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Need advice? Don’t Blame Me is here to answer your call, literally. Host Meghan Rienks and Producer/Co-Host Melisa D. Monts bring their blunt, truthful, and hilarious wisdom on topics such as sex, mental health, and relationships. Take their advice or not - you can’t blame them for screwing up your life.

Don't Blame Me‪!‬ Meghan Rienks

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.8 • 2.8K Ratings

Need advice? Don’t Blame Me is here to answer your call, literally. Host Meghan Rienks and Producer/Co-Host Melisa D. Monts bring their blunt, truthful, and hilarious wisdom on topics such as sex, mental health, and relationships. Take their advice or not - you can’t blame them for screwing up your life.

    Am I The Toxic One?

    Am I The Toxic One?

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Losing passion in a relationship
    Friend with codependency issues
    Boyfriend doesn’t want to go on a couples trip
    Don’t Blame Them: Snapchat saga

     

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    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr 10 min
    Dried Up Conversations

    Dried Up Conversations

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Update: coming out
    Friends sharing your sexuality
    Boyfriend moving without you
    How to know if you want kids
    Don’t Blame Them: financial anxiety

     

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    Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go tostitcherpremium.com and use promo code 'BLAME.”

     
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    Need Advice? 
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    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
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    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr 7 min
    His Ex Is Trying to Sabotage Our Relationship

    His Ex Is Trying to Sabotage Our Relationship

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Update: the iconic titty slap
    Wanting to get engaged
    Family drama
    Don’t Blame Them: he doesn’t understand casual sex

     

    Call Transcriptions

     

    Follow Us!

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    @dontblamemepod  

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    Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go tostitcherpremium.com and use promo code 'BLAME.”

     
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    Need Advice? 
    www.dontblameme.show 
    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
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    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr 7 min
    I Slept with My Lawyer’s Ex-Husband

    I Slept with My Lawyer’s Ex-Husband

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Update: feelings for your friend
    He makes weird noises during sex
    Friend throwing a tantrum
    Moody boyfriend
    Don’t Blame Them: friend lying about getting tested

     

    Call Transcriptions

     

    Follow Us!

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    @sheisnotmelissa 

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    Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go tostitcherpremium.com and use promo code 'BLAME.”

     
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf   


    Need Advice? 
    www.dontblameme.show 
    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
    International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com 

     

    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr
    He Just Lies There

    He Just Lies There

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Update: divorce & age gap
    Marital fighting
    Snapchat friends
    Feeling behind financially
    Don’t Blame Them: suspicious rash

     

    Call Transcriptions

     

    Follow Us!

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    @sheisnotmelissa 

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    @dontblamemepod  

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    Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go tostitcherpremium.com and use promo code 'BLAME.”

     
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf   


    Need Advice? 
    www.dontblameme.show 
    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
    International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com 

     

    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr 12 min
    When to Move On

    When to Move On

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Update: dating and political beliefs
    Friend likes your crush
    Coming out
    Don’t Blame Them: toxic relationship

     

    Call Transcriptions

     

    Follow Us!

    @meghanrienks 

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    @sheisnotmelissa 

    www.instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa

    https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa

    @dontblamemepod  

    https://www.instagram.com/dontblamemepod/



    Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go tostitcherpremium.com and use promo code 'BLAME.”

     
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf   


    Need Advice? 
    www.dontblameme.show 
    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
    International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com 

     

    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



    - Want to WATCH this episode as well? Become a patron!

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    • 1 hr 9 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
2.8K Ratings

2.8K Ratings

camnbeck ,

Love You Guys!!!

hello m&m!! i started watching meghan way back in the day (probably 7th grade) & now i am 20 and still follow this podcast religiously. i joined the fb group over a year ago as well. this podcast has become a community. i have met people from my university and city though the facebook and i actually deleted my snapchat because of a recent podcast (aka their opinions mean a lot to me haha). i HIGHLY suggest giving this podcast a listen, as it has become a huge part of my life & the community has been a really positive force in my life.❤️ Meghan and Melissa are so delightfully honest and i feel like their have everyones best interests in mind.

Duke Turbine ,

Two toxic women rationalizing their behavior

Two toxic women rationalizing their behavior

memmyrau ,

Intro is not too long - don’t believe the haters

I found this podcast over quarantine. I’ve been going back and listening to older episodes since one a week just isn’t enough. While I enjoy a guest here and there, M&M are a duo that can’t be beat. They’re bold, unapologetic, and even though I have been listening to so much of the podcast, don’t always give what I find to be obvious advice. I appreciate both of their outlooks on not the greatest situations, as well as their humor on delivery. Great podcast. I listen on Spotify but came here just to leave a review cause love you guys!

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