No sitting on the sideline Dad

Joe Foley

Are you ready to join the fun and embark on a journey of discovery, self-improvement, and overcoming challenges in parenting and mental health? Look no further, because you've found the perfect place! We're all about keeping it real and discussing the important stuff here. No more sitting on the sidelines, it's time to jump in and learn from one another. So grab your headphones, and let's get started! Let's make a difference and have a blast while doing it.

  1. JAN 18

    Keeping Kids Safe Online Without Fear, Control, or Shame

    Guests: Derek Jackson and Jeff Gottfurcht, Co-Founders of CyberDive Episode Summary Every parent knows the feeling. Your kid has a phone. You know the internet never sleeps. And you are pretty sure the rules you grew up with no longer apply. In this episode, Joe sits down with two dads who came at the problem from opposite worlds and built a real solution together.   Derek Jackson, a former U.S. Army Intelligence Officer who tracked extremist activity online Jeff Gottfurcht, a finance professional whose life changed after learning about a tragic case of online exploitation   This is not a panic episode. It is not a tech lecture. It is a grounded, honest conversation about digital safety, trust, transparency, and parenting in a connected world.   What You'll Hear in This Episode Why banning phones and apps often backfires with kids How online bullying has changed now that kids can never "go home" from it The real dangers parents underestimate on social platforms Why shame-based parenting fails in digital spaces How algorithms shape behavior, tone, and identity in kids The difference between privacy and safety for children Why involvement beats restriction every time How transparency can actually improve parent-child conversations The true story behind online sextortion and why it matters What parents should look for before giving a child their first phone       A Key Takeaway for Parents Your child does not need fear. They do not need silence. They do not need you pretending the internet is not there. They need a connection. They need guidance. They need you involved early, not reacting late.   About the Aqua One Phone Joe and his guests discuss the Aqua One Phone by CyberDive, a device designed specifically for families that want visibility without constant confrontation.   Key features discussed include: Full-screen activity transparency for parents Instant Replay to review on-screen activity Built-in nudity prevention to stop sextortion before it starts No blind spots across apps, texts, or encrypted platforms Designed to encourage conversations instead of punishment       Resources & Links Learn more about CyberDive and the Aqua One Phone: https://cyberdive.co More episodes and resources: https://nosittingonthesideline.com       Why This Episode Matters This conversation goes beyond apps and settings. It is about how parents show up in a world their kids already live in. If you are raising a child today, this episode is not optional listening.

    36 min
  2. You Might Also Like: Raising Us: A Parenting Podcast

    JAN 18 · BONUS

    You Might Also Like: Raising Us: A Parenting Podcast

    Introducing Why Boredom Is Good for Kids | Lizzie Assa | A Kids Co. from Raising Us: A Parenting Podcast. Follow the show: Raising Us: A Parenting Podcast After the holiday season chaos, many families experience an annual reset into a slower winter, leading to occasional bouts of boredom. But what if boredom isn’t something to fix, but something to welcome? Mother of three, author, and founder of The Workspace for Children Lizzie Assa talks with Raising Us host Elise Hu about how to encourage raising confident, resilient kids through boredom and lulls. Lizzie shares how she dealt with her own kids’ boredom, and how being intentional with our time and energy as parents can help our kids thrive. Hear practical tips for reframing and responding to your kids and their boredom. Key Takeaways Incorporate opportunities for play into your everyday spaces, rather than specific places. Intentionally create time for your child to experience boredom and play. Reframe boredom as an intentional time for rest, as opposed to a parenting failure. Notice the difference between a child being bored, disengaged, and overstimulated. Allow your child to be the expert in their play by letting them guide you as an extra in play, rather than a co-producer and entertainer.   ⏱️ Timestamps: Keep the conversation going at home with our FREE Conversation Kit companion guide: https://delivery.shopifyapps.com/-/ac4f2a39d5f521cb/e522db2362acf07e Follow Lizzie Assa on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theworkspaceforchildren New episodes every Tuesday: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AKidsCo Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/raising-us-a-parenting-podcast/id1552286967 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2bIRVxM8hbriNxydkSv6VG Or wherever you get your podcasts. 🔗 START HERE 📌 Get free weekly conversation kits: https://akidsco.com/pages/raising-us 📌 Browse A Kids Co. books that pair with episodes: https://akidsco.com 📌 Follow Elise Hu: https://www.instagram.com/elisewho ABOUT THE SHOW Raising Us | Parenting Podcast for Kids, Tweens, & Conscious Caregivers Award-winning journalist Elise Hu (TED Talks Daily, Forever35) hosts Raising Us, a parenting podcast for grownups raising Big-Question Kids. From puberty and identity to tech and body image, each episode gives you tools to spark real conversations with the kids in your life. Created by A Kids Co. (a family media company) the show blends expert-backed insights with real, lived experiences featuring trusted doctors, educators and purpose-driven public figures sharing age-appropriate advice so you don't have to wing the hard stuff. Follow on: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AKidsCo Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/raising-us-a-parenting-podcast/id1552286967 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2bIRVxM8hbriNxydkSv6VG Or wherever you get your podcasts. If you like parenting podcasts like Good Inside with Dr. Becky, The Longest Shortest Time, Raising Good Humans or Ask Lisa, this podcast is for you. Topics Covered on Raising Us: Parenting kids and tweens Mental health for kids Talking to kids about racism, identity, and inclusion Screen time and social media Puberty, anxiety, and big feelings Building emotional intelligence in families Conscious and values-driven parenting Elise Hu parenting podcast A Kids Co. podcast series Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising. DISCLAIMER: Please note, this is an independent podcast episode not affiliated with, endorsed by, or produced in conjunction with the host podcast feed or any of its media entities. The views and opinions expressed in this episode are solely those of the creators and guests. For any concerns, please reach out to team@podroll.fm.

  3. Why You Feel Everything: Understanding Highly Sensitive People with Todd Smith

    11/16/2025

    Why You Feel Everything: Understanding Highly Sensitive People with Todd Smith

    Some people feel the world in a deeper way. You might walk into a room and notice tension right away. You might catch a shift in someone's voice before they even admit something is wrong. You might replay moments for days because your mind doesn't let them go.   If this sounds familiar, this episode will help you make sense of it.   I sat down with Todd Smith, host of the podcast Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People. Todd has spent years helping people understand why sensitivity isn't weakness. It's a real trait that shows up in about 15 to 20 percent of the population.     What We Talked About     What it really means to be a compassionate person. Todd explains the DOES model, which breaks sensitivity into four parts: depth of processing, overwhelm, emotion, and sensitivity to subtle cues.   Why stress hits deeper for some people. We explore how stress can turn small problems into significant reactions and how sensitivity increases when life gets loud.   How Byron Katie's Work Can Calm Your Mind. Todd walks through a simple method that helps you question stressful thoughts and see situations with more clarity.   Parenting and sensitivity. We talk about what it's like raising a child when you already feel a lot, and how to stay steady when your kid isn't giving you much to work with.   Caregiving and family stress. Todd shares his experience caring for a family member with dementia and how sensitivity plays a role in the pressure, the frustration, and the emotional weight.   Why boundaries matter. We discuss why it's so hard for sensitive people to say no, and how to protect your energy without guilt.     Who Does This Episode Help     This episode is for you if you:   Feel drained by crowds or noise Pick up on other people's moods fast Replay conversations for days Struggle with conflict Need more quiet than the people around you Want tools to lower stress and shift your reactions       About Todd Smith     Todd Smith is a coach who helps highly sensitive people manage stress and understand their wiring. He is the creator of True Inner Freedom and the host of the podcast Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People.   Learn more about Todd Smith: Website: trueinnerfreedom.com Podcast: Search "Stress Management for Highly Sensitive People" on your favorite podcast app     Show Notes and Links You can find everything mentioned in this episode at: nosittingonthesideline.com/170

    39 min
  4. Uncomplicating Wellness: Why Willpower Is a Myth & What Your Body Is Really Telling You (with Jen Trepeck)

    11/09/2025

    Uncomplicating Wellness: Why Willpower Is a Myth & What Your Body Is Really Telling You (with Jen Trepeck)

    Feeling overwhelmed by conflicting health advice? You're not alone. Only 12% of Americans are metabolically healthy, and the wellness industry is designed to keep you confused. In this episode, health coach and author Jen Trepeck breaks down why the "eat less, move more" approach fails, what your body is actually trying to tell you, and how to cut through the noise to reclaim your health. You'll discover why willpower isn't the problem, what GLP-1 medications really do, and the six fundamentals that matter more than any supplement or biohack. If you're tired of feeling like you're failing at health, this conversation will change how you think about wellness. What You'll Learn: Why willpower is a finite resource (and not the problem you think it is) The truth about GLP-1 medications. How genetics and epigenetics really work (your genes aren't your destiny) The Bio Stack: 6 fundamentals that matter more than any supplement Why sleep is the ultimate biohack for weight loss and stress management What your body's signals (cravings, fatigue, hunger) are really telling you The connection between stress, cortisol, and metabolic health How the food system is designed to keep you confused Why "four hugs a day" might save your life Key Timestamps: [00:00] Intro: Welcome to the show [02:00] Defining wellness: WTF is wellness anyway? [03:00] The business of health and wellness [05:00] Jen's personal health journey and weight struggles [06:00] Becoming a health coach [07:00] The role of genetics and epigenetics [11:00] Is the wellness system broken? [13:00] The food system: Why healthy food costs more [17:00] The truth about supplements [20:00] GLP-1 medications: What you need to know [27:00] The willpower myth explained [30:00] Sleep and blue light exposure [34:00] Biohacking vs. Bio Stacking [37:00] Why sleep is the ultimate biohack [42:00] The importance of connection and community [47:00] Supplements, sex, and poop: What your body is telling you [52:00] Stress and cortisol: Living in fight-or-flight mode [55:00] Final thoughts and where to find Jen Guest Bio: Jen Trepeck is a health coach, speaker, and the author of Uncomplicating Wellness: Ditch the Rules, Quiet the Noise, Reclaim Your Life. She's also the host of the podcast Salad with a Side of Fries, where she helps people make sense of health and nutrition without the overwhelm. Jen specializes in metabolic health, cardiovascular health, and helping overwhelmed people understand what their bodies are actually trying to tell them. She's been coaching clients since 2007 and has worked with thousands of people to improve their health through nutrition and lifestyle changes. Connect with Jen: Website: saladwithasideoffries.com Podcast: Salad with a Side of Fries (available on all platforms) Book: Uncomplicating Wellness (available on Amazon and wherever books are sold) Resources Mentioned: 📚 Book: Uncomplicating Wellness by Jen Trepeck 💻 Tool Mentioned: Flux (blue light filter for computers) Key Takeaways: The Bio Stack (6 Fundamentals for Health): Nutrition Movement Hydration Sleep Stress Management Connection Master these before worrying about supplements or biohacks. The Willpower Truth: Willpower is a finite resource that depletes throughout the day. Every decision you make—from what to wear to work stress—drains it. Low blood sugar, especially in the tank, will sap willpower, which is why "eat less, move more" backfires. Sleep Strategy: Start with a consistent wake-up time (same alarm every day). Your bedtime will naturally fall into place. Aim to sleep during the 11 pm-3 am window for optimal deep sleep and restoration. Connection Matters: Four hugs a day for survival. Eight for maintenance. Twelve for growth. Connection and purpose are as important as diet for longevity. Action Steps: Pick ONE thing from the Bio Stack to focus on for 30 days Set your alarm for the same time every morning Give (or get) four intentional hugs today Check your supplement labels and dosages Pay attention to what your body is telling you (energy, cravings, sleep quality) About No Sitting on the Sideline Dad: No Sitting on the Sideline Dad is a podcast for people who refuse to sit on the sidelines of their own lives. Hosted by Joe Foley, the show explores self-improvement, purpose, fatherhood, and everyday growth through authentic conversations with experts and real people doing real work. New episodes drop every week. Connect with Joe: Website: www.nosittingonthesideline.com Instagram: @nisittingonthesideline.com_dad_pod Email: joe@nosiitingonthesideline.com Subscribe & Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please: ✓ Subscribe so you never miss an episode ✓ Leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts ✓ Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it Your reviews help more people discover the show! Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. Nothing discussed in this episode constitutes medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Joe Foley is not a medical professional. Guest expert opinions are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of this podcast or its host. Always consult with a qualified healthcare provider before making any changes to your diet, exercise routine, medications, or health regimen, especially if you have chronic conditions, are taking medications, or are pregnant or nursing.

    57 min
  5. 11/01/2025

    Living Large and Slowing Down with Barbara Stone

    What can we learn about presence, gratitude, and courage from our dogs? In this heartfelt episode, Joe sits down with Barbara Stone, a leadership coach, author, and TEDx speaker, to discuss her book, So Much to Drool About: Dog-Inspired Wisdom for Living Large. Barbara shares how her Great Danes taught her to slow down, live with curiosity, and embrace life with full presence. Together, they explore topics like: How dogs model authenticity and emotional awareness The importance of play and curiosity as adults Why gratitude changes how we experience the world Leadership lessons from both corporate life and canine companionship The power of time, relationships, and learning to "live large" Barbara also opens up about her journey from corporate executive to coach, the courage it took to deliver her TEDx Talk Perfection Is Overrated, and how she helps others rediscover joy and purpose through self-compassion and curiosity. If you've ever looked at your dog and thought, "They seem to have it all figured out," this conversation will hit home. Guest Links: Website: barbstone.me Book: So Much to Drool About: Dog-Inspired Wisdom for Living Large TEDx Talk: Perfection Is Overrated Episode Highlights: (00:03:00) The wisdom behind So Much to Drool About (00:06:00) Lessons from Great Danes: presence and confidence (00:10:00) The gift of time and slowing down (00:17:00) Barbara's journey from corporate to coaching (00:20:00) What Great Danes teach about simplicity and choice (00:24:00) Curiosity as a superpower in leadership and life (00:26:00) Relationships and the metaphor of the "bus of life" (00:30:00) How courage led to her TEDx Talk (00:39:00) Leadership lessons at home and in the workplace (00:40:00) One mindset shift to reconnect and find peace Connect with Joe: Website: nosittingonthesideline.com YouTube: @nosittingonthesideline Tags: fatherhood, leadership, parenting, gratitude, presence, coaching, Great Danes, resilience, emotional intelligence, personal growth, curiosity, TEDx, life lessons, dogs, mindfulness, slowing down, corporate burnout, positive psychology, relationships, time, purpose, awareness, No Sitting on the Sideline

    38 min
  6. 09/20/2025

    How Dr. Kenneth Cooper Helped NASA Astronauts and World Cup Champions Stay Fit

    At 94 years old, Dr. Kenneth Cooper is still proving that health isn't about adding years—it's about adding good years. Known worldwide as the "Father of Aerobics," Dr. Kenneth H. Cooper changed how people think about exercise, prevention, and longevity. In this episode, he shares how decades of research show that regular movement can add a full decade of quality life—and why no drug can match the power of an active lifestyle. What You'll Learn in This Episode The groundbreaking story behind Dr. Cooper's 1968 book Aerobics and how it launched a global fitness revolution How his research with NASA astronauts and world-class athletes revealed that exercise is true preventive medicine Practical steps for growing healthier as you grow older, including his eight key lifestyle habits The surprising link between fitness and preventing dementia, heart disease, and even certain cancers Why your health is ultimately your responsibility—and how small daily choices can transform your future Dr. Cooper's life is living proof that it's never too late to build strength, protect your brain, and enjoy more vibrant years. His advice is simple, science-backed, and immediately actionable. Listen now and discover how to take charge of your health and rewrite the way you age. 📚 Resources & Links Full show notes and resources: nosittingonthesideline.com/167 Dr. Kenneth Cooper's latest book, Grow Healthier as You Grow Older, is available on Amazon Take a walk, press play, and get inspired to move toward a longer, healthier life.

    37 min
  7. 08/27/2025

    From Prison to Possibility: Why Words Matter

    What if the key to second chances was as simple—and as powerful—as learning how to communicate better? In this episode, Joe sits down with Dr. Kim Nugent, leadership coach, author of From Prison to Possibility, and mentor to incarcerated men and women. Together, they explore how the words we use can build bridges, rebuild trust, and even change the course of someone's life.   From prison mentorship programs to everyday parenting conversations, Dr. Nugent shares practical strategies for listening deeply, asking better questions, and choosing words that invite connection instead of conflict. You'll learn how small shifts—like replacing "why" with "what" or "how"—can completely transform a conversation.   What You'll Learn in This Episode:   Why communication is the foundation for healthy relationships. How mentorship inside prisons reduces recidivism and builds respect. The surprising power of emotional intelligence and listening. Words to avoid (and what to use instead) when speaking to kids or coworkers. Real-life stories of reconciliation, forgiveness, and second chances.     Guest Links:   Dr. Kim Nugent's book From Prison to Possibility: Find on Amazon Learn more at Dr. Nugent's website: drnugentspeaks.com     Connect with Joe:   Website: No Sitting on the Sideline YouTube: @nosittingonthesidelline     Subscribe & Review: If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe on Apple Podcasts and leave a review. It helps other listeners discover the show and join the conversation.

    34 min
4.8
out of 5
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Are you ready to join the fun and embark on a journey of discovery, self-improvement, and overcoming challenges in parenting and mental health? Look no further, because you've found the perfect place! We're all about keeping it real and discussing the important stuff here. No more sitting on the sidelines, it's time to jump in and learn from one another. So grab your headphones, and let's get started! Let's make a difference and have a blast while doing it.