The Blue Stiley Podcast

Blue Stiley

The Blue Stiley Podcast is where transformation starts. Hosted by keynote speaker, author, and mentor Blue Stiley, this show explores how to rise above fear, failure, and self-doubt. Through real conversations and mindset shifts, guests share stories of growth, grit, and purpose. Blue brings raw insight from a life shaped by rejection, resilience, and reinvention—helping you step into confidence, lead with heart, and live on your terms. New episodes drop weekly. Learn more at bluestiley.com

  1. 24 NOV.

    When the Old You Stops Working Build a New One with Cletus Coffey

    What if true growth isn’t about pushing harder—but about finally being honest with yourself?For Cletus Coffey, that moment of honesty came after life had already knocked him down—career setbacks, divorce, and the painful realization that he was the common denominator of it all.That epiphany didn’t end him. It woke him up to do the internal work most people avoid.A former pro athlete turned high-performance coach, Cletus traded the number on the scoreboard for something deeper: a commitment to live life on his own terms. In this episode, we talk about letting go of what you’re not in control of, how to shift your identity, and build a legacy rooted in authenticity—not achievement.00:00 The Three Things We Can Control00:49 Guest Introduction: Cletus Coffey’s Journey01:32 From Athlete to High Performance Coach03:42 The Anchor Analogy: Balancing Life and Career05:08 The Reality of Post-Athlete Life11:33 Struggles and Setbacks: The Business World13:22 Personal Growth: Overcoming Ego and Asking for Help21:27 The Turning Point: Divorce and Self-Realization25:03 Finding Freedom: Authenticity and Acceptance28:57 Lighting the Torch: Becoming an Example of Possibility30:55 Reigniting the Fire Within35:53 The Importance of Vulnerability and Connection42:41 Leadership and Authenticity in the Workplace45:58 Athletic Drive and Daily Awareness51:07 Focusing Beyond the Scoreboard59:05 The Truth Will Set You Free01:01:57 Final ThoughtsClick the link below to grab your FREE Cheat Sheet now from Cletus:https://www.cletuscoffey.com/morningConnect with Cletus herehttps://www.cletuscoffey.com/morningOr follow him on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/cletuscoffey/

    1 h 4 min
  2. 17 NOV.

    How Laura Penney Is Redefining What Real Leadership Looks Like

    What if leadership wasn’t about being first—but about lifting others as you rise? For Laura Penney, that’s more than a philosophy—it’s a legacy in motion. Raised on the Coeur d’Alene reservation, her father who served as a lifelong tribal leader, Laura was told from a young age that she was destined to lead.  But destiny doesn’t guarantee a straight path. It took four tries, an MBA, and an unwavering confidence team to become the CEO of the Coeur d’Alene Tribe Casino & Resort. Today, she’s not just a business leader—she’s a champion for her community, a mentor to the next generation of tribal professionals, and a living example of what it means to lead with heart. In this episode, Laura shares how cultural roots, resilience, and a refusal to give up shaped her into the outstanding leader she is today. 00:00 The Journey to Becoming CEO 00:39 A Legacy in Motion 01:19 Cultural Roots and Resilience 03:00 Challenges of Leadership 05:36 Growing Up on the Reservation 11:30 The Beginnings of Tribal Gaming 23:20 The Struggle for the CEO Position 28:53 Facing Rejection and Perseverance 29:36 The CEO Position Opens Again 30:26 Determination to Become CEO 39:43 Mentorship and Leadership 53:20 Navigating COVID-19 Challenges 59:15 Final Thoughts Welcome to Navigating No with Blue Stiley, the ultimate destination for motivation, inspiration, personal growth, and life-changing advice for overcoming fear of rejection, failure, and self-doubt. 🎙️💡 Subscribe to the channel if you love achieving your goals. Your future self will thank you! #bluestiley #inspiration #motivation #selfimprovement #motivational

    1 h 1 min
  3. 10 NOV.

    From Last Place to Life Coach: Sean Ferguson’s Method for Real Growth

    What if real transformation doesn’t start in the gym—but in the mind? Sean Ferguson knows what it means to build real strength, not just physically, but mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. In this episode, Sean opens up about his journey—from uncertainty about becoming a personal trainer to building a powerhouse method rooted in betterment.  He shares how fitness became a gateway to purpose, the lessons he learned from placing dead last in a bodybuilding competition, and why surrounding yourself with the right people might be the biggest gain of all. If you’ve ever wondered what it takes to push past your limits, truly pivot in life, and build true confidence—this conversation is for you. 00:00 Introduction to Modern Fitness Challenges 00:41 Meet Sean Ferguson: A Journey of Strength 02:16 The Power of Mentorship and Learning 05:00 The Gym as a Learning Environment 08:03 Building Confidence and Comfort in the Gym 11:50 The Importance of Community and Support 19:27 Facing the Fear of Change 23:25 The Mental Aspect of Transformation 31:53 Navigating Life's Green and Red Lights 35:38 Consistency and Reflection in Achieving Goals 37:05 The Importance of Mental and Physical Health 39:25 Building a Supportive Community 43:46 Transitioning to a New Business Focus 47:40 Balancing Fitness and Life 52:05 The Value of Long-Term Effort 56:07 Inspiring Others Through Personal Experience 01:00:42 Final Thoughts

    1 h 4 min
  4. 27 OCT.

    How to Stay Confident in the Chaos: Ron Alford’s Formula for Weathering Any Storm

    What if the storms in your life aren’t there to stop you—but to shape you? Ron Alford thought he had his path mapped out. Raised in a military family, he was set to follow his brothers into the Marine Corps. But a detour into door-to-door book sales led to a decades-long journey in leadership, coaching, and transformation.Now a senior partner at Southwestern Consulting and best-selling author of Redefining Possible, Ron helps people unlock confidence, navigate adversity, and lead with authenticity. This isn’t just a lesson in leadership and mentorship. It’s a reminder to persevere and to release what you can’t control.00:00 Embracing Life's Storms00:46 Meet Ron Alfred: A Journey of Transformation01:19 Podcast Invitation and Initial Impressions03:45 Ron Alford's Early Life and Career Beginnings05:33 Transition to Southwestern Consulting06:31 Building a Blended Family07:28 Staying Loyal to a Company09:30 Mentorship and Impact12:00 Parental Dividends and Life Lessons16:54 Facing Family Trauma19:30 The Importance of Perspective24:11 Confidence Anchors and Overcoming Challenges28:59 Vision Boards and Goal Setting30:36 Setting Audacious Goals31:05 The Importance of Continuous Learning31:44 Facing Unexpected Challenges32:11 Introducing the RAFT Acronym32:35 Applying RAFT During COVID35:48 Transforming Adversity into Opportunity36:30 The Power of Acceptance and Focus38:38 Reflecting on Personal Growth41:25 The Impact of Positive Leadership49:13 Slowing Down for Better Results52:32 Connecting and Sharing Stories

    56 min
  5. 20 OCT.

    Most Modeling Agencies Won't Tell You This (But Mary Wharton Will)

    Mary Wharton didn’t plan on becoming a modeling agent. She was headed toward a career in textile marketing—until a chance internship at Elite Model Mgmt, which introduced her to the world of modeling.That unexpected detour led to a meeting with a former super model, and a future at Locke Model Management, where Mary found not just a job, but a calling.Today, she’s more than an agent—she’s a mentor, advocate, and guide for models navigating one of the most competitive industries in the world.Her story is a powerful reminder that in modeling and in life, success doesn’t come from just showing up—it comes from being curious, your integrity and a willingness to invest in yourself.00:00 The Importance of Standing Out in Modeling00:41 Mary Wharton's Unexpected Journey into Modeling01:31 Introduction and Background of Mary Wharton02:08 The Role of Relationships in Modeling04:08 Mary's Career Path and Early Experiences05:54 Joining Locke Model Management07:30 The Reality of Secondary Markets09:25 The Sales Aspect of Being an Agent12:13 Building Trust with Models and Clients13:54 The Importance of Specialization and Authenticity17:00 Going Above and Beyond in Modeling21:30 The Value of a Supportive Agency26:46 Taking Initiative in the Modeling Industry27:19 Importance of Communication and Updates29:42 Standing Out in Castings33:17 Building Trust and Relationships38:32 Challenges and Growth as an Agent48:32 Advice for Aspiring Models51:53 Final Thoughts

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The Blue Stiley Podcast is where transformation starts. Hosted by keynote speaker, author, and mentor Blue Stiley, this show explores how to rise above fear, failure, and self-doubt. Through real conversations and mindset shifts, guests share stories of growth, grit, and purpose. Blue brings raw insight from a life shaped by rejection, resilience, and reinvention—helping you step into confidence, lead with heart, and live on your terms. New episodes drop weekly. Learn more at bluestiley.com