OwlCast: The Leadership & Coaching Podcast

David Morelli with Co-Host William Oakley
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OwlCast is a podcast on leadership and coaching. You can expect to get insights to help you solve the thorny problems of life and leadership – all with a dollop of laughter thrown in. Your dynamic hosts, David and William, will help you become a more kickass leader. Together, they won’t only motivate you, they’ll give you scientifically proven tools to become better – full stop!

  1. HÁ 1 DIA

    Respect in Disguise: The 7 Tools Hidden in Plain Sight

    Are you using the right conversation style at the right time? What if the secret to better conversations at work, at home, and everywhere in between, was hiding in plain sight? Join David Morelli and William Oakley on Owlcast as they break down their seven RESPECT stylesof communication. They reveal how these styles—like the notes of a major scale—are already present in every interaction you have, and how learning to use them consciously can dramatically improve your relationships and results. Don't miss this deep dive into 'Respect in Disguise: The Seven Tools Hidden in Plain Sight. Key Topics: • The Seven RESPECT Styles are Universal: The Rallier, Educator, Strategist, Provocateur, Explorer, Confidant, and Transformer styles are the foundational "notes" of all human conversation and are already being used unconsciously in every interaction, whether at work, at home, or in the community. • Conscious Use Drives Results: Organizations that taught these styles saw dramatic improvements, such as a 180% increase in job satisfaction over two years. Applying the right style can create breakthroughs in personal relationships, like a parent connecting more deeply with their child by using the Confidant style. • The Danger of Misuse: Using the wrong style at the wrong time (e.g., using a high-intensity Provocateur-Rallier approach when empathy is needed) causes a visceral, negative reaction in the other person, leading to defensiveness, shutdown, and unproductive conversations. • Decoding Conversations: Analyzing a basic communication exchange (like a request for a leadership course) shows that even simple requests and answers implicitly contain a mix of all seven styles (e.g., "actionable feedback" combines Educator and Rallier). • Mastery Requires Practice: Just as a musician must practice scales, becoming a master conversationalist means learning the styles, paying close attention to when you use them, and observing the reactions you get from others to ensure you are setting the stage for the best possible response.

    47min

  2. 2 DE DEZ.

    You Talk Too Much: The Brevity Edge

    Are you tired of sitting through 45-minute meetings that could have been an email? Do you struggle to get to the point when you speak? This episode of OWLCAST tackles the biggest communication problem in work and relationships: talking too much. Hosts David Morelli and William Oakley reveal the psychological core of rambling and give you actionable strategies—including the powerful P.R.E.P. method—to harness the Brevity Edge, make your points stick, and dramatically increase your influence and impact. This episode focuses on the importance of concise communication and word economy, arguing that excessive talking often stems from a misplaced focus on the speaker's needs (e.g., fear, desire to sound perfect, need to feel important) rather than the audience's needs.   Key Topics:  ·      The Core Driver of Rambling is Self-Focus: Excessive talking is often driven by a psychological need to feel important, intelligent, or secure, rather than focusing on giving the listener value. ·      Conciseness Saves Time and Increases Impact: Well-crafted questions, often taking just a few minutes, can achieve clarity and solutions that might take hours in an unstructured conversation. Asking, "What's the most important thing we could talk about today that would be incredibly valuable for you?" ensures time is spent on high-value issues. ·      The P.R.E.P. Communication Framework: For powerful, concise messaging, especially when responding to questions, use this structure: Pause to think.Point (Your core statement).Reason (Your rationale).Example (Your evidence/data).Point (Your concluding statement).·      "Bottom Line on Top": In most business contexts, start with your conclusion (the bottom line or the ask) and then use the rest of your conversation/presentation to support it. This prevents "eyes glazing over" while the audience waits for the main point. ·      Pause is Power: Fear of silence (the panic to fill gaps) leads to rambling. A brief, intentional pause is socially acceptable and allows you to gather your thoughts, leading to a much clearer message. ·      Be a Bumper Sticker: Aim to express your message with the simplicity and clarity of a bumper sticker—a short, concise message that sticks—rather than a long, rambling scroll.

    38min

  3. 25 DE NOV.

    Misrespected: The Hidden Costs of Overused, Underused, and Misused RESPECT Styles

    Do your attempts at communication sometimes fall flat, leaving you and others frustrated? It's likely due to the hidden costs of Misrespected communication. In this episode, hosts David Morelli and William Oakley dive into how overusing, underusing, or misusing the 7 core Respect Styles—like being an exhausting "rah-rah" Rallier or an unapproachable Confidant—creates communication problems at work and in life. Learn to recognize these pitfalls in yourself and others to transform awkward, draining interactions into positive, impactful ones. Key Topics: The Core of Communication Problems: The primary issues in communication and relationships stem from the overuse, underuse, or misuse of our natural Respect Styles.The Need for Balance and Variety: Effective communication requires using a variety of styles and being mindful that consistently defaulting to a single style (even a positive one) can lead to negative consequences like burnout (overuse) or stalled progress (underuse).Perception is Reality in Communication: The success of a style depends heavily on the receiver's perception and the needs of the situation. What one person views as positive motivation (Rallier), another may view as exhausting pressure.Misuse is Intentional or Accidental Damage: Misusing a style involves deploying it with an intent other than its ideal purpose (e.g., using a Reliever style to motivate through fear instead of purpose) or by letting negative emotions (like dissatisfaction or fear) bleed into the interaction.The Cost of Underuse: Two of the most underutilized, yet impactful, styles are the Provocateur (challenging thinking) and Explorer (expanding thinking). A lack of these styles leads to costly, avoidable mistakes and organizational stagnation, which is why CEOs often specifically request a coach who will use the Provocateur style.Transformer and Employee Retention: The lack of the Transformer style (conversations about personal growth and potential) is a major factor in employee turnover. Focusing on "who do you want to be" rather than just "where you want to be" helps people find meaning and purpose.

    55min

  4. 18 DE NOV.

    The Anti-Awkward Self Promotion Episode: How to Do it with RESPECT

    Tired of the cringe and discomfort that comes with self-promotion, asking for a raise, or tackling your annual performance review? Hosts David Morelli and William Oakley dive deep into the often-awkward process of self-evaluation and advocacy. This isn't just about tactics; it starts with a foundational look at self-worth and the "unwinnable game" of seeking external validation. They introduce the powerful RESPECT framework (Rallier, Educator, Strategist, Provocateur, Explorer, Confidant, and Transformer) to help you build a comprehensive, authentic, and "anti-awkward" case for your performance, growth, and potential. This episode provides a profound shift in perspective, moving the focus from desperate external validation to grounded, authentic self-reflection and presentation. Learn how to present your value with integrity, poise, and genuine self-awareness. Key Topics: ·      Self-Worth is the Starting Point: Awkward self-promotion often stems from a fear of "not being good enough" (fragile self-worth), which leads to either overworking for approval or over-blustering. True self-promotion begins when your thoughts about yourself are independent of others' opinions. ·      External Validation is a Trap: "No amount of external validation can replace how you feel about yourself." Your performance review does not define your intrinsic worth as a person.  ·      Acknowledge Your Flaws: Being honest about areas for improvement (the Provocateur aspect) shows intellectual honesty, humility, and self-awareness to leaders. This prevents others from having to bring up your shortcomings, proving you are teachable and committed to growth. ·      Use the RESPECT Framework to Build Your Case: Moving beyond just a list of accomplishments, a well-rounded self-promotion case addresses seven key dimensions:  ·      Rallier: Tangible, measurable achievements and progress (e.g., sales, case closures, project delivery). ·      Educator: What you learned this year, especially beyond expectations (self-development, new skills).  ·      Strategist: The key problems you solved and the value (e.g., cost savings) those solutions generated. ·      Provocateur: Where you applied critical thinking, caught errors, and questioned assumptions. ·      Explorer: Innovations, creativity, and new ideas brought to the team or process improvements. ·      Confidant: Your cultural contribution to the team (support, cohesion, being a team player) and taking time to appreciate your own efforts. ·      Transformer: Who you are becoming—your personal and professional growth, sense of purpose/passion, and aspirations for the future. ·      Performance Reviews are for Growth, Not Worth: Use the review as an opportunity for honest self-reflection on your growth, progress, and areas for course correction, not as a moment to justify your value as a human being.

    55min

  5. 11 DE NOV.

    I Got Problems: Strategies for Complex Problem-Solving and Empowering Your Team With Leon Thomas

    Are you tired of being the only problem-solver on your team? In this episode of Owlcast, Air Force veteran and leadership expert Leon Thomas joins hosts David Morelli and William Oakley to share his proven strategies for tackling complex problem-solving and empowering your team to find solutions without you. Learn the key questions to ask, how to filter out "false flag" issues, and the critical mindset shift every manager needs to finally take a worry-free vacation. The core of the discussion centers on how leaders can transition from being the sole problem-solver (a mindset driven by a burden of leadership and a desire to be needed) to a leader who develops their team's decision-making capabilities. Thomas's philosophy is that a leader's job is to "prepare every single person on my team to be in my seat."   Key Topics:  ·      Not All Problems are Actual Problems: Issues often presented as complex problems are actually "false flags," driven by a heightened emotional state, mere complaints, or comparisons (the "it would be better if..." scenario). Learning to discern an emotional issue from a legitimate problem is the first step. ·      The Power of Questions: When approached with a problem, the first step is active listening, followed by asking probing questions (e.g., "Why is this a problem?" "What have you tried?" "How often is this happening?"). This practice helps the team member discover solutions they hadn't considered and makes the problem their burden to carry. ·      The "We" is an Investment: When asking, "What do we think we can do to solve this problem?", the use of "we" is an investment in the team's ability to collaborate and solve the problem themselves, ensuring the manager is not the only problem-solver.  ·      A Leader's Primary Job is Succession: The shift from solving every problem to empowering others is motivated by the realization that "My job is to prepare every single person on my team to be in my seat." This ensures the leader can step away (e.g., go on vacation) without the organization stalling. ·      Set Clear Boundaries and Decision Authority: Leaders must clearly define the parameters, objectives, and values for their team, articulating what decisions team members are empowered to make. This eliminates "frivolous" issues and accelerates problem resolution. ·      Communication Must Be Consistent: Managers often err by managing by exception or communicating boundaries only once. Establishing a culture of empowerment requires frequent, consistent communication to reinforce objectives and decision-making authority.

    50min

  6. 4 DE NOV.

    How to Be a Catalyst For Good: Using the Respect Styles for Positive Impact

    Feeling drained by your work culture? Learn how to stop just surviving and start thriving! This episode of Owlcast dives into how you can become a Catalyst for Good in your organization using the 7 Respect Styles. Join hosts David Morelli and William Oakley as they walk through a framework for having a positive, change-making impact in the workplace. They argue that many people are drained by their jobs, but work can and should be a source of "aliveness and life force." The episode focuses on how anyone, regardless of seniority, can use coaching-style questions to create better organizational cultures. Discover the specific questions to ask peers, managers, and executives to spark breakthroughs, boost performance, and transform your workplace into a source of aliveness, not burnout.   Key Topics:  ·      Work as a Source of Aliveness: The ideal work culture should be a source of aliveness and life force, where people feel empowered, capable, and fulfilled, rather than drained. Positive work experiences lead to happier, better community and family members.  ·      The Power of Questions over Advice: The most effective way to be a catalyst for good is not by giving advice or prescriptions, but by asking conscious, style-specific questions. These questions help others gain clarity, own their solutions, and spark their own breakthroughs. ·      The 7 Respect Styles are a Toolset for Impact: The seven coaching styles are a framework for conscious communication that is already present in everyday conversations. Applying them deliberately allows you to have a better, more positive impact. ·      Leadership is About People, Not Just Expertise: Especially at higher levels of leadership (VP, CEO), what matters most is the ability to lead people, coach them, and "bring out the best in other people" through conversation, even when you lack the subject matter expertise.  ·      Being a Catalyst Accelerates Career Growth: Individuals who are "already coaching" their peers and having a positive impact on the team are often the ones who are recognized and promoted because they are displaying key leadership qualities.

    52min

  7. 28 DE OUT.

    Coaching at a Crossroads with ICF CEO Magdalena Mook

    In a world defined by polarization, AI disruption, and a growing mental health crisis, where does the coaching profession stand? The industry is at a critical crossroads, and its future depends on how it responds to these profound challenges. In this pivotal episode, hosts David Morelli and William Oakley sit down with Magdalena Mook, CEO of the International Coaching Federation, for an essential discussion about the state and future of the coaching profession. Magdalena shares her 20-year journey with the ICF, overseeing its growth from 8,000 members to a global powerhouse of 65,000 in 160 countries. Tune in for a candid conversation about the evolution of coaching, the ethical tightropes coaches must walk, and the powerful role coaching can play in a deeply unsettled world. Key Topics:  ·      Coaching is a Partnership: This is the most critical element. A coaching relationship is a shared journey where the coach holds the process and the client is responsible for bringing their authentic self to the conversation.    ·      "Coaching is the conversation where there are no answers… yet.": This powerful one-liner captures the essence of coaching. It's an exploratory process for navigating new territory where past experience isn't enough.     ·      Humanity Transcends Culture: In a globalized and polarized world, the ultimate value for a coach is to see the human in the other person. Coaching must be adaptable and respectful of cultural differences without compromising its core ethical principles.    ·      AI is a Tool, Not a Replacement: Magdalena frames AI as a powerful ally that can handle transactional coaching (scheduling, scaling basic support), but emphasizes that deep, lasting change requires transformational human-to-human coaching.     ·      Dispel the Myths: The two biggest myths that stop people from seeking coaching are the cost (there are coaches at all price points globally) and the belief that "I don't need it" (you can't know the benefit until you try).   ·      Leader as Coach vs. Professional Coach: A leader using coaching skills is different from a professional coach. A leader still has managerial responsibilities and must set guardrails, while a professional coach's sole focus is the client's agenda.

    1h5min

  8. 21 DE OUT.

    No Right Way to Lead with Tricia Naddaff

    Are you tired of being told you "should" lead a certain way? Do you feel boxed in by performance reviews and leadership models that don't fit your style or situation? In this episode, Hosts David Morelli and William Oakley are joined by Tricia Naddaff, a 40-year veteran in the world of leadership assessment and research, for a deep dive into the complexities of effective leadership. Tricia argues that there is no single right way to lead. Instead, she presents leadership as a dynamic formula involving the leader's unique self, the desired outcomes, the people involved, and the specific context.   Key Topics:There Is No Right Way to Lead: Effective leadership is not a fixed set of rules. It is a flexible approach that depends on the leader, the goal, the team, and the context. The answer to "How should I lead?" is always, "It depends."Self-Knowledge is the Beginning of Wisdom: You cannot know how to lead others if you don't first understand yourself. Self-reflection, aided by nuanced assessments, is crucial for identifying your motivations, behaviors, and blind spots. Leadership Development is an Ongoing Practice: Developing as a leader is not a six-month program or a one-week retreat. It's a continuous, daily practice of learning and adapting, similar to nurturing a relationship or maintaining your health. Beware the Promotion Trap: The skills and behaviors that earn you a promotion are often not the same ones you need to succeed in your new, more senior role. Each level requires a new mindset and a different leadership approach. The Brain Has a Leadership "Seesaw": Groundbreaking research shows that relational thinking and results-oriented thinking are controlled by separate neural networks that act like a seesaw. This is why very few leaders (5%) are naturally strong in both areas; we all have a default preference.

    57min
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OwlCast is a podcast on leadership and coaching. You can expect to get insights to help you solve the thorny problems of life and leadership – all with a dollop of laughter thrown in. Your dynamic hosts, David and William, will help you become a more kickass leader. Together, they won’t only motivate you, they’ll give you scientifically proven tools to become better – full stop!

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  • Criado por
    David Morelli with Co-Host William Oakley
  • Anos de atividade
    2013 - 2025
  • Episódios
    338
  • Classificação
    Explícito
  • Copyright
    © David Morelli 2020-2025
  • Site do podcast
    OwlCast: The Leadership & Coaching Podcast

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