42 episodes

Key author of How to Have Threesomes, and co-host Lily answer important questions about non-conventional relationships: How do we balance freedom and commitment, wake up and feel truly alive in our relationship, have more laughs and fewer fights?

The How to Have Threesomes Podcast answers hard to ask questions about relationships and threesomes with frankness and immediacy.

Key and Lily open up about their failures and successes so that you can skip past the mistakes and go straight to achieving a happy and healthy relationship.

How to Have Threesomes Key & Lily

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    • 4.6 • 123 Ratings

Key author of How to Have Threesomes, and co-host Lily answer important questions about non-conventional relationships: How do we balance freedom and commitment, wake up and feel truly alive in our relationship, have more laughs and fewer fights?

The How to Have Threesomes Podcast answers hard to ask questions about relationships and threesomes with frankness and immediacy.

Key and Lily open up about their failures and successes so that you can skip past the mistakes and go straight to achieving a happy and healthy relationship.

    #55 - Jay - How to Have Threesomes With Your Current and Ex Girlfriend

    #55 - Jay - How to Have Threesomes With Your Current and Ex Girlfriend

    Jay is one of the most open minded and interesting people we've had on our podcast. He drops wisdom bombs and tells us his legendary story of how he had multiple threesomes with his current girlfriend and his ex girlfriend. We talk about having interactions with men, burning man and much much more.

    This was definitely one of the best sex talks we've had yet and is an episode not to miss

    • 1 hr 14 min
    #54 Japan - Hentai, The Biggest Sex Store in the World, Soapland and Sexuality

    #54 Japan - Hentai, The Biggest Sex Store in the World, Soapland and Sexuality

    Key and Lily spent a month in Japan in this episode they talk about hentai, what's inside the biggest sex store in the World, soapland and about the seemly shy way some women act sexuality.

    • 28 min
    #53 Strip Theatre Japan - What's It's Like Inside

    #53 Strip Theatre Japan - What's It's Like Inside

    Key and Lily Travel to Japan and experience a new culture and sexuality. The first of our series about sex tourism in Japan we go to a strip theatre, a Japanese style strip club, and have mixed feelings about what we saw. Join us.

    How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now.
    howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes

    Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily
    howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily

    The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!
    docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQL…wform?usp=sharing

    How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms
    With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

    Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:
    www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRGB11PH

    Find us on Instagram
    How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

    • 36 min
    #52 Temptations Mexico, Swinger Clubs And The Lifestyle With Lisa

    #52 Temptations Mexico, Swinger Clubs And The Lifestyle With Lisa

    Lisa talks swinger clubs, her experiences at Temptations club in Mexico, lifestyle and lot more kinky and fun stories.

    Lisa has been a unicorn, done swaps, threesomes, foursomes, moresomes, been monogamous and tried many things in between. Learn from her ideas and knowledge of open relationships.

    How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now.
    howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes

    Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily
    howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily

    The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!
    docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQL…wform?usp=sharing

    How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms
    With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

    Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:
    www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRGB11PH

    Find us on Instagram
    How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

    • 1 hr 15 min
    #50 Pixi & Daddy - Kinky Open Marriage

    #50 Pixi & Daddy - Kinky Open Marriage

    Pixi & Daddy are going to be our new best friends. The depth of their knowledge, life experience, and love for each other make this a particularly special episode.

    During this podcast episode, we talked about open relationships, play parties, the kink world, managing jealousy, group sex, boundary setting and so much more.

    Seeing the love and connection between these two is simply inspiring, the level of mutual trust and respect is something every relationship should strive for.

    Pixi's social media:
    https://www.instagram.com/altlovepodcast/

    How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now.
    http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to-have-threesomes

    Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily
    http://howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coaching-with-key-and-lily

    The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!
    https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe75efA6m-fVgD57meLcZi_OSWxIuTgBon3yYaro5LIJF2eAw/viewform?usp=sharing

    How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms
    With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

    Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:
    https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRGB11PH

    Find us on Instagram
    How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

    • 1 hr 21 min
    #49 Eri Kardos - Relationship Agreements

    #49 Eri Kardos - Relationship Agreements

    Eri Kardos is one of the most highly referred relationship coaches in the Pacific Northwest and worldwide. Eri has delivered hundreds of self-development presentations, workshops, unconferences, and private coaching sessions. She regularly partners with corporations, universities, business groups, and community organizations to bring light to how communication and connection is inherently tied to success.

    She is passionate about applying her years of experience and understanding to help people in all stages of their relationship – whether intimately dating, newly married, at the brink of divorce, or partnered for over 40 years. Eri inspires people to fall in love more deeply with their partners, themselves, and their relationship!

    She is in a deeply loving, conscious, adaptive, and nourishing relationship with her husband. Eri is also the author of Relationship Agreements: A Simple and Effective Guide for Strengthening Communication, Reducing Conflict, and Increasing Intimacy to Design Your Ideal Relationship.

    During this podcast episode, we talked about her life story, sex parties, pollyamary, raising children in a non-manogamous marriage, and more.

    Links from this episode!
    The Gardener and the Carpenter parenting book:
    https://www.amazon.com/Gardener-Carpenter-Development-Relationship-Children/dp/1536617830

    The ethical slut relationships book:
    https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Third-Practical-Relationships/dp/0399579664/ref=sr_1_1?crid=22B44TC9IA09F&keywords=the+ethical+slut&qid=1666008745&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIxLjc2IiwicXNhIjoiMS4wMyIsInFzcCI6IjAuOTQifQ%3D%3D&s=books&sprefix=the+ethical+slu%2Cstripbooks-intl-ship%2C408&sr=1-1

    Eri's Website:
    https://www.relearnlove.com/relearn-love-for-couples/

    Eri's Socail media:
    https://www.instagram.com/coacherikardos/

    How to Have Threesomes Video Course is Available now.
    howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/how-to…reesomes

    Arrange a video coaching call with Key and Lily
    howtohavethreesomes.teachable.com/p/coachi…and-lily

    The How to Have Threesomes retreat is taking sign ups now!
    docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQL…wform?usp=sharing

    How to Have Threesomes the book is available across multiple platforms
    With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRG5KSWQ

    Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:
    www.amazon.com/dp/B0BRGB11PH

    Find us on Instagram
    How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

    • 1 hr 15 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
123 Ratings

123 Ratings

jOmammad ,

Two thumbs up, highly recommend

Love this! Love them! It’s so nice to hear a positive conversation about threesomes. Your podcast helped us clear up some boundaries and has helped us have even better experiences! Love the guests and honesty. Thank you!! Keep it coming

K dizzle88 ,

Entertaining but also informative

Love hearing about their lifestyle from a couples perspective and especially Julia’s. You two have a great vibe, good voices, and really informative information for someone who’s curious about spicing things up in the bedroom. I also love how much you two talk about the importance of a healthy relationship.

lollam33 ,

Great resource for newbies

Found this by a random search after having a threesome for the first time with my husband… I really appreciate the perspective they bring, esp. Julia (being a woman myself). I feel much better and rest assured that she has the same fears and thoughts as I do/did, but still enjoys this kind of lifestyle. Really looking for the do's & don'ts for beginners and how to navigate and decipher boundaries between all parties involved. The honesty and down to earth nature is really inspiring if you're brand new to this experience. Thank you, this truly is the best resource I have found so far!

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