I Date Money: Budget • Invest • Build Wealth After Divorce

Lisa Drennon

Welcome to iDateMoney®, the podcast where divorced mompreneurs learn how to rebuild financial stability after divorce without spreadsheets, shame, or second-guessing every decision. Hosted by Lisa Drennon—Wealth Activator, money strategist, and creator of the Money Multiplier System— this show is where clarity meets confidence. Each week, Lisa shares raw stories, practical strategies, and spiritual insights to help you: Release fear and guilt around money so you feel safe spending again. Create steady income and financial security—even if your business feels unpredictable. Confidently pay yourself, cover taxes, and provide stability for your kids. Rewrite your money story so you can step into your role as a secure, empowered mom. This isn’t your accountant’s podcast. It’s real talk for women ready to stop feeling broke, build true stability, and finally trust themselves with money. Want to be a guest on I Date Money: Budget • Invest • Build Wealth After Divorce? Send Lisa Drennon a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/podmatchcommemberlisadrennoncom Because it doesn’t matter how much you have—it’s what you do with it. 🗝️🌬️💖💸

  1. 2D AGO

    The Weekly Money Habit That Changes Everything

    Most people work hard and still feel broke. The problem is not income. It is the lack of a clear money system. In this episode, Lisa Drennon shares how “dating your money” each week can transform your finances, eliminate debt, and build true wealth. She also explains why financial literacy must start with children through her book LionPhin’s Money Adventure: Discover The Magic Of Saving, Spending, & Sharing Episode HighlightsWhy most entrepreneurs make money but still feel brokeThe concept of “dating your money” every weekWhy paying yourself first must be non-negotiableThe Save, Spend, Share framework for kids and adultsHow Lisa paid off $100,000 in debt in six monthsThe money mindset blocks that keep entrepreneurs stuckWhy financial systems matter more than hustleHow mompreneurs can separate business and personal financesKey TakeawaysWealth starts with clarity about where your money goesYour income needs a map and a systemPaying yourself first changes everythingFinancial education should begin in childhoodThank you for tuning into this week’s episode of iDateMoney!® 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Join The Smell of Money today. Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO today. Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

    11 min
  2. "I CAN'T AFFORD THAT."

    MAR 4

    "I CAN'T AFFORD THAT."

    Have you ever been on a sales call, felt completely aligned with the person or program, and then the moment the price was revealed, your stomach tightened, and the words came out automatically: “I can’t afford it.” It’s one of the most common phrases people say when faced with investing in themselves. But what if that statement isn’t actually about money at all? In this episode, Lisa Drennon unpacks a powerful realization she had after four recent sales calls where every potential client said the exact same thing: they couldn’t afford the investment. But instead of taking that statement at face value, Lisa began asking a deeper question. What if “I can’t afford it” is actually a protective response from the nervous system rather than a true reflection of someone’s financial situation? When we’re faced with a big decision, especially one involving money, our brain and body can react with fear, stress, and uncertainty. That response can make us shut down opportunities that might actually help us grow. In this episode, Lisa breaks down the three hidden lies behind the phrase “I can’t afford it” and explains why people often find ways to pay for things when the need feels urgent, aligned, or certain. You’ll learn why the real objection is rarely money — it’s usually a lack of certainty, discomfort around making the decision, or a nervous system that feels overwhelmed by the possibility of change. Lisa also shares the powerful lesson she learned from these sales conversations: when people don’t fully acknowledge the pain of their current situation, they often can’t see the true value of the solution in front of them. If you’re a divorced or single mompreneur who feels like money keeps slipping through your fingers no matter how hard you work, Lisa also shares how her 90-day Wealth Accelerator program helps women install a simple financial system that reduces stress, builds savings, and creates real financial confidence. Explore whether this program is a good fit for you: Wealth Accelerator Because true financial freedom isn’t about how much money you make, It’s about understanding how to make your money work for you. Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Open your Business Checking with NOVO today. Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

    13 min
  3. FEB 25

    STOP AVOIDING YOUR MONEY PAIN

    What if the reason you’re stuck financially isn’t about math but about avoidance? In this episode, Lisa shares a powerful personal story about hip pain and how it revealed a deeper truth about the way we treat money. If you’ve been avoiding your bank account, living on credit cards, or feeling anxious every time you think about your finances, this episode will help you lean in instead of pulling away. ⏱ Timestamps00:09 – The Theragun Story: Avoiding the Pain Hip pain revealed a powerful lesson about control, discomfort, and healing. 01:00 – The Money Parallel Why we avoid looking at our finances when they feel overwhelming, and how that avoidance keeps us stuck. 02:00 – The Credit Card Cycle Living on credit, not knowing your numbers, and playing the “where did my money go?” game. 02:18 – The Smell of Money & Money Awareness Challenge How weekly reset calls and daily “cash flow quickies” help you rebuild your relationship with money. 04:13 – Step 1: Daily Money Gratitude Why gratitude shifts you from fear to awareness. 05:00 – Step 2: Create a Money Map Track income, expenses, debt, assets, and net worth. Why knowing your numbers turns fear into neutral data. 06:44 – Step 3: Pay Yourself First Stop saving “what’s left.” Build your emergency fund and create intentional money buckets. 07:30 – Money Buckets & High-Yield Savings Using designated accounts to reduce emotional spending. 08:30 – Rewrite Your Money Story How your past beliefs shape your current financial reality and how to change them. 09:05 – The Psychology of Wealth Why mindset, not income, determines whether you keep money. Worthiness, healing, and breaking the debt cycle. 09:50 – Final Message: Lean In On the other side of financial discomfort is peace, clarity, overflow, and true wealth. Key TakeawaysAvoidance keeps you stuck financially.Gratitude reduces money anxiety.Clarity creates confidence.Paying yourself first builds safety and stability.Wealth is mindset + math.You are capable, and deserving of financial peace.Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of iDateMoney®! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it🗝️🌬️💖💸 ⚠️ Results Disclaimer: Results and examples shared in this video are based on specific experiences and are for educational purposes only. Achieving similar outcomes requires time, effort, and consistency. Individual results will vary depending on your niche, dedication, and external factors. This content does not constitute professional, financial, or legal advice.

    9 min
  4. How to Build a $10,000 Emergency Fund Fast, Even If You Feel Broke

    FEB 17

    How to Build a $10,000 Emergency Fund Fast, Even If You Feel Broke

    How to Build a $10,000 Emergency Fund Fast, Even If You Feel BrokeYou do not feel anxious about money because of your income. You feel anxious because you do not have a buffer. In this episode, I show you how to find your first $1,000 in seven days and start your $10,000 emergency fund sprint without spreadsheets, shame, or overwhelm. What You’ll Learn:Why saving six months of expenses feels paralyzingThe real reason you still feel broke, even on a solid incomeHow to calculate your true “needs only” monthly numberWhy $1,000 changes your nervous system fastThe 7 Day Money Awareness Challenge that routinely uncovers $500 or moreHow to redirect money without feeling restrictedWhere to open a high yield emergency fund accountHow to stop feeling guilty when you use your emergency savingsKey Steps From This Episode:Open your Money Map and calculate needs only expensesStart with $1,000 in seven daysOpen a high yield savings accountComplete the 7 Day Money Awareness ChallengeRedirect, do not restrictBuild toward $10,000 with weekly clarity Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Join The Smell of Money today: Click Here to join. Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO today. Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

    11 min
  5. The Biggest Retirement Mistake People Make During Market Dips

    FEB 10

    The Biggest Retirement Mistake People Make During Market Dips

    Every time the market gets shaky, the same fear rears its head. Should I sell everything? Should I stop investing? In this episode, Lisa breaks down why retirement anxiety is not an investment problem. It’s a structural problem. And how to calm your nervous system so you can make confident money decisions, even when headlines feel loud. What You’ll Learn in This Episode • Why fear, not ignorance, drives most investing decisions • How constant exposure to panic-based narratives fuels money anxiety • Why structure matters more than market timing • How to give your money a job so your brain can relax • What volatility means at different life stages • Why emotional safety is critical to retirement success • How automated investing builds long-term wealth without stress • The simplest ways to start or strengthen retirement savings today Key Takeaway Markets reward discipline and time. Not emotional reactions. When your money has structure, you stop panicking and start trusting yourself. Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Join The Smell of Money today: Click Here to join. Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO today. Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

    12 min
  6. The Simple Tax System That Pays You First Every Year

    FEB 4

    The Simple Tax System That Pays You First Every Year

    Tax season is not a surprise. Same date, same rules, same stress. In this episode, Lisa breaks down the simple system that removes tax panic, pays you first, and lets your money earn interest while you wait. What You Will LearnWhy taxes are not a math problem. They are a relationship with money problemHow one simple money map replaces spreadsheets, stress, and scramblingThe five core accounts every business owner needsHow to pay yourself first, set aside taxes, and still have profitWhy online savings accounts change everything for tax seasonHow to turn tax time into a self-given refundKey Topics CoveredCreating one document that organizes business and personal financesAllocating income using clear money bucketsWeekly money dates that eliminate fear and confusionPaying yourself first as the CEOLetting your tax money earn interest instead of sitting idleResources MentionedMompreneurs Money MapJoin The Smell of Money community and Money Awareness Challenge. This is where you change your relationship with money and build real financial stability. Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. . Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO today. Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

    11 min
  7. Flip The Money Script 
With Dr. Dan Sneider

    JAN 29

    Flip The Money Script With Dr. Dan Sneider

    It's time to "flip the script' and develop a healthy relationship with money. In this episode, we flip the script on emotional spending, scarcity, and safety with money. And show you how the same tools that heal relationships can transform your finances. Money decisions are emotional, not logical. In this conversation, Lisa sits down with couples therapist Dr. Dan Sneider to explore how scarcity, fear, and emotional patterns shape our spending habits. You will learn practical grounding tools, communication shifts, and mindset reframes to help you feel safe, confident, and present with money. This episode is about stopping the guilt, slowing the impulse, and using money as a tool for connection instead of stress. Key Topics: Why money is always emotional, even when we think we are being logicalHow childhood money stories create scarcity and fear in adulthoodEmotional spending, impulse buying, and the guilt hangoverGrounding through the five senses to interrupt reactive money decisionsHow couples can talk about money without criticism or defensivenessTeaching kids healthy money habits without fear or rigidityUsing presence instead of spending to create connection with your childrenReframing money as a tool for safety, pleasure, and practicality Timestamps 00:01 Why interruptions happen and how to use them for your benefit 01:57 Dr. Dan’s childhood money story and scarcity conditioning 04:28 Why money decisions are emotional, not logical 06:09 More money does not solve money problems 07:03 Fear, safety, and how money shows up in relationships 08:58 I language vs you language in money conversations 10:59 Emotional spending, guilt, and impulse patterns 12:21 Grounding through the five senses before spending 13:20 Parenting, presence, and avoiding overproviding 16:41 Breaking inherited money stories for the next generation 19:45 Fantasy vs reality in spending and addiction patterns 22:15 How Dr. Dan works with couples and individuals 24:27 Final reflections on presence, money, and choice Guest Bio Dr. Dan Sneider is a couples and individual therapist based in Asheville, North Carolina. He helps individuals and couples move from conflict to lasting connection using proven communication and grounding techniques. Dr. Dan is the creator of The Intimacy Shift, a 12-week live program designed to build emotional safety, intimacy, and healthy conversations around topics like money, parenting, and connection. Connect with Dan: Website and free download: https://www.intimacyshift.com Program: The Intimacy Shift 12-Week Live Experience 🗝️🌬️💖💰 Join The Smell of Money today: Click Here to join. Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO today. Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily

    24 min
  8. JAN 27

    Money Fear Is Not a Red Flag. It Is Data

    If the idea of hiring a Cash Flow Strategist makes your chest tighten, that fear is not a red flag. It is data telling you exactly where your money story needs support. Episode Highlights Why fear of being seen with your money keeps women stuck in chaosHow instability can feel safer than steady incomeThe truth about money problems. They are not moral failuresWhy mentorship feels heavy before it feels freeingHow your relationship with money affects how clients invest in youWhat happens when you stop winging it and start trusting yourselfHow to find hidden money leaks and create predictable cash flowWhy confidence, not control, is the real transformationKey Moments 00:05 Fear of hiring support is data, not a red flag01:10 The fear of stability and why chaos feels normal02:27 Why clarity feels scary before it feels freeing04:41 Becoming the woman who feels safe and confident with money07:59 What working with Lisa actually looks like11:05 Letting money work for you instead of working harder14:48 Why it is time to put yourself front and center Thank you for tuning into this week’s episode of I Date Money! 🗝🌬💖💸 Ready to stop feeling broke, guilty, and overwhelmed about money, even after divorce?  Inside The Smell of Money, you’ll get the tools to rebuild financial stability, master your money mindset, and create a financial plan that finally feels simple.  Whether you’re looking for smart investment strategies, clarity with your budget, or even how to start investing with just $100, this is where you’ll find the confidence and stability you’ve been craving. Join The Smell of Money today: Click Here to join. Click here to open your Business Checking with NOVO today. Remember, it doesn't matter how much money you make; it's what you do with it 🗝️🌬️💖💸 Intro/Outro music "IDM" by Christa Lily About the Host Lisa Drennon is a Cashflow Strategist and the founder of iDateMoney. She helps women turn money chaos into calm by building simple systems that create stability, confidence, and trust without shame, restrictive budgets, or complicated spreadsheets.

    12 min
4.9
out of 5
61 Ratings

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Welcome to iDateMoney®, the podcast where divorced mompreneurs learn how to rebuild financial stability after divorce without spreadsheets, shame, or second-guessing every decision. Hosted by Lisa Drennon—Wealth Activator, money strategist, and creator of the Money Multiplier System— this show is where clarity meets confidence. Each week, Lisa shares raw stories, practical strategies, and spiritual insights to help you: Release fear and guilt around money so you feel safe spending again. Create steady income and financial security—even if your business feels unpredictable. Confidently pay yourself, cover taxes, and provide stability for your kids. Rewrite your money story so you can step into your role as a secure, empowered mom. This isn’t your accountant’s podcast. It’s real talk for women ready to stop feeling broke, build true stability, and finally trust themselves with money. Want to be a guest on I Date Money: Budget • Invest • Build Wealth After Divorce? Send Lisa Drennon a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/podmatchcommemberlisadrennoncom Because it doesn’t matter how much you have—it’s what you do with it. 🗝️🌬️💖💸