I Think I Like You Clara Artschwager

Did you grow up learning to work hard, get good grades, get into the best school(s) possible, hit any academic and professional achievement that you could? I did. And I learned to love it.I learned to love, and thus value, hustle, hard work, striving, strain, stress. On the one hand, it's served me well in what I've accomplished. On the other hand — and I see this with women all the time — it's made me resistant to pleasure, enjoyment and rest in my life. In today's episode, I'm breaking down...

Private Coaching Spots are Open"Dating apps have brought the promise of the business-like crispness of falling in love." Sherry TurkleIf you know my work, you know I live for this line. It's shown up in my podcasts and online courses for years. Why? Because it so eloquently hits on the faulty promise we've attached to these tools, and the subsequent hardships we endure (largely the way we obsess and punish ourselves) because our dating life or relationship future isn't falling together i...

Private Coaching Spaces are OpenThis week I'm sitting down with Catherine Zack, a beloved friend of the podcast. She's been on numerous times before (I've linked those episodes below), and selfishly, these episodes always imbue me, personally, with a sense of relief and freedom. But I have a feeling it will do the same for you.For her 38th birthday, Catherine gave up ambition. No she hasn't stopped working. No, she hasn't tossed away all dreams for her yoga studio. No, she still has hop...

Private Coaching Spaces are Open In today's podcast I'm sharing what the first few months of my pregnancy have been like. My husband and I are so excited, and also, the first trimester was quite difficult for me. Per usual, I'm sharing all we experienced — the bliss and hardship, the highs and lows, the unexpected, and where I am now. Work with me PrivatelyConnect on InstagramWebsitePodcast Production by James Jorge

Spring/Summer private coaching spots are open!Available for folks single and seeking partnership, single and seeking space/work to go inward, and folks who are couple and struggling within their relationship.This week's episode:A few weeks back, I was driving through the parking lot of my former middle/high school, when my eyes happened upon a sign for the spring fling dance. I shuddered, flashing back to those lonely middle (and high school) days where upcoming dances brought on so much drea...

What happens when you just hit a hall? What does that 'wall' tend to look like for you? These are questions I'm contemplating and exploring in today's episode. Across the month of April I was gearing up to launch the Dating Sanity Capsule, a collection of potent lessons and videos designed to decrease the misery and anxiety we associate with online dating. I.was.pumped. I'd loved putting together the course, was so jazzed about the content — I couldn't wait to get it in the hands of followers...