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Need advice? Don’t Blame Me is here to answer your call, literally. Host Meghan Rienks and Producer/Co-Host Melisa D. Monts bring their blunt, truthful, and hilarious wisdom on topics such as sex, mental health, and relationships. Take their advice or not - you can’t blame them for screwing up your life.

Don't Blame Me‪!‬ Meghan Rienks

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

Need advice? Don’t Blame Me is here to answer your call, literally. Host Meghan Rienks and Producer/Co-Host Melisa D. Monts bring their blunt, truthful, and hilarious wisdom on topics such as sex, mental health, and relationships. Take their advice or not - you can’t blame them for screwing up your life.

    Hooking Up with a Woman and a Married Man at Work

    Hooking Up with a Woman and a Married Man at Work

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Extrovert turned introvert during the pandemic
    Period Sex
    New mom ignoring their friend
    Creeped out by boyfriend’s friend
    DBT: Teacher changing careers





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    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr 2 min
    Step Mom is Cheating On My Mom

    Step Mom is Cheating On My Mom

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Update: friends lying about being vaccinated 
    “Friend” is a user
    Boyfriend wants to debate all the time
    Guy I like wants to join a toxic fraternity
    Don’t Blame Them: Copying Friend





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    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf   


    Need Advice? 
    www.dontblameme.show 
    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
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    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr 12 min
    What’s College Greek Life Like?

    What’s College Greek Life Like?

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Update: Friend Faking Vaccination Card
    Not like a friend
    Quitting Your Dream Job
    Joining Bumble After a Fight With Your Partner
    DBT: Family Members Misgendering

     

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    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr 16 min
    My Boyfriend’s Cousin is Into Me

    My Boyfriend’s Cousin is Into Me

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Overpriced bachelorette party
    Talkative friends
    Not wanting to relocate to live with boyfriend
    Don’t Blame Them: Moving in together too soon

     

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    Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go tostitcherpremium.com and use promo code 'BLAME.”

     
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf   


    Need Advice? 
    www.dontblameme.show 
    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
    International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com 

     

    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 51 min
    Should We Try To Be Poly?

    Should We Try To Be Poly?

    This Week We're Giving Advice On
    Update: Dating your co-worker that doesn't want the same thing you want
    Reaching out to a s****y friend you miss
    Confronting a bad friend
    Community College vs. University
    Don't Blame Them: "Virginity"

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    Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go tostitcherpremium.com and use promo code 'BLAME.”

     
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf   


    Need Advice? 
    www.dontblameme.show 
    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
    International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com 

     

    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr 9 min
    Fake Vaccination Card

    Fake Vaccination Card

    This week we’re sharing advice on: 

     
    Dealing with a “friend” who bought a fake vaccination card
    DBT: Party vs. Funeral
    Update: Getting dumped after you say I love you/Staying in a relationship with a lot of red flags

     

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    Listen to ad-free on Stitcher Premium! For a free month of Stitcher Premium, go tostitcherpremium.com and use promo code 'BLAME.”

     
    Affordable Therapy By State (Curated by Crissy Milazzo): www.tinyurl.com/y64kwdnf   


    Need Advice? 
    www.dontblameme.show 
    Domestic Listeners Call: (310) 694-0976  
    International Listeners Send a Voice Memo To: meghanpodcast@gmail.com 

     

    … with as much detail as possible under 3 minutes! WeI’ll do our best to share our wonderful words of wisdom. If you’re under 18, please get your parent’s permission. Advice is for entertainment purposes only, so you can’t blame us if we screw up your life. I kid! Our advice IS AMAZING.



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    • 1 hr 13 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
2.9K Ratings

2.9K Ratings

Aly021598 ,

Advice but make it like Therapy

I love this podcast! I listen to it while I’m working and I feel like I am jabbing my jaws and giving advice to my friends! Such a fun idea and makes me so happy to just listen to questions and advice that I’ve always thought about. For those who claim they are too political, how can you NOT be political in this day and age. If you disagree with their opinions you’re probably just a conservative that is infringing on people’s rights.

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Very political/ mean girls

The hatred that they have for anyone that believes in anything other than what they believe in is astonishing. They pull people down rather than picking others up, and have have very “mean girl energy”. Kind of a bad look on them and their characters and I couldn’t even finish a whole episode because I couldn’t suffer through listening to the nonsense.

itsthetess ,

OBSESSED.

this podcast is like therapy. Meghan and Melissa are so good at giving advice in a clear and truly honest way, and I SO appreciate that they don't sugar coat it.

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