we lose tolerance for uncertainty, we also lose part of our ability to problem-solve with depth. Because not every meaningful problem has one obvious answer. Some problems require: reflection experimentation patience context multiple possibilities And that kind of thinking does not happen when we rush toward the first available fix. The Trap of Looking for One Right Answer One of the biggest problem-solving mistakes people make is assuming there is one best answer. One best strategy. One best way. One proven path. But most meaningful challenges do not work that way. Real problems often have: several possible solutions trade-offs context-specific decisions imperfect but workable options That is why strong problem-solvers do not ask only, “What is the answer?” They ask, “What are the possibilities?” That shift matters. Because when you force yourself to generate multiple options, you strengthen creativity, ownership, and confidence at the same time. A Better Leadership Habit: Name Three Possible Solutions One practical habit that changes everything is this: When a problem shows up, ask: What are three possible ways we could handle this? Not one. Three. At minimum. Why three? Because once you move beyond a single default answer, your brain has to think more flexibly. You begin to activate: creative problem-solving strategic thinking perspective-taking adaptability This works in business. It works in families. It works in leadership. It works in life. There is rarely only one path forward. Why Pros and Cons Matter in Decision-Making Once you identify multiple possible solutions, the next step is to weigh the trade-offs. Every decision has pros and cons. Every path has benefits. Every path has limitations. Every path asks something of you. This is where maturity in decision-making starts to deepen. Looking honestly at trade-offs helps you avoid: all-or-nothing thinking perfectionism impulsive decisions fantasy-based expectations It helps you lead from realism instead of wishful thinking. And realism builds trust. Especially in leadership. Constructive Questioning Is a Leadership Skill Questioning often gets misunderstood. People hear questions and assume skepticism, resistance, or negativity. But constructive questioning is different. Constructive questions sound like: What might we be missing? How else could this work? What assumptions are we making? What would success look like here? What information do we already have? These questions do not shut down ideas. They expand them. That distinction matters because curiosity builds possibilities, while cynicism tends to collapse them. If you want better decisions, you need better questions. Why Leaders Should Stop Solving Every Problem This is the part many leaders need to hear most. If you lead a team, business, nonprofit, community, or family, constantly solving every problem for people may feel helpful. It may feel supportive. It may feel efficient. It may feel faster. But over time, it weakens the people around you. Why? Because when you solve every problem for others, they gain relief. But they do not gain competence. And relief is temporary. Competence compounds. This is one of the biggest differences between fixing and leading. Coaching Builds Better Teams Than Fixing Strong leaders do not always provide the answer. They provide a framework. They ask questions. They guide. They support. They help people think. Instead of saying: “Here’s what to do.” Try asking: What do you think could work? What options do you see? What feels most aligned here? What is your first instinct? What support would help you move forward? That is not abandonment. That is empowerment. And empowered people grow faster than dependent ones. What Happens When Leaders Fix Too Much When leaders step in too quickly, several things begin to happen. Teams may start to: wait for permission avoid initiative defer decisions lose confidence rely on the leader for everything Meanwhile, the leader becomes the bottleneck. And often without realizing it, over-fixing sends this message: “I don’t fully trust you.” Even if that is not the intention, it is often the impact. That is why sustainable leadership requires restraint as much as support. Why Multiple Paths Increase Confidence One reason people freeze under pressure is because they think there is only one correct answer. That creates fear. But when people can see multiple viable paths, something shifts. Confidence grows. Why? Because flexibility reduces pressure. And confidence is built through experience, not just instruction. The more people practice thinking through options and evaluating choices, the more capable they become. That is true for teams, children, clients, and leaders too. Innovation Requires Space, Not Just Speed Innovation rarely comes from immediate answers. It comes from questions like: What if? Why not? How else could this work? What haven’t we considered yet? Innovation needs space. Space to think. Space to experiment. Space to be wrong. Space to grow. Leadership is often less about controlling the answer and more about creating the conditions where better answers can emerge. That is what strong leaders do. How to Rebuild Your Own Problem-Solving Muscles If you want to strengthen your own problem-solving skills, start here: Pause Before Asking for Help Give yourself a chance to think first. Generate Multiple Options Even imperfect options count. The point is flexibility. Evaluate the Trade-Offs Every decision has costs and benefits. Reflect Afterward Ask what worked, what did not, and what you learned. Reflection turns experience into wisdom. That is how problem-solving becomes stronger over time. We Do Not Need Less Technology. We Need Stronger Thinking. This conversation is not anti-technology. Technology is useful. AI is useful. Speed is useful. But they work best when paired with stronger thinking. We do not need fewer answers. We need deeper questions. We do not need leaders who fix everything. We need leaders who help people grow. And that starts with rebuilding our own comfort with complexity, uncertainty, and thoughtful exploration. Final Reflection The next time a problem shows up, try slowing down. Look for multiple solutions. Weigh the trade-offs. Ask better questions. Resist the urge to fix everything for everyone. Because that is where confidence grows. That is where innovation starts. And that is where sustainable leadership begins. Listen to the Full Episode of The Seed Podcast This is a thoughtful, grounded conversation for anyone interested in understanding themselves on a deeper level. You can also explore: Leadership insights Business growth strategies Honest conversations about entrepreneurship inside The Patch Community at Dandelion-Inc. Progress isn’t about perfection. It’s about showing up messy, brave, and real — one seed at a time. And if you’re feeling overwhelmed, behind, or like your time is constantly slipping through your fingers, it’s not because you’re doing it wrong. It’s because no one ever taught you how to manage time in a way that honors: Energy Priorities Real life That’s why I host my live-only Time & Productivity Session — focused on implementation, not theory. And if you’re craving connection, accountability, and honest conversations about building something that lasts, you’ll find that inside The Patch, the Dandelion-Inc membership. Because staying in the game? That’s the work — and it’s enough.

    16 min
5
out of 5
18 Ratings

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