Decisions, Decisions

Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.    Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.   From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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  1. 1d ago

    Selective Ignorance: Ep. 88 | Stop Turning Zeroes Into Heroes

    Mandii B returns with another thought-provoking episode of Selective Ignorance, joined by super producer A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee for unfiltered conversations about Election Day, politics, racism, community violence, and pop culture. After urging listeners to get out and vote [00:00] and previewing the episode’s biggest headlines [00:38], the crew celebrates winning two Signal Awards [03:17] before discussing voter turnout [05:13] and taking a hilarious detour into No Nut November, sex toys, and hentai [07:23] [08:18]. Viral interviews with MAGA supporters [10:53] spark debates about racism, Islamophobia, and political misinformation [13:54], leading to conversations about voter apathy [16:11], emerging Black political candidates [21:04], and Democratic Party tensions in Michigan involving Abdul Sayed and Haley Stevens [26:00]. The crew also reacts to a heated exchange between a Black military veteran and a MAGA influencer [30:44], including a sharp Mayflower comeback and the veteran’s response to racist attacks [32:27] [32:50]. The conversation takes a serious turn with the tragic shooting of 15-year-old Ghanaian student Javits Frimpong in the Bronx [34:46], prompting discussions about bullying, tensions within the African diaspora [36:27], and the roots of community violence [40:48], with a brief detour into travel deals and a Frontier Airlines phishing scam [38:38] [39:56]. Cardi B’s comments about New York City public schools [42:37] lead to a deeper examination of poverty, survival-driven crime, parental accountability, and teaching children respect [45:48] [49:43] [55:12]. The discussion shifts to a major Florida undercover operation resulting in 281 arrests connected to alleged child exploitation, prostitution, and trafficking offenses [01:01:29], followed by commentary on Polk County’s history of headline-making police operations [01:06:27]. The crew reacts to Donald Trump’s controversial remarks about Black and Jewish voters [01:08:15], debating America’s international reputation, stereotypes about American tourists, and political distractions [01:09:15] [01:10:50] [01:12:28]. India Love’s stance against Halloween [01:13:30] sparks a conversation about Christianity, religious hypocrisy, judging others’ sins, and beliefs about heaven [01:15:01] [01:19:11], before a nostalgic R&B music detour [01:20:41]. The crew then unpacks the controversy between 2 Chainz and food critic Keith Lee [01:22:53], examining restaurant reviews, celebrity privilege, and whether Black-owned businesses should be held to different standards of criticism [01:32:52]. Finally, they discuss the WNBA Finals, the league’s continued growth, and the Atlanta Dream [01:35:42], before closing with final thoughts and credits [01:40:47]. From Election Day and MAGA controversies to youth violence, Cardi B’s parenting perspective, Keith Lee’s restaurant reviews, and the future of the WNBA, Selective Ignorance delivers another candid conversation about politics, accountability, Black culture, and the issues shaping our communities.  No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @mrhiphopobama Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  2. Oct 20

    Selective Ignorance: Ep. 86 | Ban Dogs, Ban Laws, Ban Freedom Of Speech Feat. Deante Kyle

    Mandii B returns with another thought-provoking episode of Selective Ignorance, joined by A-King, Jason "Jah" Lee, and special guest Deante Kyle (Grits & Eggs Podcast) for unfiltered conversations about politics, Black culture, social justice, and accountability. After recognizing Breast Cancer Awareness Month and encouraging women to schedule mammograms [00:00], Mandii introduces the crew [00:33] before diving into hilarious debates about chirping smoke detectors [04:55], TaskRabbit and cleaning services [07:04], and whether there are simply too many dogs in public spaces [09:26]. The “This Is America” segment kicks off with controversy surrounding White House press secretary Katie Zacharia’s reported firing and questions about her legal credentials [13:50], leading to personal stories about quitting jobs almost immediately [17:24], airport lies [22:06], and evolving religious beliefs [24:00]. The conversation shifts to protests in Paris and Europe versus America’s “No Kings” demonstrations [28:16], examining political activism, censorship, and France’s exploitation of African nations. The crew emphasizes the importance of voter registration and the upcoming midterm elections [35:15], spotlights Florida politician Angie Nixon [36:11], and explores everything from aliens, robotics, and Elon Musk [37:15]to Tesla backlash [38:25] and money’s influence on American politics [40:28]. Amar’e Stoudemire’s decision to join law enforcement [41:48] sparks a heated debate about police brutality, systemic racism, and whether policing can be reformed from within [44:21], before examining military propaganda and the realities of war [53:13]. Following Deonte’s departure and a hilarious grits conversation [57:02], Mandii returns from break with another reminder to register and vote [58:01] before addressing Floyd Mayweather’s support for Donald Trump amid reports of financial troubles [59:40]. The crew revisits Killer Mike’s podcast history [01:01:39] and dissects his controversial defense of capitalism [01:05:59], examining Fred Hampton’s revolutionary legacy [01:09:16], the fallout from political conversations over brunch [01:10:24], and the difference between building personal wealth and creating opportunities for collective economic empowerment [01:11:14]. A deeper discussion distinguishes commerce from capitalism [01:13:49], questions the contradictions between luxury lifestyles and revolutionary politics [01:17:07], and explores the backlash surrounding Killer Mike’s political positions [01:24:37]. The crew challenges misconceptions about Black spending power [01:26:42], stresses the need for political urgency and clarity [01:31:15], and debates the importance of distinguishing genuine opposition from disagreements within the Black community [01:36:04]. After a hilarious technical mishap [01:40:08], the episode wraps with final thoughts, upcoming guest announcements, and bonus episode previews [01:43:01]. From Donald Trump and political protests to police reform, Black capitalism, economic liberation, and the power of voting, Selective Ignorance delivers an honest, entertaining conversation challenging how we define progress, accountability, and collective empowerment. No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X! Sale Link Follow the host on Social MediaMandii B Instagram/X @fullcourtpumps Follow the crew on Social Media @itsaking @mrhiphopobama @deante.kyle @gritsandeggspodcast Follow the show on Social MediaInstagram @selectiveignorancepodTiktok @selective.ignoranceX/Twitter @selectiveig_pod See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.    Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.   From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!

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