Good Moms Bad Choices

If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! This audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. Prepare to laugh, cry, and be inspired. Fellas, you’re invited too!New episodes drop every Wednesday. Welcome to the Tribe!Instagram: @goodmoms_badchoicesWatch our episodes on YoutubeFor bonus content ---> www.patreon.com/goodmomsbadchoices

  1. 6d ago

    Stop Shaming Single Moms, Sarah

    This week, the Good Moms are calling BS on the internet’s obsession with shaming single moms.   Erica and Milah tap in about Dr. Sarah and all the “high value” think pieces that act like a woman’s worth is measured by how many kids she has and whether somebody’s calling her “wife.” They break down why that mindset is dangerous for Black single moms especially, how it keeps women stuck in trash relationships, and why your value has nothing to do with your relationship status.   In this episode, you’ll hear: Why single moms are not the problem, no matter what the algorithm says The difference between holding your friends accountable and publicly clowning women for clicks How fear of being a “single mom” keeps people in relationships they should’ve left five years ago Real talk on baby daddies, boundaries, and loving yourself more than you love the potential Bad Choice of the Week: macro shrooms in the desert, calling for backup on kid pickup, and making a new plug friend Whorie Time: a sunrise threesome, one condom left, and two very enthusiastic cannabis kings Why “Don’t Be a Dumb Bitch” is less an insult and more a love note and lifestyle   Tune in for a raw, hilarious episode about calling out single‑mom shame, making “bad” choices that still lead to growth, and redefining your worth in love, sex, and motherhood.   --------------------------------------------- Watch this episode and more on YouTube.   Come vibe with us on Patreon for full visual episodes, bonus content, and early releases.   Join our private Facebook group and drop your anonymous advice questions, secrets, or mom vents. --------------------------------------------- JOIN US ON OUR NEXT GOOD VIBE RETREAT!!   Limited time discount on our Good Vibes Retreat when you use promo 🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 14–19: Mommy and Me Retreat Six days to slow down, tap in with your baby, and actually enjoy each other.   🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 24–29: Reset and Vibe Six days and five nights of releasing, recharging, and remembering who the hell you are with like minded women.   Connect with us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica @MILAH_MAPP See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 6m
  2. May 20

    Girls Who Like Girls & Playing it Small Feat Bre-z

    This week on Good Moms, Bad Choices, we sit down with Bre-z, the multi-hyphenate artist, actress, barber, and breakout star from All-American. She opens up about the unplanned audition that landed her on Empire, what it means to "become smaller" when you become bigger, and why she's finally stepping into who she was meant to be at 38. From Atlanta's underground lesbian club scene to Hollywood's brightest stages, Bre-z gives us the raw truth about representation, identity, and reclaiming your power.   You can expect to hear: How a random client phone call led to Empire and completely shifted her life trajectory Transitioning from a barber with 20 years of clientele to full-time acting The unique pressure and paranoia that comes with unexpected fame Finding groundedness when you enter Hollywood at the highest level Black lesbian representation on television and the responsibility that comes with it Stepping out of the masculine closet and reclaiming her authentic identity Dating, relationships, and planning a future with intention as a same-sex couple The healing power of water, nature intimacy, and listening to your body How being present and intentional actually changes what shows up for you Self-care rituals: baths, walks, probiotics, and intentional Coca-Colas Why Atlanta lesbians were incredibly cliquish (and still kind of are) Coming into her sexuality without shame or apology Her upcoming music and why she's saving her sluttiest stories for the album Tarot readings, the Seven of Cups, and what the universe was trying to tell her   Watch This episode & more on YouTube! Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Join our private Facebook group! Submit your questions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 9m
  3. May 13

    Bad Dates & Being a Good Mom in Hollywood feat. Chelsea Tavares

    This week, Good Moms are joined by actress, singer, and valley girl through and through, Chelsea Tavares. The ladies talk about navigating single motherhood, dating as a recognizable face in Hollywood, and what it really means to protect your peace — and your kid — while still living your life. They also get into the ever-present bitch-ass n***a epidemic, the Met Gala, and why LA beaches are simply not it. You can expect to hear: Growing up in the industry and transitioning out of teen roles into adult ones The unique pressure of being a Black actress in Hollywood's casting machine Dating as a single mom — opportunists, love bombers, and the ones who leave you in Paris Why actors (especially the aspiring ones) might be undateable Raising a boy as a single mom and navigating co-parenting with intention Protecting your child's emotional world while still modeling real relationships The "BAN" epidemic and why we need to stop teaching girls to be careful and start teaching boys not to harm Auditioning in the age of self-tapes vs. the magic of being in the room Creating your own content and building confidence as a public figure Coachella, the Met Gala, and the performance of culture vs. actual culture The beauty and exhaustion of being an ambitious, dreaming woman Tarot, mushrooms, and finding gratitude in your own bathtub ------------------------ Watch This episode & more on YouTube!  Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Join our private Facebook group! Let us help you! Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! Submit your questions See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 43m
  4. Apr 29

    Co-Parenting Forever feat. Jess Hilarious

    This week, Good Moms are joined by comedian, digital creator, host on the syndicated morning radio show "The Breakfast Club", and author Jess Hilarious. The ladies talk about navigating co-parenting with exes, setting boundaries in new relationships, and balancing independence with partnership. They also get into communication, accountability, and recognizing patterns in both parenting and dating. You can expect to hear: Accountability and recognizing personal patterns in love and parenting Gender roles and shifting expectations in modern relationships Parenting styles, discipline, and raising kids with structure vs flexibility Protecting children while still allowing them to grow and learn The influence of social media on relationships and parenting decisions Public perception vs real-life identity Managing privacy while living a public-facing life Emotional awareness and maturity in adult relationships Healing from past relationship experiences Lifestyle habits, including health, wellness routines, and body maintenance Financial responsibility and stability within relationships Friendship dynamics and support systems Navigating trust, loyalty, and respect in partnerships A listener story focused on relationship decision-making and consequences ------------------------- Watch This episode & more on YouTube!  Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Let us help you! Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! Submit your questions ---------------------------------------- Check out Jess' book Til Death Do We Parent !  Summary:  Before Jess Hilarious ever had dreams of telling jokes in front of sold-out arenas across the country, being featured on Wild-’n-Out, or becoming a cohost on The Breakfast Club, Jess dreamt of marrying her high school sweetheart and raising a family together in their hometown of Baltimore, Maryland. In hopes that having her partner’s child would solidify this outcome, Jess became pregnant at nineteen but begrudgingly learned that the vision she had for her life—as a wife and mother—would have to be reimagined.After multiple attempts at a relationship between her and her son’s father failed, Jess accepted that, while they would never get married, they were forever linked by the lifetime commitment of raising a child together. With her trademark wit and perspective, Jess shares her experiences with valuable and vulnerable insight for coparents who struggle with what it means to put their children first while protecting them from the ups and downs of adult relationships. ’Til Death Do We Parent is an inspirational journey to coparenting with ease and humor. ---------------------------------------- GOOD VIBES RETREAT INFO 🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!! 🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 July 24th- July 29th - Reset and Vibe Take a spiritual journey deep into the Caribbean jungles of Costa Rica and deep into your soul. Retreat from the noise and expectations in the daily hustle and bustle of life and enjoy six days and five nights releasing, recharging, and renewing your highest self with like minded women. Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 13m
  5. Apr 22

    Only Child Energy Feat. Tim Chantarangsu

    This week, the Good Moms sit down with podcast host and OG YouTube creator Tim Chantarangsu. The three chat about growing up an only child, building a career from the internet before it was even a “career,” and what it really looks like balancing marriage, s*x, and parenting when you’re exhausted. Tim gets honest about long-distance love, why scheduling sex might actually save your relationship, and how becoming a dad shifted his priorities completely. ------------------------- Watch This episode & more on YouTube!  Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Join our private Facebook group! Let us help you! Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! Submit your questions ---------------------------------------- GOOD MOMS GOOD VIBES RETREAT INFO 🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!! 🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 July 24th- July 29th - Reset and Vibe Take a spiritual journey deep into the Caribbean jungles of Costa Rica and deep into your soul. Retreat from the noise and expectations in the daily hustle and bustle of life and enjoy six days and five nights releasing, recharging, and renewing your highest self with like minded women. Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 24m
  6. Apr 15

    Loving Hard vs. Loving Properly Ft. Teedra Moses

    This week, the Good Moms celebrate 420 with Grammy-nominated artist, songwriter, and lioness Teedra Moses. Teedra opens up about becoming a young single mom of twin boys and raising them into men while figuring life out in real time. The ladies talk about toxic relationships, self-worth, and relationships today, and not settling. In this episode, you’ll hear: What raising twin boys taught her about love, discipline, and herself Why “luxury only” applies to more than just lifestyle (yes, even sex 👀) Letting go of expectations around marriage, dating, and living together The difference between loving hard vs. loving properly Rebuilding self-worth after toxic relationships Why being alone can be a power move Bad Choices of the week Teedra in the hot seat for a Trigger round that gets a little wild. ------------------------- Watch This episode & more on YouTube!  Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Join our private Facebook group!   Let us help you! Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! Submit your questions ---------------------------------------- GOOD MOMS GOOD VIBES RETREAT INFO !!!! LIMITED TIME DISCOUNT FOR OUR GOOD VIBES RETREAT WHEN YOU USE PROMO CODE "RESTORATION " !!!! 🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!! 🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 July 24th- July 29th - Reset and Vibe Take a spiritual journey deep into the Caribbean jungles of Costa Rica and deep into your soul. Retreat from the noise and expectations in the daily hustle and bustle of life and enjoy six days and five nights releasing, recharging, and renewing your highest self with like minded women. Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 24m
  7. Apr 8

    Post S*x Regret ft. Jst Us Pod

    This week, Good Moms are joined by Amber and Jacob from the Jst Us Podcast. The four get into everything from breaking celibacy for the wrong person (and instantly regretting it), to friendship loyalty, late-night link-ups in questionable locations, and what it really means to be honest with your people… even when they don’t want to hear it. In this episode, you’ll hear: What breaking celibacy too soon can teach you When (and how) to tell your friend their man isn’t it Why women tend to forgive men faster than their friends Navigating friendship, business, and growing pains Weight loss, discipline, and slipping up Dating in L.A. and the struggle to find something real Sugar daddy eras, independence, and leveling up If you want, I can make it even tighter or give you a more personality-heavy version too. ------------------------- Watch This episode & more on YouTube!  Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Join our private Facebook group! Let us help you! Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously! Submit your questions ---------------------------------------- GOOD MOMS GOOD VIBES RETREAT INFO !!!! LIMITED TIME DISCOUNT FOR OUR GOOD VIBES RETREAT WHEN YOU USE PROMO CODE "RESTORATION " !!!!  🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!! 🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 July 24th- July 29th - Reset and Vibe Take a spiritual journey deep into the Caribbean jungles of Costa Rica and deep into your soul. Retreat from the noise and expectations in the daily hustle and bustle of life and enjoy six days and five nights releasing, recharging, and renewing your highest self with like minded women. Connect With Us: @GoodMoms_BadChoices @TheGoodVibeRetreat @Good.GoodMedia @WatchErica See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    1h 12m

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If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! This audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. Prepare to laugh, cry, and be inspired. Fellas, you’re invited too!New episodes drop every Wednesday. Welcome to the Tribe!Instagram: @goodmoms_badchoicesWatch our episodes on YoutubeFor bonus content ---> www.patreon.com/goodmomsbadchoices

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