I Hate Talking

Stephadam

A podcast about talking, including etymology, frustrating topics, current events, and other random subjects. Want to contact the hosts or have a suggestion for a future episode? Email us at ihatetalkingpodcast@gmail.com. Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique. 

  1. 6D AGO

    Time Flees - We've Reached Our 100th Episode

    Send us Fan Mail  In episode 100 of I Hate Talking, the hosts mark their milestone with a reflection on time—how quickly it passes and how much life has changed since they started the podcast. The word of the episode is the Latin phrase “tempus fugit” (“time flies”), which they unpack as more than a cliché, leaning into the nuance that time not only passes quickly but flees irretrievably, never to be recovered. That naturally opens a conversation about nostalgia: looking back on early parenting years, nightly living‑room dance parties, and how memory tends to preserve the sweetest moments while softening the hard ones. They then pivot to a recent family trip to a different Great Wolf Lodge, comparing it with their earlier visit. With older, more independent kids, the experience feels markedly different—less hands‑on supervising and more watching their children race down slides, tackle the wave pool, and master the FlowRider boogie‑board simulator. They note small design differences in the waterpark (a slower lazy river feeding from slide tubes, fewer extreme body slides) and talk about fear of heights, minor injuries, and the confidence they have in Great Wolf Lodge’s highly attentive lifeguards. The episode closes with a brief count of how many lodges exist across North America and a lighthearted nod to exponential growth if every listener shared the show with “just one other person,” underscoring the theme that time flies—but they’re grateful for how they’ve spent it together so far. Keywords: tempus fugit meaning, Latin phrase time flies, nostalgia, parenting seasons, Great Wolf Lodge trip, waterpark slides, lazy river, FlowRider boogie board, lifeguard safety, fear of heights, I Hate Talking podcast, 100th episode. Support the show --- Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of the content is medical advice or financial advice.  Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique.

    28 min
  2. MAR 19

    You're Never Done Mowing

    Send us Fan Mail  In episode 99 of I Hate Talking, the hosts gear up for a milestone and ask listeners to help them decide what to do for episode 100. Big “top 100” countdown ideas are quickly ruled out as too long, so they invite audience suggestions via comments, text, or email—and encourage listeners to share the show so friends can weigh in too. The word of the episode is “diss”, a slang term for disrespecting or criticizing someone. They explain that it likely comes from shortening “disrespect” or “dismiss,” and talk about how it functions as both a verb (“don’t diss me”) and a noun (“that was a diss”), reflecting on how 90s slang still slips into their conversations. Most of the episode then centers on suburban life and lawn care at their new home. After years of maintaining a large, hilly yard with a riding mower, they’ve downsized to a smaller lawn and invested in a battery‑powered push mower so their kids can help. They discuss neighborhood “lawn culture,” the social pressure of not having the worst yard on the block, and the scramble to get a mower delivered via one‑day shipping after noticing every neighbor had already mowed. Along the way, they compare gas vs. electric equipment, share stories about past neighbors who kindly mowed for them, laugh about jump scares and first impressions, and close with a favorite family quote: “You’re never done mowing.” Keywords: I Hate Talking podcast, episode 99, diss meaning, slang etymology, disrespect, suburban lawn care, battery-powered mower, riding mower, neighborhood norms, social pressure, Amazon one-day delivery, family chores, kids mowing, never done mowing, episode 100 ideas. Support the show --- Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of the content is medical advice or financial advice.  Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique.

    28 min
  3. MAR 12

    The IKEA Episode

    Send us Fan Mail  In episode 98 of I Hate Talking, the hosts  deliver the promised IKEA episode, starting with brief cameos from two young “guest experts” who offer earnest life advice about brushing your teeth and plug a YouTube channel before weighing in on a new dinosaur documentary.  The main segment’s word of the episode is “IKEA” itself, which they explain is an acronym formed from founder Ingvar Kamprad’s initials plus the names of his boyhood farm and village. They also touch on the “IKEA effect,” the idea that people value things more when they assemble them themselves, and compare how each of them feels about building furniture and trusting professionals to do it right. From there, the conversation turns into a detailed, often funny debrief of their first family trip to IKEA after a recent move. They compare expectations of cheap, amazing food with the reality of decent but unremarkable meatballs, surprisingly pricey menu items, and some standout low‑sugar fountain drinks. One host loves wandering the maze‑like showrooms and treating them like staged miniature homes; the other finds the forced path, the risk of triggering a Diderot‑style “upgrade everything” spiral, and the lack of a direct route to “just the table section” borderline nightmarish. They leave without a table but with hangers, a drawer organizer, a birthday present, and strong opinions about shopping styles, concluding that IKEA will probably never sponsor them—though Ollie’s or the LEGO Store just might. Keywords: IKEA episode, IKEA acronym, IKEA effect, assembling furniture, meatballs and food court, shopping styles, Diderot effect, family trip, I Hate Talking podcast. Support the show --- Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of the content is medical advice or financial advice.  Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique.

    36 min
  4. MAR 5

    Overcoming the Diderot Effect

    Send us Fan Mail  In episode 97 of I Hate Talking, the hosts introduce the Diderot effect, a behavioral economics concept named after French philosopher Denis Diderot. After Diderot received a luxurious new red robe, he suddenly viewed his other possessions as shabby and began replacing them in a costly spiral—a pattern many people recognize today when one “nice” purchase (a couch, outfit, or gadget) triggers a cascade of upgrades. The hosts connect this to their own recent experience of buying a new house and selectively replacing furniture, discussing how new items can make previously “nice” things look tired, and how decision fatigue and too many choices (the “paradox of choice”) complicate every purchase. They explore practical ways to resist this consumption spiral: adding a waiting period before buying, sticking to existing systems and aesthetics, calculating the full cost of follow‑on purchases, using a one‑in/one‑out rule, and deliberately ignoring targeted marketing. The conversation also touches on social media algorithms, “keeping up with the Joneses,” and aligning purchases with utility and long‑term contentment rather than image. They close by teasing the next episode—a debrief on their first family trip to IKEA—and reflecting on what really makes a home feel restful when you walk through the door. Keywords: Diderot effect, consumer psychology, minimalism, decision fatigue, paradox of choice, home furnishings, moving and redecorating, spending habits, I Hate Talking podcast. Support the show --- Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of the content is medical advice or financial advice.  Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique.

    28 min
  5. FEB 26

    We've Moved!

    Send us Fan Mail  In this episode of I Hate Talking, the hosts explore the word “somniferous,” meaning sleep‑inducing or soporific. They trace its Latin roots from “somnium” (dream) and explain how it’s used to describe drugs or experiences that bring on sleep, from strong sedatives to painfully dull lectures. The word surfaces via a Tool song lyric, and they joke about whether being called somniferous is an insult or a strange sort of compliment—especially for podcasters. The rest of the episode is a personal update on a major life change: the family’s out‑of‑state move. They describe the whirlwind timeline—unexpected job opportunity in November, in‑person interview and house hunt in December, new role starting in January, and the whole family arriving at their new home just a week before recording. One host moved to a house she’d never seen in a state she’d never visited (outside an airport), trusting her spouse’s judgment. Between unpacking boxes, adapting to a new time zone, and setting up a makeshift closet “studio,” they’ve already found bright spots: day trips to the beach, new memberships to the zoo, children’s museum, and trampoline park, plus plans for a big summer family reunion. They close by hoping the episode wasn’t too somniferous—unless listeners needed help falling asleep. Keywords: somniferous meaning, word origin, sleep‑inducing, Tool lyric, family move, cross‑state relocation, new home, beach proximity, kids’ activities, I Hate Talking podcast. Support the show --- Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of the content is medical advice or financial advice.  Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique.

    26 min
  6. FEB 19

    Sesquipedalian Farming

    Send us Fan Mail  In episode 95 of I Hate Talking, the hosts introduce the delightfully nerdy word “sesquipedalian”—a term that describes long, multi‑syllabic words or overly long‑winded speech. They trace its roots back to Latin, where it literally meant “a foot and a half long,” and joke about how perfectly self‑referential it is: a long, fancy word that means “long, fancy words.” The pair play with how it could be used both as a backhanded compliment and a gentle tease, and even touch on its brief popularity spike in recent years. They then wrap up their mini‑series of experience reviews with a favorite spot: a rustic working farm turned family play destination. The farm blends real agriculture—pumpkin patches, flower fields, crops, and animals—with a huge variety of hands‑on activities: barrel‑train rides behind a tractor, towering plastic and burlap‑sack slides, tire and tube climbs, an enormous jumping pillow, tricycle race tracks, corn mazes, splash pads, bubble stations, and a gem‑mining sluice that unexpectedly sparked their kids’ rock‑collecting obsession. A petting zoo and aviaries with birds and butterflies round out the experience. They note that it’s dusty, imperfect, and far from “bubble‑wrapped,” but argue that this kind of managed risk actually sharpens kids’ awareness and coordination. Both agree they’ll keep going back, and close by promising future episodes that are thoughtful—if not too sesquipedalian. Keywords: sesquipedalian meaning, word origin, long‑winded speech, family farm attraction, rustic play spaces, kids and risk, petting zoo, slides and splash pads, gem mining, I Hate Talking podcast. Support the show --- Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of the content is medical advice or financial advice.  Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique.

    23 min
  7. FEB 12

    The Etymology of Errors and Erroneous, and the Oktoberfest Experience

    Send us Fan Mail  In episode 92 of I Hate Talking, the hosts lean into a real‑life continuity error: the original recording for this episode was corrupted, so they had to re‑record it after already releasing episodes 93 and 94. They use that mishap to introduce the word “erroneous,” exploring its meaning as “wrong” or “incorrect,” and tracing its roots back to Latin ideas of “straying” and even “vagabond,” which gives the term a sense of wandering off the right path. They contrast “erroneous” with the more generic “wrong,” noting that it’s often used for factual or data‑driven mistakes rather than moral ones, and joke about how trust, AI, and even photos have become more “erroneous” in a world of deepfakes and heavy editing. The rest of the episode continues their travel‑review mini‑series with a warm, rainy‑day recap of a family trip to a U.S. Oktoberfest celebration. They describe German food that won the kids over—pretzels, bratwurst, schnitzel, real sauerkraut, and mustard—alongside live music, dancing in the rain, and yard games under tents. A shared mini‑keg of imported German beer sparks conversations with other festival‑goers, and the hosts reflect on parenting stages when they see another couple juggling a crying baby and later meet empty‑nesters who remind them how quickly kids grow up. They close by agreeing they’d gladly do Oktoberfest again—and that it made them even more eager to someday experience Germany itself as a family. Keywords: erroneous meaning, word origin, continuity error, trust and media, Oktoberfest review, German food, family travel, parenting seasons, I Hate Talking podcast. Support the show --- Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of the content is medical advice or financial advice.  Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique.

    25 min
  8. FEB 5

    The Continuity of Hershey's Chocolate World

    Send us Fan Mail  In episode 94 of I Hate Talking, the hosts center their discussion on the word “continuity.” They define it both as the unbroken, consistent existence of something over time and, more specifically, as the careful maintenance of consistent details in films and shows so that scenes flow smoothly. Using their own multiple false starts recording this episode as a jumping-off point, they joke about editing to preserve continuity, talk about how continuity errors (like moving props or reversed doorknobs) can pull viewers out of a story, and contrast one host’s obsession with detail against the other’s tendency to half‑watch TV while doing other things. The second half of the episode continues their travel‑review mini‑series with a visit to Hershey’s Chocolate World in Hershey, Pennsylvania. They describe it as a free, family‑friendly attraction next to Hershey Park, featuring a ride‑through simulation of the chocolate‑making process, iconic singing cows, and complimentary candy samples at the end. They reminisce about earlier years when full‑size bars were handed out, explain the add‑on experiences like making your own custom chocolate bar or seeing a 3D show, and rave about the unique chocolate flavors and hot chocolate available only on site. While you could easily spend more on extras and souvenirs, they recommend Chocolate World as a worthwhile 1–2 hour stop for anyone already in the area—and a sweet example of nostalgic continuity in their own lives. Keywords: continuity, continuity definition, film continuity, continuity errors, editing, Stranger Things doorknob, The Office mockumentary style, Hershey’s Chocolate World, Hershey Park, free chocolate ride, singing cows, custom candy bars, specialty Hershey flavors, family travel, I Hate Talking podcast. Support the show --- Any views expressed on this podcast are those solely of the hosts and is for entertainment purposes only. None of the content is medical advice or financial advice.  Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique.

    25 min
5
out of 5
4 Ratings

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A podcast about talking, including etymology, frustrating topics, current events, and other random subjects. Want to contact the hosts or have a suggestion for a future episode? Email us at ihatetalkingpodcast@gmail.com. Special thanks to Tim Wright aka CoLD SToRAGE for his permission to use the song Operatique.