Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads

G-Rex and Dirty Skittles, Bleav

”Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads” is a podcast that emerged from G-Rex’s personal mental health journey, starting with a breakdown in 2022. Supported by her wife, 988, and a higher power, G-Rex found healing and vowed to destigmatize mental health struggles. With best friend Dirty Skittles, the podcast tackles life’s challenges with humor and honesty, emphasizing the importance of open dialogue. Listeners join their engaging discussions on relationships, parenting, pop culture, and mental health, gaining practical tips and a sense of community. Through laughter and camaraderie, the podcast offers empowerment and solidarity, reminding everyone that it’s okay not to be okay and encouraging reaching out for support. Ultimately, ”Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads” is a beacon of hope, humor, and companionship, advocating for mental health awareness and inclusivity.

  1. Storm Rises, Part 2: From Losing Everything to Taking Her Power Back

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    Storm Rises, Part 2: From Losing Everything to Taking Her Power Back

    In Part 2 of our two-part conversation with Storm, we continue uncovering the raw, unfiltered truths behind surviving medical trauma, chronic illness, and emotional isolation — and how one woman pulled herself out of the darkest corners of her life to reclaim her voice, her joy, and her power. Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is proud to be the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast. With over 2 million downloads, we’re here to break stigma, amplify real stories, and remind you that you’re not alone. We want to hear what you think. Leave us a voice message or written feedback at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote of the Episode "It’s not weak to acknowledge your pain. It’s not weak to share it. And if you don't deal with your sh!t, it will deal with you." — Storm What This Episode Is About In this continuation of Storm’s journey, we dive into what happens after you’ve lost everything — your health, your child, your marriage, your career, and your voice — and how one woman chose to rise. Storm opens up about what it really takes to rebuild a life from rubble. We talk about Medicaid and medical poverty, managing invisible illnesses, grieving family loss, finding community after isolation, healing through music, and learning how to be your own damn hero. Storm doesn’t sugarcoat it: recovery isn’t linear, self-love isn’t easy, and waiting for someone else to save you might keep you stuck. This is a story about owning your truth, speaking it out loud, and refusing to go quietly. Keywords: mental health recovery, chronic illness survivor, toxic relationships, trauma healing, female empowerment, fluoroquinolone toxicity, self-worth, manifestation, emotional resilience Meet Our Guest – Storm Storm is a survivor, a storyteller, and a force of nature. After enduring a catastrophic reaction to a commonly prescribed antibiotic, Storm found herself bedridden, silenced by the medical system, and abandoned by the people who should have stood by her. Her journey took her through the darkest depths of chronic illness, emotional abuse, medical gaslighting, divorce, financial instability, and the heartbreaking estrangement from her only child. But she refused to stay down. Armed with resilience, radical self-talk, and a deep well of inner fire, Storm clawed her way back—physically, mentally, emotionally, and creatively. She transformed pain into purpose, reclaiming her identity as a writer, singer, and woman in full. Through music, manifestation, and unmatched grit, Storm built a new life brick by broken brick. Today, she uses her voice to speak out against medical injustice, normalize hard conversations about mental health, and remind others that it’s never too late to start over. She isn’t just weathering the storm. She is the storm. Key Takeaways Why Storm refused to stay down after losing her son, parents, and partner How grief, anger, and loss can fuel a comeback What “toxic positivity” is and why it’s harmful to healing The importance of building a support circle that truly sees you Why it’s okay not to be okay — and to say so out loud Storm’s thoughts on love, trust, and dating after narcissistic abuse Actionable Items Find your fire. Rediscover the thing that makes you feel alive — creativity, movement, music, anything. Start small. Tiny checkboxes, such as “take a shower” or “go outside,” can help rebuild a routine. Avoid toxic positivity. Surround yourself with people who let you speak your truth. Reclaim your voice. Whether through writing, music, or therapy, your story matters. Rethink your circle. Be around people who make space for your healing, not your silence. Prioritize self-care. It's not optional — it’s survival. References Mentioned Fluoroquinolone toxicity & black box warnings Cipro-induced mitochondrial damage Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome MTHFR genetic mutation Medicaid’s critical role in medical recovery Neuroplasticity exercises for mental healing Music as somatic and emotional therapy The suicide prevention hotline: 988 (USA & Canada) Chapters & Timestamps 00:00 – Opening: Medicaid, finances, and the fallout 03:00 – Breaking bones and breaking cycles 07:00 – Losing her son: “What’s the point anymore?” 10:00 – Music therapy, friendships, and laughter return 14:00 – Losing both parents, and her father's reaction to Cipro 17:00 – Calling out the broken healthcare system 21:00 – Toxic positivity and the right to speak your truth 25:00 – Self-love, empathy, and protecting your energy 28:00 – Advice to women: Red flags, financial abuse, and boundaries 33:00 – Letter to her younger self: “Never lose who you are” 36:00 – The power of self-approval 38:00 – Bonus questions: Favorite word, theme song, and lessons learned Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Love what you hear? Don’t miss a single story. Subscribe to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads wherever you listen to podcasts. ⭐️ Leave us a rating and review — it helps more people find these powerful conversations. Visit us: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #TraumaRecovery #ChronicIllnessWarrior #MedicalGaslighting #WomenEmpoweringWomen #SelfLoveJourney #EmotionalHealing #FluoroquinoloneAwareness #ToxicPositivity #PodcastCommunity #Neuroplasticity #ReclaimYourPower #EmpathProblems #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #InvisibleIllness #SurvivorStories #StormsStory *************************************************************************** If You Need Support, Reach Out If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference. United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles Official Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: Sign Up HereMerch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    40 min
  2. Storm’s Mental Hell, Part 1: Medical Betrayal, Narcissists & Barely Surviving

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    Storm’s Mental Hell, Part 1: Medical Betrayal, Narcissists & Barely Surviving

    In this gripping first part of a two-part conversation, we sit down with Storm, a true survivor who endured a catastrophic spiral of chronic illness, medical gaslighting, emotional abandonment, and mental trauma — and lived to tell the story. This episode is a raw, unfiltered look into the devastating impact of fluoroquinolone toxicity, medical betrayal, and what happens when your support system disappears at the exact moment you need it most. "Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads" is an award-winning podcast, honored as the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, with over 2 million downloads and growing strong. We want to hear from YOU. Leave us written feedback or a voice message at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Mental Health Quote of the Episode "Find your fire. Everybody's fire is different—but when life burns you to the ground, that fire is how you rise." — Storm What This Episode Is About Storm's story is an intense mental health journey through hell — one filled with physical collapse, emotional devastation, and being completely alone while navigating one of the most misunderstood pharmaceutical injuries of our time. After being poisoned by a commonly prescribed antibiotic, Storm experienced 83 debilitating symptoms in just 36 hours, triggering a near-complete breakdown of her body and mind. Left to rot by a narcissistic partner, dismissed by doctors, and eventually served divorce papers while bedridden, Storm had every reason to give up. But she didn’t. This episode is an honest and emotional conversation about surviving when survival feels impossible, navigating the fallout of medical abuse, and the gritty, daily work of rebuilding your identity from the ground up. Keywords: fluoroquinolone toxicity, chronic illness, medical gaslighting, narcissistic abuse, divorce, isolation, mental health recovery, female empowerment, resilience, trauma survival Meet Our Guest – Storm Storm is a survivor, a storyteller, and a force of nature. After enduring a catastrophic reaction to a commonly prescribed antibiotic, Storm found herself bedridden, silenced by the medical system, and abandoned by the people who should have stood by her. Her journey took her through the darkest depths of chronic illness, emotional abuse, medical gaslighting, divorce, financial instability, and the heartbreaking estrangement from her only child. But she refused to stay down. Armed with resilience, radical self-talk, and a deep well of inner fire, Storm clawed her way back—physically, mentally, emotionally, and creatively. She transformed pain into purpose, reclaiming her identity as a writer, singer, and woman in full. Through music, manifestation, and unmatched grit, Storm built a new life brick by broken brick. Today, she uses her voice to speak out against medical injustice, normalize hard conversations about mental health, and remind others that it’s never too late to start over. She isn’t just weathering the storm. She is the storm. Key Takeaways How fluoroquinolone antibiotics can cause long-term neurological and physiological damage Why narcissistic abuse and emotional abandonment amplify mental health struggles The role of manifestation, mindset, and micro-goals in recovery How to reclaim your identity after medical trauma and relationship loss Why medical gaslighting is a real and dangerous experience, especially for women Actionable Items Ask questions about your prescriptions — Know what drug class you're being given, especially if it's a fluoroquinolone. Track your symptoms — Even if doctors dismiss you, document everything. Join a support group — Seek out communities that understand what you're going through. Start a tiny goals journal — Storm began her comeback with daily goals like “stand for 10 minutes.” Focus on one fire — Whether it's music, art, writing, or walks, find what lights you up and lean into it. References Mentioned Cipro and fluoroquinolone toxicity Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome MTHFR genetic mutation Functional medicine and gut-brain connection Returnship programs for women in tech and marketing ReverbNation music platform Chapters & Timestamps 00:00 – Intro: Meet Storm 00:47 – “This is going to be a sad story, but there's a happy ending” 02:00 – Storm’s medical collapse begins 06:00 – The Cipro connection and tendon rupture risks 10:30 – Ehlers-Danlos syndrome and fluoroquinolone dangers 13:00 – The loneliness of chronic illness and abandonment 17:00 – Divorce while bedridden 22:00 – Storm’s son and mental health collapse 28:00 – How isolation led to internal healing 30:00 – Music, manifestation, and the comeback begins 35:00 – From bedridden to rebuilding a career 37:00 – Next: Finding her voice again Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Love what you hear? Subscribe to “Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads” on your favorite podcast platform so you never miss an episode. ⭐️ Leave us a rating and review to help others find the show. Visit our website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #ChronicIllnessWarrior #MedicalGaslighting #InvisibleIllness #TraumaSurvivor #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #CiproToxicity #FluoroquinoloneAwareness #EhlersDanlos #WomensHealth #ComebackStory #StormsStory #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #MentalHealthSupport #PodcastCommunity #SelfHealing #ManifestationJourney *************************************************************************** If You Need Support, Reach Out If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference. United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles Official Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: Sign Up HereMerch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    43 min
  3. The Dr. Paul Show: Mental Health, Suicide Prevention, and Healing Stories

    9 SEPT.

    The Dr. Paul Show: Mental Health, Suicide Prevention, and Healing Stories

    Episode Summary This powerful episode features Dr. Paul Corona, MD — known as The Doctor for Depression — who joins hosts G-Rex and Dirty Skittles for a deep conversation on mental health, suicide prevention, and the future of integrative care. With over 30 years of clinical experience and a mission rooted in compassion, Dr. Paul shares real-life stories, expert strategies, and a revolutionary mind-body approach that is changing lives. We also take a look at how outdated medical education and mental health stigma are failing patients — and what Dr. Paul is doing to train the next generation of doctors. 🎉 We’re proud to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast — with over 2 million downloads! 💬 We want to hear from you! Please share your feedback or leave us a voice message at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a.   🧠 Quote of the Episode “Mental illness is a medical problem, a neurological problem in our brains, and it’s real.” – Dr. Paul Corona Meet Our Guest: Dr. Paul Corona, MD Dr. Paul is a trailblazer in the field of mental health who pivoted from traditional family medicine to develop an innovative and deeply personalized approach to healing. Known for his “Mind-Body Healing” method, Dr. Paul treats emotional distress as a whole-body experience—addressing neurochemical imbalances, lifestyle, and trauma, rather than masking symptoms. He's also the author of Healing the Mind and Body (Volumes 1–3) and The Corona Protocol—a groundbreaking book tackling addiction, suicide, school shootings, and more through a scientific yet human-centered lens. 🔗 Website: https://drpaulcoronamd.com/ 🔗 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drpaulcoronamd/ 🔗 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpaulcoronamd/ 🔗 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-corona-b090669a/ 📺 The Dr. Paul Show (YouTube & Roku): search “thedrpaulshow” as one word Keywords Mental health, suicide prevention, integrative psychiatry, mind-body medicine, Dr. Paul Corona, depression treatment, holistic mental health, anxiety, healing stories, trauma, mental illness stigma, personalized mental health care, medication and therapy, neurochemical imbalance   Key Takeaways Mental illness is not weakness. It’s a treatable medical condition rooted in neurochemistry. Pills aren't always the answer. Effective mental health care must be personalized and holistic. Stigma kills. Many patients suffer in silence or are misdiagnosed due to outdated practices. Rural areas are suffering. Lack of access and education worsens the crisis. There is always hope. Dr. Paul’s mission is to restore that hope, one patient at a time.   Actionable Items Don’t accept “a little better” — push for full recovery. Seek doctors who listen, not rush. Explore various treatment modalities, including medication, therapy, movement, and rest. Advocate for yourself — keep looking until you find the proper support. Read The Corona Protocol for guidance on healing and advocacy.   Episode Chapters 00:00:06 – Intro & Welcome 00:01:01 – Meet Dr. Paul 00:02:43 – Mental Illness is Real: Fighting Stigma 00:04:12 – Dr. Paul’s Passion & Path 00:06:07 – About The Corona Protocol 00:09:10 – Why Doctors Miss the Mark 00:12:51 – Physical Health & Mental Health: The Connection 00:18:05 – The Power of Listening in Medicine 00:22:15 – Healing, Access & Hope 00:30:00 – Global Mental Health Crisis 00:35:00 – Self-Care for Caregivers 00:42:00 – About the Dr. Paul Show & Final Thoughts   Resources & References 📘 Healing the Mind and Body Vols 1–3 – by Dr. Paul Corona 📘 The Corona Protocol – A scientifically grounded guide to mental wellness 📺 The Dr. Paul Show – www.youtube.com/@thedrpaulshow 📞 Dr. Paul’s Office: (949) 481-0118   Subscribe, Rate & Review! Love this episode? Subscribe to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads on your favorite platform, and leave us a review! It helps others find the show and join our mental health movement. 🌐 Website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews   Connect with Us 🌐 Website: https://www.goesoninourheads.net 📧 Newsletter: https://sh-t-that-goes-on-in-our-heads.ck.page/profile   #ShitThatGoesOnInOurHeads #MentalHealthPodcast #DrPaulCorona #MentalHealthAwareness #TheDrPaulShow #MindBodyMedicine #HolisticHealth #DepressionSupport #SuicidePrevention #HealingStories #EndTheStigma #Neurochemistry #TraumaInformedCare #MentalWellness #AnxietyRelief #DirtySkittles #Grex #Podmatch #PodcastLife #HealthPodcast #BreakTheStigma *************************************************************************** If You Need Support, Reach Out If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference. United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles Official Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: Sign Up HereMerch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio

    45 min
  4. From Betrayal to Breakthrough: Kim’s Mental Health Journey Through Interoception

    4 SEPT.

    From Betrayal to Breakthrough: Kim’s Mental Health Journey Through Interoception

    Kim Korte, creator of the Sensory Sync Method, joins us to discuss how understanding the "ingredients" of our emotions can transform the way we live, heal, and connect. From personal betrayal to emotional empowerment, Kim’s story is both relatable and transformative. She introduces listeners to the concept of interoception—our internal sense of emotion—and how to use it to reclaim emotional agency. “We construct our emotions, and understanding the ingredients can give us autonomy over our lives.” 💬 Share your thoughts or voice message: castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a 🎧 Over 2M downloads | 2024 People’s Choice & Best Mental Health Podcast (Women in Podcasting Awards)   Keywords for SEO interoception, emotional intelligence, mental health podcast, emotional awareness, emotion management, personal growth, neuroscience, self-awareness, emotional healing, Kim Korte   Meet the Guest: Kim Korte Kim is a Perception and Emotion Management Strategist and creator of the Sensory Sync Method™. This unique framework teaches people how to break down emotions like recipes—identifying, adjusting, and managing the “ingredients” that shape their internal world. Book: Yucky Yummy Savory Sweet: Understanding the Flavors of Emotions Website: sensorysyncmethod.com IG: @thekimkorte LinkedIn: Kim Korte YouTube: The Kim Korte Channel     Episode Takeaways Emotions function like recipes—with changeable ingredients Interoception helps us “catch” feelings before reacting Writing unlocks subconscious insight and emotional clarity You can’t feel joy and anger at the same time—so choose wisely Learning to love the unlovable frees up emotional space     Action Items Practice interoception: Tune into physical sensations tied to emotion Use journaling for subconscious clarity—no editing Identify emotional triggers by labeling your feelings Redirect focus toward what brings joy or relief Dive into Kim’s Sensory Sync Method™ for structure and support     Timestamps [00:00] Welcome & Intro [00:02] Meet Kim Korte [00:06] What is Interoception? [00:12] Emotions = Recipes [00:20] How Past Trauma Shapes Present Feelings [00:30] Managing Emotions with Intention [00:40] Writing as Therapy [00:50] Wrap-Up & Resources     Referenced in This Episode Yucky Yummy Savory Sweet by Kim Korte How Emotions Are Made: The Secret Life of the Brain by Lisa Feldman Barrett     Subscribe, Rate & Review Don’t miss future episodes! ✅ Subscribe 🌟 Leave a Review   #MentalHealthPodcast #EmotionalAwareness #HealingJourney #SensorySyncMethod #WritingTherapy #Interoception #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfCare #Mindfulness #KimKorte #Neuroscience #PersonalGrowth #DirtySkittles #GRex #Podmatch #MentalHealthMatters #NormalizeTherapy *************************************************************************** If You Need Support, Reach Out If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference. United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles Official Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: Sign Up HereMerch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio

    53 min
  5. Jennifer’s Story: Breaking the Stigma of Therapy, Trauma, and Emotional Healing

    2 SEPT.

    Jennifer’s Story: Breaking the Stigma of Therapy, Trauma, and Emotional Healing

    This powerful episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads brings you the raw, honest, and resilient story of Jennifer Ginty—entrepreneur, mental health advocate, and founder of My Moody Monster. Jen lives with Complex PTSD and Major Depressive Disorder stemming from childhood trauma, and she shares how she finally faced her emotional pain, built a healing team, and created tools to help kids and adults express emotions in healthy ways. We are proud to share that our podcast is the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast—with over 2 million downloads worldwide. Please help us continue to grow and improve: leave your feedback (written or as a voice message) at https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a. Mental Health Quote of the Episode "Control isn’t necessary for life. You don’t need control to live a happy, healthy life." – Jennifer Ginty   What You’ll Hear in This Episode In this episode, Jennifer opens up about years of postponing her healing journey, confronting her abuser, and navigating the deep emotional weight of trauma, motherhood, and identity loss. We explore: What triggered her decision to heal finally Her experience with inpatient care and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT) Creating My Moody Monster, a tool for emotional regulation How generational trauma and people-pleasing behaviors held her back Raising children with mental health challenges The importance of creating a personalized support team SEO Keywords: trauma recovery, emotional healing, PTSD, mental health podcast, childhood trauma, therapy journey, DBT, emotional regulation, parenting mental health, My Moody Monster, coping skills for kids, mental wellness, breaking the stigma, women’s mental health   Meet Jennifer Ginty Jennifer is the founder of My Moody Monster, a therapeutic plush toy designed to help children express emotions through physical play. Diagnosed with Complex PTSD and Major Depressive Disorder, Jennifer built a support team, embraced inpatient therapy at McLean Hospital, and now shares her story to help others begin their healing. She also hosts the When Not Yet Becomes Right Now podcast—born from the realization that the right time to heal is now. Website: https://www.mymoodymonster.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mymoodymonster/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mymoodymonster BlueSky: @mymoodymonster.bsky.social YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@mymoodymonster TikTok: http://www.tiktok.com/@mymoodymonster   Key Takeaways Healing takes readiness, not permission — It’s okay to say “not yet,” until your mind says “right now.” Coping skills must be practiced before you need them — Just like muscles, emotional regulation tools require repetition. Kids need emotional tools too — Jennifer’s My Moody Monster is a creative, tactile way to help children express and understand emotions.   Actionable Tools DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy) — Focus on mindfulness, emotional regulation, interpersonal effectiveness, and distress tolerance. Build your therapy team — Don’t settle for the wrong therapist. Speed-date until you find the right fit. Coping Skill Tools — Try frozen washcloths, modeling clay with essential oils, or tools like My Moody Monster to interrupt intense emotional spirals.   Chapters & Time Stamps [00:00] Intro: Welcome to our award-winning show [01:10] Jennifer’s journey begins – Trauma, college, and “not yet” moments [02:57] The breaking point: Bankruptcy, identity loss, and finally saying “right now” [06:38] Confronting her abuser and community shame [10:09] Motherhood and mental health—her son’s early suicidal ideation [15:57] Barriers to mental health care access and insurance frustrations [20:52] DBT & McLean Hospital: Building her mental health toolkit [26:05] Real-time coping tools (box breathing, frozen towels, modeling clay) [30:22] The birth of Moody: Creating an emotional outlet [34:06] The love letter: Why Moody is a symbol of hope and self-compassion [36:51] Learning to accept love and let go of control [40:37] Bonus Questions: Her anxiety theme song, tattoos, and the word she hates   References & Mentions McLean Hospital – Premier mental health hospital: https://www.mcleanhospital.org/ DBT Therapy Overview: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapy-types/dialectical-behavior-therapy Crayola Model Magic Clay – Great tactile tool: https://shop.crayola.com/modeling/model-magic My Moody Monster: https://www.mymoodymonster.com Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Enjoying Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads? Be sure to subscribe, rate, and review on your favorite podcast platform. Your feedback fuels our mission. You can also leave us a message at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a Visit our website: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews Let’s continue breaking the silence around mental health—together. #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #TraumaHealing #CPTSDRecovery #MyMoodyMonster #ParentingAndMentalHealth #MentalHealthMatters #EmotionalRegulation #DBTskills #HealingJourney #ChildhoodTrauma #MentalHealthSupport #TalkAboutIt #InvisibleIllness #ComplexPTSD #WomenInPodcasting #TherapyIsCool #MentalHealthForMoms #Podmatch #Grex #DirtySkittles *************************************************************************** If You Need Support, Reach Out If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference. United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles Official Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: Sign Up HereMerch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio

    46 min
  6. Choosing Peace Over Pain: Susan’s Story of Boundaries and Breakthroughs (Part 3 of 3)

    28 AOÛT

    Choosing Peace Over Pain: Susan’s Story of Boundaries and Breakthroughs (Part 3 of 3)

    What does it really mean to choose peace—especially when it means letting go of family? In the final part of Susan Snow’s gripping three-part series, we witness the hard-won clarity that comes after trauma, truth-telling, and transformation. This conversation dives into toxic family dynamics, radical self-worth, and the freeing power of walking away from what no longer serves your mental health. Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads is the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Best Mental Health Podcast, with over 2 million downloads and a loyal global audience. We’re breaking stigma, one honest story at a time. We’d love your feedback. Leave us a written message or voice note at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a "Just because they gave birth to you doesn’t mean you owe them a relationship—especially when that relationship threatens your peace." — Susan Snow. Episode Summary: This episode is about confronting hard truths, establishing healthy boundaries, and the emotional freedom that comes from prioritizing our mental health over lifelong dysfunction. Susan Snow reflects on the moment she was written out of her mother’s will—and why she still chose peace. She shares how understanding her self-worth allowed her to walk away without hate, guilt, or shame. Susan and the hosts explore how generational trauma, guilt-based parenting, and enabling behaviors can trap us in cycles of self-doubt. With courage, grace, and deep empathy, Susan discusses walking away from a toxic parent, standing in her truth, and becoming the mother, partner, and coach she always hoped to be. SEO Keywords: mental health boundaries, toxic family relationships, PTSD recovery, trauma coaching, choosing peace, mother-daughter estrangement, emotional freedom, forgiveness and healing, Susan Snow, journaling for mental health Meet Susan Snow Susan Snow is a courageous and heartfelt speaker whose life story shines as a beacon of healing and hope. At just 17, Susan’s world was shattered when her father, LAPD Detective Thomas C. Williams, was ambushed and murdered on Halloween night in 1985. That moment changed everything, pulling her into the depths of grief and trauma. In the years that followed, Susan faced PTSD, loss, and the long, complicated process of rebuilding her life. But instead of letting the darkness define her, she turned her pain into purpose. By embracing vulnerability and speaking her truth, she has shown that healing is possible—even after unimaginable events. Today, Susan is the Author of a profoundly moving book that reminds us of two powerful truths: life can change in an instant, and recovery is always within reach. Whether speaking on stage or connecting through virtual events, Susan doesn’t just share her story—she invites people into it. She creates space for others to see themselves, to grieve, to forgive, and to find their own resilience. Her signature talks, “Other Side of the Gun: Hope Through the Journey of Grief, PTSD, and Empowerment” and “Forgiveness vs. Forgetting,” go beyond inspiration. They offer honest guidance, compassion, and a roadmap for choosing hope over pain. Connect with Susan: Website: https://susansnowspeaks.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susan_snow1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/SusanSnow TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@susansnow1lifecoach YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/susansnowspeaks2023 3 Key Takeaways: Boundaries are an act of self-respect, not betrayal—especially when they protect your mental health. Self-worth is learned through action, not just affirmation. You can love someone and still choose to walk away. Actionable Items: Practice gratitude journaling each morning—focus on 3 things you’re thankful for and why. Protect your peace by naming what feels toxic, even if others don’t understand. Use curiosity instead of judgment when reacting to others—you never know what pain they’re carrying. Chapters & Timestamps: [00:00] Welcome to Part 3 Susan returns for the final part of her mental health story. [01:00] The Will and the Wake-Up Call Susan finds out she’s been cut from her mother’s will—and why it brought clarity, not conflict. [06:00] Walking Away Without Hate A powerful reflection on choosing peace, not pain, even with a parent. [13:00] “I Am My Father’s Daughter” Susan shares how her dad’s legacy guides her work and her identity today. [20:00] Helping Others Through Her Purpose Susan recounts helping a young LGBTQ+ father reconnect with gratitude and healing. [28:00] Healing Is Not Linear Grief, healing, and joy are allowed to coexist. Susan explains why. [34:00] The Future of Healing and Speaking Susan’s message to anyone feeling stuck: You are not alone, and your story has power. [41:00] Lightning Round Fun Theme songs, favorite words, and emotional takeaways. [42:50] How to Find Susan + Final Words Links, book info, and what’s next for Susan Snow. References & Resources: Susan Snow’s book: The Other Side of the Gun: My Journey from Trauma to Resiliency (Available on Amazon & Kindle) Website: https://susansnowspeaks.com/ 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Don't miss more honest, healing stories from powerful voices. Subscribe, rate, and review us on your favorite podcast platform. Leave a review here: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #PTSDRecovery #TraumaHealing #SusanSnow #BoundariesMatter #ChoosePeace #EmotionalHealing #ForgivenessJourney #TraumaSurvivor #HealingIsPossible #MotherWound #RealTalkMentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #TherapyWorks #BreakTheStigma #HealingTools #MentalHealthSupport #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch *************************************************************************** If You Need Support, Reach Out If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference. United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles Official Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: Sign Up HereMerch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio

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  7. Healing from Extreme Trauma: Susan’s Story of Strength and Transformation (Part 2 of 3)

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    Healing from Extreme Trauma: Susan’s Story of Strength and Transformation (Part 2 of 3)

    Some stories leave you breathless. This is one of them. In Part 2 of our raw, deeply human conversation with Susan Snow, we continue exploring how trauma reshapes a life—and how healing is always possible with the proper support, tools, and truth. Susan opens up about living with PTSD, learning to trust again, and the small but powerful steps that began her transformation. Welcome back to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads—your space for honest, gritty, and healing conversations around mental health. We’re proud to be the 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women in Podcasting Best Mental Health Podcast, with over 2 million downloads and counting. We’d love your feedback! Visit https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a to leave us a message or written input. "Healing is not an ego thing. It's the bravest, most necessary thing you'll ever do." — Susan Snow. Episode Summary: In this emotionally rich second installment, Susan Snow shares the real work of healing from complex PTSD, extreme trauma, and generational wounds. After a tragic and violent loss changed her world at 17, Susan opens up about her years-long battle with anxiety, insomnia, and panic—and how finding the right therapist finally gave her hope. This episode covers critical mental health topics, including trauma recovery, journaling for sleep, breathwork, emotional boundaries, forgiveness, and how to build a support system when you feel entirely alone. Whether you're just beginning your healing journey or helping someone else through theirs, Susan’s story is your reminder that hope is real—and transformation is possible. SEO Keywords: PTSD recovery, trauma healing, journaling and sleep, panic attacks, breathwork therapy, finding the right therapist, mental health podcast, grief recovery, trauma coaching, emotional boundaries, Susan Snow Meet Susan Snow Susan Snow is a courageous and heartfelt speaker whose life story shines as a beacon of healing and hope. At just 17, Susan’s world was shattered when her father, LAPD Detective Thomas C. Williams, was ambushed and murdered on Halloween night in 1985. That moment changed everything, pulling her into the depths of grief and trauma. In the years that followed, Susan faced PTSD, loss, and the long, complicated process of rebuilding her life. But instead of letting the darkness define her, she turned her pain into purpose. By embracing vulnerability and speaking her truth, she has shown that healing is possible—even after unimaginable events. Today, Susan is the Author of a profoundly moving book that reminds us of two powerful truths: life can change in an instant, and recovery is always within reach. Whether speaking on stage or connecting through virtual events, Susan doesn’t just share her story—she invites people into it. She creates space for others to see themselves, to grieve, to forgive, and to find their own resilience. Her signature talks, “Other Side of the Gun: Hope Through the Journey of Grief, PTSD, and Empowerment” and “Forgiveness vs. Forgetting,” go beyond inspiration. They offer honest guidance, compassion, and a roadmap for choosing hope over pain. Connect with Susan: Website: https://susansnowspeaks.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susan_snow1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/SusanSnow TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@susansnow1lifecoach YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/susansnowspeaks2023 Key Takeaways: Healing is a personal journey, not a one-size-fits-all process—you must find the right therapist for your trauma. Journaling can be a game-changer in managing anxiety and improving sleep, especially when done before bed. Boundaries, forgiveness, and coaching are powerful tools in healing both yourself and your relationships. Actionable Items: Try expressive journaling nightly—write without censoring or editing, especially before bed. Practice box breathing or tapping to manage panic attacks and regulate your nervous system. Interview your therapist—ask about their specialties and be willing to walk away if it’s not the right fit. Episode Chapters & Timestamps: [00:00] Welcome + Recap of Part 1 G-Rex and Dirty Skittles introduce Part 2 of Susan’s story. [01:00] When Therapy Finally Worked Susan explains how a therapist specializing in trauma and PTSD changed her life. [06:00] Journaling to Sleep Again Susan shares how nighttime journaling helped her escape anxiety-induced insomnia. [09:00] Breathwork, Tapping & Nervous System Regulation Early tools Susan learned that helped control panic attacks and stress. [17:00] Rewriting Patterns: Coaching and Boundaries Susan’s mindset shift through coaching and powerful conversations about forgiveness. [23:00] From Pain to Purpose How healing led Susan to write her memoir and step into her life’s mission. [35:00] Facing the Fear of Telling Her Story Susan talks about the fear of publishing her book—and doing it anyway. References & Resources Mentioned: Susan Snow’s website: https://susansnowspeaks.com/ 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: https://988lifeline.org Susan’s breathing and tapping techniques (Search: “box breathing PTSD” or “EFT tapping trauma”) Susan’s memoir (Link coming soon or available on her website) Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Don't miss the next part of Susan’s story. Subscribe for more inspiring conversations around mental health. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform, or visit our site: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #PTSDRecovery #HealingJourney #SusanSnow #TherapyMatters #MentalHealthSupport #TraumaHealing #CoachingForHealing #RealTalkMentalHealth #FindYourPerson #JournalingTherapy #BoundariesMatter #PodcastForHealing #MentalWellness #Grex #DirtySkittles #WomenInPodcasting #Podmatch #TraumaSurvivor *************************************************************************** If You Need Support, Reach Out If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference. United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles Official Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: Sign Up HereMerch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio

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  8. Finding Strength in Struggles: Susan’s Mental Health Story (Part 1 of 3)

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    Finding Strength in Struggles: Susan’s Mental Health Story (Part 1 of 3)

    Welcome to Season 13 of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads, the award-winning podcast that normalizes mental health conversations with raw honesty, laughter, and connection.  This episode kicks off a robust three-part conversation with Susan Snow, a courageous and heartfelt speaker whose story embodies resilience, forgiveness, and hope in the face of trauma. At just 17, Susan’s world was forever changed when her father, LAPD Detective Thomas C. Williams, was ambushed and murdered. She faced PTSD, grief, and unimaginable loss, but ultimately chose to transform her pain into purpose. We’re proud to be the 2024 People’s Choice Podcast Award Winner for Health and the 2024 Women In Podcasting Award Winner for Best Mental Health Podcast, with over 2 million downloads worldwide. We’d love your feedback on this episode. Please visit https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a to share your thoughts or leave us a voice message. Mental Health Quote "I feel like that night I lost my dad, I lost my mom too—but in the end, I chose not to live as a victim. I chose to live with hope." – Susan Snow What This Episode is About In this first part of Susan’s journey, we explore the lasting impact of sudden loss, the invisible weight of PTSD, and the survival instincts that shaped her teenage years. Susan’s story highlights the importance of mental health awareness, resilience after trauma, and the lifelong pursuit of healing. This episode serves as a potent reminder that life can change in an instant, but recovery and hope are always attainable. Keywords for SEO: Susan Snow, mental health podcast, PTSD recovery, resilience after trauma, grief and healing, LAPD, forgiveness, empowerment, emotional resilience, mental health awareness, hope after loss Meet Susan Snow Susan Snow is a courageous and heartfelt speaker whose life story shines as a beacon of healing and hope. At 17, Susan’s life was torn apart when her father, LAPD Detective Thomas C. Williams, was ambushed and murdered. In the years that followed, she faced PTSD, loss, and the long road of rebuilding her life. Rather than staying in the shadows, Susan found her strength in vulnerability and turned her pain into purpose. Today, Susan is the Author of a profoundly moving book and a nationally recognized speaker. Through her signature talks—“Other Side of the Gun: Hope Through the Journey of Grief, PTSD, and Empowerment” and “Forgiveness vs. Forgetting”—Susan shares her story to help others discover resilience, forgiveness, and the power of choosing hope. Website: https://susansnowspeaks.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susan_snow1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/SusanSnow TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@susansnow1lifecoach YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/susansnowspeaks2023 Key Takeaways Trauma can reshape our lives, but healing is always possible with the proper support. Vulnerability and honesty are powerful tools for recovery and connection. Choosing hope and resilience over victimhood creates space for forgiveness and growth.   Actionable Items from This Episode Write down one way you can create a safe space for someone in your life who may be grieving or struggling. Consider seeking therapy or support if you’ve experienced trauma—healing begins with asking for help. Practice one act of forgiveness this week, whether toward yourself or someone else. Episode Chapters 00:00 – Welcome to Season 13: G-Rex and Dirty Skittles kick off with energy and purpose. 01:00 – Introducing Susan Snow: Susan shares her background and the tragic event that shaped her life. 05:00 – The Day Everything Changed: The night her father was ambushed and murdered. 12:00 – Navigating Trauma in Silence: Growing up with PTSD in a time when mental health wasn’t discussed. 20:00 – Coping, Masking, and Survival: How Susan built an emotional mask to get through her teenage years. 30:00 – Breaking Cycles and Finding Purpose: Susan’s determination to parent differently and rewrite her story. 40:00 – Closing Reflections: Lessons from pain, resilience, and the ongoing process of healing. References Susan Snow’s Website: https://susansnowspeaks.com/ Book & Speaking Engagements: Available via her website Mental Health Resources: https://988lifeline.org Subscribe, Rate, and Review! Don’t miss the rest of Susan’s powerful story in this three-part series. Subscribe to Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads for more inspiring conversations. Rate and review us on your favorite podcast platform or share your thoughts directly at: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #GriefRecovery #PTSDRecovery #HealingJourney #Resilience #Forgiveness #HopeAfterLoss #Grex #DirtySkittles #Podmatch #PodcastCommunity #AwardWinningPodcast #TraumaHealing #SusanSnow #MentalHealthSupport #PodcastSeason13 #BleavNetwork #HealingThroughStories #ShitThatGoesOnInOurHeads *************************************************************************** If You Need Support, Reach Out If you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference. United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty Skittles Official Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: Sign Up HereMerch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio

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”Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads” is a podcast that emerged from G-Rex’s personal mental health journey, starting with a breakdown in 2022. Supported by her wife, 988, and a higher power, G-Rex found healing and vowed to destigmatize mental health struggles. With best friend Dirty Skittles, the podcast tackles life’s challenges with humor and honesty, emphasizing the importance of open dialogue. Listeners join their engaging discussions on relationships, parenting, pop culture, and mental health, gaining practical tips and a sense of community. Through laughter and camaraderie, the podcast offers empowerment and solidarity, reminding everyone that it’s okay not to be okay and encouraging reaching out for support. Ultimately, ”Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads” is a beacon of hope, humor, and companionship, advocating for mental health awareness and inclusivity.

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