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Hey Friend! If you are new here, be sure to start with Episode One. This is not your typical podcast and you aren’t going to want to miss a thing! Jessica, Steve (her gay ex-husband) and Matt (her current husband) are sharing their stories of love, marriage, infidelity, divorce, coming out, remarriage and co-parenting to help others know they are not alone. This podcast is for those who are open-minded enough to let go of the religious and social norms we have been taught we should fit into and live a life that feels true and authentic to who they are. Steve, Jessica, and Matt are here to walk through the science of making relationsh!t successful.

Steve and Jessica were happily married for 7 years until Steve came out as being gay which inevitably ended in divorce. Now, Matt and Jessica have been happily married for over 8 years. The crazy part is, Matt, Jessica, and Steve all get along, to the extent that Matt and Steve work together, every dang day… Don’t worry you will get all the details while you listen. Matt, Jessica, and Steve have a relationship that, by most standards, would be considered atypical.

Sharing stories of love, marriage, children, divorce, the struggles of religious norms, homosexuality, and trying to be our best selves, this podcast holds nothing back and shares what most people are scared to talk about.

Listen in as they take you on this journey of learning how to love and accept themselves enough to love and accept others for who they are during this experience called “Life”.

Husband In Law Jessica Frew, Steve, Matt Frew

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 269 Ratings

Connect with the Husband In Law crew: https://theboldlogic.com/boldetin

Hey Friend! If you are new here, be sure to start with Episode One. This is not your typical podcast and you aren’t going to want to miss a thing! Jessica, Steve (her gay ex-husband) and Matt (her current husband) are sharing their stories of love, marriage, infidelity, divorce, coming out, remarriage and co-parenting to help others know they are not alone. This podcast is for those who are open-minded enough to let go of the religious and social norms we have been taught we should fit into and live a life that feels true and authentic to who they are. Steve, Jessica, and Matt are here to walk through the science of making relationsh!t successful.

Steve and Jessica were happily married for 7 years until Steve came out as being gay which inevitably ended in divorce. Now, Matt and Jessica have been happily married for over 8 years. The crazy part is, Matt, Jessica, and Steve all get along, to the extent that Matt and Steve work together, every dang day… Don’t worry you will get all the details while you listen. Matt, Jessica, and Steve have a relationship that, by most standards, would be considered atypical.

Sharing stories of love, marriage, children, divorce, the struggles of religious norms, homosexuality, and trying to be our best selves, this podcast holds nothing back and shares what most people are scared to talk about.

Listen in as they take you on this journey of learning how to love and accept themselves enough to love and accept others for who they are during this experience called “Life”.

    Pray the Gay Away

    Pray the Gay Away

    Dillion tried to be as diligent as he could so that the gay would go away. He knew from a young age that he was gay but wasn’t sure what it was. But after doing all the things… It was time to come out. Even knowing his truth, the fear of coming out to his wife was real, and the questions raced through his mind… Will she leave? Will she blast me on social media? What horrible things are people saying about me?
    Here is Dillion’s story.

    • 33 min
    Loved Me For Me

    Loved Me For Me

    Marty and Brandi have been married for 12 years (15 years together), but what happens when his wife confronts him about whether he is still attracted to her? Doesn’t she remember that he “was gay” before they got married? His response was honest and changed the rest of their lives.

    • 28 min
    Free Retreat Spot for YOU?!

    Free Retreat Spot for YOU?!

    You have probably heard me allude to it, but today, I am tackling it head-on. I have heard from women over and over again, "Jessica, I am feeling all the same things you are describing, but I didn't have a partner come out." Why is that? Is that weird? I am here to answer all your questions about why you are feeling all the same things. Let’s dive into how your experience may feel similar, even though it is different.

    • 34 min
    Best Thing I Did As A Mother

    Best Thing I Did As A Mother

    After 28 years of marriage and trying all the things to make their marriage work, Britt and her Ex decided it was time to part ways. Britt has done a LOT of intentional healing and wants to share the beauty that has come out of this experience. She will be joining The BOLD Logic Coaching team in March to support you on a very sensitive part of your healing journey.

    • 31 min
    Doing It For Me

    Doing It For Me

    With religious pressures dominating their mindsets, Jenica and her co-parent did the right thing and “followed the path,” hoping it would bring the peace and joy they were looking for… but what happens when it doesn’t?
    Jenica met her co-parent in high school and was turned off by what she determined was his “need for attention.” But after a couple of years, he came back around, and the “cool kid” started to get more interesting. Eventually, he was there every day, filling her days.

    • 55 min
    I Had Locks On My Closet

    I Had Locks On My Closet

    When Bri started to notice her clothing and shoes were stretched out, she thought her mom must be sneaking into her closet. When she went to confront her mom, the unexpected happened.

    • 45 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
269 Ratings

269 Ratings

RoscoBoscoTosco ,

Great podcast!

This is quite simply one of the best podcasts available. I have truly enjoyed listening to and have learned so much from these three. Their acceptance, love, and respect for each other is nothing short of amazing. Keep up the great work of helping others!

SamfromIdaho ,

Great Podcast!

Thank you for sharing your story! Great podcast!

Idahopurplemama ,

Trust Your Self!!

This is so hard but with therapy I am finally trusting myself more consistently and it feels amazing. I still struggle but I believe that is called living growth. Love you all. Thanks for being bold!!

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