The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David

Carol and David
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Because Great Sex Matters - Listen. Learn. Live Sexy! Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure. For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know" This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship. Experience Meets Expertise Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in: Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame. Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality. Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership. The Foundation: Honest Communication In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond. What's on the Menu? The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh. Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations. Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community. The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone. Why Listen? Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it! Listen. Learn. Live Sexy. "A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David

  1. May 22

    THE REAL REASON YOU'RE NUMB DOWN THERE - AND WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT

    Guest Host - Dr Stacy Friedman   PURPLE PASSION PROJECT PODCAST EPISODE #9   Feeling numb "down there"? Emotionally checked out from your body? Disconnected from pleasure, even when you want to feel it? You are not alone—and you are not broken. In this raw and powerful episode of The Purple Passion Project, Dr. Stacy sits down with Ava Pikul—a sensual guide, transformational therapist, and tantric practitioner who helps women finally feel at home in their bodies again. Together, they explore why so many high-achieving, over-giving women find themselves burnt out, sexually shut down, and disconnected from their own desires. More importantly—we talk about how to come back online.  Key Discussion Points:      Why you may feel numb during intimacy (and how to change it)      The hidden ways trauma lives in the body        What it really means to be sexually embodied       The myth of "I'm not ready yet" and how it keeps women stuck        How spirituality and sensuality were never meant to be separate      The vagina-brain connection and why your pleasure is your power        How to reconnect with yourself without needing to "fix" anything GUEST:  AVA PIKUL Ava Pikul is a Tibetan Five Elements Practitioner, ABS Sexologist, and Rapid Transformational Therapist who guides women from burnout to embodied bliss. Through her Diamond Ascension Intimacy Coaching and Ava's Aphrodisia line of products, she helps women reclaim their sensuality and rewire their pleasure pathways from the inside out. Follow her ON FACEBOOK AVA PIKUL www.diamondascension.org

    1h 2m

  2. May 15

    TOPLESS TRAVEL - SWINGING AND ONLYFANS

    Are you ready for a sexual awakening story that will encourage you to be the best sexual version of yourself by ditching the shame and embarrassment that has plagued you all your adult life? Join us on location from Hedonism 2 in Jamaica as we chat with Mrs & Mr Sexy Sheer, a couple who blossomed after he helped her shed the dogma she learned as a young woman. They share their journey of turning love inward to expand their sexual connection, moving from shame to empowerment by opening up to each other and experiencing life to its fullest. GUEST: OnlyFans Model - @sxysheer TOPLESS TRAVEL Tantalizing Trips with Topless Travel Our unique, lifestyle adventures span from exotic resort takeovers to exotic tours and soul-stirring cruises. Our experienced team, with over 15 years in the lifestyle travel industry, curates unforgettable journeys that encourage you to mingle and play with the like-minded friends and locals. Don't just vacation – live the Topless Travel experience.

    53 min

  3. May 8

    HEDONISM - EXCITING AND INTIMATE FIRST TIMER STORIES

    Is a trip to Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica on your bucket list? Have you always wanted to hang out naked but you're afraid that you're too shy to give it a try? What about exploring your sexual boundaries in a place where open-minded consensual exploration and non-monogamy is encouraged. Join us at Hedonism 2 with two very special newbie couples who had some of those same doubts and fears, but they decided to try it… and they loved it! They share their journeys into the unknown and recount how they handled their first days at the world's most iconic adult playground and how they have come back for more. More great fun. More great people. And lots more great sex. HEDONISM II WELCOME You've joined The Hedonism Show with Carol and David broadcasting from the world's most ICONIC adult playground Hedonism II on Negril Beach in Jamaica. Our show is here to help you acheive better -- better love, better sex, and a better, more intimate relationship. Are you ready? Take note and send us your questions. ask@carolanddavid.com On Location On the Hedonism Show, hosts Carol and David broadcast on location from Hedonism II Resort on Negril Beach in Jamaica where they share their insight into the world of open-minded, sex positive couples who want to push their boundaries, explore their limits and experience everything that Hedonism II has to offer. Reconnect with your Partner Being on vacation together is an amazing way to reconnect with your partner and yourself. Being surrounded by couples in love and in the mood, gets you in the mood too. So many delicous, juicy stories come out of the nude pool at Hedo II, but stories that stand out the most, are the ones that remind us how liberating it is to be adventurous and willing to expand our horizons so we can grow as a couple and also as human beings. Celebrate Life Celebrating life without shame, guilt or judgement is the Hedo way, a place where you can be you, and no-one will question it.

    55 min

  4. May 1

    THE BLISS CRUISE DIRECTOR - MALCOLM THE CRUISE GUY

    Curious about the lifestyle experience aboard The Bliss Cruise? Too much sex? Too little nudity? Giant orgies? Dungeons and playrooms? Pool parties? Dance parties? And live shows?  Join us aboard The Radiance of the Seas with 2,100 guests for an exclusive behind-the-scenes look with Cruise Director Malcolm the Cruise Guy. We explore everything from the sexy dance & play parties to the ship's private playrooms and unique social atmosphere. GUEST: Malcom the Cruise Guy J. Malcolm Neitzey: The Life of the Party at Sea J. Malcolm Neitzey, widely known as Malcolm the Cruise Guy, is a prominent figure in the niche world of "lifestyle" and themed cruising. With a career defined by high energy, inclusivity, and a touch of theatrical flair, he has become one of the most recognizable Cruise Directors in the industry. Professional Background Malcolm wears many hats, but he is most celebrated for his leadership roles on the high seas. His career spans several specialized travel sectors: Bliss Cruise Director: Malcolm is currently the face of Bliss Cruise , the world's largest clothing-optional and lifestyle cruise for couples. As Cruise Director, he manages the complex logistics of adult-themed entertainment while maintaining a safe, upbeat, and respectful environment for thousands of guests. Dowager Atlantis Cruise Director: He has a long-standing history with Atlantis Events, the world's largest producer of gay and lesbian cruises and resort vacations. His tenure there established him as a beloved figure in the LGBTQ+ travel community. Backroads Tour Guide: When not on a ship, Malcolm trades the deck for the trail as a guide for Backroads, a luxury active travel company. He leads guests on biking and hiking excursions in destinations like the Netherlands, Valencia, and the Alps. Personality and Impact Malcolm is known for his signature wit, approachable nature, and "the show must go on" attitude. He recently demonstrated this resilience by continuing to host Bliss Cruise events via scooter after breaking his foot during a hiking trip in Palm Springs. His influence has even extended into pop culture; he is the subject of the song "Malcolm Made Me Do It" by DJ Steven B, a testament to his ability to push guests out of their comfort zones and into the spirit of the vacation. Philanthropy Malcolm is deeply involved in charitable work, specifically with Undercover Santa. He frequently hosts events and uses his platform to raise funds to provide toys for underprivileged children in the Fort Lauderdale area during the holiday season. Fast Facts Feature Details Current Role Cruise Director, Bliss Cruise Niche Expertise Lifestyle (Swingers) & LGBTQ+ Cruising Secondary Career Luxury Bike/Hike Guide (Backroads) Base of Operations Fort Lauderdale, Florida Social Presence Instagram @malcolm_cruiseguy "Every cruise has a legend. Ours reads between floors." — Malcolm Neitzey

    45 min

  5. Apr 24

    THE PURPLE PASSION PROJECT - 18 YEARS OF SPICY

    Carol and David are interviewed by Dr Stacy Friedman on her podcast, The Purple Passion Project - hosted by Dr Stacy Friedman 🔥 Swingers lifestyle, menopause, and desire after 40 — the sexologist talk you've been waiting for. In this episode of The Purple Passion Project, sex coach and clinical sexologist Dr. Stacy Friedman sits down with Carol and David — hosts of The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast and a real-life couple with nearly 18 years in the swinging and ethical non-monogamy lifestyle — for an uncensored, deeply honest conversation about desire, open relationships, and what happens when menopause throws a wrench into your sex life. Whether you're lifestyle-curious, navigating low libido after menopause, in an open marriage, or just done settling for boring sex — this sexologist talk is going to hit.  🔥 In this episode you will learn: Why they chose the swinging lifestyle and never looked back What healthy communication in an open relationship actually looks like The real truth about libido and desire after menopause Why planned sex might be hotter than spontaneous sex How to reignite the spark when it's gone quiet ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━  🎤 GUEST: Carol & David — The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast Because Great Sex Matters — Listen. Learn. Live Sexy! Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast — the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David — a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging, and ethical non-monogamy — this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure. Carol and David also love the TOP Waterproof Blanket — the lifestyle-friendly bedroom essential that makes mess-free fun possible anywhere. Because when you live the sexy lifestyle, you need gear that keeps up. Find Carol & David: Instagram: @exploringthelifestyletogether Podcast: The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast 🌐 thesexylifestyle.com ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ 💜 ABOUT DR. STACY FRIEDMAN — Sexologist & Sex Coach Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, Certified Sex & Intimacy Coach, and the unapologetically bold host of The Purple Passion Project — on a mission to make midlife the hottest chapter of your sex life yet. With over 26 years in the medical field and 20+ years working in sexuality, Dr. Stacy helps men and women break down taboos, communicate clearly, and build hotter, healthier intimacy — without apology. She specializes in the unique desire challenges that come with midlife — hormonal shifts, erectile changes, mismatched sex drives, alternative lifestyles, women who experience painful sex, and the LGBTQ+ community. Known for blending expertise with humor and heart, Dr. Stacy makes conversations about sex feel empowering, entertaining, and long overdue. ✨ Everything you need is one click away: 🔥 Vibe Tribe — Dr. Stacy's private midlife community. Live sessions, courses, and conversations that go way beyond the surface. Try it free for a week. 📖 Pleasure Playbooks — Step-by-step guides for real bedroom results. Because great sex doesn't just happen — it's built. 💋 Shop catalog for adult products (code PURPLE for 20% off) 📅 Free 15-minute intimacy consult — let's talk about what's possible for your sex life. 🎁 Free PDF: 10 Things They Really Want in Bed (But Won't Say Out Loud) — grab yours at drstacyfriedman.com 👉 linktr.ee/drstacyfriedman Follow Dr. Stacy @drstacyfriedman on Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, YouTube, LinkedIn, and all social media platforms.

    55 min

  6. Apr 17

    TOPLESS TRAVEL - SPIRITUAL HEALING OF PAST TRAUMA FOR RELATIONSHIP BLISS

    Are you ready to explore your inner self and confront the unspoken truths in your relationship? Join us aboard The Bliss Cruise with Topless Travel as we sit down with a sexy couple, Tammie and Phillip. By sharing their relationship dynamics, they reveal how spiritual healing can dissolve the traumatic effects of an unhealthy relationship and guide you toward holistic balance, deeper connection, and the courageous embrace of your most authentic self. TOPLESS TRAVEL Tantalizing Trips with Topless Travel Our unique, lifestyle adventures span from exotic resort takeovers to exotic tours and soul-stirring cruises. Our experienced team, with over 15 years in the lifestyle travel industry, curates unforgettable journeys that encourage you to mingle and play with the like-minded friends and locals. Don't just vacation – live the Topless Travel experience.

    1h 4m

  7. Apr 10

    EXOTIC PERFORMER KEEPING IT SEXY OVER 50 - KERI GOLD

    Are you looking for that ultimate piece of "sexy advice" for women over 50 about how to embrace your health, desirability and mobility as you age? Join us on location at Hedonism II Resort in Jamaica as we sit down with international exotic dancer, Keri Gold, for a candid conversation about aging, athleticism, and sensuality. We explore the creativity and motivation required to endure the physical demands of her career. The discussion covers the impact of menopause on her sexual health and libido, her experience with Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), and how Keri stays active and confident in herself. GUEST: KERI GOLD BIO: Award winning professional performer, choreographer, pole dancer, aerialist, chair acro, judge, workshops. Keri Gold from the UK started her fitness journey at 47 years old learning to pole dance. She is now a sought-after erotic performer traveling the world to perform for many different audiences. https://www.instagram.com/keri_gold_/

    48 min

  8. Apr 3

    SEXUAL HEALING, DESIRE AND SELF PLEASURE

    Do you ever feel like there's some sort of numbness, pain or disconnection that is somehow blocking you from truly enjoying a healthy sexual connection with yourself and your partners? Perhaps you're holding on to feelings that no longer serve you, but you don't know how to free yourself from this negativity. Join us with Transformational Coach, Missy Garcia, as we get into all the different ways to reclaim your sexual pleasure and recreate your relationship by using yoni massage and self-pleasure to connect with your divine feminine energy. Even if you have experienced sexual trauma, sexual anxiety, or toxic energy, Missy Garcia empowers women to heal by creating a safe space to share with complete honesty and by changing their sexual story. GUEST: MISSY GARCIA BIO: Missy Garcia is a powerful sex and leadership coach for women who are desperate to escape from their dull and disconnected lives. She is warm, authentic, funny and deeply vulnerable, offering sage advice about sexuality and leadership from a raw place that has developed through her own journey of self-transformation. Missy is passionate about empowering women with tools to come back into the true beauty of who they are, guide them to open their heart to completely loving all of themselves, and totally embracing their badass queen within. She coaches women to access their inner power, be healed from within and bring back the juiciness into their life, careers and relationships. https://missyagarcia.com/ How to activate divine feminine centre for fueling a women's confidence, worthiness, radiance, voice and boundaries Changing your sexual story can impact your future in multiple areas How creativity is juiced up from the womb Breast massage can open the heart and allow vulnerable authentic leadership Embracing the shadow parts makes you whole Lead your emotions or your emotions will lead you Bring pleasure into your life daily to alchemise overwhelm and other emotions Activating the courage and energy from the inside Activating the pleasure spots and what flow they can open regarding leadership Call in abundance from your divine feminine centre Healing and integrating past events create space for leading the future

    1h 2m
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Because Great Sex Matters - Listen. Learn. Live Sexy! Are you ready to spice up your sex life and live happy, healthy, and horny? Welcome to The Sexy Lifestyle Podcast, the premier destination for those ready to trade the "status quo" for a life of electrifying intimacy and lifelong connection. Hosted by Carol and David—a real-life couple with nearly two decades of experience navigating the world of open-mindedness, swinging and ethical non-monogamy—this is a completely uncensored look into the heart of modern relationships. With their signature style, Carol and David make the conversation sexy, easy, and funny, normalizing the topics we are often too afraid to discuss and proving that no subject is off-limits when it comes to pleasure. For Everyone Who "Doesn't Know What They Don't Know" This podcast is for everyone. Whether you are happily monogamous, lifestyle-curious, or a seasoned swinger, we designed this show for the person who realizes there is always more to learn. We believe that relationships begin and end in the bedroom, and regardless of your current status, it is never too late to start again. We are here to help you achieve better love, better sex, and a deeper, more intimate relationship. Experience Meets Expertise Carol and David bring 20 years of real-world lifestyle experience to the table, but they don't stop there. They believe curiosity should be backed by credibility. That is why every episode features expert guests who bring their deep knowledge directly to you. We sit down with renowned sex therapists, health professionals, and relationship coaches to ensure every episode is a masterclass in: Sex & Sexuality: Exploring your body and your desires without shame. Sexual Health & Pleasure: Navigating the physical and emotional pillars of vitality. Relationship Mastery: Learning the tools for a thriving, long-term partnership. The Foundation: Honest Communication In our world, communication is the ultimate aphrodisiac. Carol and David lead by example with an unfiltered honesty you won't find anywhere else. They share their own journey—the highs, the lows, and the "oops" moments—to demonstrate how total transparency about desires, fears, and fantasies creates an unbreakable bond. What's on the Menu? The Academy of Intimacy: Pushing boundaries and exploring fantasies to keep things fresh. Lifestyle Jetsetting: An inside look at clothing-optional resorts, cruises, international takeovers, and global destinations. Swinging 101: Mastering the etiquette, social dynamics, and the "secret sauce" of the lifestyle community. The "Big Hugs" Philosophy: Building a judgment-free community that celebrates sexual freedom for everyone. Why Listen? Because relationships begin and end in the bedroom. In a world cluttered with myths and misconceptions, Carol and David offer a refreshing, credible, and completely uncensored alternative. We don't just talk about the "what"—we show you the "how." Whether you are looking to breathe new life into a long-term partnership or are ready to dive into the deep end of your own sexuality, we provide a sophisticated, judgment-free space to grow. We combine two decades of lifestyle wisdom with the insights of top-tier experts to help you navigate everything from sexual wellness to international travel. We believe great sex matters… and we ALL deserve it! Listen. Learn. Live Sexy. "A great relationship isn't something you find; it's something you build, test, and perfect—one fantasy at a time. Your journey to an extraordinary life starts with a single, honest conversation." -- Carol & David

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