Hey Y'all, Recorded live at the Cliff College Festival on Pentecost Sunday in Derbyshire, hosts Trey Hall and Jaz Ampaw-Farr are joined by two brilliant guests - Methodist kayaker and dementia support worker Mary Sharples, and singer-songwriter Rob Halligan - for a deeply human conversation about change, faith, identity, and the songs that transport us through it all. Whether you're mid-transition or settled in a comfortable rut (and secretly love Last of the Summer Wine), this one's for you. Timestamps: 0:00 — Welcome & introducing the show: what is *Spill the Spirituality*? 1:38 — Live at Cliff College Festival: Pentecost, bank holidays, and "male adjacent activities" 2:53 — Today's theme: life transitions — big and small 4:02 — Introducing guests Mary Sharples and Rob Halligan 5:25 — Mary on being 27: constant change, accidental careers, and feeling transient 7:53 — "At what point do you feel grown up?" — pensions, volunteers, and the approval of teenagers 8:42 — Mary on needing roots: change is easier when you have a network around you 9:18 — Rob on 25 years as a self-employed musician: the constant life of change on the road 10:54 — Rob's project on liminal spaces: learning to value the in-between moments 11:56 — Spirituality across difference: how do you identify on the spiritual spectrum? 12:25 — Mary: "I say Methodist before Christian" — a denomination built on justice and action 13:22 — Rob: "I'm a musician who is a Christian" — still learning what it means to follow Jesus 15:00 — Rob's defining moment: losing his father in the 9/11 attacks on the 99th floor of the South Tower 15:36 — Standing in Coventry Cathedral: "Father, Forgive" — anger, faith, and a giant reality check 16:21 — Choosing to believe: "I think this God likes us" 17:31 — Injustice, Operation Enduring Freedom, and where Rob sees God *not* present 18:25 — "I love you in the Lord" — what it means when love is really just tolerance 19:18 — Mary on working in dementia care: it's not a sad job — it's a joyful one 20:16 — Weekly community groups, uninhibited characters, and the gift of being present 21:22 — "It's a lesson in just being present" — freedom from embarrassment and cringe 22:18 — Where Mary sees God: in diverse communities drawn together by care 23:12 — East Manchester's mishmash of volunteers and the intergenerational miracle of showing up 24:33 — Trey's aunt, Frank Sinatra, and the power of music for people with dementia 25:17 — Rob on music after 9/11: "I had something to say" 25:42 — The strange thing about songs: listeners hear something completely different to what you wrote 26:00 — Rob's song *It's Strange What a Song Can Do*: Flowers in the Rain, Radio 1, and a dad singing badly in a Toyota Avalon 27:23 — The panel's musical memory lane: The Bangles, Kids from Fame, Sharon Shannon, and Showaddywaddy 30:48 — Mary on body memory: why people with dementia remember how a song *feels* even when words are gone 32:29 — What takes you to a deep spiritual place? Folk music, R&B brunch clubs, and collective dancing 33:59 — Jaz on "Grace" in Tottenham Court Road: dancing in an old church at 3pm as a spiritual act 35:05 — Rob on art, creativity, and crying at a pot on the Great Pottery Throw Down 35:31 — Stairway to Heaven at the Kennedy Honors: when art does something you can't explain 36:40 — Coming in to land: what do you want to take into the next chapter — and what do you want to leave behind? 37:45 — Trey: leave the judgment, keep the good stories 38:10 — Jaz: hard-earned humility in, imposter syndrome out 39:06 — Mary: leave behind the constant questioning of every decision; go forward freely and tread lightly 40:17 — Wrap-up, thanks, and the parting benediction: "Go forward and eat toast with heavy amounts of butter. And be at peace." Featured guests: Mary Sharples — Methodist, kayaker, chaplain-turned-dementia-support-worker, champion of heavily buttered toastRob Halligan — Singer-songwriter and storyteller; on his 25th anniversary tour; described by the BBC as "Bruce Springsteen having English tea with Billy Bragg"Hosts: Trey Hall & Jaz Ampaw-Farr Recorded live at: Cliff College Festival, Derbyshire Produced by: Rachel Matthews | A project of the Methodist Church Join the Spill the Spirituality community, follow the show and reach out to the hosts - we'd love to hear your thoughts, stories and feedback! Learn about Spill the Spirituality Podcast, Community & EventsLike us on FacebookFollow us on TwitterFollow us on InstagramFind us on TikTok