I Think I Like You

Clara Artschwager
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A counterintuitive approach to navigating dating and building relationships in the digital age. This is for the woman who feels disenchanted by more common dating rhetoric and sometimes even questions if she wants a relationship at all. She already lives a rich, full life. She would like to share that with someone, but not at the expense of herself. What gives? That’s where we’re digging in.

  1. 10 DE SET.

    2 on the surface helpful ways we can bypass the truth of our (romantic) lives | Ep 139

    The obsession with healing ourselves is real, and these days, more often than not, I find myself guiding clients to pull back on all the materials and content they're ingesting in order to stop perpetuating this idea that they're "broken" or that there's always "more" to do. From the endless cycle of self-help books and courses that promise to "fix" us, to using gratitude as emotional white-out, these well-intentioned strategies can become sophisticated forms of self-avoidance. Because really the medicine you need is hidden in the very behavior you're trying to avoid—whether that's having the really hard conversation, making the financial decision you've been putting off, or finally facing the rejection you've been running from. If you're someone who perpetually feels stuck but also like you've done so much work or all the right things, etc etc, this episode is for you. Today's conversation will challenge you to look at where you might be choosing comfort over truth—and what becomes possible when you stop. Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

    33min

  2. 3 DE SET.

    On being chronically single | Ep 138

    This is one of those episodes that came in like a force — it started with a simple question from a follower, then ballooned into like 45 more, with other followers sending random messages, recurring themes in my client work, and admittedly, even the more recent lamenting on my own single life now in a marriage with a baby. This episode will resonate if: You find motivating yourself to date really, really challengingYou haven't dated in a very long time (be it 12 months or 12 years) — and if/when you do, it's only for a very short amount of timeYou hold a lot of shame around this and might even blame yourself for "not trying harding" or "not putting yourself out there"You've, perhaps purchased courses or tried to work on this in therapy, but nothing creates a big changeWork with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

    55min

  3. 27 DE AGO.

    Ep 137 | This is what healthy dating actually looks like (Pssst we're back!)

    What if everything you think dating should look like is actually keeping you single? Or constantly thinking you're doing something wrong or that it's not enough? It seems most of us are in the quintessential "messy middle," in every sense of the word. So as my comeback episode it felt even more appropriate to dig into why these spaces are so potent. It's exactly where the real work happens. And while the primary focus will be on relationships, I'll share how these seasons occur — and benefit us — in all areas of life. You'll be into this episode if: You're very critical of your dating progress/don't feel like you've made any at allReally struggle with the uncertainty of your romantic futureHave felt stuck in the same or similar spot for quite some timeWork with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

    35min

  4. 12 DE MAI.

    How to know when it's time to take a break...from dating, hanging with a certain friend, or running a podcast | Ep 136

    Today's decision is something I've been noodling on for the past month. I've decided to take a break from running this podcast. But I didn't want to do so without taking you behind the scenes of my decision, because while in this instance the decision to take a break centers around a creative project — my method and means of reflection could be applied to so much else. It's got me thinking about all sorts of priorities and projects in my life.... do I still want to engage with them? Are they for right now? How does one decide? If you find yourself in any space of stuck-ness, I'll be sharing: How I started to hear the whispers of this decision, like maybe it was something I should do, and how I went about determining if it was the right decisionWhy I decided to label it as a break versus end the podcastWrestling with our own limitations around time, money, creative capacityHow to hold two things — the disappointment of having to let something go, but also the desire to do soMy desire to lean more into living life versus just accomplishing lifeWhere you can enjoy new content from me, including in audio and video formWhile the podcast is going on pause, my work with clients, my online courses, and most importantly, my Substack is not! Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

    40min

  5. 12 DE MAI.

    The practitioner that healed my gut, but really, changed the trajectory of my life | Ep 135

    Eight years ago, I landed myself in the office of a nurse practitioner/functional medicine specialist who specialized in gut health. I had been inexplicably bloated and exhausted for months and didn't know why. Little did I know that woman would go on to not only remedy my body, but change the overall trajectory of my life and career. Flash forward to today, while she's still an expert when it comes to our bodies, our nervous systems, and how the two speak to one another, her work is primarily focused on helping folks rid themselves of codependent, people-pleasing tendencies. And candidly, all the physical issues I suffered from back in 2017 were really just a manifestation of mental and emotional turmoil. Namely, living a life that was more based on external approval than internal fulfillment. She brings a really fresh perspective to codependency, and what she refers to as "emotional outsourcing." Beatriz (Béa) Victoria Albina, NP, MPH, SEP (she/her) is a UCSF-trained Family Nurse Practitioner, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, Master Certified Somatic Life Coach, author of the forthcoming "End Emotional Outsourcing: a Guide to Overcoming Codependent, Perfectionist and People Pleasing Habits" (expected Sept 30, Hachette Balance) and Breathwork Meditation Guide with a passion for helping humans socialized as women to reconnect with their bodies, regulate their nervous systems and rewire their minds, so they can break free from codependency, perfectionism and people pleasing and reclaim their joy. Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

    1h16min

  6. 15 DE ABR.

    The exact advice you need when you're tired, frustrated and feel like nothing is advancing in your life | Ep 134

    March was a rough month for me. I found myself fighting the tail end of sleep training with Jude, my son. I was in a constant state of frustration around all I "wasn't" getting done. My husband and I were bickering like mad.  I felt like everyday I was on a treadmill headed nowhere— and not advancing anywhere— but I was still sprinting. Constantly. I couldn't shut down. I was lucky to have my dear friend and wise sage Catherine Zack by my side. Her heartfelt guidance was so good, I decided to turn it into a podcast episode. Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

    1h12min

  7. 8 DE ABR.

    An argument for swiping left more. Yes, more. | Ep 133

    In a recent Instagram post, I spoke about how many of my clients hold a fear that a relationship will swallow them whole. This isn't a misconception, as many of them have completely lost themselves in prior relationships. Also identifying as people pleasers, they've historically had a hard time operating authentically in their relationships, be they romantic, platonic, professional or (most of all) familial. Because of this, it's crucial, when it comes to dating, that we double down on their ability to authentically express themselves. One of the first and most common areas that can be worked on is in the act of swiping. And with that, I'm a proponent of leaning into swiping...left. Yep, left. Listen to find out why I find it to be so empowering and how to differentiate between an authentic "I don't want to swipe right on this person," versus the ever elusive "being too picky." Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

    34min

  8. 25 DE FEV.

    The season in life where I thought "Maybe I just don't want a relationship" | Ep 132

    There was a moment about five years ago, around age 34, where I thought to myself: Maybe I just don't want a relationship. Clients will say a similar thing to me, often using language like: I'm not even sure I want to be in a relationship. In today's episode I'm exploring what rests beneath those words (what they meant for me, what they mean for others) and what it means to intellectualize our pain. I specifically discuss: How a debilitating breakup made me never want to try to have a relationship againHow I very much wanted a partner and a family but struggled so deeply to believe I'd ever have those things, that it made it easier to tell myself I didn't want themHow and why we intellectualizing our painHow focusing on being grateful can serve as a mask to what we want to change in our livesWhat's involved in letting our deep longings and desires breatheRead My Substack Dani Beinstein Episode Referenced Work with me Privately Connect on Instagram Website Podcast Production by James Jorge

    32min
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A counterintuitive approach to navigating dating and building relationships in the digital age. This is for the woman who feels disenchanted by more common dating rhetoric and sometimes even questions if she wants a relationship at all. She already lives a rich, full life. She would like to share that with someone, but not at the expense of herself. What gives? That’s where we’re digging in.

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  • Criado por
    Clara Artschwager
  • Anos de atividade
    2022 - 2025
  • Episódios
    146
  • Classificação
    Explícito
  • Copyright
    © 2025 I Think I Like You
  • Site do podcast
    I Think I Like You

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