The I Make a Difference podcast is an adventure that explores the journey you experience as your human self and the pathway back to your true self. A journey involving a disconnection from who you truly are, being conditioned in your thinking, behaviors, and processing, being emotionally impacted and controlled by your reactions, and the experience of a past that can be complex and multilayered in its hold on you. As well as diving into and strengthening your connection with all the powerful elements of your true self as you find your way back to the real you.
If you truly want to make a difference to yourself, it requires you to do the work to uncover and reconnect to the true you, for you to develop your awareness, ability to recognize what you are experiencing, face your truth, understand your processing, and to know how to work with all aspects of who you are not and who you are, so you can come back to you. The I Make a Difference Podcast is here to support you to achieve this. If you have a question, want to share your processing email firstname.lastname@example.org
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Episode 11: EMERGENT PROCESSING - Seeing "Why Is This Happening TO Me" Through Different Eyes
When you face experiences that trigger emotions, where you feel vulnerability, anguish, disappointment, and even pain, do you find yourself saying "why is this happening TO me?". Do you believe you are being punished and cannot make sense of why it is happening?
What if you could see these experiences as "why is this happening FOR me?". And see the experience through different eyes. What if, instead of seeing what you have lost you see what you can gain. Where you discover the meaning in the experience as a gift and an opportunity for your growth and evolvement.
Understand that you experience powerlessness when you feel and think "why is this happening to me?"
See that trying to make sense of what you are experiencing, comes from embracing what is occurring.
Come to understand and see that the experiences you have are an opportunity for you to grow and evolve.
Episode 10: Embracing The Opportunity To Unravel My Conditioning
I so so love how our processing unfolds when we are open to it and are committed to unraveling the aspects of our human self that are keeping us separated from our soul self, our true self, from expressing our potential, and from living a life of freedom of expression in who we truly are.
The moment I thought of doing this episode, my processing presented me with the first bit of conditioning for me to unravel, a thought and belief. Then memories of conditioning I have worked with during my life flooded my consciousness, supporting me to do a check if there was further unraveling to do.
The most significant opportunity for me to unravel conditioning was in the actual recording of the episode. My desire to get it right and perfect was thwarted every step of the process of recording, and when I finally realized what was going on, this was when I embraced the opportunity to yet again free myself of some restrictions I had placed on myself.
Your conditioning comes in so many different forms and is expressed in so many ways, and it keeps you safe, comfortable, predictab
Episode 9: The Creation Of My Personas
Your personas, the different you’s you show the world, came to life through the experience of other peoples’ non-acceptance of your soul self-expression and your natural human self-expression. Where in reaction to the non-acceptance, you changed how you expressed yourself, what you showed the world and how you presented yourself, to ensure that you fit in, belonged, were liked, were acceptable and so that you were safe and secure.
You did not create one persona, you have one for each layer that you put up as a result of the non-acceptance you experienced. The non-acceptance you received from other people, you took on board and treated aspects of yourself in the same way. And you went from natural expression to normal expression. You became the conditioned, persona, different versions yourself.
As your personas were created from non-acceptance, the key to their healing and release is your acceptance of them. Your personas have been important to your human experience, so value and love them.
Explore the process of how you created your persona’s
Understand the reasons for the creation of your persona’s
See the importance of valuing your persona’s
Understand that your acceptance of them is essential for the unraveling and healing of them.
Episode 8: Becoming My Emotional And Hurt Self
When you experienced the original situation that initiated your journey of becoming your conditioned self, you had emotions surface within you as a result of the non-acceptance of who you truly are. You expressed these emotions, to release them, but they were also not accepted and were rejected, and you became conditioned with what you do with your emotions. You suppressed them inside of you.
This was not just the creation of your conditioned self, it was also the creation of your emotional and hurt self. And your emotions would come to influence you, your choices, your relationships, and your life. Yet you can heal your emotions and unravel the conditioning of how you express them so that you can take back your ability to be the influencer of your human experience.
Explore when and how emotions first surfaced within you
Come to know the process you went through that resulted in you being impacted by your emotions
Understand that the emotions you experience now are emotions from the past
Explore how you became conditioned in the expression of your emotions
Be introduced to two key processes for you to familiarize yourself with, in your steps towards healing your emotions
Episode 7: EMERGENT PROCESSING - The Gifts Gained From Health Issues
This week’s podcast nearly did not happen, as I have had the flu all week. And what a gift that turned out to be in my processing.
I had an expectation I had to do this week’s podcast, and that I had to continue on with the next step in the journey, but hey when it is not meant to happen it does not happen. But what did happen, was the surfacing of a new addition to the podcast process – emergent processing. This is the first of many ‘Emergent Processing’ episodes I will be doing in amongst journeying the human experience with you.
What this means, is that I will at times do an emergent processing episode where I share with you what my processing has been during that day or week. And in this weeks episode, with having the flu, my focus was drawn to looking at all the times in my life (or the significant ones at least) when I have not been well. In doing so, I acknowledged I have previously viewed, explored, and dug deep into these situations many times before, but not from the perspective I was viewing them from this time. Out of this process, came new in
Episode 6: Becoming My Conditioned Self
Conditioning is where you change from being natural to being normal. You conform to what you learn from those around you, as to what is acceptable, not acceptable, what others expect of you, and what others say that you did that was wrong, that you were to blame for and responsible for.
Your conditioned self started to come to be, the moment your natural soul expression was not accepted. And each time you experienced the disconnection of energy and non-acceptance of who you are, you took on board the processing of the person or people, and you began to suppress aspects of yourself, including your natural soul expression. You began to protect yourself from judgement and hurt and you created layers. And each time you created a layer, you continued to become your conditioned self – your normal self, as opposed to your natural self – your true self.
Explore what conditioning is
Explore how you become your conditioned self
Know how your conditioning, results in you creating layers of protection and suppression around your soul self
I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are
Minz is a brilliant light
I’ve had the honor of knowing Minz for a couple years now. Somehow the universe re-connected our souls even though we are on opposite sides of the world. She has taught me so much and helped me pave my path to finding me. I was lost and stuck in this never ending cycle of being a people pleaser and never fully acceptive of the real me. The first time I worked through her program I was barely 5 minutes into it and I cried. I knew I had found what I needed; what my soul needed. Not only am I grateful for the beautiful friendship we have created, I am blessed to have had the opportunity to work on her program and the journey to heal myself. It’s a daily process to heal and continue to heal, but every day I tell myself “I make a difference” and for the first time in many years, I believe I do!! My friend, words cannot express the gratitude I have for you and all you share with the world. You have made a difference in my life! Thank you ♥️🙏🏼