I Date Money: Budget • Invest • Build Wealth After Divorce

Lisa Drennon

Welcome to iDateMoney®, the podcast where divorced mompreneurs learn how to rebuild financial stability after divorce without spreadsheets, shame, or second-guessing every decision. Hosted by Lisa Drennon—Wealth Activator, money strategist, and creator of the Money Multiplier System— this show is where clarity meets confidence. Each week, Lisa shares raw stories, practical strategies, and spiritual insights to help you: Release fear and guilt around money so you feel safe spending again. Create steady income and financial security—even if your business feels unpredictable. Confidently pay yourself, cover taxes, and provide stability for your kids. Rewrite your money story so you can step into your role as a secure, empowered mom. This isn’t your accountant’s podcast. It’s real talk for women ready to stop feeling broke, build true stability, and finally trust themselves with money. Want to be a guest on I Date Money: Budget • Invest • Build Wealth After Divorce? Send Lisa Drennon a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/podmatchcommemberlisadrennoncom Because it doesn’t matter how much you have—it’s what you do with it. 🗝️🌬️💖💸

  1. Investment Strategies: How to Build Wealth Without Fear or Confusion with Sara Blackmer

    1D AGO

    Investment Strategies: How to Build Wealth Without Fear or Confusion with Sara Blackmer

    Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce? Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple. Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Investment strategies after divorce can feel confusing, intimidating, and risky. But building wealth does not require guessing or gambling. It requires clarity, education, and the confidence to ask the right questions. In this episode of the iDateMoney Lisa sits down with decorated U.S. Air Force Lieutenant Colonel turned tech executive and investor Sara Blackmer. Sara shares how she moved from military service into venture capital and how women can start understanding the world of investing without feeling overwhelmed or behind. If you've ever wondered how wealthy investors think about diversification, alternative investments, and building long-term wealth, this conversation will help you see investing from a completely new perspective. What you'll learn in this episode: • Why many women feel intimidated by investing and how to overcome it • The difference between public market investing and private investments • What a balanced investment portfolio can look like • Why financial literacy is the key to rebuilding wealth after divorce • How alternative investments can help accelerate wealth building • Why building a supportive “financial village” matters for long-term success Key Moments 00:00 Introduction and Lionfin’s Money Adventure book 02:08 Sara’s journey from military service to venture capital 05:18 Discovering what motivates you and building an exceptional career 08:00 Why building a support village matters after divorce 09:52 Understanding venture capital and alternative investments 16:40 Managing the emotional side of investing 19:29 Why diversification protects your wealth 23:30 The role of AI in modern investing 27:11 Why women should not feel intimidated by investing 29:56 How to connect with Sara and learn more about investing opportunities Resources: Sara Blackmer LinkedIn Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

    26 min
  2. The Money Trap Most Women Fall Into With Becky Sampson

    2D AGO

    The Money Trap Most Women Fall Into With Becky Sampson

    Divorce can leave women feeling financially powerless, overwhelmed, and unsure about their future. In this episode, divorce strategist Becky Sampson shares how she fought through a three-and-a-half-year legal battle and why knowing your rights can change everything. 00:00 – Introduction . 01:46 – Meet Becky Sampson 03:08 – How the Divorce Battle Started. 05:15 – Moving to Hawaii and the Marriage Turning Point 06:35 – Refusing to Sign Fraudulent Tax Documents 07:34 – The Defining Conversation About “Value” 08:32 – Serving Divorce Papers on April Fool’s Day 09:56 – Fighting for Financial Fairness 11:22 – Why Women Leave Divorce Financially Struggling 12:29 – The Biggest Lie Women Believe About Divorce and Money 14:20 – The Power of Understanding Financial Increase in Marriage 16:11 – Turning Divorce Pain Into Purpose 18:34 – Why Advocating for Yourself Matters 20:28 – Creating a Business From Hard Experiencesess. 22:30 – Becky’s Podcast and Resources 24:01 – Final Advice for Anyone Facing Divorce. 25:07 – Encouragement for Women Starting Over Financially Guest BioBecky Sampson is the founder of OnlySubpoenas and a divorce strategist who helps women navigate divorce with strength and confidence. After representing herself through 21 subpoenas and three and a half years of court battles, she now teaches others how to understand their rights and advocate for themselves financially and legally. She also hosts the podcast Divorcing Strong, where she interviews attorneys and legal experts to educate people on navigating divorce with clarity and empowerment. ResourcesBecky Sampson https://beckysampson.com Podcast Divorcing Strong (YouTube) Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO today. Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it🗝️🌬️💖💸

    24 min
  3. How Entrepreneurs Use Franchises to Build Time Freedom
With Jon Ostenson

    APR 2

    How Entrepreneurs Use Franchises to Build Time Freedom With Jon Ostenson

    Franchising is often associated with fast food, but many of the most profitable opportunities today are outside the restaurant industry. In this episode, Lisa Drennan speaks with franchise consultant Jon Ostenson about how franchising works, how much it costs to start, and how entrepreneurs are using franchises to create long-term wealth and financial freedom. Jon Ostenson is the founder and CEO of FranBridge Consulting and a top franchise consultant who has helped hundreds of investors identify franchise opportunities across the United States. He is also the author of the bestselling book Non-Food Franchising and works with over 600 franchise brands helping entrepreneurs step into business ownership.Connect with Jon on LinkedINThank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO today. Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

    24 min
  4. Why PR Is a Long Game for Entrepreneurs With Lynn Aronberg

    APR 1

    Why PR Is a Long Game for Entrepreneurs With Lynn Aronberg

    What if the visibility you are chasing in business is actually hurting you. In this episode, PR expert Lynn Aronberg explains the truth about public relations, earned media, and how entrepreneurs can build real authority without wasting money. Episode HighlightsThe difference between earned media and paid media and why it mattersThe biggest PR scams entrepreneurs fall forWhen it actually makes sense to hire a PR agencyWhy visibility is a long game, not a quick win Key Moments00:00 Introduction and the question of financial freedom 01:50 Lynn’s journey from Dolphins cheerleader to PR agency owner 04:00 The truth about PR scams and paid media traps 07:40 When entrepreneurs should invest in PR 09:30 Turning a public divorce into international media exposure 14:00 Navigating fear and entrepreneurship after major life changes 17:00 The emotional battle entrepreneurs face around money 20:00 Why many six figure businesses still feel broke 23:00 PR contracts and understanding the long game of visibility 26:00 Supporting authors and building visibility through media Guest BioLynn Aronberg is the CEO of Lynn Aronberg Public Relations LLC, a full service PR agency with international reach. A former Miami Dolphins cheerleader, she built her career in public relations before launching her own agency at age 30. Lynn represents entrepreneurs, CEOs, and companies seeking national and international media coverage, and she is known for helping clients build credibility through earned media. Resources and LinksConnect with Lynn Aronberg Email: lynn@lynnaronberg.com Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO today. Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

    27 min
  5. How Trusting Your Intuition 
Builds Financial Confidence 
with Victoria Nielsen

    MAR 26

    How Trusting Your Intuition Builds Financial Confidence with Victoria Nielsen

    Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. 🗝️🌬️💖💰 What if financial freedom does not start with spreadsheets or budgets, but with your intuition? In this episode, Lisa sits down with intuitive healer and embodiment coach Victoria Nielsen to explore how reconnecting with your inner wisdom can transform your relationship with money. Episode Highlights Why financial freedom begins from the inside outThe connection between intuition, self worth, and money decisionsA simple breathwork practice busy moms can use to reset their nervous system in secondsKey Moments00:01 Introduction and the real meaning of financial freedom 02:18 What intuition really is and why women lose connection with it 04:15 A simple breathwork practice to calm overwhelm 06:05 Why your thoughts shape your financial outcomes 08:32 How money stories create push pull dynamics with wealth 11:36 The emotional roots behind debt and spending habits 14:02 Inner child healing and self worth in your money journey 16:20 Rituals, somatic release, and transforming money patterns 17:53 Recognizing how your body reacts to money triggers 20:20 Writing a “Dear Money” letter to uncover hidden beliefs 22:14 Feminine cycles, entrepreneurship, and trusting the flow 23:17 How to connect with Victoria Nielsen Guest Bio Victoria Nielsen is an intuitive healer, embodiment coach, and Kundalini Yoga facilitator who helps women reconnect with their inner wisdom and create lives they do not want to escape. Through breathwork, somatic healing, and ancient practices made practical, she empowers women to trust their intuition, release limiting beliefs, and step into bold authenticity. Connect with Victoria Nielsen Website Instagram: @victoriamargauxnielsen Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Book a free 1:1 Clarity Call and walk away knowing exactly where your money is going and a simple system to stop the leak for good. Most women find $500–$2,000/mo they didn't know they were losing: Wealth Activator Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

    25 min
  6. The Power of One Question 
With Holly Hurd

    MAR 26

    The Power of One Question With Holly Hurd

    What if one simple question could completely change how you make money, build confidence, and create financial stability? In this episode of iDateMoney®, Lisa sits down with Holly Hurd to talk about the power of asking the right questions. Holly shares how women can turn their passions, talents, and everyday skills into income streams that create freedom and stability. If you have ever struggled with inconsistent income, burnout, or feeling like you are doing everything for everyone else, this conversation will shift your perspective. Timestamps00:01 – Welcome to iDateMoney and guest introduction 01:00 – The story behind Holly’s book The Life-Changing Power of One Question 02:20 – Why women struggle to prioritize themselves 03:40 – Letting go of guilt and making self care non negotiable 05:10 – How Holly rebuilt her strength after multiple surgeries 06:20 – Why community improves women’s health and longevity 07:20 – The connection between burnout, health, and profit 08:40 – Systems and planning that support successful entrepreneurs 11:45 – Serving clients from a full cup 12:00 – Managing inconsistent income as a commission based entrepreneur 13:20 – Real estate investing and creative cash flow ideas 15:10 – The power of diversified income streams 17:40 – Simple side hustles that can create immediate income 19:00 – Identifying what you love and turning it into a business 21:05 – Holly’s first book VentureMom: From Idea to Income in 12 Weeks 22:00 – Encouragement for women ready to start a business or side gig 22:45 – Where to connect with Holly Guest BioHolly Hurd is the founder of VentureMom, an online platform dedicated to helping women launch businesses based on their passions and talents. A successful entrepreneur who made her mark on Wall Street at just 25 years old, Holly has been recognized as one of Fortune’s People to Watch. She is the author of The Life-Changing Power of One Question and VentureMom: From Idea to Income in 12 Weeks, where she helps women discover how to turn their ideas into income and build meaningful businesses. Resources and LinksHolly Hurd's website: https://venturemom.com Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

    23 min
  7. Divorce Recovery and Money Mindset: How to Start Over Strong With Joyce Ayers

    MAR 24

    Divorce Recovery and Money Mindset: How to Start Over Strong With Joyce Ayers

    Divorce can shake everything: your identity, your finances, and your confidence. In this conversation, Lisa Drennon sits down with heart-centered divorce coach Joyce Ayers to talk about rebuilding after divorce, healing your relationship with money, and learning to trust yourself again. They unpack the emotional side of financial decisions, the hidden cost of self-abandonment, and why true financial freedom starts with clarity, responsibility, and self-worth. In this episode:Why money issues and relationship issues are deeply connectedHow unhealthy money dynamics create tension in marriageThe emotional impact of divorce on financial decision-makingWhy stay-at-home moms do contribute financiallyHow self-abandonment shows up in relationships and spendingTimestamps00:00 Intro: Why relationships and money cannot be separated01:33 Meet Joyce Ayers, heart-centered divorce coach02:15 Joyce’s story and how divorce led her to this work04:16 What changed after divorce and reclaiming her energy05:53 Why reading books is not enough without support06:56 Money conversations couples need to have08:50 The value of stay-at-home moms and unseen labor09:54 Scarcity, spending beyond your means, and asking permission13:27 Conscious spending, quality time, and relationship trust15:10 Joyce’s amicable divorce and customized financial agreement18:32 Why financial counsel matters during divorce19:30 Financial literacy, retirement, and long-term planning23:31 When it is the right time to get divorce support26:22 Mindset, nervous system regulation, and monitoring your thoughts29:33 Rebuilding your future and stepping into your zone of genius31:50 Self-abandonment, family patterns, and inherited beliefs34:23 Comparison, self-trust, and money choices37:55 The language you use shapes your future39:16 Quick fixes versus real healing41:15 How to connect with Joyce Ayers42:31 Final takeaway: It’s not how much money you have, it’s what you do with it Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce? Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

    39 min
  8. The Hidden Link Between Money Mindset, Self Worth, and Financial Confidence with Sam Ebblewhite

    MAR 19

    The Hidden Link Between Money Mindset, Self Worth, and Financial Confidence with Sam Ebblewhite

    Your relationship with money starts with your relationship with yourself. In this episode of iDateMoney, we explore how your money mindset, financial confidence, and emotional patterns shape your ability to create financial stability. If you've ever wondered why you keep repeating the same financial patterns, struggle to trust yourself with money decisions, or feel stuck despite working hard, this conversation will help you rewrite your money story and rebuild your financial confidence from the inside out. Episode HighlightsWhy your relationship with yourself determines your relationship with moneyThe hidden emotional stories that shape your money mindsetHow unresolved shame and self judgment impact your financial confidenceKey Timestamps00:00 – Introduction Lisa introduces guest Sam Ebbelwhite and the connection between sex, money, relationships, and personal alignment. 02:00 – Sam’s personal healing journey From counseling and support groups to energy work and personal transformation. 03:30 – What alignment really means Understanding the connection between mind, body, emotions, and money. 05:00 – Why personal growth takes time How small steps create long term transformation. 07:00 – The importance of your relationship with yourself How self worth impacts relationships, career choices, and income. 09:00 – The stories we carry about money How childhood, culture, and past experiences shape financial behavior. 10:00 – Rewriting your money story Why awareness is the first step to financial change. 12:00 – Facing past mistakes without shame A powerful reflection exercise that can transform your identity. 15:00 – Breaking the cycle of self judgment How negative self talk sabotages financial confidence. 18:00 – Why support systems matter for entrepreneurs 20:00 – Challenging the stories you tell yourself 22:00 – How to choose the right mentor or coach 25:00 – Why emotional decisions lead to financial mistakes 27:00 – Knowing when someone is not the right client or coach 29:30 – How to connect with Sam Guest BioSam Ebbelwhite is a somatic sexologist, kinesiologist, and relationship coach who helps individuals and couples reconnect with their bodies, rebuild trust, and rediscover intimacy and authentic self expression. Her work focuses on emotional healing, nervous system safety, and helping people release the stories that keep them stuck in unhealthy patterns in relationships, sexuality, and personal growth. Through her programs and coaching, Sam helps clients rebuild their relationship with themselves so they can create healthier relationships with others. Connect with Sam: www.samebblewhite.com.au Instagram: @@samebblewhitess Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money? Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸

    32 min
4.9
out of 5
61 Ratings

About

Welcome to iDateMoney®, the podcast where divorced mompreneurs learn how to rebuild financial stability after divorce without spreadsheets, shame, or second-guessing every decision. Hosted by Lisa Drennon—Wealth Activator, money strategist, and creator of the Money Multiplier System— this show is where clarity meets confidence. Each week, Lisa shares raw stories, practical strategies, and spiritual insights to help you: Release fear and guilt around money so you feel safe spending again. Create steady income and financial security—even if your business feels unpredictable. Confidently pay yourself, cover taxes, and provide stability for your kids. Rewrite your money story so you can step into your role as a secure, empowered mom. This isn’t your accountant’s podcast. It’s real talk for women ready to stop feeling broke, build true stability, and finally trust themselves with money. Want to be a guest on I Date Money: Budget • Invest • Build Wealth After Divorce? Send Lisa Drennon a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/podmatchcommemberlisadrennoncom Because it doesn’t matter how much you have—it’s what you do with it. 🗝️🌬️💖💸