IADGAF

Love Atiya
  • 4.7 (26)
  • SELF-IMPROVEMENT

Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy. This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional, too loud, too sexual, too sensitive, too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.) This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine what femininity looks like outside of the male gaze (eeeeyuck) and literally practice not giving a f*ck.  It’s time for us to step out of the cage the world built for you and walk barefoot into your own wildness.

  1. MAR 25

    79. How To Become Less Accessible Without Giving A F*ck

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome to season 4 of THE IADGAF podcast (formally known as The Love Atiya Experience & The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast) I am sooooooo excited for this newly revamped and rebranded version of my podcast. We made it to year 4 baby! This is a big F you to anyone who says I have a problem with commitment LOL  THIS EPISODE IS DEDICATED TO MY FUR DAUGHTER TAM WHO IS THE CATALYST IN TEACHING ME HOW TO SET BOUNDARIES & TAKE UP SPACE (AND ALSO HOW TO REMOVE MY ENERGY WHEN THE VIBES ARE OFF) Today mantra: I actually don’t care Topics we’re hitting in today’s episode are:  a welcome into season 4 seeking the good in people (and how that’s f*cking us up)  a storytime about how I thought I made a friend but now she’s lowkey blocked (featuring the actual voicenote I sent to her to end the connection)  how daughters feel like they have to protect their dads reputation  how to be less accessible  f*ck my ex and his waves  you have limited f***s use them wisely (the 5 f**k rule)  featuring: questions you can ask yourself when contemplating if your need to revoke or minimize your access to people  TAKEAWAY: people are going to feel a way, so the f*ck what?! Embark in 7 weeks of pleasure with The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureoasis  Want exclusive content & access to bonus clips? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

    1h 8m

  2. FEB 20

    78. IADGAF A PODCAST FOR PEOPLE WHO WANT TO GIVE LESS F*CKS

    Send us Fan Mail Hey! So my laptop started glitching while I was trying to fix the sound (peep my pristine intro with my NEW mic) anyways in honor of not giving a f**k i'm posting it as it because I refuse to let my glitching laptop stop me from releasing this LMAO so just turn it down when I start doing the breathing otherwise it may blow your eardrums out jk jk lmao enjoy babes  I can't wait for ya'll to enjoy my OFFICIAL first episode dropping in MARCH! Xoxo Support the show

    55 min

  3. FEB 13

    PATREON BONUS: So I Met Up With a Man IRL After a Year Of No Dating…

    Send us Fan Mail HEY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! This episode was WAAAAAY too juicy for the main feed so I decided to upload it onto Patreon instead. Wanna hear the rest of the episode? Become a Butterfly (Patron) TODAY!  https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  This episode is all about: Soooooo many damn lessons My amazing ass flower, fruit, water, moldy soup analogy (somebody write this down for me please!) I need more “acknowledgers” in my world (be gone with non acknowledgement)  Having a transactional relationship with a parent and it’s impacts  Family can be the opps (learnt through pattern recognition)  That one time I lowkey thought my mom was tryna kill me (she literally was trying to HELP me lmao)  Learning how to differentiate when my ancestors send me signs (are they blessings, offering assistance or are they protecting me) The light skin spiders (no spider racism I promise)  Accidentally thinking a friendship was real (LMAO awkward af girl I thought we were friends 🤣)  But we’re all going through it  Why I’m not adding mf’s on social media anymore (para social relationships are a drag) The guy I met up with from hinge back in November How much I love my twin sister friend  “Minimadality” LMAO Wanna hear the rest? Head to my Patreon for the FULL episode 🫶🏾  https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Support the show

    10 min

  4. FEB 6

    PATREON BONUS: Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY

    Send us Fan Mail Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY “I was the loudest one clapping in the room, eventually I learned how to start clapping for myself” Question of the day: are we (humans) a little too sentient? or maybe we’re not sentient enough?! Idfk  If this patreon bonus left you wanting more you can check out all of my exclusive content by becoming a patron today! https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Te Amo! Support the show

    16 min

  5. JAN 30

    77. Friendship Archetypes and Feeling More Pleasure With Friends (Part 2)

    Send us Fan Mail Friendship archetypes and feeling more pleasure with friends (Part 2) Where is part one?: Part one can be found on my Patreon! Listen for FREE by becoming a patron today! https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Affirmation: “I accept myself” This episode is all about:  How I woke up to a scream from my higher self  Visualizing me and my mom being on tv together  The fleeting need for validation  Doing what I want to do instead of what I should do My back to back interactions with narcissists  How I call myself “Seal girl” cause I just be clapping or everyone  How I’m no longer being the audience for people  Shoutouts to my mom for putting me onto the friendship archetypes theory  My list of friendship types & different kinds of friendship archetypes  Doing wtf I want to do  My 47 day challenge  P.s. I promise I’m setting up my mic this week lol  Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy Wanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

    43 min

  6. JAN 9

    76. Solo Date Ideas & After Care Tips For Sexting

    Send us Fan Mail TRIGGER WARNING Hey beautiful souls, this episode of The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast includes discussion and mention of sexual assault. These conversations may be activating or emotionally challenging for some listeners. Please listen with care, honor your boundaries, and pause or step away at any time if needed. i love you. In this episode we talk all about:  Stories of Me and my 1st lesbian lover’s second go round & the time she fell asleep when we were sexting Why wasn’t I always horny? Tips for after care (even after sexting) The time my aunt joked about my sexual assault  What happens when I don’t listen to my gut  Doing what I want to do  Conscious sex and intentionality Solo date ideas and suggestions Support the show

    1h 10m

  7. JAN 2

    75. Should We Stop Trying To Connect With Men?

    Send us Fan Mail Heyyyyy beautiful souls! So happy to have you here. This episode is all about: Me flying in fake first class on JetBlue My failed attempts trying to connect with men How New York tried to steal my soul I just don’t have it to give to the men in my life anymore (a tough pill to swallow) Being naturally enthusiastic (perfect for energy vampires) Men are who they are (and they’re ok with that) Holding out hope for men (no) What do men even talk about? I don’t think I was ever meant to connect with men Making excuses for the men in my life I wanna stop wanting men to see or recognize my pain Are men narcissists by default? Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy Wanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

    35 min

  8. 12/26/2025

    74. We Are Not Normal Human Beings | Turning 31 and Giving Less F***s

    Send us Fan Mail Hey beautiful souls! Welcome to yet another dope ass episode where I talk all about: Not being a normal human Faux healers & energy leeches Having friends I’m excited to listen toCharging money to people I’m not excited to listen to My thoughts on reciprocity Listening to my friends talk about men & the dumb sh*t they do Turning 31 and giving less f***s Calling out abusive sh*t (to your friend who’s in a relationship with a horrid man)Why do I keep giving strangers my time (no more 4 hour meet ups/hang outs!!!!)+ My 3 simple core values  If I have to say no more than once it’s a problem!Is this bringing me pleasure or can it bring me pleasure in the future? Showing up honestly (reflecting on it & dealing with what comes in hopes I shed the dishonest people from around me)& so much more! Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy Wanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience  Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/ Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya? Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.com YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos  Support the show

    33 min
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About

Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy. This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional, too loud, too sexual, too sensitive, too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.) This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine what femininity looks like outside of the male gaze (eeeeyuck) and literally practice not giving a f*ck.  It’s time for us to step out of the cage the world built for you and walk barefoot into your own wildness.

Information

  • Creator
    Love Atiya
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    66
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 IADGAF
  • Show Website
    IADGAF

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