Extraordinary Ordinary People

Hamish Adams-Cairns

I want to interview everyday people that I find extraordinary. Not the celebrities we often hear interviewed who - following the death of a parent - went on to make millions setting up a business or something similar. But ordinary - relatable people. I want to talk to those that lost a parent in their early formative years. I am not coming at this from the angle of a psychologist but from the angle of a friend encouraging the interviewee to share their experiences and give some helpful advice both to those going through the same thing and those trying to help their friends.

Episodes

  1. 04/07/2021

    Dani Britz

    This weeks Extraordinary Ordinary guest is unlike any I have had before. Over the last 15 months, Dani Britz has lived through the shocking loss of her best friend and father, followed shortly after by her mother. What makes these all the worse, is the fact that they both passed away in South Africa, whilst she was living over 10,000km away in Australia. Anyone living far from home has dreaded the phone call that sadly Dani has received not once - but twice. What makes this episode all the more unique is not only the how recent these losses occurred, making the conversation as raw and honest as you can imagine, but the fact that, for the first time, I had never before met Dani. Dani is a friend of Nataschia Holland’s (my guest on Episode 9), and after hearing our chat together reached out to me asking to get involved too. This conversation turned into quite the journey but what was evident from it, was the strength of Dani’s character, the hopefulness and lessons she has taken from being rock-bottom and the drive she now feels to allow her story to help others. Quite simply, Dani encapsulates all that it is to be an Extraordinary Ordinary guest and I am sure each and every one of you can take something and be inspired by her story.

    1h 8m

  2. 07/02/2020

    Nataschia Holland

    Joining us on the sofa this week is the wonderful Nataschia Holland. Beautiful on the inside and out, stylish and straight talking, this proud South African force of nature bravely shared her story of her fathers loss to suicide over 14 years ago. Insightful, honest and vulnerable this will undoubtedbly  be a useful source to anyone dealing with grief or trying to help a loved one through it. I cannot thank Nataschia enough for this conversation and have no doubt you will enjoy listening to it as much as I valued recording it.

    1h 9m

  3. 03/07/2020

    Sophie Macrae

    What an absolute pleasure it was to sit down with Sophie. A truly unique episode as she has experienced not one, but two, terrible losses at such a young age. She opens up and talks with incredible maturity, insight and vulnerability in what I'm sure is an episode that so many listeners can learn from. Sit back and enjoy this episode with the wonderful and beautiful gem that is Sophie Macrae!

    58 min

  4. 02/26/2020

    Aimee Robinson

    What an episode to return to! I had the chance to sit down with the beautiful, bursting, ball of energy that is Aimee who generously and sensitively shared her experiences of coping with having a Dad going through cancer. I hope you all learn as much as I did from this episode!

    1h 6m

  5. 02/22/2020

    We Are Back!

    After a little while away I am back and thrilled to bring you 2 (possibly 3!) brand new 'Extraordinary Ordinary People' episodes! I have been busy recording two other podcast series, Inside Out and HAC Chats, so do go and check those out if you like these. But in the meantime. Watch this space for new episodes...

    1 min

  6. 02/12/2019

    Anna Marshall

    I want to interview everyday people that I find extraordinary. Not the celebrities we often hear interviewed who, following the death of a parent, went on to make millions setting up a start-up of some kind or another. But ordinary, relatable people. My friends. Losing a parent is surely one of the hardest things any of us will have to deal with in life. And yet, it is one we will all experience at some point. I want to talk to those who experienced this all too soon. Those who lost a parent in their early formative years. How has it changed them? What are they doing now? And most importantly what was the best thing their friends or family said to them during this time? How should we react on hearing a great friend of ours has suffered such a loss? There isn’t a guide book for this and many feel at a loss as to know how to react. Should I encourage them to talk about it? Or would they rather speak about anything but it? How do I not treat them differently whilst showing them that they have my full support? In short what helped and what didn’t help them? I am not coming at this from the angle of a psychologist. And I understand the incredibly sensitive and personal nature of the interview. I am approaching this from the angle of a friend trying to encourage the interviewee to share their experiences and give some helpful advice both to those going through the same thing and those trying to help their friends.  In this episode I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with Anna who opens up beautifully and eloquently about the effects of losing her father at such a young age. We discussed an enormous range of topics from grief, to male influences to the #metoo movement in what was a fascinating hour shared with one of my favourite people! I hope you enjoy listening to it as much as I did recording it. Thanks as ever for your continued support and particular thanks to the wonderful Anna Marshall!

    1h 20m

  7. 01/29/2019

    Bells English

    I want to interview everyday people that I find extraordinary. Not the celebrities we often hear interviewed who, following the death of a parent, went on to make millions setting up a start-up of some kind or another. But ordinary, relatable people. My friends. Losing a parent is surely one of the hardest things any of us will have to deal with in life. And yet, it is one we will all experience at some point. I want to talk to those who experienced this all too soon. Those who lost a parent in their early formative years. How has it changed them? What are they doing now? And most importantly what was the best thing their friends or family said to them during this time? How should we react on hearing a great friend of ours has suffered such a loss? There isn’t a guide book for this and many feel at a loss as to know how to react. Should I encourage them to talk about it? Or would they rather speak about anything but it? How do I not treat them differently whilst showing them that they have my full support? In short what helped and what didn’t help them? I am not coming at this from the angle of a psychologist. And I understand the incredibly sensitive and personal nature of the interview. I am approaching this from the angle of a friend trying to encourage the interviewee to share their experiences and give some helpful advice both to those going through the same thing and those trying to help their friends.  In this - our fifth episode - I had the pleasure of interviewing my wonderful friend and proud owner of the deserved nickname 'Fit Bells'! Listen as she opens up about the loss of her father and the difficulties she faced in starting university so soon after his loss, whilst also playing the older sister to her younger siblings.

    42 min

  8. 01/15/2019

    Ruaraidh Adams-Cairns

    I want to interview everyday people that I find extraordinary. Not the celebrities we often hear interviewed who, following the death of a parent, went on to make millions setting up a start-up of some kind or another. But ordinary, relatable people. My friends. Losing a parent is surely one of the hardest things any of us will have to deal with in life. And yet, it is one we will all experience at some point. I want to talk to those who experienced this all too soon. Those who lost a parent in their early formative years. How has it changed them? What are they doing now? And most importantly what was the best thing their friends or family said to them during this time? How should we react on hearing a great friend of ours has suffered such a loss? There isn’t a guide book for this and many feel at a loss as to know how to react. Should I encourage them to talk about it? Or would they rather speak about anything but it? How do I not treat them differently whilst showing them that they have my full support? In short what helped and what didn’t help them? I am not coming at this from the angle of a psychologist. And I understand the incredibly sensitive and personal nature of the interview. I am approaching this from the angle of a friend trying to encourage the interviewee to share their experiences and give some helpful advice both to those going through the same thing and those trying to help their friends. In this weeks episode I interview my own Dad. We explore (for the first time!) the challenges he faced losing his father so young, how it differed to losing his mother 20 years later, and how it may have affected the way he has acted as a parent himself.

    1h 9m

  9. 10/05/2018

    Alby Shale

    I want to interview everyday people that I find extraordinary. Not the celebrities we often hear interviewed who, following the death of a parent, went on to make millions setting up a start-up of some kind or another. But ordinary, relatable people. My friends. Losing a parent is surely one of the hardest things any of us will have to deal with in life. And yet, it is one we will all experience at some point. I want to talk to those who experienced this all too soon. Those who lost a parent in their early formative years. How has it changed them? What are they doing now? And most importantly what was the best thing their friends or family said to them during this time? How should we react on hearing a great friend of ours has suffered such a loss? There isn’t a guide book for this and many feel at a loss as to know how to react. Should I encourage them to talk about it? Or would they rather speak about anything but it? How do I not treat them differently whilst showing them that they have my full support? In short what helped and what didn’t help them? I am not coming at this from the angle of a psychologist. And I understand the incredibly sensitive and personal nature of the interview. I am approaching this from the angle of a friend trying to encourage the interviewee to share their experiences and give some helpful advice both to those going through the same thing and those trying to help their friends. Our third episode sees us meet the wonderfully charismatic Alby Shale who speaks at length with us about the loss of his father.

    1h 9m

  10. 10/05/2018

    Hugo Elwes

    I want to interview everyday people that I find extraordinary. Not the celebrities we often hear interviewed who, following the death of a parent, went on to make millions setting up a start-up of some kind or another. But ordinary, relatable people. My friends. Losing a parent is surely one of the hardest things any of us will have to deal with in life. And yet, it is one we will all experience at some point. I want to talk to those who experienced this all too soon. Those who lost a parent in their early formative years. How has it changed them? What are they doing now? And most importantly what was the best thing their friends or family said to them during this time? How should we react on hearing a great friend of ours has suffered such a loss? There isn’t a guide book for this and many feel at a loss as to know how to react. Should I encourage them to talk about it? Or would they rather speak about anything but it? How do I not treat them differently whilst showing them that they have my full support? In short what helped and what didn’t help them? I am not coming at this from the angle of a psychologist. And I understand the incredibly sensitive and personal nature of the interview. I am approaching this from the angle of a friend trying to encourage the interviewee to share their experiences and give some helpful advice both to those going through the same thing and those trying to help their friends. Our second episode of the series sees me sit down with the beautifully honest Hugo Elwes who talks me through his experiences concerning the loss of his father.

    1h 14m

  11. 10/05/2018

    Georgie Sandeman

    I want to interview everyday people that I find extraordinary. Not the celebrities we often hear interviewed who, following the death of a parent, went on to make millions setting up a start-up of some kind or another. But ordinary, relatable people. My friends. Losing a parent is surely one of the hardest things any of us will have to deal with in life. And yet, it is one we will all experience at some point. I want to talk to those who experienced this all too soon. Those who lost a parent in their early formative years. How has it changed them? What are they doing now? And most importantly what was the best thing their friends or family said to them during this time? How should we react on hearing a great friend of ours has suffered such a loss? There isn’t a guide book for this and many feel at a loss as to know how to react. Should I encourage them to talk about it? Or would they rather speak about anything but it? How do I not treat them differently whilst showing them that they have my full support? In short what helped and what didn’t help them? I am not coming at this from the angle of a psychologist. And I understand the incredibly sensitive and personal nature of the interview. I am approaching this from the angle of a friend trying to encourage the interviewee to share their experiences and give some helpful advice both to those going through the same thing and those trying to help their friends. In this our first episode, I meet with the beautiful Georgie Sandeman who talks me through the loss of her father - Paddy.

    38 min
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I want to interview everyday people that I find extraordinary. Not the celebrities we often hear interviewed who - following the death of a parent - went on to make millions setting up a business or something similar. But ordinary - relatable people. I want to talk to those that lost a parent in their early formative years. I am not coming at this from the angle of a psychologist but from the angle of a friend encouraging the interviewee to share their experiences and give some helpful advice both to those going through the same thing and those trying to help their friends.

Information

  • Creator
    Hamish Adams-Cairns
  • Years Active
    2018 - 2021
  • Episodes
    11
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Hamish Adams-Cairns
  • Show Website
    Extraordinary Ordinary People