Get Your Sexy Back

Kimberly Moore-Coffin ~ Intimacy Relationship & Tantra Teacher Speaker & Coach and Roberto Pellecer ~ Wellness Advocate

Get Your Sexy Back ~ for Couples is the podcast for intimate partners who are ready to reclaim the passion, power, and deep soulful connection they know is possible...but haven’t quite known how to access… until now. Hosted by Intimacy, Relationship, and Tantra teacher Kim Coffin and her partner Roberto, this show is an unfiltered, heart-led exploration of sacred sexuality, conscious communication, emotional safety, and the alchemy of modern relationships. Together, they bring both the feminine and masculine lens...bridging trauma healing and nervous system wisdom with the raw, playful, and deeply embodied tools of Tantra. You’ll hear real conversations about: * Navigating sex and intimacy without shame or performance * Creating polarity and chemistry in long-term partnership * What it actually takes to feel seen, heard, and deeply connected * How to fight, repair, and grow without breaking your bond * Embodying your full sexual expression...and supporting your partner’s * Building sacred union, one practice at a time Whether you’re healing together, growing together, or just starting to explore sacred intimacy, this podcast is your permission slip to show up as your full self...in and out of the bedroom. Let’s take your relationship from functional…to phenomenal.

  1. 17 GIỜ TRƯỚC

    Couples Retreat - The Movie vs. The Real Thing

    If you’ve ever seen Couples Retreat, you probably laughed and maybe thought, “Please tell me real retreats aren’t like that.” You’re not alone. Hollywood’s version of “healing” is filled with forced sharing, public breakdowns, and humiliation disguised as therapy. In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share the truth about what real couples retreats are like and why they’re nothing like the movie.   What You’ll Hear in This Episode:Why Hollywood’s version of couples retreats creates more fear than healing, and how that misconception stops couples from getting real help.What is the truth about tantra and what it actually is (and isn’t)What is the importance of consentWhy waiting until your relationship is “on the rocks” makes healing harder and how coming sooner can transform everything.What real retreats feel like ...how depth, laughter, sensuality, and play in a space where transformation happens through safety, not shame, looks like  You don’t have to wait for a crisis to reconnect. Real retreats aren’t about breaking you down...they’re about helping you remember the truth of who you are, together.   REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOW FOR OUR FEBRUARY 12-15 GROUP COUPLES RETREAT AT PHOENIX RISING. Here’s what you can expect: • Daily practices to help you reconnect beyond the day-to-day • Space to set down stress and rediscover each other as lovers • Guidance from us and the support of a like-minded group • Private moments where intimacy can naturally rekindle We keep this retreat intentionally small. It is just 5 couples, so there’s space for genuine connection. 👉 Say yes to becoming lovers again and reserve your retreat spot here https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats 👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and or if you feel like a private couples retreat is more for you and your partner https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall P.S. If this date does not work for you, you can check out the other dates on our website so you can be a part of our retreats that will give you the same chance to reignite what’s been waiting underneath.   About us:  Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.  Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...  And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.   Follow us below and continue the convo!  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/ and  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

    40 phút
  2. 8 THG 10

    When Conversations Turn Into Fights: Breaking the Cycle of Conflict and Shutdown

    You know that feeling when a simple conversation spirals into the same fight you’ve had a hundred times before. It’s not about the dishes or the money. It’s about safety, disconnection, and your nervous system trying to protect you. In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we open up about how to recognize when your nervous systems are running the show and how to repair and reconnect when it happens.   What You’ll Hear in This Episode:What is the real reason behind recurring fights, and why it’s rarely about what you thinkHow the nervous system drives reactivity, defensiveness, and shutdown in moments of conflictWhat is the hidden cost of unresolved arguments, and how do  they quietly erode intimacy and trustHow does the shift from blame to curiosity look like, and how does that one change transform conflict into connectionWhat are the practical tools for regulation and repair so you can anchor yourself and your partner in safetyWhy retreats work when nothing else has and how new environments accelerate healing and intimacy  If you’re ready to stop fighting the same fight and start feeling safe, seen, and connected again, this episode is your roadmap back to love.   REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOW FOR OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP COUPLE RETREAT AT PHOENIX RISING. Here’s what you’ll experience: Sacred intimacy rituals that blend healing and pleasurePractices that make sex less about performance and more about playSpace to take everything back into your room… and let it get hot in your own wayThe safety of a group container where shame dissolves and passion expandsThis isn’t about adding “spice.” It’s about remembering how good it feels to choose each other… body, heart, and soul. Only 5 couples. Rooms are filling first-come, first-served (GeoDomes or cottage). 👉 Say yes to passion that lasts - reserve your retreat spot here https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats 👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall     About us:  Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.  Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...  And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.   Follow us below and continue the convo!  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/ and  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

    49 phút
  3. 1 THG 10

    The Erotic Reset: Why Pleasure and Play Are Medicine for Your Relationship

    Life gets busy. Responsibilities pile up. Stress takes over. And without even noticing, intimacy fades, sex feels functional, and play disappears. In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we unpack why pleasure and play aren’t indulgences and why they’re the medicine your relationship needs to thrive.   What you’ll hear in this episode:✨ Why pleasure is not a luxury and how it’s foundational for intimacy, vitality, and connection ✨ How play keeps polarity alive and brings back curiosity, teasing, and magnetism ✨ How erotic energy goes beyond the bedroom and how it fuels joy, presence, and aliveness in everyday life ✨ What are the practical ways to choose pleasure daily, from small rituals to intentional touch ✨ Why retreats provide the fastest “erotic reset” and how stepping out of autopilot into new practices that reignite passion   If your relationship feels flat or overly serious, this episode is your invitation to reclaim play, pleasure, and erotic aliveness together.   OUR NEXT GROUP RETREAT IS NOVEMBER 20–24 AND REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN! Here’s what you can expect: 🌹 Practices that help you reconnect to your erotic aliveness 🌹 A safe, non-judgmental space where nothing is “too much” 🌹 Permission to explore intimacy in your own timing and your own way 🌹 Private moments where you can bring everything you’re learning into your sex life   👉 Say yes to your erotic aliveness and reserve your retreat spot here https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats 👉 Or book an Exploration Call to feel into whether this is your next yes https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall PS: November is filling. February is open. But the spark you crave? That starts the moment you say yes.   About us:  Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.  Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...  And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.   Follow us below and continue the convo!  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/ and  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

    35 phút
  4. 24 THG 9

    From Roommates to Lovers Again: Breaking Out of the Comfortable but Disconnected Phase

    You love each other, share a life together, maybe even still laugh sometimes… but if you’re honest, the spark is gone. Intimacy feels flat, and you’re more like roommates than lovers. In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why the “roommate phase” happens, what it really costs, and how to shift back into passion, play, and deep intimacy.   What you’ll hear in this episode:How couples silently slip into the roommate phase without even realising itWhat are the subtle and obvious signs you’re stuck in comfortable-but-disconnected energyWhat is the hidden emotional toll of staying in roommate mode, and why does it impact more than your sex lifeHow to break the cycle with daily practices that reawaken play and polarityWhy retreats create the reset you can’t get in your everyday environment  If you’ve been feeling the ache of disconnection, it doesn’t mean you’re broken. It’s an invitation to reset, to choose love again, and to step into deeper intimacy.   REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOW FOR OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP RETREAT AT PHOENIX RISING. Here’s what you’ll experience: • Sacred intimacy rituals that blend healing and pleasure • Practices that make sex less about performance and more about play • Space to take everything back into your room… and let it get hot in your own way • The safety of a group container where shame dissolves and passion expands   👉 Say yes to passion that lasts and reserve your retreat spot here https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats 👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall   About us:  Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.  Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...  And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.     Follow us below and continue the convo!  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/ and  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

    34 phút
  5. 17 THG 9

    Emotional Safety: The Real Key to Deeper Sex and Lasting Intimacy

    If sex feels disconnected, mechanical, or just not happening, then the real block might not be desire… it might be safety. In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why emotional safety is the foundation of intimacy and how it creates the conditions for passion, polarity, and lasting connection.  What you’ll hear in this episode:What emotional safety really means and why “not fighting” isn’t enoughHow polarity and turn-on are fuelled by safety in both masculine and feminine energyWhat is the hidden cost of ignoring safety, and how does it erode intimacy over timeWhat are some simple, daily practices that build safety, trust, and connectionWhy safety is the foundation of better sex and not just more sex.If you’re craving sex that feels alive, nourishing, and deeply connected, this episode is your reminder: it all starts with safety.   OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP RETREAT IS A FULL TANTRA EXPERIENCE AND REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN Here’s what you’ll experience: • Practices that bring your body into safety so pleasure can expand • Tools to rewire old patterns of shame, disconnection, or performance • Sacred intimacy rituals that turn sex into something nourishing and electric • Private time to take everything you’ve learned into your own bed 👉 Say yes to your aliveness and reserve your retreat spot here https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats 👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this feels right for you https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall Because when safety is present, passion naturally follows.   About us:  Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.  Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...  And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.   Follow us below and continue the convo!  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/ and  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

    43 phút
  6. 10 THG 9

    Desire Mismatch: When One of You Wants More

    Every couple knows the ache of mismatched desire — when one of you is longing for more intimacy, while the other feels pulled back or pressured. In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share how to reframe desire mismatch from a source of conflict into an opportunity for deeper connection, presence, and intimacy.   What you’ll hear in this episode:Why mismatched desires don’t mean your relationship is broken and how to see them as an invitation.Why honouring the cycles reduces shame.How stress or safety influences your ability to feel aroused.What is the hidden emotional toll of rejection and pressure when a desire mismatch goes unspokenWhy intimacy takes practice and the simple daily rituals that reconnect you outside and inside the bedroom.  Desire mismatch isn’t the end. It can be the doorway into more truth, more trust, and more erotic aliveness.   Our Group Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration. Here’s what you can expect November 20–24: • A lakeside sanctuary with space to slow down and breathe again • Daily practices that build intimacy, presence, and passion • Support from us in an intimate, like-minded group • Nourishing meals, cozy fires, and private moments together with no distractions • The chance to take everything you’re learning back into your bedroom…and feel the difference If you’ve been waiting for the right time, this is it. Come and see how much more is possible for your relationship. Only 5 couples. First-come, first-served for your room selection (GeoDomes or cottage rooms). 👉 Reserve your retreat spot here: https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/bookgroupretreat 👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit. https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall Because your love story deserves more than survival. It deserves to thrive.   About us:  Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.  Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...  And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.   Follow us below and continue the convo!  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/ and  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

    48 phút
  7. 3 THG 9

    It’s Not Too Late- Reigniting Passion and Intimacy in Your 40s, 50s, and Beyond

    So many of us were told that passion fades with age and that once you’re in your 40s, 50s, or beyond, intimacy is over. We’re here to call bullsh!t on that story.   In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why intimacy can actually deepen with age and how to reignite the spark in your relationship, no matter where you are on the journey.   What you’ll hear in this episode:Busting the myth that passion naturally fades in long-term relationships.The hidden cost of avoiding intimacy and how it impacts your whole life.Why midlife and menopause aren’t endings, but portals to deeper erotic energy and aliveness.The five kinds of intimacy that matter and are beyond just sex.Why retreats create breakthroughs that vacations or date nights never could.  If you’ve been feeling like it’s “too late” to get the passion back… this episode is your reminder that intimacy is waiting for you.   💫 Book your complimentary Exploration Call to explore whether a Phoenix Rising Retreat — private or group — is the right next step for you and your partner.   Because your relationship deserves more than survival. It deserves to thrive.   ABOUT US: Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.  Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...  And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.     Follow us below and continue the convo!  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/ and  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

    38 phút
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    Why We Went on a Couples Retreat… Even as Retreat Leaders

    You’d think retreat leaders wouldn’t “need” a retreat themselves… but the truth is, we’ll never be done learning, deepening, and choosing each other.  In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why we said yes to flying across the world for a couples mastermind and retreat — and what it gave us as partners, lovers, and leaders.   What you’ll hear in this episode:Why we signed up for a six-month mastermind and retreat, even with resistance.Why even leaders need to surrender and be held and how it changed our intimacy.How emotional release practices create deep safety and intimacy in partnership.What is the erotic charge of polarity — and how containment and surrender can lead to full-body orgasms (yes, fully clothed).Why you don’t have to wait until crisis to invest in your relationship.  If you’ve been craving more intimacy, trust, and desire in your relationship, this episode is your sign.   🔥 Reignite the flame. It starts with a single step. Because your relationship deserves more than survival. It deserves to thrive. 💫 Book your complimentary Exploration Call today to explore whether a Phoenix Rising Retreat — private or group — is right for you.   About us:  Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.  Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...  And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.     Follow us below and continue the convo!  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/    TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/ and  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

    47 phút
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Get Your Sexy Back ~ for Couples is the podcast for intimate partners who are ready to reclaim the passion, power, and deep soulful connection they know is possible...but haven’t quite known how to access… until now. Hosted by Intimacy, Relationship, and Tantra teacher Kim Coffin and her partner Roberto, this show is an unfiltered, heart-led exploration of sacred sexuality, conscious communication, emotional safety, and the alchemy of modern relationships. Together, they bring both the feminine and masculine lens...bridging trauma healing and nervous system wisdom with the raw, playful, and deeply embodied tools of Tantra. You’ll hear real conversations about: * Navigating sex and intimacy without shame or performance * Creating polarity and chemistry in long-term partnership * What it actually takes to feel seen, heard, and deeply connected * How to fight, repair, and grow without breaking your bond * Embodying your full sexual expression...and supporting your partner’s * Building sacred union, one practice at a time Whether you’re healing together, growing together, or just starting to explore sacred intimacy, this podcast is your permission slip to show up as your full self...in and out of the bedroom. Let’s take your relationship from functional…to phenomenal.

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