noseyAF: Conversations about Art, Activism, and Social Change

Stephanie Graham
noseyAF: Conversations about Art, Activism, and Social Change

Ever wonder what ignites the creative spark in inspiring artists, change-fighting activists, and even my neighbor who practices synchronized swimming in their inflatable pool every morning? That's me, Stephanie Graham, artist, and filmmaker, diving deep with these movers and shakers on the noseyAF Podcast. Every other week, we'll explore their journeys and the secrets to making a difference and uncover captivating narratives. Step into their creative worlds, ignite your curiosity and discover the inspiration that shapes landscapes and builds a better world. As an artist, I'm passionate about weaving these stories into my work. We'll explore the challenges and routines that fuel success, venture behind the scenes, and share updates on my artistic journey. Join the noseyAF community – every episode is an invitation to explore, learn, and grow together!

  1. Embrace the Real You: Ditch the 'New Year, New You' Myth

    12/31/2024

    Embrace the Real You: Ditch the 'New Year, New You' Myth

    Ep 66: Embrace the Real You: Ditch the 'New Year, New You' Myth Summary of the episode The latest episode of noseyAF dives into the concept of self-acceptance versus the pervasive "New Year, New You" mentality that often pressures individuals to completely reinvent themselves each January. Host Stephanie Graham reflects on her own experiences and goals from the past year, emphasizing the importance of self-trust and embracing who we already are. Guest Valerie Friedlander expands on this idea, discussing how societal expectations can lead to feelings of inadequacy and the harmful messaging that something is inherently wrong with us. Instead of striving to become someone new, the conversation encourages listeners to reclaim their true selves and recognize the value of their unique identities. This thought-provoking dialogue invites everyone to step into 2025 with self-acceptance and a commitment to honoring their authentic selves. Takeaways: The New Year, new you mantra is often toxic, pushing unrealistic expectations on individuals.Instead of trying to reinvent ourselves, we should focus on reclaiming our true selves.Reflecting on the past year can help us set more authentic intentions for the future.Building self-trust is key to personal development, rather than conforming to external pressures.Embracing who we are allows for more genuine connections with ourselves and others.Recognizing that our perceived flaws can actually be strengths is essential for growth. Chapters: 00:01 - Welcome to Nosy: Conversations About Art and Activism04:16 - Embracing the New Year as Your True Self14:38 - Reclaiming Yourself: The Journey to Authenticity17:59 - Embracing Your True Self26:30 - Understanding Self Through Personality Assessments34:15 - Building Self Trust and Relationships All about ValerieValerie is a compassionate and creative coach dedicated to helping individuals, particularly women, break free from internalized patterns that limit their potential. With a deep understanding of societal pressures and the unique challenges faced by empathetic individuals, Valerie empowers clients to align with their most powerful selves and channel their energy toward meaningful work. Her coaching philosophy emphasizes that transforming internalized patterns not only amplifies one’s impact on the world but also fosters intentional, joyful relationships in all areas of life. Known for her empathetic and engaging style, Valerie guides clients through a creative and fun process that honors their humanity and intuition, uncovering personalized solutions that lead to lasting change. Resources mentioned in this episode Flow Mastery Group Coaching Create Your Flow Course You Were Born For This by Chani Nicholas 🚨Lofi Beats for you to lay on the couch!🚨 Fun Personality Tests: Myers Brigg Enneagram (read up on this one though folks...

    39 min
  2. Saint Nick Sets The Record Straight

    12/24/2024 · BONUS

    Saint Nick Sets The Record Straight

    Ep 65: Saint Nick Sets The Record Straight Summary of the episodeGet ready for a magical holiday treat as our friends of Modern Dadhood, Adam and Mark, sit down for an exclusive interview with Santa Claus himself!! I know so wild! This special episode is designed for the entire family, making it a perfect way to spark joy and excitement in the hearts of children and parents alike. Adam dives into some of the kids' biggest questions about Santa, covering everything from how he manages to visit every home in one night to the secrets behind the elves and the Christmas spirit. With Santa's warm and humorous responses, listeners will be enchanted by the magic of the season and the importance of belief. Join Adam and Mark as they explore the world of Santa Claus and share heartfelt moments that embody the true spirit of Christmas. Listeners are in for a treat as they dive into a special holiday episode of Nosy AF, where the magic of Christmas comes alive with an exclusive interview featuring Santa Claus. Stephanie sets the festive tone, inviting families to gather their little ones for a delightful experience that blends wonder with heartfelt insights. The episode unfolds through a lively dialogue between Adam and Santa, exploring an array of whimsical topics such as how Santa manages to visit every child in one night, the significance of believing in Santa, and the role of his helpers around the world. With humor and charm, Santa shares stories from the North Pole, vividly depicting his preparations and the joy he spreads each year. As the conversation progresses, listeners are treated to Santa's perspective on the importance of kindness and belief, not just during the holiday season but throughout the entire year. The hosts engage in thoughtful reflections about what it means to be part of a supportive community, especially during the holidays, as Mark shares his gratitude towards Adam for assisting him in preparing for Christmas while he was under the weather. This genuine moment of friendship resonates deeply, serving as a reminder of the true spirit of the season—supporting one another and cherishing connections. With Santa's comforting presence and the hosts' personal anecdotes, this episode encapsulates the essence of Christmas, leaving listeners inspired and filled with holiday cheer as they embark on their own holiday traditions. Takeaways:This holiday episode features a special interview with Santa Claus, perfect for family listening.Santa emphasizes the importance of belief and kindness, encouraging children to keep the magic alive.Listeners learn about the busy life of Santa Claus and his workshop during December.The conversation highlights the joy of holiday traditions, such as Elf on the Shelf.Adam and Mark discuss how Santa manages to visit homes without chimneys using magic.The episode also touches on the significance of community support during the holiday season. Chapters:00:10 - Introducing a Special Episode05:31 - Interview with Santa Claus09:46 - The Secrets of Santa Claus19:30 - The Origins of Santa Claus28:44 - The Holiday Spirit and Support About Modern Dadhood Podcast :Adam Flaherty and Marc Checket are two dads from suburban New England. And while they might think they’re pretty funny and cool, the world clearly does NOT need another white dude ramble-cast. That’s why Modern Dadhood explores what it really means to be a "dad" in 2024 through candid, authentic, and often hilarious conversations with diverse dads of all walks of life… including famous dads, NOT famous dads, dads-to-be, step dads, grand dads, trans dads, and more. By celebrating present, engaged parenting and commiserating over common fatherhood challenges, listeners will gain

    31 min
  3. From Art to Aid: Eric von Haynes on Creating Community Connections

    12/18/2024

    From Art to Aid: Eric von Haynes on Creating Community Connections

    Ep 64: From Art to Aid: Eric von Haynes on Creating Community Connections Summary of the episode: Today’s conversation centers on the critical distinction between mutual aid and charity, as articulated by our guest, Eric von Haynes. Eric emphasizes that mutual aid is rooted in reciprocity and community connection, contrasting it with the more transactional nature of charity. He shares insights from his extensive work in mutual aid initiatives, including the Love Fridge project, which provides community fridges stocked with food and resources, emphasizing the importance of anonymity and equality in these efforts. Throughout the discussion, Eric reflects on his artistic journey, particularly his passion for printmaking as a means of disseminating ideas and fostering community dialogue. With a focus on the values of horizontality and support, this episode encourages listeners to think critically about how we share resources and uplift one another in our communities. Takeaways: Mutual aid emphasizes reciprocity and community support, distinguishing it from mere charity.The Love Fridge initiative in Chicago showcases how community fridges can foster mutual aid.Eric advocates for slow media, valuing thoughtful engagement over rapid consumption.Art practices, like printmaking, provide a platform for voices that challenge societal norms. Chapters: • 00:01 - Introduction to Nosy AF Conversations • 03:10 - Understanding Mutual Aid and Reciprocity • 12:04 - The Concept of Mutual Aid • 17:46 - Community Fridges and Mutual Aid • 26:42 - Community Engagement and Food Rescue • 36:52 - Understanding Mutual Aid vs Charity • 40:45 - Values and Practices in Community Engagement • 46:25 - The Importance of Print in Art and Society • 55:13 - The Philosophy of Anarchy and Community • 01:01:40 - The Importance of Slow Media • 01:06:45 - The Legacy of Robert Blackburn About Eric:Eric Von Haynes operates under the imprint Flatlands Press and co-founded Love Fridge Chicago, a mutual aid initiative supporting community fridges. He is a visiting senior instructor of graphic design at the UIC School of Design and currently serves as the president of the Chicago Printers Guild. Resources mentioned in this episode Eric Von Haynes: Drawn Through Restraint Dean Spade Mutual Aid Book *link to this book is with an affiliate link* Community Centered Design Love Fridge Btw Happy Anniversary, Love Fridge! 💕🎊 Food Not Bombs Chicagoland Food Sovereignty Coalition Getting Grown Collective Narcan Robert Blackburn a href="https://www.hoofprintchicago.com/about" rel="noopener noreferrer"...

    1h 13m
  4. First-Time Vendor: My Experience at a Holiday Market

    12/10/2024

    First-Time Vendor: My Experience at a Holiday Market

    Ep 63: First-Time Vendor: My Experience at a Holiday Market Summary of the episode: Hey friends, welcome back to noseyAF! In this solo episode, Stephanie Graham reflects on the whirlwind of 2024 as December kicks off. Stephanie shares her experience as a first-time vendor at the 476 2nd Annual Holiday Market, hosted by her film union, IATSE. From setting up a cute booth with her cousin Brandy of Poor Little Rich Girl to selling her tiny, inspired pins, Stephanie dives into what it was like to step into the world of holiday markets. She recounts highlights like Santa Claus, a Tony Bennett impersonator, and DJ-spun tunes, as well as valuable lessons learned from seasoned market vendors like Nyla from Homegirls Hummus. Stephanie also touches on the joy of connecting with buyers face-to-face and shares tips for anyone looking to try their hand at vending. Looking ahead, Stephanie teases an exciting lineup for the remainder of the year, including a conversation with Eric Von Haynes , a talented printmaker, and part of The Love Fridge project. She hints at taking a well-deserved break before returning fresh in 2025. Tune in for a heartfelt recap, lessons learned, and a sneak peek at what’s to come. Stay curious, and take care! Links Mentioned in this Episode Episode 59: Holiday Market Adventure Pictures from the Holiday Market Connect with Stephanie Instagram: @stephaniegraham Email: stephanie@missgraham.com Check out my art and projects Enjoy my work? Join my studio newsletter More Episodes at noseyaf.com Please leave me feedback or send me a message: Support the Show Rate and Review the show: Share noseyAF with your friends: Buy a pin Buy a print Join the noseyAF Dispatch. Episode Credits: Produced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!) Lyrics: Queen Lex Instrumental: Freddie Bam Fam

    13 min
  5. From Disappointment to Determination: A New Path Forward

    11/12/2024 · BONUS

    From Disappointment to Determination: A New Path Forward

    Ep 62: From Disappointment to Determination: A New Path Forward with Brian Pughsley Summary of the episode This episode of noseyAF centers around disappointment and reflection following the 2024 election results, highlighting the importance of community, faith, and resilience. Host Stephanie Graham expresses her pride in the efforts made by individuals who supported Vice President Harris, emphasizing that their hard work should not feel wasted. Reverend Brian Pughsley joins the conversation, offering a powerful message about faith and perseverance during challenging times. He encourages listeners to strengthen their convictions and unite in their causes, reminding everyone that the fight for rights and justice continues. Together, they inspire a sense of hope and determination to push forward, regardless of the obstacles ahead. Takeaways: In times of disappointment, it is essential to reflect on the effort we put into the election process.Reverend Brian Pusley emphasizes the importance of strengthening faith and community in challenging times.The podcast highlights the necessity of activism and unity within the community for future rights.Brian encourages listeners to stay ready and equipped to fight for their rights and the rights of others.Stephanie expresses gratitude for the support and dedication of those who worked for change during the election.The message is one of hope and resilience, reminding us that God is still in control. About Rev Brian C. Pughsley: Rev. Brian C. Pughsley is a multifaceted preacher, actor, rapper, writer, and podcaster dedicated to connecting with people through faith and creativity. Baptized at an early age, he answered his call to ministry on July 4, 2001, and was licensed and ordained on November 21, 2004, at Living Water Missionary Baptist Church in Hammond, Indiana, under Rev. Dr. Homer Walker, Jr. Throughout his ministry, Rev. Brian has served in various pastoral roles, including Associate Pastor for Youth and Media Ministries at Living Water Missionary Baptist Church and Pioneer Missionary Baptist Church in South Holland, IL. His involvement has extended to youth leadership roles at Covenant United Church of Christ and New Faith Baptist Church International, where he supported ministries in prayer, media, and men’s fellowship. Currently, Rev. Brian serves as Associate Pastor at Trinity United Church of Christ-Gary, where he also contributes as a digital pastor. In early 2023, he joined Immanuel Church Unusual in Chicago as a Digital Pastor, assisting the church's digital outreach as they launched in the area. In 2018, Rev. Brian started a podcast, which evolved during the pandemic from entertainment-focused content to a ministry without walls, reaching people with messages of hope. A trained actor, violinist, rapper, and singer, he brings his diverse talents to each endeavor, blending artistry and ministry in meaningful ways. In his spare time, he enjoys writing, drawing, and inspiring others. Currently, he resides in the suburbs of Chicago, IL. Resources mentioned in this episode Check out Brian’s podcast, Safe Haven Organ music Terry Brandford Walk with Me performed by Gregg ”Happy Guitar” Hayes” check out the full performance here Worship Music: Peace - Deep Instrumental Worship full video here Connect with Brian Instagram: a href="https://www.instagram.com/revbrianpughsley/"...

    11 min
  6. Get Up, Get Out, and Vote: A nosy AF Election Special with Stephisha Ycoy-Walton

    11/05/2024

    Get Up, Get Out, and Vote: A nosy AF Election Special with Stephisha Ycoy-Walton

    Buckle up, everyone! It’s Election Day 2024, and the energy is electric! The stakes are high, the tension is real, and all eyes are on the possibility of a new Madame President. In today’s episode, host Stephanie Graham is joined by her trusted battle buddy, Stephisha YCoy Walton, to break down what this pivotal election means for us all. Join them as they dig into the importance of voter mobilization and civic engagement, sharing their own experiences in activism, from phone banking to grassroots organizing. With passion, humor, and a few personal stories, they explore how each vote shapes our collective future and why showing up to the polls matters more than ever. Get ready for an inspiring, motivating, and sometimes funny conversation about the power of our voices—and the responsibilities we hold as citizens. About Stephisha: Stephisha Ycoy Walton is a God-fearing individual who lives life in the gray area of most things, focused on community impact and social justice. Passionate about financial literacy, she is dedicated to coaching, teaching, and mentoring others to improve their financial skillsets. As a licensed financial advisor, member of Oakland's Budget Advisory Commission, and credentialed teacher, Stephisha walks her purpose on purpose. She believes that financial independence is a result of consistent choices and is committed to guiding others toward financial success. Takeaways: The importance of grassroots mobilization to the polls in the 2024 election is crucial. Financial literacy education for youth can empower them to understand money management. Engaging in local elections is just as vital as voting for president and vice president. The impact of social media on political engagement is growing and cannot be overlooked. Community involvement in political processes can shape the future of local education systems. Understanding candidate policies is essential for informed voting during elections. Resources Mentioned: World Economic ForumGreat Awakening Documentary (I think this is it) Episode Summary: With the 2024 election looming on the horizon, Stephanie Graham and Stephisha Ekoy Walton engage listeners in an impassioned discussion about the power of voting and grassroots activism. The episode captures the palpable tension and excitement of election day as the hosts reflect on their experiences mobilizing voters in their communities. Stephanie shares her personal stakes and concerns, emphasizing how the election’s outcome could significantly impact the lives of marginalized individuals and families. Through their candid conversation, they highlight the urgency of civic engagement, encouraging listeners to recognize their roles within the democratic process and to take action. The discussion broadens to encompass the significance of financial literacy as a tool for empowerment. Stephisha, with her background as a licensed financial advisor, emphasizes the importance of educating young people about personal finance as a means of breaking the cycle of poverty and fostering independence. The hosts share inspiring stories of their community initiatives aimed at teaching financial skills, and they discuss how these efforts can create a more informed electorate. This emphasis on financial literacy intertwines with their advocacy for social justice, illustrating how understanding economic systems can enhance one’s ability to navigate the political landscape effectively. As the episode unfolds, Stephanie and Stephisha reflect on the narratives surrounding Vice President Kamala Harris and the importance of a

    45 min
  7. Doom-Scrolling and Daily Joys

    10/30/2024 · BONUS

    Doom-Scrolling and Daily Joys

    Ep 60: Doom-Scrolling and Daily Joys Summary of this episode In this episode of noseyAF, host Stephanie shares candid, one-take thoughts on navigating the emotional weight of the current election cycle. She opens up about being glued to the news and refreshing social media while dealing with the uncertainty that comes with it. Stephanie hopes these reflections will resonate with listeners and offer a bit of support during these overwhelming times. She also gives a shoutout to her podcast bestie, Paulette Erato, and her incredible work organizing the Latinas in Podcasting Summit, an event that brought together both new and experienced podcasters. Stephanie would love to hear from you, too—how are you holding up? Reach out and let her know! Resources mentioned in this episode: Paulette's Podcast La Vida Más Chévere Latinas in Podcasting Summit Mindful Marketing Podcast: pod.link/1390672198 Check Your Voter Registration Status Connect with Stephanie: Instagram: @stephaniegraham Email: stephanie@missgraham.com Check out my art and projects Enjoy my work? Join my studio newsletter More Episodes at noseyaf.com Please leave me feedback or send me a message: Support the Show: Rate and Review the show: Share noseyAF with your friends: Buy a pin Buy a print Join the noseyAF Dispatch Episode Credits: Produced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!) Lyrics: Queen Lex Instrumental: Freddie Bam Fam

    12 min
  8. From Artist to Entrepreneur: Join My Holiday Market Adventure!

    10/15/2024 · BONUS

    From Artist to Entrepreneur: Join My Holiday Market Adventure!

    Join Stephanie Graham as she talks about her enamel pins and shares exciting news about her upcoming debut as a vendor at a holiday market. With a passion for creativity and conversation, Stephanie reflects on her journey of making quirky, limited-edition pins that spark joy and connection. From her inspiration at a local artist gallery to her fun designs like the "Freedom Kahlo" and "I Need a Baker," she opens up about her artistic process and the stories behind her creations. Get ready for some fun insights, a catchy new beat for a podcast segment, and a heartfelt invitation to support local creatives. Tune in for a bright, engaging discussion that feels like chatting with your best friend! Companies mentioned in this episode: 2nd Annual Film Workers Holiday MarketGraham Cracker Pin Company Devening Projects Cine City Studios IATSE Local 476 IATSE Local 800 Takeaways: Stephanie Graham introduces her creative journey from filmmaking to starting her pin business. The upcoming holiday market will be Stephanie's first experience as a vendor showcasing her pins. Graham Cracker Pin Company focuses on quirky, limited-edition enamel pins that spark conversations. The inspiration for her pins came from an artist's gallery visit that inspired her creativity. Stephanie shares her unique designs, including a Frida Kahlo pin that reflects her identity. The holiday market supports fellow filmmakers, showcasing their talents beyond the film industry. Connect with Stephanie Instagram: @stephaniegraham Email: stephanie@missgraham.com Check out my art and projects Enjoy my work? Join my studio newsletter More Episodes at noseyaf.com Please leave me feedback or send me a message: Support the Show Rate and Review the show: Share noseyAF with your friends: Buy a pin Buy a print Join the noseyAF Dispatch Episode Credits: Produced, Hosted, and Edited by Me, Stephanie (teaching myself audio editing!) Lyrics: Queen Lex Instrumental: Freddie Bam Fam

    10 min
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Ever wonder what ignites the creative spark in inspiring artists, change-fighting activists, and even my neighbor who practices synchronized swimming in their inflatable pool every morning? That's me, Stephanie Graham, artist, and filmmaker, diving deep with these movers and shakers on the noseyAF Podcast. Every other week, we'll explore their journeys and the secrets to making a difference and uncover captivating narratives. Step into their creative worlds, ignite your curiosity and discover the inspiration that shapes landscapes and builds a better world. As an artist, I'm passionate about weaving these stories into my work. We'll explore the challenges and routines that fuel success, venture behind the scenes, and share updates on my artistic journey. Join the noseyAF community – every episode is an invitation to explore, learn, and grow together!

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