How to Be a Hot Guy

Aneliza Carmen Ruíz

Hi Hottie, this is How to Be a Hot Guy. A podcast that explores masculinity through the body, relationships, and what we have come to value about men. I’m your host, Aneliza Carmen Ruíz, and over the next few weeks, I’ll be your guide through conversations with men from all walks of life. You’ll be hearing from men of different racial and ethnic backgrounds, socioeconomic statuses, sexualities, education levels, regions, and interests – all answering the same set of questions, giving us a greater insight into masculinity.

Episodes

  1. 4h ago

    "Come Back to Softness" with Alfredo

    I was excited to talk with Alfredo for a lot of reasons. He’s Mexican like me, from a neighborhood that’s similar to mine, and most importantly, he seemed like someone who could add nuance to our perception of the Latinx experience. The emotional lives of Latinos are rarely ever represented as having depth and dimension, and so we’re rarely represented as whole, complex people. My conversation with Alfredo doesn’t follow that norm.  When we talked, Alfredo was working with a therapist to nurture his inner child and recover an emotional tenderness that feels more authentic to who he is and wants to be. Our conversation is centered on the events that led Alfredo to build an emotional wall as a kid and teenager, and what led to him slowly taking that wall down as an adult.  Full transcripts of each episode are available on substack: hotguypod.substack.com  Want to be interviewed for the show? Fill out an interest form here! Or, you can also nominate someone to be on the show using this form!

    49 min

  2. Jun 1

    "Look in the Mirror" with Aiden

    "Look in the Mirror" with Aiden Aiden fits what you might already imagine a hot guy to be. He’s handsome and well-dressed. He’s charismatic. He’s funny and confident. But Aiden hasn’t always felt this way. In our conversation, we talked about growing up in LA, navigating challenging family dynamics, and what ultimately led him to make a change and live his life authentically as a queer man.  To learn more about Aiden, you can check out his website, https://aidensyang.com/ You can also purchase his book, The Spineless Porcupine, on his website. Want to be interviewed for the show? Fill out an interest form here!  Full transcripts of each episode are available on Substack: hotguypod.substack.com

    37 min

  3. Season 1, Episode 1 Trailer

    Trailer

    Welcome to How to Be a Hot Guy! New episodes drop every Monday :) See you next week, Hottie 3

    2 min

Trailer

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About

Hi Hottie, this is How to Be a Hot Guy. A podcast that explores masculinity through the body, relationships, and what we have come to value about men. I’m your host, Aneliza Carmen Ruíz, and over the next few weeks, I’ll be your guide through conversations with men from all walks of life. You’ll be hearing from men of different racial and ethnic backgrounds, socioeconomic statuses, sexualities, education levels, regions, and interests – all answering the same set of questions, giving us a greater insight into masculinity.

Information

  • Creator
    Aneliza Carmen Ruíz
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    3
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Aneliza Carmen Ruíz
  • Show Website
    How to Be a Hot Guy

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