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I am a learner. I share what I have learned from Psychology, Philosophy, Religion, Health, and Spirituality… I want to inspire you, to enjoy more your life, sex, and religion. I try my best to connect the wisdom of the West with the East. I think I have great insights into Meditation and Spirituality (got adored for my meditation from the President of the Hindus). I am a certificated therapist for Bioenergetic, EFT, and Hypnosis. I am the book author of 9 Books… in this area

  1. 17H AGO

    The best relationships stay connected regardless of what.

    What sets emotionally intelligent couples apart is their ability to stay connected, even when disagreements arise. I’m often more concerned about couples who never fight, because avoiding conflict entirely can hide unresolved hurts. After all, the closer you are, the more likely ruptures are to happen, and how you handle them matters. Here are three things emotionally intelligent couples do differently when they are in conflict. 1. They don’t assume the worst about their partner’s intent We’ve all been there. One sharp comment can seem like an attack on your character. For example, you forget to text back and it is interpreted as not caring. A request for space could be misconstrued as abandonment. Instead of assuming the worst, the most emotionally intelligent couples will ask questions like: “Can you help me understand what was happening for you?” “What did you hear me say?” “What part of this feels hardest?” “What’s been on your mind lately that I haven’t asked about?” “What’s something you want more of right now?” The strongest, most emotionally intelligent couples genuinely see who their partner is becoming, not who they want them to be or who they once were. 2. They take responsibility for their emotions and plan how to regulate them together Emotionally intelligent couples don’t expect their partner to fix their feelings, but they also don’t shut each other out. A partner’s presence can help them stay regulated and connected, even in anger or frustration. Pausing during conflict is one of the hardest skills. It’s hardest when you’re triggered and least able to access your tools. I often encourage couples to plan ahead with a “clean pause” script, like: “I need 20 minutes so I don’t say something I’ll regret. I’ll come back.” 3. They stay curious, even during major conflicts When people feel threatened, the brain loves shortcuts. Emotionally intelligent couples slow this process down and become, in effect, investigators of each other’s inner worlds. Curiosity has been associated with greater closeness and intimacy in conversations, especially during moments of disagreement. Part of why curiosity disappears whether it’s one, 10, or 20 years in is because we start living off our assumptions. We tell ourselves we already know what our partner meant, what they felt, and why they did it because the person across from you is so familiar. The problem is that once you think you already know the story, you stop learning about your partner’s actual experience. Conflict then becomes two competing narratives instead of a shared inquiry into what’s really happening, even when you disagree. My Video: The best relationships stay connected regardless of what. https://youtu.be/t3G0YEVtmhI My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/The-best-relationships-stay-connected-regardless-of-what.mp3

  2. MAY 12

    Drukpa Kunley: The Mad Saint

    In Bhutan, you see many houses and temples decorated with phallus symbols. Naturally, you ask: Why? This question leads to profound insights—and just might change your life. Who Was Drukpa Kunley? Drukpa Kunley was born in 1455 in Lhasa, Tibet. He became a monk and later a Lama, following the Tantric teachings. He was a deeply sincere seeker with great insights, and during his time in monasteries, he was admired for his wisdom. But he often asked uncomfortable questions—questions that mostly went unanswered. What if our discipline is driven by fear of punishment or a need for validation? What if we achieve a higher rank and feel proud of it? Isn't that motivation rooted in ego? Why do we need validation that we are "good"? Isn't our very search for enlightenment an ego trip? Why do we aspire to become a Lama or a Rinpoche? Might it not be better to just be an ordinary person? The Monk Who Left the Monastery One day, he left the monastery for good. He traveled through Tibet, teaching as he went—but he was just as likely to be found in taverns, drinking alcohol with ordinary people. When he visited temples, he would invite the monks to drink with him. If they refused, he would ask: "Are you afraid of the alcohol? Or are you afraid of breaking the rules? Or perhaps you're afraid of losing your status as an honorable monk?" The Saint of 5000 Women Drukpa Kunley became known for his unconventional methods of enlightening others—especially women, which earned him the title "The Saint of 5000 Women." Women would sometimes seek his blessing through sexual intercourse. His intention was radical for his time: to show that enlightenment and a healthy sex life are not mutually exclusive. He sought to demonstrate that celibacy is not a requirement for spiritual realization. How the Mad Saint Saved Bhutan At that time, Bhutan was suffering from unfavorable signs that led to bad harvests. The people needed a solution to change their negative karma. They asked Drukpa Kunley for his blessing. He explained that Bhutan was under a curse from a goddess. To counter it, he introduced sexual Tantra to the kingdom. From that moment on, the curse was lifted, and the land prospered again. Teachings That Challenge Many religious people came to him for advice. They would list all the practices and sacrifices they had already made on their spiritual path. His response cut through their seeking: "If you have done it the right way, why do you need my validation?" He taught that if you have built a genuine connection—a true faith—in God, you don't need anyone else to validate it. The Ego Trap of Enlightenment Drukpa Kunley questioned the very goals of the spiritual path: In Buddhism, the goal is Nirvana, enlightenment, or freedom from rebirth. But he saw these as ego-driven aspirations. You cannot reach them, he suggested, because they were never truly separate from you to begin with. The Sufis say: Don't make a business out of your death. Surrender to God without conditions—not even for paradise. The true Christians, he observed, put God first in every decision, without conditions or bargaining. Why Do We Need Spiritual Titles? Drukpa Kunley also questioned the need for spiritual titles—Lama, Rinpoche, and so on. These, he pointed out, are creations of the ego. Purpose vs. Faith Western philosophy has created a life built around purpose or mission—think of Tolstoy. This often happens, Drukpa Kunley might observe, when people have lost their faith in God. The danger of a purpose-driven life is that your purpose can be taken away. You can age, fall ill, or face war—and suddenly your mission is gone. But no one can take away your connection to God. Faith in God is infinitely superior to any earthly purpose. My Video:  Drukpa Kunley: The Mad Saint My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Drukpa-Kunley-The-Mad-Saint.mp3

  3. MAY 9

    How to Increase Your Potency?

    Two simple practices can make a profound difference: Massage THIS spot for 1 minute daily to restore potency. Add raw, unprocessed cacao mass to your morning drink—it will improve your performance in every area of your life. The 60-Second Massage That Changes Everything When you gently massage this point for 60 seconds each day, you: Detox the blood vessels in the pelvic area Release chronic tension in the pelvic muscles Decompress the nerves responsible for erection, restoring sensitivity Massage the prostate gland What Is This Point? This is one of the most important points in Yoga and Traditional Chinese Medicine. It is called: The Perineum Hui Yin (in Chinese medicine) The "One Million Dollar Point" The "Gate of Death" This point is located in the area of the root chakra, and it connects the root chakra directly to the crown chakra. Where to find it: It lies between your legs, between the s*****m and the tip of your tailbone (coccyx). There is a small "cave" or indentation—massage inside this area. The point may feel tender at first. With regular massage, the tenderness will fade. How to Massage This Point Be gentle. Use light pressure—never force it. Use oil. Castor oil is ideal, but any natural cold-pressed oil (like coconut oil) works well. Be consistent. Massage every day. You may begin to notice results after about one month. Continue the practice for life. Get comfortable. Lie down on your bed relaxed, or sit on the edge of a chair with your knees open. If your pelvis is tense, you won't get the full benefit. Timing matters. Do not do this massage right before sexual activity. Do it when you are relaxed, without pressure or expectation. Technique: Massage the area gently, then press for 5 seconds, release for 5 seconds. Repeat this 4 times. Raw Cacao: Nature's Performance Booster Raw cacao mass supports your entire body—including your sexual vitality. It has one of the highest antioxidant levels of any food, specifically flavonoids, which are superb for cardiovascular health. And good circulation is exactly what your sexual organs need. 1. Better Cardiovascular and Heart Health Blood Pressure & Circulation: The high level of flavanols in raw cacao helps produce nitric oxide, which relaxes arteries, lowers blood pressure, and improves overall blood flow. Reduced "Bad" Cholesterol: Raw cacao helps reduce the oxidation of LDL cholesterol, preventing plaque formation. This benefit is often lost in heavily processed chocolate. 2. Superior Antioxidant Content Raw cacao contains significantly higher levels of antioxidants—specifically flavonoids—because it is not subjected to high heat (roasting) or chemical processing. It has one of the highest ORAC (Oxygen Radical Absorbance Capacity) scores of any food. Some estimates suggest it has 40 times the antioxidants of blueberries. 3. Improved Cognitive Function and Mood Mental Clarity: Raw cacao boosts focus, memory, and attention span by improving cerebral blood flow. Natural Mood Enhancer: It contains compounds like Anandamide (the "bliss molecule") and Phenylethylamine (PEA), which promote feelings of euphoria and relaxation. These compounds are far more preserved in raw, unprocessed cacao. 4. Higher Mineral Density Magnesium: Essential for muscle function, nerve health, and heart health. Iron: Raw cacao provides a highly absorbable source of plant-based iron—especially valuable for vegetarians and vegans. Other Minerals: It is also rich in potassium, copper, manganese, and phosphorus. My Video:  How to Increase Your Potency? https://youtu.be/pXt7lpbOeNQ My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/How-to-Increase-Your-Potency.mp3

  4. MAY 5

    Carl Jung's Final Message Before He Died | What He Discovered:

    For many years, Carl Jung studied dying people and published his observations shortly before his own death. Here is what he discovered. 1. You do not have a soul. You are the soul. 2. As people drew closer to death, their dreams changed completely. 3. In their dreams, the ego began to fade—along with concerns about reputation, wealth, success, and identity. 4. Symbols of homelessness, mandalas, circles, and images of completion began to appear. 5. These symbols appeared in a specific sequence, as if the psyche knew that death was near. 6. The psyche was preparing for a transformation—or a return. (Jung explored this deeply in his book Memories, Dreams, Reflections.) 7. In their final week, patients stopped fearing death. It wasn't because they had found religion. It was because their unconscious had shown them something—a vision, a knowing—that their "small self" was only a temporary construction. Beneath it, something was waiting. Something that had already been there. Something that did not die. Jung called this the Self—the part of you that existed before you were born and continues after you pass away. 8. Most people never meet their true Self. They live their entire lives identified with their ego—the small self that is terrified of disappearing. 9. But those who do their inner work—a process Jung called individuation, the integration of the unconscious—they meet their true Self while still alive. And when they do, they no longer fear death. Why? Because they realize that the part of them afraid of dying was never real. The small self, the ego, is just a mask—a temporary structure built to navigate the world. It was never who we truly are. 10. This realization is not about preparing for a next life. It is about waking up—now—and knowing what you really are, before death arrives. 11. If you wake up before death, you understand that you wasted your life on a false assumption: that you are only the small self, the ego. The ego is not in control. And if you never looked deeper, you missed the one thing that truly matters: the true Self—the eternal part of you that was there before you took birth and will remain long after your death. 12. Jung also discovered a pattern in the dreams of dying people—four stages that emerged months before death. He saw these as the psyche preparing for the final curtain. Stage One: The Journey The person dreams of journeys—long roads, distant lands, crossing rivers, climbing mountains. Stage Two: The Guides Dreams fill with animals, old figures, and guides. Jung called these archetypes—universal symbols that appear in every culture, like the Wise Old Man or the Great Mother. When these figures appeared night after night, Jung knew the dreamer was being guided—not by the conscious mind, but by something deeper. The true Self was preparing them for what comes next. Stage Three: The Light The dreams become luminous. They are filled with light, golden views, glowing cities, radiant figures. Patients would wake and describe these dreams with tears in their eyes—not from sadness, but because the dreams felt so real. The unconscious was showing them their true Self, the place they were about to return to. Stage Four: The Dissolution In the final stage, the person stops dreaming about themselves. The individual self fades away. Instead, they dream in symbols—unity, circles, mandalas, spirals. The true Self has fully emerged. No longer separated. No longer alone. Connected to something infinite. In these final dreams, the ego dissolves. What remains is pure consciousness—no longer personal, but universal. 13. Jung documented these four stages across different cultures and belief systems. The pattern was always the same. And he noted that those who practice contemplation—who do the inner work—can experience the true Self without being in the process of dying. My Video:  Carl Jung's Final Message Before He Died https://youtu.be/sZa6rGbPFzY My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Carl-Jung's-Final-Message-Before-He-Died.mp3

  5. MAY 2

    Real Relationships have real problems

    Many people assume emotional security means never feeling jealous, arguing or questioning where they stand. But couples in emotionally secure relationships can navigate discomfort without losing trust in each other. 1. In relationships, small problems are blown up to immense problems…  For what is that good? We want to solve our problems and don’t want to enlarge them in the future…  Just solve them in the here and now.  Strategy go in baby steps…  If you want to go from A to B in the night you can see only 50m, and you have to go 400km… Should you panic, or you ask what is  If I am going wrong Or I have an accident If I am not on time If I have not enough petrol, even you have…  This leads to nothing. It is always enough to solve the problems that you have right now.  We go forward, stubbornly forward regardless how the situation looks projected in the future. We don’t know the future and to assume the worst case scenery makes life awful.  Here are five things good relationships do regularly. 1. They always resolve conflicts. Secure couples argue, sometimes passionately. In fact, research shows that they’re quite skilled at it. The difference is that they don’t sweep problems under the rug or storm off indefinitely. Instead, they face discomfort head-on, acknowledging hurt feelings, admitting faults and tolerating the awkwardness of disagreement. Most importantly, they always adjust their behavior afterward. For a conflict to truly end, it must leave both partners feeling heard and respected. 2. They give each other freedom Emotionally secure couples enjoy nights out separately, maintain friendships outside the relationship, and pursue personal goals without guilt. They know trust grows when closeness and autonomy coexist. Constant proximity is not a measure of intimacy. Secure partners understand that individuality fuels attraction and energy, making time together richer and more rewarding. 3. They don’t narrate each other’s feelings In insecure relationships, partners often assume they know what the other is thinking: “You’re distant because you don’t care,” or, “You’re mad because I didn’t take your advice.” This can escalate misunderstandings. Secure couples strive to resist this impulse: When one of them seems off, the other asks and then listens. They ask, they listen and they trust the answers. When you trust your partner will tell you what you need to know, you don’t feel compelled to read between the lines. 4. They make space for boredom Not every phase of a healthy relationship has to feel electric. Workweeks, errands, and responsibilities can make life feel repetitive. In insecure couples, this monotony can trigger panic or doubt about the “spark.” Emotionally secure couples, on the other hand, know not to panic when things sometimes feel monotonous. They see steadiness as a sign of safety, not stagnation, and recognize that love isn’t meant to feel like a constant high. 5. They don’t outsource reassurance Even secure people have moments of doubt, but they don’t bombard each other with constant “Do you love me?” check-ins, nor do they withdraw in protest when reassurance isn’t immediate. They rely on evidence from their actions. My Video:  Real Relationships have real problems https://youtu.be/utfbigq_9Yw My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Real-Relationships-have-real-problems.mp3

  6. APR 28

    Richard Bach Quotes

    If you want to meet someone who can fix any situation you don't like, who can bring you happiness in spite of what other people say or believe, look in a mirror, then say this magic word: 'Hello.' What the caterpillar calls the end of the world the master calls a butterfly. Every problem in your life carries a gift inside it. You wait a lifetime to meet someone who understands you, accepts you as you are. At the end, you find that someone, all along, has been you. Every person, all the events of your life are there because you have drawn them there. What you choose to do with them is up to you. Mistakes - call them unexpected learning experiences. To bring anything into your life, imagine that it's already there. Argue for your limitations, and sure enough they're yours. The bond that links your true family is not one of blood, but of respect and joy in each other's life. You're never given a dream without the power to make it true. Life does not listen to your logic; it goes on its own way, undisturbed. You have to listen to life. Cherish yesterday, Dream tomorrow, Live today. If your happiness depends on what somebody else does, I guess you do have a problem. I do not exist to impress the world. I exist to live my life in a way that will make me happy. You are always free to change your mind and choose a different future, or a different past. A tiny change today brings a dramatically different tomorrow. There are no mistakes. The events we bring upon ourselves, no matter how unpleasant, are necessary in order to learn what we need to learn; whatever steps we take, they're necessary to reach the places we've chosen to go. My Video:  Richard Bach Quotes https://youtu.be/dMGpsQXhKxs My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/Richard-Bach-Quotes.mp3

  7. APR 25

    The Myth of "Not Enough"

    If you feel you don't have enough today, you will feel you don’t have enough tomorrow. This cycle continues until you die. You will never be at peace with yourself or truly happy as long as you operate from a place of wanting more. Society constantly tells you to want more. Successful people teach that you deserve more and, in the best cases, give you a plan to get it. But even when you succeed and gain a lot, the desire remains: you want more. Gandhi said, “The world has enough for everyone's need, but not enough for everyone's greed.” It is the same for the greedy soul; there will never be enough. We apply this logic to our relationships, too. We think we deserve a better spouse, and our spouse often thinks the same of us. We are told we must improve every day, do better every day. This mantra implies we are perpetually incomplete and never good enough. Stop and ask yourself: Good enough for what? When will you be good enough? What happens as you age and your abilities naturally decline? Chances are, you will die before you ever feel you are “good enough.” What if, instead, you chose to enjoy your time in the here and now? Or will you choose to punish yourself with a litany of lack? You are not good enough. You do not have enough. Your spouse is not good enough. Your car is not good enough. Your children are not good enough. Your work is not good enough. Your salary is not enough. Your boss or customers are not good enough. The weather is not good enough. Your body is not good enough—too fat, ill, unattractive, not sexy enough. You are not young anymore… The truth is, we can always find something to complain about. But we can also always find something to be grateful for. If you feel you don’t have enough, start by being grateful for everything you do have—for all you encounter, even for your spouse. Let the entrepreneurs chase their new goals. Let society tell you that you need a newer car. You can choose to let yourself be happy and at peace. Until you accept your situation, you cannot genuinely change it. There is a world of difference between creating from joy and creating from need or greed. An artist creates not from lack, but from a fullness of spirit. That is why their work is profoundly creative and their life feels fulfilled. We can live that way, too. I have nothing against self-improvement. But it must come without pressure. And from that place of acceptance and peace, improvement doesn't just happen—it flows. My Video:  The Myth of "Not Enough" https://youtu.be/yTaKKBpF5aY My Audio: https://divinesuccess.net/wp-content/uploads/2021/Podcast5/The-Myth-of-Not-Enough.mp3

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I am a learner. I share what I have learned from Psychology, Philosophy, Religion, Health, and Spirituality… I want to inspire you, to enjoy more your life, sex, and religion. I try my best to connect the wisdom of the West with the East. I think I have great insights into Meditation and Spirituality (got adored for my meditation from the President of the Hindus). I am a certificated therapist for Bioenergetic, EFT, and Hypnosis. I am the book author of 9 Books… in this area