IADGAF

Love Atiya
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  • Self-Improvement

Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy. This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional, too loud, too sexual, too sensitive, too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.) This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine what femininity looks like outside of the male gaze (eeeeyuck) and literally practice not giving a f*ck.  It’s time for us to step out of the cage the world built for you and walk barefoot into your own wildness.

  1. 05/03/2025

    How To Feel Less Shame About Self Pleasure

    Hey beautiful souls, HAPPPPY MASTURBATION MAY! Today’s intention is to help you feel a lot less shame about yourself, your body and your pleasure! I 10/10 recommend listening to this episode when you’re home because we’re gonna take a look (mirror work) and a hands on feel on our Polly Pockets, while falling in love with ourselves one touch at a time. Original Air Date: May 2nd 2025 Want access to my exclusive episodes, bonus episodes & all uncensored content? CLICK HERE TO JOIN MY PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Want more pleasure in your life? Become A Member Of The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis And Enjoy:  🌿 Educational articles & blogs 📝 Journal prompts to guide your reflections 🎧 Workshops you can listen to or watch at your own pace ✨ Step-by-step self-guided practices 🦋 Resources designed to help you feel more confident, connected, and comfortable in your own skin  ✨ Access to my Pleasure Shop where you can shop from my personal favorite toys and products! CLICK HERE TO BECOME A MEMBER OF THE OASIS: https://www.loveatiya.com/  Shop From My Full Collection Of Pleasure Products & Toys: https://www.loveatiya.com/shop  Let’s connect on social media my loves! Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

  2. 09/01/2025

    PATREON BONUS: Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY

    Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY “I was the loudest one clapping in the room, eventually I learned how to start clapping for myself” Question of the day: are we (humans) a little too sentient? or maybe we’re not sentient enough?! Idfk  If this patreon bonus left you wanting more you can check out all of my exclusive content by becoming a patron today! https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Want more pleasure in your life? Become A Member Of The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis And Enjoy:  🌿 Educational articles & blogs 📝 Journal prompts to guide your reflections 🎧 Workshops you can listen to or watch at your own pace ✨ Step-by-step self-guided practices 🦋 Resources designed to help you feel more confident, connected, and comfortable in your own skin  ✨ Access to my Pleasure Shop where you can shop from my personal favorite toys and products! CLICK HERE TO BECOME A MEMBER OF THE OASIS: https://www.loveatiya.com/  SHOP From My Full Collection Of Pleasure Products & Toys: https://www.loveatiya.com/shop  Let’s connect on social media my loves! Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

  3. 02/14/2025

    To My Love Bugs: More Bonus Content, Diary Entires & More

    Hey beautiful souls! Want access to my exclusive episodes, bonus episodes & all uncensored content? CLICK HERE TO JOIN MY PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Want more pleasure in your life? Become A Member Of The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis And Enjoy:  🌿 Educational articles & blogs 📝 Journal prompts to guide your reflections 🎧 Workshops you can listen to or watch at your own pace ✨ Step-by-step self-guided practices 🦋 Resources designed to help you feel more confident, connected, and comfortable in your own skin  ✨ Access to my Pleasure Shop where you can shop from my personal favorite toys and products! CLICK HERE TO BECOME A MEMBER OF THE OASIS: https://www.loveatiya.com/  SHOP From My Full Collection Of Pleasure Products & Toys: https://www.loveatiya.com/shop  Let’s connect on social media my loves! Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

  4. Aug 7

    85. Ranking Your Pleasure, My Orgasmic Shower & Reclaiming Our F*cking Time

    Hey beautiful souls! In today’s episode I’m chatting about:  Ways I’m revoking access from people  How I’m living more authentically  Why tf is everyone getting pregnant & how there are bigger fish to fry than giving birth right now  Saving the world >>>> baby showers  Why I hate Father’s Day  Atiya The Femdom?!?  How I need to make a list of all the sex educators who are A. Predatory or B. Don’t know wtf they’re talking about/doing  Me dominating = Better sex How I had the most orgasmic shower without touching my g******s  Embark in 5 weeks of pleasure with The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureoasis  Want exclusive content & access to bonus clips? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

  5. Jul 24

    84. Slow Pleasure & The Art Of Slowing Down

    Trigger warning: bodily fluids  Hey beautiful souls! In today’s episode we talk all about: My body forcing me to slow down Why I don’t want to be a billionaire anymore  Slowly exiting the rat race  Relaxing in rebellion  How I outgrew beyonce  Quiet spaces that bring me pleasure  Why I think parents are actually meant to trigger us  How people who need therapy love to sh*t on therapy  Why more people need to take a pause when they’re spiraling  Embark in 5 weeks of pleasure with The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureoasis  Want exclusive content & access to bonus clips? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

  6. Jul 10

    83. My Dating App Psychosis & How Social Media Is Skewing Our Concept Of Connection

    Hey beautiful souls! I’m back with yet another beautiful episode of IADGAF and today we’re outside with the birds & talking all about: How I’m grieving the society I thought we used to have (but maybe never did?) My dating app psychosis  Connecting & Adulting is strange af because how are we supposed to connect with each other after working a 9-5 and being exhausted?! How social media is ruining and skewing out concept of genuine connection  My want of being wanted but also not  The nameless dread that comes with developmental trauma  I would legit hire a professional cuddler (a wonderful suggestion from my best friend)  How the concept of life partners gives me the ick  Embark in 5 weeks of pleasure with The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureoasis  Want exclusive content & access to bonus clips? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

  7. Feb 13

    PATREON BONUS: So I Met Up With a Man IRL After a Year Of No Dating…

    HEY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! This episode was WAAAAAY too juicy for the main feed so I decided to upload it onto Patreon instead. Wanna hear the rest of the episode? Become a Butterfly (Patron) TODAY!  https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  This episode is all about: Soooooo many damn lessons My amazing ass flower, fruit, water, moldy soup analogy (somebody write this down for me please!) I need more “acknowledgers” in my world (be gone with non acknowledgement)  Having a transactional relationship with a parent and it’s impacts  Family can be the opps (learnt through pattern recognition)  That one time I lowkey thought my mom was tryna kill me (she literally was trying to HELP me lmao)  Learning how to differentiate when my ancestors send me signs (are they blessings, offering assistance or are they protecting me) The light skin spiders (no spider racism I promise)  Accidentally thinking a friendship was real (LMAO awkward af girl I thought we were friends 🤣)  But we’re all going through it  Why I’m not adding mf’s on social media anymore (para social relationships are a drag) The guy I met up with from hinge back in November How much I love my twin sister friend  “Minimadality” LMAO Wanna hear the rest? Head to my Patreon for the FULL episode 🫶🏾  https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Support the show

  8. 10/24/2025

    69. Decolonizing Pleasure Pt 2 | Gender & Sexuality Pre-Colonization

    Hey beautiful souls, HAPPY EPISODE 69! For Episode 69 I wanted to do something HUGE and this episode is probably THE most informative one yet. We’re talking about: Gender and sexuality before colonization How a spanish colonizer strapped a non binary person to a cannon in brazil because they thought they were dominic How the christian missionaries went into Amazonia and raided their communities teaching them about the “horrors” of same sex marriage How the language is being actively erased & How the indigenous original people of the earth are fighting to get it back… Enjoy! Article: https://www.e-ir.info/2019/08/20/indigenous-sexualities-resisting-conquest-and-translation/  Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/ Wanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.com YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

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Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy. This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional, too loud, too sexual, too sensitive, too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.) This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine what femininity looks like outside of the male gaze (eeeeyuck) and literally practice not giving a f*ck.  It’s time for us to step out of the cage the world built for you and walk barefoot into your own wildness.

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  • Creator
    Love Atiya
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2025
  • Episodes
    25
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 IADGAF
  • Show Website
    IADGAF