4 episodes

Key author of How to Have Threesomes, and co-host Lily answer important questions about non-conventional relationships: How do we balance freedom and commitment, wake up and feel truly alive in our relationship, have more laughs and fewer fights?

The How to Have Threesomes Podcast answers hard to ask questions about relationships and threesomes with frankness and immediacy.

Key and Lily open up about their failures and successes so that you can skip past the mistakes and go straight to achieving a happy and healthy relationship.

How to Have Threesomes Key & Lily

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.6 • 117 Ratings

Key author of How to Have Threesomes, and co-host Lily answer important questions about non-conventional relationships: How do we balance freedom and commitment, wake up and feel truly alive in our relationship, have more laughs and fewer fights?

The How to Have Threesomes Podcast answers hard to ask questions about relationships and threesomes with frankness and immediacy.

Key and Lily open up about their failures and successes so that you can skip past the mistakes and go straight to achieving a happy and healthy relationship.

    #50 Pixi & Daddy - Kinky Open Marriage

    #50 Pixi & Daddy - Kinky Open Marriage

    Pixi & Daddy are going to be our new best friends. The depth of their knowledge, life experience, and love for each other make this a particularly special episode.

    During this podcast episode, we talked about open relationships, play parties, the kink world, managing jealousy, group sex, boundary setting and so much more.

    Seeing the love and connection between these two is simply inspiring, the level of mutual trust and respect is something every relationship should strive for.

    Pixi's social media:
    https://www.instagram.com/altlovepodcast/

    How to Have Threesomes the book is available now!
    With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B084Q87YBY

    Or listen now to the How to Have Threesomes audio book on Audible
    www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-…HCW85BG9KEGMBX8

    Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:
    www.amazon.com/dp/B07WMSB78W/ref…p_U_O955Db083HVPA

    Or listen to the HTHT Compainon Guide audio book on Audible
    www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-…HCW85BG9KEGMBX8

    Find us on Instagram:
    How to Have Threesomes
    www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

    • 1 hr 20 min
    #49 Eri Kardos - Relationship Agreements

    #49 Eri Kardos - Relationship Agreements

    Eri Kardos is one of the most highly referred relationship coaches in the Pacific Northwest and worldwide. Eri has delivered hundreds of self-development presentations, workshops, unconferences, and private coaching sessions. She regularly partners with corporations, universities, business groups, and community organizations to bring light to how communication and connection is inherently tied to success.

    She is passionate about applying her years of experience and understanding to help people in all stages of their relationship – whether intimately dating, newly married, at the brink of divorce, or partnered for over 40 years. Eri inspires people to fall in love more deeply with their partners, themselves, and their relationship!

    She is in a deeply loving, conscious, adaptive, and nourishing relationship with her husband. Eri is also the author of Relationship Agreements: A Simple and Effective Guide for Strengthening Communication, Reducing Conflict, and Increasing Intimacy to Design Your Ideal Relationship.

    During this podcast episode, we talked about her life story, sex parties, pollyamary, raising children in a non-manogamous marriage, and more.

    Links from this episode!
    The Gardener and the Carpenter parenting book:
    https://www.amazon.com/Gardener-Carpenter-Development-Relationship-Children/dp/1536617830

    The ethical slut relationships book:
    https://www.amazon.com/Ethical-Slut-Third-Practical-Relationships/dp/0399579664/ref=sr_1_1?crid=22B44TC9IA09F&keywords=the+ethical+slut&qid=1666008745&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIxLjc2IiwicXNhIjoiMS4wMyIsInFzcCI6IjAuOTQifQ%3D%3D&s=books&sprefix=the+ethical+slu%2Cstripbooks-intl-ship%2C408&sr=1-1

    Eri's Website:
    https://www.relearnlove.com/relearn-love-for-couples/

    Eri's Socail media:
    https://www.instagram.com/coacherikardos/

    How to Have Threesomes the book is available now!
    With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B084Q87YBY

    Or listen now to the How to Have Threesomes audio book on Audible
    www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-…HCW85BG9KEGMBX8

    Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:
    www.amazon.com/dp/B07WMSB78W/ref…p_U_O955Db083HVPA

    Or listen to the HTHT Compainon Guide audio book on Audible
    www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-…HCW85BG9KEGMBX8

    Find us on Instagram
    How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

    • 1 hr 13 min
    #47 Pelvic floor specialist Jenna

    #47 Pelvic floor specialist Jenna

    A deep dive into the anatomy of female pleasure and the pelvic floor. Our guest Jenna is a holistic sex coach, yoga teacher trainer, and pelvic floor specialist.
    This is a very educational episode on the technical "how to's" of breathwork, mindfulness and pelvic floor strengthening.

    Jenna was kind enough to also offer our listeners her free orgasm workbook!
    https://www.jennaswitzer.com/free-orgasm-workbook

    You can also find her on Instagram at:
    https://www.instagram.com/jenna_switzer/

    How to Have Threesomes the book is available now!
    With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B084Q87YBY

    Or listen now to the How to Have Threesomes audiobook on Audible
    https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B09F51LHCP?qid=1636677835&sr=1-3&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_3&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

    Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:
    www.amazon.com/dp/B07WMSB78W/ref…p_U_O955Db083HVPA

    Or listen to the HTHT Compainon Guide audio book on Audible
    https://www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-Threesomes-Audiobook/B08BT2NCL5?qid=1636677835&sr=1-1&ref=a_search_c3_lProduct_1_1&pf_rd_p=771c6463-05d7-4981-9b47-920dc34a70f1&pf_rd_r=R9FGWHCW85BG9KEGMBX8

    Find us on Instagram
    How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

    • 1 hr 28 min
    #48 Tiny Tiny Handjobs With Pleasure Coach Erin

    #48 Tiny Tiny Handjobs With Pleasure Coach Erin

    Erin was one of our favorite guests yet! From kink and sex parties, to open relationships, threesomes and more, Erin has endless stories and wisdom to share. She was in a lesbian relationship for over 10 years and is now exploring her sexuality as a unicorn and facilitator of group play parties.

    We talked about porn genres, how to become multi-orgasmic and tiny tiny hand jobs ( lol )

    How to Have Threesomes the book is available now!
    With sexcapades and crazy stories to help you understand how and why a couple might choose a monogamish relationship. www.amazon.com/dp/B084Q87YBY

    Or listen now to the How to Have Threesomes audio book on Audible
    www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-…HCW85BG9KEGMBX8

    Learn more in our book How to Have Threesomes: Companion Guide on Amazon:
    www.amazon.com/dp/B07WMSB78W/ref…p_U_O955Db083HVPA

    Or listen to the HTHT Compainon Guide audio book on Audible
    www.audible.com.au/pd/How-to-Have-…HCW85BG9KEGMBX8

    Find us on Instagram
    How to Have Threesomes www.instagram.com/howtohavethreesomes/

    • 1 hr 59 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
117 Ratings

117 Ratings

K dizzle88 ,

Entertaining but also informative

Love hearing about their lifestyle from a couples perspective and especially Julia’s. You two have a great vibe, good voices, and really informative information for someone who’s curious about spicing things up in the bedroom. I also love how much you two talk about the importance of a healthy relationship.

lollam33 ,

Great resource for newbies

Found this by a random search after having a threesome for the first time with my husband… I really appreciate the perspective they bring, esp. Julia (being a woman myself). I feel much better and rest assured that she has the same fears and thoughts as I do/did, but still enjoys this kind of lifestyle. Really looking for the do's & don'ts for beginners and how to navigate and decipher boundaries between all parties involved. The honesty and down to earth nature is really inspiring if you're brand new to this experience. Thank you, this truly is the best resource I have found so far!

New England Lovers ,

You are an inspiration!

Thank you! My girlfriend and I have been talking about having a threesome for some time, but we feel like deer in the headlights. Your podcast has been so helpful. Your energy, examples, advice has given us the confidence we need. You guys are awesome.

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