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Need advice? Don’t Blame Me is here to answer your call, literally. Host Meghan Rienks and Producer/Co-Host Melisa D. Monts bring their blunt, truthful, and hilarious wisdom on topics such as sex, mental health, and relationships. Take their advice or not - you can’t blame them for screwing up your life.

Don't Blame Me‪!‬ Meghan Rienks

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

Need advice? Don’t Blame Me is here to answer your call, literally. Host Meghan Rienks and Producer/Co-Host Melisa D. Monts bring their blunt, truthful, and hilarious wisdom on topics such as sex, mental health, and relationships. Take their advice or not - you can’t blame them for screwing up your life.

    What’s College Greek Life Like?

    What’s College Greek Life Like?

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Update: Friend Faking Vaccination Card
    Not like a friend
    Quitting Your Dream Job
    Joining Bumble After a Fight With Your Partner
    DBT: Family Members Misgendering

     

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    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
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    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr 16 min
    My Boyfriend’s Cousin is Into Me

    My Boyfriend’s Cousin is Into Me

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Overpriced bachelorette party
    Talkative friends
    Not wanting to relocate to live with boyfriend
    Don’t Blame Them: Moving in together too soon

     

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    @sheisnotmelissa 

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    Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go tostitcherpremium.com and use promo code 'BLAME.”

     
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf   


    Need Advice? 
    www.dontblameme.show 
    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
    International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com 

     

    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 51 min
    Should We Try To Be Poly?

    Should We Try To Be Poly?

    This Week We're Giving Advice On
    Update: Dating your co-worker that doesn't want the same thing you want
    Reaching out to a s****y friend you miss
    Confronting a bad friend
    Community College vs. University
    Don't Blame Them: "Virginity"

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    Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go tostitcherpremium.com and use promo code 'BLAME.”

     
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf   


    Need Advice? 
    www.dontblameme.show 
    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
    International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com 

     

    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr 9 min
    Fake Vaccination Card

    Fake Vaccination Card

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Dealing with a “friend” who bought a fake vaccination card
    DBT: Party vs. Funeral
    Update: Getting dumped after you say I love you/Staying in a relationship with a lot of red flags

     

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    Follow Us!

    @meghanrienks 

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    @sheisnotmelissa 

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    https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa

    @dontblamemepod  

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    Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go tostitcherpremium.com and use promo code 'BLAME.”

     
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf   


    Need Advice? 
    www.dontblameme.show 
    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
    International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com 

     

    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



    - Want to WATCH this episode as well? Become a patron!

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    • 1 hr 13 min
    Drag Stage Fright

    Drag Stage Fright

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Update: Being manipulated by men
    Lying about being vaccinated
    Friend copying you
    Siblings not using correct pronouns

     

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    @sheisnotmelissa 

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    https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa

    @dontblamemepod  

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    Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go tostitcherpremium.com and use promo code 'BLAME.”

     
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf   


    Need Advice? 
    www.dontblameme.show 
    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
    International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com 

     

    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



    - Want to WATCH this episode as well? Become a patron!

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    • 1 hr 12 min
    Dad Refuses to Get Vaccinated

    Dad Refuses to Get Vaccinated

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Update: boyfriend couldn’t be just friends with women
    Mother-In-Law moving to the same floor as you
    Boyfriend has been hanging out with a girl that’s in love with him
    Boyfriend doesn’t want to live with you

     

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    Follow Us!

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    @sheisnotmelissa 

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    https://twitter.com/sheisnotmelissa

    @dontblamemepod  

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    Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go tostitcherpremium.com and use promo code 'BLAME.”

     
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf   


    Need Advice? 
    www.dontblameme.show 
    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
    International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com 

     

    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



    - Want to WATCH this episode as well? Become a patron!

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    • 1 hr 18 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
2.9K Ratings

2.9K Ratings

itsthetess ,

OBSESSED.

this podcast is like therapy. Meghan and Melissa are so good at giving advice in a clear and truly honest way, and I SO appreciate that they don't sugar coat it.

Mrs nope ,

Spilling the tea

I found this podcast through recommended sometime back in season 1 it was one of the first podcast I ever had listened to and still do. Don’t blame me is relatable and funny and I have to actually try not to laugh when I listen to it in my college classes. Amazing!
Now here we are a few years later and I’m making my boyfriend listen to it he loves it too!

camnbeck ,

Love You Guys!!!

hello m&m!! i started watching meghan way back in the day (probably 7th grade) & now i am 20 and still follow this podcast religiously. i joined the fb group over a year ago as well. this podcast has become a community. i have met people from my university and city though the facebook and i actually deleted my snapchat because of a recent podcast (aka their opinions mean a lot to me haha). i HIGHLY suggest giving this podcast a listen, as it has become a huge part of my life & the community has been a really positive force in my life.❤️ Meghan and Melissa are so delightfully honest and i feel like their have everyones best interests in mind.

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