Helping of Happiness

Hillary Hess

Host Hillary Hess has 7 children and gives tips about how to enjoy mom life , along with her guests

  1. Packing, Planning & Feeling Put Together

    Apr 30

    Packing, Planning & Feeling Put Together

    For a transcription of this podcast, watch on YouTube! Show Notes: Jenn’s Recommendations to Hillary for Hawaii: Jenn’s Recs for Kauai: TO EAT - Duke’s Kauai (Lihue), Jojo’s Shave Ice (all over island), & Keoki’s Paradise (Poipu) TO WANDER- Na Pali Coast (boat tour), Poipu Beach (snorkeling & sea turtles) Jenn’s Recs in Oahu: TO EAT: Seven Brothers TO WANDER: Polynesian Cultural Center (don’t miss the fire show at night!) - great place to shop as well! HELPING OF HAPPINESS BLOGS TO HELP WITH YOUR HAWAII TRAVEL: Why Kauai Will Steal Your Heart: Hawaiian Getaway for Adventure, Beaches & Amazing Food Oahu Family Vacation: Simple 5 Day Itinerary for Busy Moms Who Just Want to Enjoy the Trip! Want a Styling Session with Jenn? Contact Jenn Here: Instagram - WanderEatSleepInStyle TikTok Jenn’s favorite Sushi Restaurant that we LOVE in DFW: Oishii Sushi & Pan Asian Cuisine in Plano Get $50 off a Troomi phone with this code: hAPPY One of my family’s favorite ways to relax together is to watch movies together. Whether that also involves a big bowl of crunchy, buttery popcorn, or just snuggling in a cozy, fuzzy blanket, it’s fun enjoying something together after a long busy day.Nothing quite wrecks the experience by an unexpected spicy scene or an abundance of foul language.It seems there are so many great shows with “just that one part” that makes you cringe uncomfortably.That is why we were so happy when we discovered VidAngel!!VidAngel syncs up with our Amazon Prime and our add free Netflix account and then gives you the option of what filters you’d like to put on. These can be general filters such as all profanity and blasphemy, or individual for each particular instance.Cobra Kai is a favorite of my kids’ this past month, while my husband and I have been enjoying Night Agent, Fall Guy and Reacher. 30 days free VidAngel service when you Usecode:HELPING Try it out and see for yourself why we love it so much! Get VIP Access to our Freebie Library HERE! You’ll find packing lists, printable travel itineraries, recipes for holidays, meal planning sheets, and sooo much more!

    25 min
  2. Mar 30

    Raising Kids Without Losing the Relationship

    I’m sitting down with Chris and Jesse Koerner from the “How’d You Do It?” podcast, and we’re talking about what it really looks like to parent with intention- without holding so tightly to rules and expectations that we lose connection along the way. We get into the real stuff: how to stay flexible when life (and kids) don’t follow the plan, how to figure out what actually motivates each of your kids (because what works for one might totally flop for another), and why family travel has been such a meaningful way for them to build connection. We also talk honestly about raising kids in a digital world, learning from our mistakes (because there will be plenty), and why open, ongoing communication matters more than getting everything “right.” It’s a thoughtful, encouraging conversation that will remind you: you don’t have to parent perfectly to raise kids who feel deeply loved and secure. Links mentioned in the episode: For $50 OFF Troomi Wireless cell phone, use code: HAPPY find Chris & Jessie’s Podcast: “How’d You Do It” in your favorite podcast app: Apple & Spotify VidAngel - 30 day free trialwith code: HELPING Takeaways You can parent with intention and leave room for flexibility Many parents regret being too strict with their children What motivates one child might not work for another- and that’s okay! Mistakes are part of the process (for us and for our kids!) Family travel can create connection in really meaningful ways Giving kids a voice builds trust and buy in over time As kids grow, respecting their independence becomes more important (this can be a tough one!) Parenting isn’t one size fits all (even within the same family) Love, safety, and connection matter more than getting everything “right” There are no guarantees in parenting- just a lot of learning along the way Chapters  00:00 Introduction to the Koerner Family and Their Podcast 03:59 Parenting Intentions and Strategies 08:58 Lessons from Podcast Guests 15:04 Incentives and Rewards in Parenting 20:11 Family Travel and Recreation 24:49 Flexibility in Parenting Rules 30:03 Final Thoughts and Takeaways

    35 min
  3. Feb 11

    From Tragedy to Triumph: Surviving a Rock Climbing Accident

    Show Notes Summary: Where you can find Whitney Archibald: Family Lab Podcast Family Lab Podcast on Instagram In this conversation, Whitney Archibald shares her journey of recovery and the profound lessons learned through adversity. She discusses the joy of regaining independence, the overwhelming support from her community, and the importance of connection with family and friends. Whitney reflects on her evolving identity post-accident, the new hobbies she has embraced, and the valuable life lessons that have emerged from her experiences. The conversation also touches on family traditions, travel adventures, and creative home hacks that foster connection within the family. Takeaways Whitney Archibald is a mother of five and creator of The Family Lab podcast. Family life is an experiment where different approaches are tried. Mistakes are part of being human, and it's important to forgive ourselves. A spiritual experience can provide reassurance during traumatic events. The importance of love and connection in life is paramount. Recovery from severe injuries requires immense physical and emotional strength. Family support plays a crucial role in healing and recovery. Finding ways to nurture relationships during hardship is essential. Podcasting became a lifeline for Whitney during her recovery. The experience of a traumatic event can lead to profound personal growth. Driving my kids to school felt amazing. People wanted to help during my recovery. My village became very clear and abundant. I had to learn to say no to many things. Spiritual and emotional connections matter most. We can simplify our lives significantly. Everyone has their own cliffs to climb. We shouldn't compare our struggles with others. Connection is fostered through shared experiences. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Whitney Archibald and The Family Lab 04:07 The Rock Climbing Accident: A Life-Changing Experience 19:44 Spiritual Insights and Reflections During Recovery 23:25 The Journey of Recovery: Physical and Emotional Challenges 38:40 Family Support and Acts of Service During Healing 40:35 The Joy of Independence 41:28 Community Support and Connection 44:28 Navigating Recovery and Identity 48:25 Finding New Hobbies and Interests 51:31 Lessons Learned from Adversity 57:19 The Importance of Connection 01:00:18 Family Traditions and Senior Trips 01:04:16 Travel Adventures and Experiences 01:13:09 Creative Home Hacks for Connection Summary of Transcript Title: Navigating Life’s Uncertainties: A Journey of Resilience and Connection Introduction: In a world where parenting often feels like an experiment, Whitney Archibald’s story is a testament to the unpredictability of family life and the strength we find in connection. After a harrowing rock climbing accident, Whitney not only confronted her mortality but also rediscovered the profound importance of family and the lessons that come from our mistakes. Main Content: Section 1: The Family Lab - A New Approach to Parenting Whitney Archibald, a seasoned mother of five, has transformed her experiences into a valuable resource for families. With children ranging from 10 to 20 years old, she understands the evolving dynamics of family life. After her youngest began preschool, Whitney reignited her passion for writing, leading to her blog, "How She Moms," which eventually evolved into the podcast, "The Family Lab." She explains, "Family life is all an experiment, and we are just throwing things at the wall, trying to see what sticks." This refreshing perspective encourages parents to embrace the chaos and recognize that there’s no one-size-fits-all solution to parenting. Section 2: The Unthinkable Accident On a seemingly ordinary day in July 2023, Whitney embarked on a rock climbing excursion with her children and nieces. Despite her cautious nature, a moment of oversight led to a life-altering fall. "I pride myself on being a safe climber," she recalls, but a simple mistake—failing to double-check her gear—resulted in a catastrophic 30-foot drop. As she lay on the ground, grappling with immense pain, her mind raced through a mix of emotions, including disbelief and regret. Section 3: A Moment of Clarity In the chaos following her fall, Whitney experienced an unexpected spiritual revelation. "I felt reassurance right away after I was feeling so much shame," she shared. Despite the physical agony, she found solace in knowing she was going to survive. This moment of clarity shifted her focus from despair to the practicalities of her situation. In the midst of pain and uncertainty, Whitney prioritized her family, even asking her sister to cancel upcoming appointments. Section 4: The Healing Journey Whitney's recovery was fraught with challenges, but her resilience shone through. With numerous injuries, including a broken pelvis and vertebrae, she faced a long road to healing. Throughout this journey, Whitney remained focused on her role as a mother and the lessons she wanted to impart to her children. Her experience serves as a poignant reminder that life can change in an instant, but our connections with loved ones can provide the strength to persevere. Conclusion: Key Takeaways Whitney Archibald’s story is not just about overcoming adversity; it is a powerful reminder of the importance of connection, the value of vulnerability, and the necessity of embracing life’s unpredictability. As she continues to share her insights through "The Family Lab," she encourages parents to experiment with their approaches and to remember that mistakes are part of the journey. Life’s challenges may be daunting, but they also offer opportunities for growth, resilience, and deeper connections with those we love.

    1h 16m
  4. 03/14/2025

    Winning Your Mornings: Faith in the Everyday

    Show Notes: For a transcription of this podcast, watch on YouTube! Get $50 off a Troomi phone with this code: HAPPY One of my family’s favorite ways to relax together is to watch movies together. Whether that also involves a big bowl of crunchy, buttery popcorn, or just snuggling in a cozy, fuzzy blanket, it’s fun enjoying something together after a long busy day.Nothing quite wrecks the experience by an unexpected spicy scene or an abundance of foul language.It seems there are so many great shows with “just that one part” that makes you cringe uncomfortably.That is why we were so happy when we discovered VidAngel!!VidAngel syncs up with our Amazon Prime and our add free Netflix account and then gives you the option of what filters you’d like to put on. These can be general filters such as all profanity and blasphemy, or individual for each particular instance.Cobra Kai is a favorite of my kids’ this past month, while my husband and I have been enjoying Night Agent, Fall Guy and Reacher. 30 days free VidAngel service when you Usecode:HELPING Try it out and see for yourself why we love it so much! Recipes mentioned in the Episode: Crepes - Our Favorite Food from the Streets of Paris!! Shrimp Summer Rolls with Thai Peanut Sauce These are the Air Tags we used for our Son’s luggage when he was traveling internationally without a phone: Drew Scarbrough and Carson Brownlow are hosts of Peace in Christ Podcast. Some of their favorite episodes: Drew’s: The Faith That Drove Jeremy Guthrie’s MLB Career Carson’s: Pirates, Chaplains, and a Better Tomorrow: A Story of Radical Change and Faith in Schools - episode with Rocky Drew & Carson’s tips for Winning the Morning: Making faith a daily choice Waking up and reading your scriptures, whether it’s a full chapter or just a verse, just getting it done Making regular visits to the temple Exercise Where can you find Drew and Carson? Podcast: peaceinchristpodcast.com Instagram TikTok YouTube

    43 min
  5. 01/30/2025

    How to Best Support Your Missionary in Their Service

    Yesterday, my son began his two year missionary service for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints where he will be inviting and teaching people how to come closer to Jesus Christ. I though it was only fitting that today we are talking about how to help support our missionaries while they are away. On our podcast today, we have guests: Lindy Shock and Jen Wright fromMy Missionary Box. Lindy served as as missionary, and Jen has had 3 of her children serve missions.They are going to teach us a bit about how to prepare our children for missions, be a support to them while they are out, what items you may need to gather or prepare before they leave, give some suggestions for how to support during home MTC (missionary training center), give gift ideas for missionaries, as well as share ideas for how siblings of missionaries can best stay connected during the time apart. My Missionary Boxhas amazing resources for families and loved ones supporting the loved ones back home. For missionaries they provide tools, inspiration, and ideas to help study and teach while on a mission. They also have tips for helping your local missionaries with tips and products that help missionaries teach and build relationships. First off - what are missionaries and what do they do?? Missionaries are members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints who leave their homes for 18 months-2 years to serve others and share the gospel of Jesus Christ. The single men are 18-25 and single women are 19-39. Married couples or adults in their retired years can also serve a mission. During their time as young missionaries, they consecrate their lives to God. They have one day per week called “preparation day” (or P-day) where they can call their family back home, email family land friends, run errands & grocery shop, and do some more relaxed activities with other missionaries. Missionaries are all volunteers and pay their own way ($400/month). You will usually see them in pairs. They have a companion with them at all times to keep them safe and focused. What do Missionaries do? Teaching missionaries help you feel closer to God by showing you how to pray & receive answers to prayers, teach about Jesus Christ, guide you to understand scriptures, support you through your personal challenges, encourage faith, repentance & baptism, and introduce you to a community of others striving to build their faith. Service missionaries live at home, and give personalized service to others in many different ways such as serving locally in clinics, non profits, community outreach centers, at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints temples. They help with, family history, provide help to refugees, homeless and at food banks. Sometimes they also have companions for study. How to best prepare for a Spiritually, mentally, & Physically for a mission: Have a scripture study routine - try to make this happen at least 6 months to a year before you leave (online resources for scripture study) Take a mission prep class Attend the temple often (More about the temple here) Get the tools you need to navigate your mental health Learn to work hard - yardwork, being on your feet for long periods of time, being in good physical shape to be able to walk or bike a lot each day Practice being away from home for short periods of time such as a church campout, FSY (For the Strength of Youth) camp, flying to see grandparents or cousins, going on an HXP humanitarian trip How to clean their home and space Learning how to cook, menu plan, and grocery shop - (Check out our resources HERE you can also grab our cookbook here- delicious and tasty recipes that are easy to make!) How to budget (two podcast resources for you: 5 Money Lessons All Kids Need to Know and Family Finances Refresher) Practice using public transportation Learning to drive Making phone calls Talking to adults

    1h 9m
4.9
out of 5
50 Ratings

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Host Hillary Hess has 7 children and gives tips about how to enjoy mom life , along with her guests