IADGAF

Love Atiya
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Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy. This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional, too loud, too sexual, too sensitive, too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.) This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine what femininity looks like outside of the male gaze (eeeeyuck) and literally practice not giving a f*ck.  It’s time for us to step out of the cage the world built for you and walk barefoot into your own wildness.

  1. 3D AGO

    PATREON BONUS: Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY

    Send us a text Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY “I was the loudest one clapping in the room, eventually I learned how to start clapping for myself” Question of the day: are we (humans) a little too sentient? or maybe we’re not sentient enough?! Idfk  If this patreon bonus left you wanting more you can check out all of my exclusive content by becoming a patron today! https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Te Amo! Support the show

    16 min

  2. JAN 30

    77. Friendship Archetypes and Feeling More Pleasure With Friends (Part 2)

    Send us a text Friendship archetypes and feeling more pleasure with friends (Part 2) Where is part one?: Part one can be found on my Patreon! Listen for FREE by becoming a patron today! https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Affirmation: “I accept myself” This episode is all about:  How I woke up to a scream from my higher self  Visualizing me and my mom being on tv together  The fleeting need for validation  Doing what I want to do instead of what I should do My back to back interactions with narcissists  How I call myself “Seal girl” cause I just be clapping or everyone  How I’m no longer being the audience for people  Shoutouts to my mom for putting me onto the friendship archetypes theory  My list of friendship types & different kinds of friendship archetypes  Doing wtf I want to do  My 47 day challenge  P.s. I promise I’m setting up my mic this week lol  Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy Wanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

    43 min

  3. JAN 9

    76. Solo Date Ideas & After Care Tips For Sexting

    Send us a text TRIGGER WARNING Hey beautiful souls, this episode of The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast includes discussion and mention of sexual assault. These conversations may be activating or emotionally challenging for some listeners. Please listen with care, honor your boundaries, and pause or step away at any time if needed. i love you. In this episode we talk all about:  Stories of Me and my 1st lesbian lover’s second go round & the time she fell asleep when we were sexting Why wasn’t I always horny? Tips for after care (even after sexting) The time my aunt joked about my sexual assault  What happens when I don’t listen to my gut  Doing what I want to do  Conscious sex and intentionality Solo date ideas and suggestions Support the show

    1h 10m

  4. JAN 2

    75. Should We Stop Trying To Connect With Men?

    Send us a text Heyyyyy beautiful souls! So happy to have you here. This episode is all about: Me flying in fake first class on JetBlue My failed attempts trying to connect with men How New York tried to steal my soul I just don’t have it to give to the men in my life anymore (a tough pill to swallow) Being naturally enthusiastic (perfect for energy vampires) Men are who they are (and they’re ok with that) Holding out hope for men (no) What do men even talk about? I don’t think I was ever meant to connect with men Making excuses for the men in my life I wanna stop wanting men to see or recognize my pain Are men narcissists by default? Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy Wanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

    35 min

  5. 12/26/2025

    74. We Are Not Normal Human Beings | Turning 31 and Giving Less F***s

    Send us a text Hey beautiful souls! Welcome to yet another dope ass episode where I talk all about: Not being a normal human Faux healers & energy leeches Having friends I’m excited to listen toCharging money to people I’m not excited to listen to My thoughts on reciprocity Listening to my friends talk about men & the dumb sh*t they do Turning 31 and giving less f***s Calling out abusive sh*t (to your friend who’s in a relationship with a horrid man)Why do I keep giving strangers my time (no more 4 hour meet ups/hang outs!!!!)+ My 3 simple core values  If I have to say no more than once it’s a problem!Is this bringing me pleasure or can it bring me pleasure in the future? Showing up honestly (reflecting on it & dealing with what comes in hopes I shed the dishonest people from around me)& so much more! Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy Wanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.com YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

    33 min

  6. 12/19/2025

    73. Confession: My Desires For Platonic Intimacy & A Companion?

    Send us a text Hey beautiful souls! In today's episode I'm talking all about: Platonic intimacy What if relationships aren’t all bad?Why I don’t need a roster (& taking the pressure off my roster search) Removing the moochers from my life before I could elevate and ascend& SO MUCH MORE Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy Wanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.com YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

    44 min

  7. 12/05/2025

    72. Misogyny in Queer Spaces & My Lesbian Updates

    Send us a text Hey beautiful souls! Todays episode is all about: Love island games  Men being unintentionally queer  How my ancestors have my back  Lesbianism vs queerness  My strange ass old friend  Having energy that can’t be penetrated  Are there other energies other than masculine and feminine? Why bi men are looked at as gay and bi women are looked at as straight (hint: it’s misogyny) The power of lesbian relationships   & MORE! Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy Wanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.com YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

    1h 3m

  8. 11/21/2025

    71. PATREON: He Said He Couldn’t Cuddle… Platonic Intimacy & Finding My People

    Send us a text Hey beautiful souls! I’m so excited for this wonderful Patreon episode that’s all about platonic intimacy! I was going to post it exclusively for my Patreons but I decided to post this as a preview into the type of bonus content you can enjoy on my Patreon! ❤️ In today’s episode I talk all about: Platonic touch & intimacy My amazing ass first Reiki session How it feels like everytime I go outside I’m energetically attacked (It’s a test, thank you ancestors) I only wanna meet people who are like my mom Why I’m excited to age now Platonic friendships and how to introduce them into our lives The time I got ghosted because I held a man’s hand My relationship with intimacy before the shame  How much I love and appreciate my mommy  Finding my people All the times I begged for love and intimacy  The time he said he couldn’t cuddle cause he gets hot  The difference between platonic intimacy and sexual intimacy  The difference between sensuality and sexuality Hanging out with my 13 year old self   If you loved what I talked about in this episode then I know you’ll love The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis! CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy Wanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.com YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

    1h 3m
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Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy. This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional, too loud, too sexual, too sensitive, too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.) This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine what femininity looks like outside of the male gaze (eeeeyuck) and literally practice not giving a f*ck.  It’s time for us to step out of the cage the world built for you and walk barefoot into your own wildness.

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  • Creator
    Love Atiya
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    63
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 IADGAF
  • Show Website
    IADGAF