I Am Dad

Kenneth Braswell

The I AM DAD. Podcast is an exploration of fatherhood insight, information, and inspiration for dads, their families, the people who love, and those that support them.

  1. APR 19

    Fatherhood, Marriage, and Music: Ashton Stevens on Purpose, Pressure, and Legacy

    This episode of the I Am Dad Podcast offers a rare and honest look at what it means to build a life, a family, and a creative career—all at the same time. Guest host Javin Foreman sits down with rising artist Ashton Stevens for a conversation that goes beyond music and into the heart of manhood. Originally from Florida and now building his career in Atlanta, Ashton shares his journey as a creative shaped by faith, family, and responsibility. But more importantly, he opens up about becoming a father in real time—navigating a growing family, supporting a pregnant wife, raising a toddler, and balancing it all while pursuing his purpose as an artist. This is not just a story about music. It is a story about identity. In this episode, Ashton and Javin explore: • The reality of becoming a young father and husband • How fatherhood reshapes ambition and focus • Balancing creativity with responsibility • Emotional regulation and mental health for men • The pressure of providing while pursuing purpose • Why authenticity matters more than trends in music and life • The responsibility of influence as an artist Ashton also shares the inspiration behind his single “Edge,” a raw and reflective track that explores pressure, emotion, and the internal battles many men face but rarely speak about. At its core, this conversation asks a deeper question: Who are you becoming while you are chasing what you want? Because for Ashton Stevens, success is not just about the spotlight—it is about the legacy he is building at home.

    41 min
  2. APR 12

    From Pro Athlete to Pro Father | Raising Champions On and Off the Field w/ Derrek Hamilton

    This episode of Sideline Dad, part of the I Am Dad Podcast network, delivers a powerful conversation about fatherhood, sports, discipline, and the real meaning of going pro. Host Javin Foreman is joined by former professional basketball player and elite trainer Derrek Hamilton, a father who has successfully raised two high-achieving sons—one an Ivy League athlete and scholar, the other an NFL Pro Bowl player. From growing up in Mobile, Alabama, to playing professionally overseas, to training NBA-level talent, D. Ham shares a journey defined by discipline, pivots, and purpose. But more importantly, he reveals what it truly takes to raise children who succeed both on and off the field. This conversation explores: • The difference between raising athletes and raising people • Why parents must get out of their child’s way to allow growth • How to balance sports, academics, and character development • Navigating divorce while still raising successful children • Recognizing when your child’s path is different than yours • The importance of exposure, mentorship, and global perspective • Why “going pro” in life matters more than going pro in sports D. Ham also reflects on parenting through adversity, including injury, pressure, and expectations—and how letting go of timelines can unlock a child’s true potential. This episode is a masterclass in intentional fatherhood, reminding us that the sidelines are not just where we watch games—they are where we shape futures.

    58 min
  3. APR 5

    Sideline Dad: How Sports Build Leaders, Fathers, and Men | Life Lessons from the Game

    This episode of Sideline Dad, part of the I Am Dad Podcast network, is a powerful conversation about how sports shape character, leadership, and fatherhood. Host Javin Foreman sits down with Kevin Jones, a father, mentor, and author of Game Ready: Leadership, Legacy, and Winning the Game of Life, to explore how the lessons learned through sports extend far beyond the field. From becoming a father at 19 to coaching and mentoring young men across North Carolina, Coach Jones shares a journey rooted in resilience, consistency, and intentional growth. His experiences as a son, father, and coach reveal a deeper truth: sports are not just about competition—they are about preparation for life. This episode explores: • How sports teach discipline, resilience, and accountability • The importance of father presence in shaping young men • Why consistency and vulnerability matter in mentorship • The challenges young athletes face in today’s environment • The role of coaches as father figures and life mentors • Navigating relationships, pressure, and identity as a young man • How lessons from sports translate into success in life and family Coach Jones also reflects on writing his book and why young men need guidance that speaks directly to their real-life challenges—not just their athletic performance. This conversation is a reminder that the sidelines are not just where games are watched—they are where futures are shaped.

    52 min
  4. MAR 29

    Sideline Dad: Raising Athletes, Building Character, and Letting Kids Grow with Rodney Kellum

    This episode of Sideline Dad, a featured series within the I Am Dad Podcast network, brings a real and necessary conversation about fatherhood, youth sports, and the responsibility of raising not just athletes—but whole people. Hosted by Javin Foreman, this episode features Rodney Kellam, a father of three navigating the journey of raising children through sports, life lessons, and intentional parenting. From California playgrounds to Georgia gyms, Rodney shares how basketball shaped his identity—and how fatherhood reshaped his purpose. This conversation goes beyond the game. It explores: • The difference between developing an athlete and developing a person • Why parents must get out of the way of their child’s growth • The emotional weight fathers carry on the sidelines • The role of patience, especially when raising children with different needs • The impact of sports on discipline, identity, and resilience • How fear and ego can unintentionally harm a child’s development • Why fatherhood is ultimately about legacy, not performance Rodney also shares powerful reflections on raising a special needs daughter, supporting a high-level athlete son through injury, and learning how to remove timelines and expectations in favor of growth and love. Throughout the episode, one theme remains clear: The sidelines are not just where we watch the game—they are where fatherhood is revealed. Whether your child is playing basketball, baseball, or any sport at all, this episode challenges parents to ask a critical question: Are we helping our children become who they are meant to be—or trying to make them who we want them to be?

    1 hr
  5. MAR 22

    Letter to My 13-Year-Old Self: Wisdom Fathers Men Wish They Knew w/ Dr. David Miller

    This week on I Am Dad Podcast, host Kenneth Braswell welcomes scholar, author, and longtime advocate Dr. David Miller for a powerful conversation about mentorship, memory, and manhood. At the center of this episode is Dr. Miller’s new national writing project, Letters to My 13-Year-Old Self, an intergenerational reflection inviting Black men across the country to write a message to the boy they once were. The letters explore wisdom, wounds, and wins—the lessons learned through decades of life experience. The conversation digs deeper than nostalgia. Braswell and Miller explore why age 13 represents a critical turning point in the development of boys and young men. They reflect on the awkward transition from childhood to adolescence, peer pressure, masculinity, identity formation, and the deep emotional experiences that shape a young man’s future. Throughout the episode, they examine: Why age 13 is a pivotal moment in Black male development The power of intergenerational mentorship between Black men The importance of community affirmation for young boys What today’s generation of boys face in a hyper-digital world The lasting impact of childhood trauma and early experiences Why older Black men must intentionally pass wisdom to younger generations Dr. Miller also shares how letters submitted by men across the country—from young adults to elders in their eighties—reveal common themes of resilience, healing, identity, and self-worth. The episode closes with a reflection on the importance of slowing down, turning off the phone, and rediscovering the beauty of youth before adulthood arrives too quickly. This conversation is a reminder that every man carries the voice of the boy he once was—and that speaking to that younger self can help guide the next generation.

    51 min
  6. MAR 15

    Shared Parenting and Fatherhood Reform: Mark Ludwig on Family Court, Legislation, and Parental Alienation

    In this episode of I Am Dad Podcast, host Kenneth Braswell welcomes Mark Ludwig for a powerful conversation about fatherhood, family courts, and the legislative battle to keep children connected to both parents. Mark Ludwig shares his deeply personal story of going 204 days without seeing his son, a painful experience that ultimately led him into the world of fatherhood advocacy and policy reform. What began as a personal struggle evolved into a national mission to educate advocates and legislators on shared parenting and family law reform. Together, Braswell and Ludwig unpack the realities many fathers face after separation or divorce, including parental alienation, legal barriers, and the adversarial nature of family courts. They also explore why legislative reform has become one of the most important tools for addressing systemic obstacles that prevent fathers from being meaningfully involved in their children’s lives. The conversation covers: What shared parenting actually means Why the current family court system often creates “winners and losers” The emotional toll of parental separation on fathers and children The role of legislation in protecting father–child relationships Why messaging and language matter in fatherhood advocacy The growing national movement toward equal parenting laws Mark also discusses his new book, The Parental Alienation Playbook, which identifies common tactics used to disrupt parent–child relationships and provides strategies for fathers navigating difficult co-parenting environments. This episode is both a personal testimony and a strategic conversation about how fathers, advocates, and policymakers can work together to strengthen families and create healthier environments for children.

    1h 10m
  7. MAR 8

    What Every Daughter Needs From Her Father - The Sacred Bond: Black Fathers, Daughters, and Mental Health” w/ Dr. David Miller

    This week on I Am Dad Podcast, guest host Dr. Matisa Wilbon of the Moynihan Institute for Fatherhood Research and Policy takes the host chair for a powerful conversation with fellow institute colleague Dr. David Miller, a researcher focused on the mental health and social development of Black men, fathers, and families. Drawing from his academic research and personal experience as a father of two daughters and a son, Dr. Miller explores a topic that has received far too little scholarly attention: the sacred bond between Black fathers and daughters. Their conversation examines the emotional, psychological, and cultural importance of father involvement in daughters’ lives—even when fathers do not live in the same household. Dr. Miller shares findings from interviews with non-residential fathers and daughters that reveal an important truth: daughters continue to need affirmation, guidance, and presence from their fathers well into adulthood. Together, Wilbon and Miller discuss: Why the father–daughter relationship is critical to girls’ mental health • The myth of the “absent father” narrative • The emotional toll on fathers who are separated from their children • How fathers shape daughters’ self-esteem and identity • Why dads must talk to daughters about relationships, race, and beauty • The importance of racial pride and positive affirmations from fathers • Co-parenting challenges and policy barriers affecting father involvement • Why mental health support for fathers matters just as much as for children The episode also addresses the uncomfortable but necessary conversations fathers must have with daughters about relationships, sexuality, safety, and self-worth. Dr. Miller argues that when fathers provide affirming messages about identity, beauty, and resilience, they help counter the harmful stereotypes Black girls face in society. This conversation is not only about research—it is about healing, growth, and creating stronger relationships between fathers and daughters across generations.

    39 min

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The I AM DAD. Podcast is an exploration of fatherhood insight, information, and inspiration for dads, their families, the people who love, and those that support them.