The Divorce Devil Podcast

David M Webb
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WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery. If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions! Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!   Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

  1. Divorce Resolutions Part 2 After 40: Screw Perfection, Try Progreess || DD#247 || David and Rachel

    1D AGO

    Divorce Resolutions Part 2 After 40: Screw Perfection, Try Progreess || DD#247 || David and Rachel

    Are you navigating divorce after 40 and ready to make 2026 your year of growth and healing? 💪 Join hosts David and Rachel on the Divorce Devil Podcast as we dive into part two of our Divorce Recovery Resolutions series! Whether you’re newly single, co-parenting, or supporting friends through their journey, this episode is packed with raw, relatable stories and actionable tips to help you move forward with confidence. In this episode, we get real about: Setting rock-solid boundaries (no more apologizing!) Filling your “love bucket” and prioritizing self-care 🪣❤️ Letting go of guilt and chaos—yours and everyone else’s The art of saying “no” (and meaning it!) Why knowing your finances is a must 📊 Parenting after divorce without losing yourself How to stop letting divorce define you and embrace your next chapter Plus, we share hilarious breakup lines, shout out our amazing community (special love to Jerry & Jack!), and reveal why it’s okay to choose peace over drama. If you’re tired of shrinking yourself, this is your permission slip to shine in 2026! ✨ 🔥 Ready to take your power back? Smash that LIKE button, SUBSCRIBE for more real talk, and COMMENT below: What's your #1 divorce recovery resolution for this year? Let's support each other—your story could help someone else! 👇 Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    32 min
  2. Divorce Resolutions After 40: Screw Perfection, Try Progress! 💥 DD#246 || David and Rachel

    JAN 10

    Divorce Resolutions After 40: Screw Perfection, Try Progress! 💥 DD#246 || David and Rachel

    Welcome back to the Divorce Devil Podcast! 😈 Join David and Rachel for Episode 246 as we kick off the new year with a bang (and maybe a few questionable resolutions)! If you’re over 40 and navigating the wild ride of divorce recovery, this episode is your permission slip to stop explaining yourself and start living for YOU. We’re talking real, relatable New Year’s resolutions for divorcees—none of that “just move on” crap. From ditching guilt and setting boundaries, to embracing your glow-up (yes, even if you’re still in sweatpants), we share our personal stories, fails, and epic wins. We’re keeping it raw, funny, and 100% judgment-free—because healing is messy, and sometimes you just need to laugh at yourself (and maybe at your ex’s new haircut). We dive into the importance of putting yourself first (it’s not selfish, it’s survival), why it’s okay to delete toxic people from your life, and how to own your new beginning—awkward moments, dating fails, and all. Plus, we get real about support systems, family drama, and why sometimes you just gotta say “f**k it” and rewrite your own rules. Have your own hilarious or hard-won divorce resolution? Drop it in the comments! We love hearing your stories—good, bad, and ugly. Don’t forget to subscribe for more real talk and big laughs on your divorce recovery journey! 👇💬 Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    32 min
  3. How Did You Survive the Holiday Season and What Did You Learn About Yourself? || Divorce Devil Podcast #245 || David and Rachel

    JAN 4

    How Did You Survive the Holiday Season and What Did You Learn About Yourself? || Divorce Devil Podcast #245 || David and Rachel

    Welcome to Divorce Devil Podcast Ep. 245! 🎙️ It’s the first show of 2026, and David & Rachel are back (even on a holiday!) to bring honesty, humor, and hope to those navigating life after divorce—especially if you’re over 40.  First, let’s congrats to Rachel on her new status! This episode dives deep into the realities of post-divorce holidays: from managing blended families and juggling complicated schedules, to finding new traditions and giving yourself grace. Rachel shares her engagement news (yes, there’s hope for love after divorce! 💍), and both hosts open up about the challenges—and unexpected joys—of holidays with adult kids, teens, and bonus family members. We talk about handling family drama, co-parenting chaos, emotional triggers, setting boundaries, and the importance of self-care (plus, a hilarious story about red wine on white carpet 🍷😅). Whether you did the bare minimum or tried to make everything perfect, remember: you survived, and that’s enough! If you’re feeling overwhelmed, lonely, or just trying to make sense of your “new normal,” this episode is for you. We’re here to uplift, inspire, and remind you that you’re not alone. 👉 How did YOU handle the holidays this year? Share your story or best tip in the comments below! Let’s support each other on this journey. ❤️ Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more real talk on thriving after divorce. Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    31 min
  4. Divorce Festivus: The Ultimate Grievance Party for Over 40s! 🍷🙌Divorce Devil Podcast #244 || David and Rachel

    12/24/2025

    Divorce Festivus: The Ultimate Grievance Party for Over 40s! 🍷🙌Divorce Devil Podcast #244 || David and Rachel

    🎉 Welcome to the Divorce Devil Podcast with David & Rachel! It’s time for our annual Divorce-ivus episode—a holiday spin on Festivus, where we air our biggest post-divorce grievances. Whether you’re newly single or years out, this one’s for everyone navigating the holidays after 40 and finding themselves wishing for more peace (and maybe less drama). From using kids as emotional pawns, to custody chaos, friend betrayals, awkward family events, and even “bad sex after divorce” (yep, we go there!)—no topic is off-limits. We talk about the real struggles, the hilarious fails, and the “WTF” moments that come with divorced holidays. Expect laughter, honesty, and practical tips for surviving (and thriving) during the toughest season. 💡 What’s in this episode? How to air your own grievances (and why it helps!) Setting boundaries with exes, family, and even friends Not letting nostalgia or “one-uppers” ruin your joy Creative ways to celebrate when you don’t have your kids Owning your story and moving forward with humor You’re not alone—and you’re not crazy. We’ve been there, and we’re here to help you find your light and maybe even laugh at the chaos. 👉 What’s YOUR biggest post-divorce holiday grievance? Drop it in the comments! Have ideas for future episodes, or just want to vent? We’re all ears. Like, subscribe, and join our community of badass survivors! #DivorceDevilPodcast #DivorceRecovery #DivorceOver40 #Divorceivus Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    38 min
  5. Tired of Perfect Divorce Christmas Pressure? Divorce Recovery Holiday Survival Guide 🌟 || Divorce Devil Podcast #243 || David and Rachel

    12/12/2025

    Tired of Perfect Divorce Christmas Pressure? Divorce Recovery Holiday Survival Guide 🌟 || Divorce Devil Podcast #243 || David and Rachel

    The holidays after divorce can feel like a tidal wave of stress, loneliness, and unrealistic expectations—especially if you’re over 40 and facing your first Christmas solo. In this episode of Divorce Devil Podcast, hosts David and Rachel get raw and real about the myth of the “perfect” holiday after divorce. 🎄 We’ll share personal stories of holiday fails, unexpected joys, and how we ditched the pressure to create Hallmark moments. From dealing with missing traditions to navigating awkward family questions, we break down why “good enough” is the new gold standard for divorced parents. ✨ You’ll discover: How to lower expectations and create your own holiday happiness Tips for surviving without your kids (and why it’s okay to enjoy the peace!) Realistic ways to set boundaries with family & co-parents Fun solo traditions and self-gifting ideas Why your glow-up is coming—even if it’s messy in the middle No matter how your holiday looks this year, you’re not alone! Grab your cinnamon rolls (or Twinkies 😜), pour some wine, and let’s celebrate real, imperfect holidays together. 👇 How do YOU handle the holidays after divorce? Drop your favorite survival tip or share your story in the comments—we’d love to hear from you and support each other! ❤️ Supercharge your Divorce Recovery this Holiday Season! -https://bit.ly/4iQNpfs Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    40 min
  6. Real Advice for Divorced Parents: The Kid Talk No One Prepares You For 🗣️ || DD#242 || David and Rachel

    12/09/2025

    Real Advice for Divorced Parents: The Kid Talk No One Prepares You For 🗣️ || DD#242 || David and Rachel

    🎙️ Welcome back to the Divorce Devil Podcast! I’m David, joined by my awesome cohost Rachel, and in this episode we dive into one of the toughest parts of divorce: telling your kids the news—especially around the holidays. Whether you’re facing a high-conflict split or just trying to keep the peace, this raw episode is packed with real stories and practical advice for parents over 40 navigating divorce recovery. We talk honestly about: The emotional chaos of breaking the news to kids at different ages 👧👦 Managing your own grief while supporting your children through theirs Why there’s no “one-size-fits-all” script—and why that’s okay Tips for co-parenting during the holidays (and why new traditions matter) 🎄 How to avoid common pitfalls like blaming, oversharing, or making kids pick sides 🚫 The importance of boundaries, self-care, and getting outside help when needed If you’re worried about messing up, feeling overwhelmed by guilt, or just want some reassurance that you’re not alone—this episode is for you. We’ve been through the “shitshow” and come out the other side, and we’re here to help you do the same. 👉 What’s the hardest conversation you’ve had with your kids during divorce? Drop a comment below and share your story or advice—let’s support each other! 👇 If you found this helpful, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more real talk on thriving after divorce. #DivorceRecovery #DivorceDevilPodcast #DivorceOver40 #Parenting #Holidays #BlendedFamily Supercharge your Divorce Recovery this Holiday Season! -https://bit.ly/4iQNpfs\ Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    42 min
  7. How to Avoid a Holiday Meltdown After Divorce 😅🦃 || Divorce Devil Podcast #241 || David and Rachel

    11/26/2025

    How to Avoid a Holiday Meltdown After Divorce 😅🦃 || Divorce Devil Podcast #241 || David and Rachel

    Welcome back to the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast!  David and Rachel are diving into a wild, honest, and sometimes hilarious conversation about surviving the holidays after divorce—especially for people over 40. If you’re feeling lost, lonely, or just a little bit crazy as Thanksgiving and Christmas approach, you’re not alone. 🎄🦃 In this episode, Rachel and David pull no punches. They talk about: Why the holidays can hit harder after divorce (especially that first year) The importance of saying “NO” (and why it’s actually a complete sentence! 🛑) How to avoid spiraling into old habits like drinking, overeating, or endless guilt trips Real stories from our own messy, imperfect holiday seasons post-divorce What to do when your kids blame you for “ruining” Christmas (been there, felt that) Setting boundaries with your ex, your in-laws, and even your own kids The magic of reaching out for help—even if it’s just to your favorite barista for a sticker ☕✨ ✨ Divorce is tough. Holidays can make everything feel 10x heavier. But you don’t have to do it alone, and you don’t need to fake being “fine” if you’re not. They get real about depression, loneliness, and the pressure to keep it all together. We also bring the laughs—because sometimes, you’ve got to laugh so you don’t cry! 😂 People over 40, this is your tribe. Whether your ex is acting like a turkey or you’re just trying to keep your sanity (and your kids) intact, we’ve been there. Need a reminder that you’re not crazy for feeling overwhelmed? Hit play and join our conversation. Remember: It’s OK to ask for help (call 988 if you need someone right now) You’re allowed to set boundaries—even if people don’t like it The holidays are just days—your worth isn’t measured in gifts or perfect family dinners You can find peace, even in the chaos And yes, “NO” is a full sentence! 👉 If this episode helped you, drop a comment below: What’s your biggest struggle during the holidays after divorce? Do you have a funny, awkward, or inspiring story to share? What advice would you give to other men in the same boat? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share so we can help more men thrive—not just survive—after divorce. There’s a light at the end of the tunnel, and we’re walking it together. We see you, we hear you, and we’re rooting for you. Thanks for watching! Take care of yourself and each other. Supercharge your Divorce Recovery this Holiday Season! -https://bit.ly/4iQNpfs\ Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

    29 min
  8. Divorce Burnout is Real! 😤 How to Cope, Heal, and Reclaim Your Life Over 40 || DD #240 || David and Rachel

    11/16/2025

    Divorce Burnout is Real! 😤 How to Cope, Heal, and Reclaim Your Life Over 40 || DD #240 || David and Rachel

    Are you feeling totally burned out from your divorce? 😫 You’re not alone! In this episode of the Divorce Devil Podcast, David and Rachel get brutally real about “divorce burnout” – that overwhelming exhaustion, frustration, and “I can’t do this anymore!” feeling that hits so many people, especially over 40. We dive into: Why divorce burnout is more than just stress (it’s an identity crisis, financial fatigue, and ALL the decision overwhelm) How to spot the signs you’re truly burned out (hint: snapping at friends, losing your sense of humor, or just wanting to disappear until Thanksgiving 🦃) Honest stories from our own journeys: Rachel’s COVID divorce, David’s burnout moments, and the realities no one warns you about Practical, SIMPLE steps to start healing – from celebrating small wins (yes, even showering counts! 🚿) to asking for help, setting boundaries, and finding moments of peace (or cookies 🍪) The real talk on losing old friends, dealing with kids’ feelings, and why your timeline for moving on is YOURS alone If you’re tired of advice that doesn’t get it, or just need a laugh while you rebuild your life, this episode is for YOU. 💬 Tell us below: What’s the hardest part of divorce burnout for you? Or what’s ONE small win you’ve had lately? Drop a comment – we want to hear from you and support your journey! Don’t forget to like 👍, subscribe, and share with someone who needs real talk and hope after divorce! Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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WE ANSWER THE HOW, WHEN AND HOW! HOW DO YOU PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND/OR MENTALLY RECOVER FROM DIVORCE? DO YOU WAIT UNTIL THE DIVORCE PROCESS IS OVER THEN DO YOU START TO HEAL? WE SAY NO! DIVORCE RECOVERY CAN START IN ALL PHASES OF YOUR DIVORCE - EVEN IN THE PRE-PHASE! THIS IS A PODCAST ABOUT REAL PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT REAL DIVORCE RECOVERY NO MATTER WHAT PHASE YOU ARE IN - HEALING AND MOVING ON TO YOUR NEW REALITY!! If you need to make an informed decision about your divorce recovery and need some type of direction - then this podcast is for you. We do not advocate being professionals but our various life experiences do count for something. After experiencing the shitstorm of recovery, we consider ourselves divorce recovery mentors or facilitators in our efforts to help others. Divorce Devil Podcast is a podcast of an exchange of ideas, experiences, and/or opinions from people who have already walked the journey of divorce. David, being divorced for over 10 years and Rachel being divorced for a few, bring their real-life ying/yang experiences to the show while they debate the in’s and out’s of pre, during, and post-divorce and their association with divorce recovery. If you need a little bit of joy with your pain, then laugh with us as we explain our journeys and takeaways. Being not your typical divorce recovery podcast - we get into some pretty wild and crazy discussions! Listen to some of the discussions and see what may pertain to you, a loved one, or a friend in their struggles. Maybe we can provide a positive spin on a negative experience for you or someone you know. Between Rachel, David, and their guests, they have seen and experienced almost every, some very interesting and eye-opening situations and events. Listen up!   Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

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  • Creator
    David M Webb
  • Years Active
    2016 - 2026
  • Episodes
    245
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2023 The Divorce Devil Podcast
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